May 26 was cloudy and there was no visible sunset. Still, I stopped at around what I thought would be sunset and went outside for a moment of time alone.
We had friends as house guests for the weekend, so I didn’t spend too much time “alone”.
My wife and I cooked and our friends were at the kitchen table, which is adjacent to the kitchen, so we all could talk while we were cooking. This “talk while preparing food” is nothing new for me.
When I first started at university, I was cooking for just myself, and not very well. Cooking for one and doing so while a cat watched me, or with just a radio or television babbling in the background, provided little incentive to improve. This changed part way through my second semester of classes when I met the lady that would become my fiancee. She had three roommates and they were “let’s have a party” more than “need to study”, so she would come over to my place to study for her classes. After a few weeks of this, we started cooking together and talking the entire time while we were cooking. It was wonderful.
When I “went back on the hunt” (how crass, but….) I guess I was looking for someone similar to my fiancee and I found this in my wife. She and my fiancee are very similar in personality and hopes. Sometimes this is good and sometimes it’s a bit uncomfortable, but the good FAR outweighs the uncomfortable.
Switching topics.
My wife in on the way to pick up her mother from the assisted living place. Her mom ordered a sewing machine from a store about 3 hours (each way) driving time from our house and about 4 hours from where her mom is now living. So, to save two hours in the car, my mother-in-law will be spend tonight at our house, then ride the six hours, spend the night again and then ride home.
And for the clouds title. It *is* cloudy. Again, there is no visible sun. Also, it is VERY windy, very warm and oddly, very low humidity. Temperatures are nearly 90F/30C, with winds at 45mph/70kph and (despite the clouds) the relative humidity is well under 10%. This is “scary” fire weather for the nearby forested areas and this is reflected in the fire bans that have been implemented throughout the area.
One of many criteria in our “where shall we live” decision was minimal fire danger, so we are extremely unlikely to have a wildfire here. Additionally we have further reduced the wildfire danger to our house, so we aren’t worried (too much) about wildfires at our home.