Tuesday, February 25, 2025

Apple Pine

"Older kid, you know what a pineapple is called in Mandarin?"

"Hmm?"

"'Bōluó'."

"Huh."

"You know what 'luóbo' is?"

In unison, without missing a beat, "Apple pine?"

Kid and his old man exchange a proud look of celebratory admiration for impeccable logic and twisted paternal humor.

... 

...

...

Penny finally drops. "Wait, did you say apple pine?!", she manages amidst incoherent giggling, cuddle-smothering the boy genius.

 

 

Yeah, the kid is definitely going places. Warms the cockles of this old man's heart!


Friday, October 04, 2024

Goodbye, Christopher

"I can't understand you. You speak too fast."

"Yes, but do you understand the system? You need to know what you're drawing better than the people building it."

"It's a great place you're going to. I'm sure you'll love it! I'm just afraid you're going to become a settled Californian and never come back."

That last part turned out to be truer than I'd hoped. I meant to write you and tell you how right you were about so many things, but it's a too late now. I don't think you'd have wanted anyone pouting about it though. It was a great, full life after all, by your own narration.

Goodbye, Christopher! Glad I got to meet you. I'll miss your sharp wit, delightful chattiness and tireless commitment to being true to yourself. 

 You, your work and India House will live on fondly in memory!

Saturday, August 31, 2024

All the time

"Siblings annoy one another sometimes. Does your little sibling annoy you sometimes?"

"Yeah, sometimes."

"Do you love him anyway?"

"Yes..."

"How about you? Does your older sibling annoy you sometimes?"

...

...

"All the time."


Sunday, June 30, 2024

Won't you come

 

5 days after Chris Cornell decided to leave, Norah did this. Thank you, Ms. Jones, for every note you poured into this from your soul.

Thursday, June 13, 2024

It Was Green

 Amidst loud sobbing and sniffling "I went to Pmore" sniffles "park". More sniffling and sobbing "I played" sniff "basketball". Some tittering begins, as both parents are laugh-crying with their brave little baby boy. 
"Go on. You don't have to cry, just breathe, and read."
 Snorting noises and eye rubbing commence "My brother" more snorting noises "was playing" snorting turns to a bray "on the play" sniffles "structure!"
It's full blown hyperventilation by now. The peanut gallery is giggling out loud now, overcome by cuteness overload.
"You don't have to cry, sweetie, you're doing fine. Just read!"
"And the" more hyper ventilation "basketball" sniffles against tear-inducing laughter in the backdrop "was green!". 
Sometimes it's not laughter at, but laughter with these little lights in our lives. It's the only air our love for them lets breathe. It's every fiber of giving left in us. 
 I hope you get to laugh long and hard with your pack, little one.

Tuesday, May 28, 2024

Savour It

 Lamps slowly flicker on and the scent of dusk fills the cooling breeze. Evening joggers amble by on the sidewalk. A car passes, then another. The ice-cream man has gone by our street for his last rounds of the day. Children are in bed now. She urges me to get some rest as well. We sure need every ounce we can get some days. Eyelids are growing heavy, but this moment needs a shrine. A scent of longing permeates the air. Crickets are humming their jingles into a darkening night, adding their chorus to a voice inside that whispers "savour it".

In another decade, on another continent, a night like this would be the beginning of a special magic. Routines would change overnight. Daybreak would stretch and melt into the mid-morning warmth and a heady mix of hunger and boredom would lead to adventure and possibilities. while white hot afternoons would eventually simmer into purple evenings carrying aromas of dinner, sweat and excitement aloft.

The days agenda called on parents, uncles, aunts, siblings, cousins, friends, not-friends and complications like that cute girl glimpsed yesterday. Ointment for the sunburnt, colas for the heat-ill, puzzles for the bored, ice-cream fridge-raids for the wicked, gulmohur shade (and petals) for the annoying and therefore exiled, cricket for the well-to-do, swings for the plebs, and so on till the sun made itself the sole concern. There were naps to be had, movies to watched, puzzles to be solved, kitchens to be rearranged, cookie jars to be caught emptying and endless energy to be expended while waiting for sundown. Then perhaps there was dinner out at a restaurant with shahi-paneer or chow-mein? What treats were in store for dessert? Would we watch another movie? How late could we stay up? Sleep was for old people. Summers were forever, an infinite world of tomorrow.

"Savour it." Summer is brushing spring away. An aura of possibility and wonder has returned, this time seemingly radiating from the little people breathing softly in their beds. It's their turn now. We're the adults in the backdrops of their stories. Still, even as bit-part players, perhaps we can share in the adventures together for a little while longer.  The hours, weeks and months carry weight now, more heft. Long days, sometimes, but short years. Summers are still forever, albeit in sepia, the eternal world of yesterday. "Savour it."

Tuesday, May 21, 2024

Like Mother

Gestures to the digital photo frame, “Look at them!”
“I look like my mom.”
Whirring noises inside brain… ding! The penny finally drops.
“Oh!”
“What?”
Hysterical eruption of giggling in chorus.
“You really thought that was my mom?! I had to eat to feed the baby!”
More giggling.
“You are a butthead!”