Sunday, June 27, 2010

Teagan's Half Birthday

Since Teagan's birthday is December 26th we decided to try the half birthday thing this year. He already gets SO many presents for Christmas and Birthday from everyone else so we thought we'd split it up a little this time around. I suppose that when he gets older we'll let him choose if he'd rather celebrate his birthday June 26th or December 26th. :)

For his birthday we took him to Toy Story 3 in the theaters. He's never been to a big screen movie before so he was so excited! We've been selling toys and other stuff on craigslist and used our earnings to buy our tickets. When we'd sell a toy we'd tell Teagan that we were using the money to see Buzz on the BIG TV. He was so excited about it!

He loved all the big posters of his favorite characters!
We brought his booster seat so that we could buckle him in for snacks, it worked like a charm for keeping him in his seat! Throughout the movie he would yell "Buzz Lightyear" and "to infinity and beyond" when he say Buzz doing something cool. It was a fun treat for all of us. We haven't been to the movies in a VERY long time!
Then we came home for cake. Of course it was a Buzz Lightyear cake. I went against my better judgement and smothered it with sugary frosting, or maybe I was going with my better judgement- it was his birthday after all. :)

It was a fun day with the three of us, we spent some time at the park and just enjoyed each other. Teagan is so much fun. He is a sweet little boy and he is very smart. I am going to miss him like crazy while we are gone to Denmark this week!

Monday, June 21, 2010

Love This Guy

I am SO lucky for a few different reasons.
1. I totally messed up for father's day and Zac still loves me.
2. Zac grilled us the most delightful Father's Day Dinner
3. I am married to an incredible man who is THE best Dad in the world.


Why did I mess up? I forgot about cards. Cards for dads, grandpas, husbands, sons, brothers, all of them I totally forgot. I think it's because I put a lot of effort into mother's day or something. Instead of trying to do the belated thing I'm going to just apologize and realize that our Dad's will still love us and I'm going to do better next year.


I also had a great meal planned for dinner and a fun dessert, I just forgot to buy the ingredients and I didn't realize this until late on Saturday.


Everything turned out fine. The skewers had hamburger balls instead of bacon wrapped shrimp or steak and we just used more pineapple to make up for the lack of veggies.


They were delicious. :)

Zac is quite a man and I'm barely starting to understand that. It wasn't until recently when I happened upon a most excellent blog (thelazyorganizer.com) that I realized I had too much control in our marriage. I was making basically all of the decisions and working out all the details. I thought I was doing Zac a favor because he's so busy with school, but I wasn't. Zac is a strong man who is very capable of being the head of our home, if I let him of course. We talked about some of the things I read on her blog (you'll have to go back a few weeks to get to her marriage posts) and decided to change the way we do things in our marriage a little.


I like to think of it like we're dividing the stress up equally. We still discus and make big decisions together, but I'm in charge of stressing out about the details at home (food, cleaning, child, groceries ect.) and he's in charge of stressing out about the bigger picture (finding a job, finding a place to live, making money, making sure we have prayers and scriptures ect). We have only been doing this for about a month and we're still working out lots of kinks. I'm sure that once Zac has graduated it will be easier. I've already noticed a big difference.


PS: I understand if you think I'm crazy and that is okay. I also understand that many of you think we divided things up incorrectly, that's okay, you can divide up your roles in your marriage the way that you would like to. :) This is how we've decided to do things.

I'm not going to go into all the details of the inter workings of our marriage because the whole point of me putting this on here is for me to say how amazing Zac is. When we decided that it's his job to decide where we are going to live (huge gasp, I know it's shocking) it took getting used to. But since then he has really shown his true colors. He is so considerate, constantly asking me what's important for me in a town we live in. He thinks of Teagan's needs. He thinks of our families. He is researching state taxes, job markets, and anything else you can learn about a city. He prays about it. Zac is the best Husband for me and I'm so grateful for the blood, sweat, and tears that he puts into making our family the best that he can. He puts Teagan and I first, and has his priorities straight. For that, I'm grateful this father's day season.


If you're one of those controlling girls (I think most of us are) try letting go of some control and allowing your husband to grow in their role as the husband and father in your home. I think guys are given such a bad name as being dumb or incapable in this world, but if the women just give them an opportunity, Men are actually pretty darn incredible.

Friday, June 18, 2010

Back to the Basics

Stress reduces the length of your life and decreases the quality of your life. As the seventh and final pillar of health, I believe it is just as important as the rest. I'm currently de-stressing my life and it is working wonders in my relationships with Zac and Teagan and my entire mood and outlook on life.

I started reading an excellent blog right about the time I started reading this chapter and the combination has really changed me. It's called The Lazy Organizer and I HIGHLY recommend it. I LOVE the way she thinks. She is so simple and so okay with being simple. I am trying to be more like her. In fact, she did a post similar to this one on her blog a bit ago and I decided to put my version here.

To me stress comes with pressure, pressure to be the best and pressure to be perfect and have a perfect looking life.

I've decided that that I don't have to be the best at everything or anything, it is so liberating.

1. I am NOT a gourmet chef. I am a girl that cooks healthy, simple meals for my family.

2. My scrapbooks are NOT the cutest. I take pictures and pick the most important events to tape into a book where I write a little note about what happened. It's not breathtaking and that is okay.

3. The blankets, clothes, and bags I sew are not the prettiest. But they are functional.

4. My clothes are not the most fashionable, my outfits don't coordinate perfectly, my hair isn't the best, my make up isn't Hollywood worthy, but I do shower and look presentable for the most part and I do clean up real nice. :)

5. I'm not an Olympic athlete. But I exercise and move my body, and I love it.

6. My house is not spotless, and it probably never will be. But I clean regularly and make sure that our home is cozy and a breeding place for happy memories.

7. I'm not running a competitive, thriving company. I just tutor on the side to make some cash.

8. I don't own everything I'll ever need; things aren't stored for a rainy day or what ifs any more. It's okay to not have everything you want. I keep what we need and use regularly and I don't purchase things that don't fit those two categories. We are getting rid of toys, books, clothes, shoes, kitchen appliances and craft supplies by the box load. Sure makes clean up and dusting easier!

9. My child isn't in competition with every other child in the world. He doesn't have to have the coolest toys, clothes or hair and he doesn't have to know his ABCs first, read first, walk first, pray first, swim first, or hit a home run first. I just smother him with love, teach him as he shows interest, and give him lots of opportunities to be a kid. He is AMAZING and I wouldn't trade him for anything.

10. I'm not a "blogger" or "Internet tycoon." Starting tonight I do monthly family blog posts, my food blog is done, and my facebook is gone. I've been saving this post for a while because this one is really hard for me. I've felt really strongly for a few months now that facebook, in particular, is taking me away from my family too much. As much as I absolutely love keeping up with old friends and family, I just can't spread myself thin anymore. I tried hiding basically everyone besides family, but I'm realizing that I have an addiction. I sign in too many times every day, just to see if there is something new, pathetic, I know. They don't tell alcoholics to cut back to one beer a day, they say get rid of the drinks all together. If I was really die hard I'd throw my computer away, but I'm not there yet. For now it's farewell to my facebook and food blog and multi-weekly blog posts and bloglines.

I still strive to do my best, but I've released myself from the pressure of being everyone else's version of perfect. I get to be my own stress and worry-free version of perfect.

Thanks for reading my blog. It will be going back to private here in the next week or two. I'll probably stop blogging all together here in a month or two. Wish me luck on my journey to simplify our lives.

More Seven Pillars: Detoxification

We live in a toxic world. The air we breath, food we eat, water we drink, and things we touch are full of toxic chemicals. Our body has lots of systems that help get rid of all the garbage we bring in, but it can only handle so much before our system starts to suffer. Just think of that dumpster that is overflowing with trash, the garbage man only takes what is inside the dumpster, the rest just sits there and rots. Lovely.

Highly "toxic" people experience:
-Chronic Fatigue
-Heart Disease
-Memory Loss
-Premature Aging
-Skin Disorders
-Arthritis
-Sinus problems
-food sensitivities
-headaches
-emotional problems

and much much more. :)

Some tips for Detox:
-Sweat it. Our body gets rid of lots of toxins by sweating. In our air conditioned world we rarely have to experience sweating, plus it's not exactly cool to walk around with "sweaty tacos" (to quote the Daniels boys). Let your house get a little warmer, sit in a sauna, go outside, work hard, exercise, sweat, and then shower please.

-Buy filters for drinking water and if you're really good buy a home water filtration system so that your water is pure.

-Take care of you digestive system since it gets rid of LOTS of toxins. Eat fiber so that your colon doesn't get backed up. Sometimes extreme body order is a result of an ineffective digestive system so those stinky toxins come out in the sweat. I'd rather it just go in the toilet and not follow me around all day in my armpits. (is this TMI?)

-The liver is THE detox organ. Broccoli, cabbage, brussels sprouts, kale and cauliflower increase the capacity of the liver.

-Eat chemical free foods. #1 choice: grow a garden and don't put chemicals in there. #2 shop at an organic farmers market. #3 buy organic food at the store. #4 Accept that you can't afford organic so make sure you are sweating a lot and eating lots of broccoli .

-filter the air in your home and at work, or live in the wild where there aren't so many toxins. Indoor plants are also really useful for keeping the air clean.

-Give your GI tract a break by fasting. It allows your liver to catch up. Isn't it interesting that God commanded us to fast waaaaay before science proved that it's beneficial? Perhaps he knew that there were going to be toxins in our world and that our bodies would need the break! One day a month of fasting is recommended by this (non-LDS) author/doctor, and it is also recommended by my church, interesting how that works out. :)

-Use natural cleaners and health products or at least clean with rubber gloves.

There you have it. Honestly, we can't afford to follow all of the advice in this book so we will just try our best. We can starve ourselves one day a month, that is actually quite cost effective, sweating is no problem, drinking more water is easy, and we eat lots of veggies. For now our livers will just have to press on until we can afford perfection. :)

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Why Exercise?

"Think of what happens when water sits for a long time in a cup, puddle, or pond. It eventually gets covered with slime and gunk, breeds disease, and becomes toxic." Remember that your body is about 2/3 water!

"On the other hand, when water moves, life thrives. Running water is usually fresh water. Rivers and waterfalls are beautiful and inviting-alive."

Just imagining that alone inside of my body makes me want to go for a run! Here are some other reasons that exercise is SO important for you physical and mental health:

-1/3 of cancer deaths can be linked to bad eating choices and a sedentary life style.
-Just by walking a few hours a WEEK you can decrease your risk of breast cancer by 18%.
-This one is a little deep: When you live a sedentary lifestyle your resting heart rate is around 80 bpm. When you condition your heart with exercise it goes down to 60-70 or less bpm. So even though you feel like your heart is jumping out of your chest while you exercise, your heart gets a break for the other 23.5 hours a day. Think of it like a car, the more miles you put on it the faster it dies. With your heart the more beats it does the faster it dies.
-"studies show that moderate, regular exercise is perhaps the single most important deterrent of heart-related problems.
-Exercise lower blood pressure and LDL(bad cholesterol)
-Exercise is cheaper than Lipitor
-Exercise enlarges the coronary artery, improving blood flow.
-The lymphatic system (helps with garbage collection and disease fighting) is circulated by muscle contractions, not just your heart. "Aerobic Exercise can triple the rate of lymphatic flow." So when you're active your body is able to get rid of the trash more efficiently
-Exercise helps muscles to take up sugar from your blood, which means sugar isn't collecting in your blood leading to diabetes
-Sweat is a great way for your body to get rid of toxins (chemicals on/in food, air we breath, pollutants in water...).
-"Exercise works better than calcium in building strong bones."
-Exercise helps improve digestion, especially in preventing constipation
-Exercise increases serotonin and dopamine levels (feel good hormones) which is a super natural way to avoid depression.
-Aerobic exercise releases endorphins which are like morphine, so you can relieve chronic pain.

So that was all I could narrow it down to, sorry. :) There is quite a bit more and he talks more about where the information comes from and cites specific research studies, but I didn't want to include all that, but know that this information is backed by research.

He recommends at least 30 minutes of exercise 4 days a week for adults.

I recommend 45 minutes 6 days a week.

If you want suggestions on exercise or exercise programs I'd be happy to visit with you about it! I LOVE talking about exercise. :)

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Fun Boy

In the bike trailer on the way to the farmers market.
At the amazing "big park with water" as Teag would call it. He has been attached to this yellow wheelbarrow for the last few days. He always wants to hold it on his lap in the car and bring it with him to every park.


In case anyone thought Teagan was perfect, this is him post-temper tantrum, he REALLY wanted to throw the wheel barrow down the slide, sometimes life is really hard for a two year old. Luckily he was quickly distracted by something on the ground and he laid there examining it for a while. I was crackin up. :)
The best part of this park is that half of it is a splash park. It's still not quite hot enough outside so he only lasts about 20 or 30 minutes, but he LOVES the water!

Tomorrow or the next day I'm going to continue my posts about the "Seven Pillars of Health" the last 4 topics are exercise, detoxification, vitamins & minerals, and stress.

Monday, June 14, 2010

Enough Already!

Alright, I'm sure that people are starting to really hate reading my blog. I write about how horrible all of OUR habits are and it can be slightly depressing. Zac also brought to my attention that I haven't done a post about Teagan in a looong time so here we go.

I never seem to have any pictures of us with my mom or at her house, but we do go visit her and have tons of fun! I guess we're too busy having fun to take pictures or something.

This was an adventure she took us on to feed fish at this random little place off the ventura highway. It was so fun! There were about a trillion fish and you'd throw food in and they'd all attack each other, it was great!
Teagan thought it was hilarious and tried to steal all the food from the rest of us. On the way home we stopped at some roadside stands and got TONS of oranges, strawberries and honey that all mysteriously tasted like fish food. weird.
Teagan loves to paint. This is him doing a watercolor painting of one of my mom's creations. PS:I made his apron, isn't it girly? hahaha, he doesn't care though, what a good sport!
A couple weekends ago we built a fort in our living room, made popcorn, and watched Toy Story 2. Teagan was in heaven and we didn't mind laying on all the fluffy pillows either. :)
Zac and I started doing P90X a couple weeks ago, if you don't know what that is just imagine a 90 day workout program that is at least 1 hour every day and super intense. Anywho, we have resistance bands and weights around and of course Zac and Teagan made a fun game out of it.

Other fun things:

-Teagan is talking a TON these days. He is using 4 or 5 word phrases quite often now and is learning new words like crazy.

-Teagan LOVES the scriptures, he never lets us forget to read and his favorite part is acting out the stories.

-He is an all star with this whole health kick thing. He's learning to like, or at least try lots of different types of veggies. We aren't all the way there, but he's come a very long way.

-He says "oh yes" anytime we ask him a question

-He thinks its hilarious to pretend to burp and then cover his mouth and say excuse me

-He is potty trained, I don't even worry about it, I just wait for him to tell me it's time, what a new world this is!

-Teagan's favorite toys are his hotwheels cars. He plays with them everyday. He'll pull all the cushions and pillows off the couch and drive the cars through everything.-

-We're trying to get him excited about the trike our neighbors gave him, but all he cares about is his scooter, he can pedal a little but he gets bored so fast and just requests his scooter.

-He loves Buzz Lightyear and says "to infinity and beyond"

Saturday, June 5, 2010

"The Seven Pillars of Health" Part 2

Now that you know you need to drink lots of water and get lots of sleep, lets explore the types of food that you're eating.



There is SO much information in this book about specific foods and what good and bad they do for your body and why. I'm just picking out some of the highlights. The biggest things that I've taken to heart from this section are to fill you diet with "living foods" and avoid any sort of processed food like the plague.



FOOD

First it is important to define what the author means when he says "Living Food."



"Living Foods were created for our consumption. they exist in a raw or close-to-raw state. Living foods include fruits, vegetables, grains, seeds, and nuts. They are beautifully packaged in divinely created wrappers called skins and peels. Living food looks robust, healthy and alive. No chemicals have been added. It has not been bleached or chemically altered. Living foods are plucked, harvested, and squeezed, not processed packaged, and put on a shelf. Living foods are recognizable as food."



-The average person consumes seventy tons of food in a lifetime. Are you going to consume living foods that protect from disease and energize or dead foods that lead to diabetes, cardiovascular disease, obesity, and fatigue?

-Your brain can't sense that you're full for 20 minutes, so eat slowly and stop when you're still a little hungry, if after 30 minutes you realize you didn't get enough then have a little more.

-Eating a "low calorie, optimal nutrition diet" can extend life by 30-50%

-Starchy and sugary foods raise serotonin (feel good hormone), but water can raise it too, remember?!?! So don't let your brain trick you into eating unhealthy foods!





I think that I need a whole post just to talk about processed food, I just have so much I want to share!!! We have cut out about 95% of processed foods from our diet and we are feeling great and loosing weight!



Why you shouldn't eat processed food:

-"The creation process that produces processed food strips away valuable vitamins, minerals, fiber, enzymes, phytonutrients, and antioxidants. You see, they remove the fiber and wheat germ, which are rich in nutrients, and sell them to health food stores."

-"With dead, processed food you get the worst and lose the best. And yet food companies hire the brightest minds and chemists to make their foods as addictive as possible so you can't just eat a little bit."

-Most processed food contain terrible ingredients: sugar, white flour, high fructose corn syrup, oil and all the ones you can't pronounce. Here are the worst ones:



1. MSG (monosodium glutamate): technically it's the sodium salt of an amino acid. MSG doesn't have a taste like salt or sugar, but it does enhance the taste of food by "by increasing sensitivity of your taste buds" which tricks your brain into thinking it tastes good and making you want more. Manufactures put MSG in food specifically to make it more addictive and to stimulate your appetite so that you want more of that food. Why is it so bad? "Neuroscientists generally agree that glutamic acid (present in MSG) is neurotoxic and kills neurons by exciting them to death. The very young are most susceptible." MSG messes with the insulin/blood sugar levels which is why you feel hungry an hour or so after eating foods high in MSG. There is a list of about 20 different health problems that occur in MSG sensitive peoplean hour after they eat it. Some of the symptoms are cramps, nausea, headache, chest pain, blurry vision, diarrhea.....the list goes on.



The tough part is knowing how to tell if a food has MSG because it can be called by about 15 different names on an ingredient label. Here are some of the most commonly used names: glutamate, hydrolyzed protein, gelatin, Yeast extract, yeast food, autolyzed yeast, sodium caseinate. Some high MSG foods are Bouillon, soy sauce, pectin, corn starch, natural/artificial flavors/colors, Chinese food, and fried chicken.



2. Sugar

I think everyone knows sugar is bad, but here is some info you might not know about it.

-When you overeat sugar, your body goes into fat-storage mode

-Directly after eating high sugar foods your immune system cells are impaired

-High sugar intake has been strongly linked to ADHD

-Yeast loves sugar so eating lots of sugar can worsen yeast problems for women

-Sugar excess leads to diabetes by increasing insulin levels

-Sugar is highly addictive

-Check your ingredients on processed food, sugar is usually in the top 3 ingredients, even in the salty foods. Sometimes it's called corn syrup, dextrose, glucose or other "ose" words.



3. Fats

-hydrogenated fats are the worst kind and are taken through an extreme heating process that changes the chemical structure. This makes the fat solid at room temperature and have a much longer shelf life. Almost all items in the middle of the grocery store contain this ingredient to preserve them.

-hydrogenated fats (trans fats) raise LDL (bad cholesterol) and lower HDL (good cholesterol). It's also more harmful to arteries and is "implicated in heart disease and cancer."

-Margarine is originally grey so it has to be dyed yellow and flavored to resemble butter. ewww

-"This is such a deadly fat that we need to avoid it entirely." If partially hydrogenated or shortening are on the label DON'T buy it. It's not worth it.

-Here are the types of fat from the worst to the best: Trans fats(hydrogenated and partially hydrogenated), saturated fats, polyunsaturated fats (omega 6 fats), monounsaturated fat, omega-3 fats. There's so much science to all of this I don't even want to go there, just eat fats sparingly.



And Lastly, here are a few tips about eating healthy:

-Organic produce is better because it is grown in a soil that is richer with nutrients and that doesn't have all the chemicals.

-We can't afford all organic produce, or just grow our own garden, so I pick and choose the organic foods I buy. I always try to buy leafy greens organic and never bananas or other thick peeled items organic because they're protected by the peel. One day I will have a beautiful garden and orchard an we'll eat nutrient rich foods at every meal. Until then I can only do my best.

-Did you know that it is recommended to have 5-12 servings of fruit and veggies each day?!?!

-Red meat has a higher concentration of toxins than nearly all other foods.

-Dairy products aren't as great as you think. Think of milk as a food, not a drink. I plan to read a book called "The China Study" that goes into more detail about Dairy and meat products so I won't say anymore about that quite yet.

-The best ways to cook foods that will preserve nutrients are stir frying, steaming and grilling.



This next paragraph is a little extreme, you could say I'm getting a little obsessive.



I feel SO strongly about food. My body can only function properly when I'm feeding it the fuel it needs. I think that eating healthy is hard and it requires you to take a stand. It requires self control, courage, and a strong mind. Most people in our world are eating food that is HORRIBLE for them so it makes it seem "normal." These days it's also "normal" to do drugs, steal, use vulgar language, lie and cheat and lots more. It's easy for me to have the courage to resist stealing shoes at the store, but do I have the courage to not eat fast food or the determination to spend the extra 30 minutes a day to create healthy meals? Eating healthy is a habit and a way of life, it's different then what "normal" people do, but it's one area where I do NOT want to be "normal."

Friday, June 4, 2010

"The Seven Pillars of Health"

I've just finished reading the greatest book: "The Seven Pillars of Health" and I wanted to share some of the big ideas that I learned that are changing our lives right now. The book is broken into 7 sections, each focusing on a different aspect of health, here are the big points that I thought were important and how we're incorporating them. The author is a Doctor, just so you know....and this is really long. Feel free to read it in section, all at once might take a while. :)

WATER
My mom's been telling me to drink more water FOREVER, but now I understand why. Here are some things you may not know about water:

-Water helps you loose weight.
-Water is the main lubricant in joints and helps prevent arthritis and back pain
-Water increases the efficiency of the immune system
-Water helps to prevent the clogging of arteries because it opens up blood vessels and lowers blood pressure.
-Water is directly related to brain function-it is needed to produce hormones like serotonin and melatonin
-Water helps prevent memory loss with age
-Water gives skin a smoother and sparkling luster
-Water provides your bronchial tubes with the hydration it needs to prevent constriction, which will help ease asthma symptoms.
-Water is a cheap cure to digestive problems
-When your body doesn't get enough water it goes into starvation mode and saves all the water for your most important organs, so things like your digestive system and skin get left to shrivel, wrinkles anyone?
-Don't drink a ton of water with or right after meals because it flushes out important enzymes from your stomach that help with digestion.
-DO drink a lot 15-30 minutes before meals to help curb your appetite.
-Perfectly purified water is the best, and all bottled water is NOT equal. Arrowhead is a good choice, especially because it is alkaline which helps keep your body's pH levels normal. Here and Here are a couple of websites that compare water.
-Divide your weight in half, that's how many ounces of water you need every day.

I could go on, the point is that drinking the right amount of water is THE most important thing you can do for your body.

SLEEP AND REST
There was lots on snoring, sleep aids, insomnia and other stuff, but this is just the stuff that applied to me:

-Your body is designed to sleep when it is dark, like they always say: "Early to bed, Early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise." Sleep when it's dark. Our new schedule is 9:30-5:30 and we're loving it!
-Adults need 7-9 hours of sleep each night
-A study done by NASA showed that a 10-40 min nap each afternoon improved performance 34% and alertness 100%. Wow.
-Some hormones are ONLY released when you're sleeping, LEPTIN is an important one.
-LEPTIN "directly influences appetite and weight control. It tells the body when it is 'full.' A person who doesn't have enough of this regulating hormone often has a runaway appetite."
-Sleep lowers cortisol levels. Too much cortisol can make you irritable, more prone to depression, and anxious which can lead to all sorts of disease. blah
-When you can't fall asleep try to list twenty things you're grateful for. It takes my mind off of my worries and allows me to relax. I LOVE this new technique!


TO BE CONTINUED (when Teagan remembers to nap for longer than 45 minutes)