Thanksgiving at Home 2011

I realize I’m a dollar short and a day six days late on this Thanksgiving blog post, but hey, better late than never, right?

Last Thanksgiving prompted two blog posts about the turkey day meal: one mostly about my family visiting and details about the meal, and one in which I professed my love and thanks for my wonderful chef boyfriend. This year I’m going to endeavor to combine both the meal details and professions of love/thanks in one post. Let’s get all the lovey-dovey stuff out of the way first, shall we?

I often pick on Mark by saying that I’m the multitasker in the relationship. Let’s just say that he’s skillful when focused on one thing at a time and the reverse is not always true. The funny thing is, the exception is when it comes to cooking. And not only is cooking the exception to Mark’s inability to multitask, it’s also the exception to my ability to multitask. (I have burned more meals than I care to remember.) But, wait, that sounds like a backwards compliment. Here’s the accompanying forward compliment:

In short, Mark made Thanksgiving happen. Leading up to T-day, Mark did 90% of the work. He checked out the options for local turkeys, researched the living conditions on each farm, and coordinated the purchase of our local bird from our awesome coop. He planned out recipes, shopping lists, and a myriad of strategies for brining and cooking the turkey. He coordinated dishes that everyone was making, and compiled them in a Google Doc. And then he did most of the cooking.

I am so thankful to have such a wonderful guy in my life, with whom I can share this house, these meals, and this life journey.

Okay, on to less mushy, more serious topics, like food. (Well, some of the food is mushy, but, oh nevermind.)

This year, one of our awesome roommates and a friend of his joined in on the Thanksgiving fun, and for most of the day, Roommie and Mark were in the kitchen cooking. I made a few side dishes, but really I wanted to stay out of the kitchen as much as possible.

As you may know, our kitchen is not a fun kitchen for cooking. I mean, it’s fun if you like small kitchens with limited counter space. But it’s really not ideal or even possible for three people to simultaneously be preparing and cooking dishes, opening the refrigerator and oven and dishwasher, and keeping up with the dirty dishes piling up. So I left the kitchen stuff up to the boys and found other things to do: cleaning the house, organizing, watering plants, drinking mimosas, and just generally getting into the holiday spirit.

On a sidenote: how cool is it that I have men in my life who love to cook? I could go off on another tangent about gender roles and societal norms, but I’ll save that for another day.

In case you’re wondering, the meal turned out fantastic! Read on for details about our food, complete with links and photos.

Turkey – Our 14.5lb bird was from Stonewood Farm in Orwell, VT. Our turkey’s story, from the Stonewood Farm website, is as follows:
We grow our turkeys naturally; that is we do not feed antibiotics or growth hormones. We ready our turkeys for your family without using any preservatives or artificial ingredients. Just plenty of fresh Vermont air, cool nights, green pastures, good feed and tender loving care on our family farm.
In case anyone needs a reminder, the majority of turkeys raised for Thanksgiving meals do not have such natural living conditions. Let’s call this yet another blog post for yet another day.

Turkey brining and roasting techniques were based on the wisdom of Alton Brown.

Gravy – made from turkey juices, seasoned with herbs, and thickened with flour.

Stuffing – Mark has a fascination with dry stuffing-mixes-as-snack-food. Maybe it’s the crunch. Maybe it’s the flavor. All I know is, we acquired about five bags of organic stuffing mix back when they were on sale at Cheese Traders, and Thanksgiving was the perfect excuse to break a few out!

Whole wheat biscuits – These were mostly gone by the time dinner came around as we had been munching all day.

Kale salad – I love Heidi Swanson’s food blog 101 Cookbooks and always seek out recipes of hers when I’m making a meal. I knew I wanted to incorporate kale from our garden into Thanksgiving, and I did it by mostly following her recipe. I omitted the bread since the meal was already carb-heavy.

Mashed potatoes with kale – The two go hand-in-hand like peanut butter and jelly. In a waaaay more sophisticated way.

Creamed spinach and kale – Mark’s new signature dish, the creamed greens were smooth and tasty, and, well, green.

Why so much kale? We just had to throw kale into every recipe possible, partly because we still have tons of it in our garden, and partly out of solidarity with Vermonter Bo Muller-Moore and his fight against Chick-fil-A. Don’t know what I’m talking about? Read this and Eat More Kale! Maple-glazed carrots – Unfortunately we’ve already eaten the last of the carrots from our garden but I bought a big 5 lb bag of local Vermont carrots, steamed them in a water + maple syrup mixture to make this an entirely local side dish that tasted like heaven.

Cranberry Relish – This was a last-minute recipe that I decided to try, based on an email from Organic Gardening that I received the morning before Thanksgiving. Mark thinks it’s weird because the peels are actually left on the oranges. I think it’s great, especially with my addition of candied ginger!

I made it the night before to let the flavors really meld together.

Canned jellied cranberry sauce – As a nod to “traditional” twenty-first century Thanksgiving meals, we had to have canned cranberry sauce. Ours was organic, and free of high fructose corn syrup, that strange man-made sweetener that has been linked to obesity.

Mac & CheeseAnother Alton Brown recipe, prepared the night before by Roomie.

Broccoli with rice casserole – With apologies to Uncle Ben and Cheeze Whiz, this dish prepared by Roomie contained some god-forsaken products. While I don’t typically eat “food products” I can report that I did try a little and it didn’t kill me.

Roasted Veggies – Deliciously seasoned, perfectly roasted veggies, again prepared by Roomie.

Apple PieI popped my apple pie in to bake while we were eating the main courses. By the time we had room for dessert – hours later – it had cooled nicely and was ready to go. Hey Nick from Shelburne Orchards, I understand why this is your favorite apple pie recipe!

Chocolate Chip Cookies – I followed a basic cookie recipe and reduced the sugar slightly. Don’t skimp on the addition of nuts! We enjoyed a combo of walnuts and cashews.

No Bake Oatmeal Peanut Butter Chocolate Cookies – Yet another Roomie creation, no-bake cookies were completely foreign to me until the day before Thanksgiving. Wow, how have I missed out on these my whole life?

Enjoy some photos below of our meal and hanging out digesting afterward.

Buffet-style was definitely the way to go!

A random and colorful assortment of yummies.

Cheers!

Time for dessert.

Post-meal hangout time included: guitars, wine & a roaring fire. Also making appearances that night but not pictured here were: my djembe drum, Roomie’s upright bass (my first time trying to play one – I think I’m in love!), a movie on the TV temporarily moved to the living room, and lots of bad karaoke. By “bad” of course I mean good.

Very, very good.

A few ideas before Black Friday

Black Friday and its corollary Buy Nothing Day are this Friday. Are you ready?

You won’t catch me in the malls on Black Friday. As far as I’m concerned, it’s called that because it causes a dark mood for shoppers and retail employees. Have you ever noticed how you feel after a day of shopping? Tired, gross, depressed, worn out, and depleted are some words that comes to mind for me. Black is definitely the right color choice.

Buy Nothing Day is a campaign to encourage people to avoid shopping on Black Friday. As one website describes it:

The idea behind this massive effort to not spend is to take a break from the mass consumerism that fuels rampant capitalism, inequality, materialism and results in things like environmental ‘unsustainability’ and climate change. If it sounds a little too anarchist or communist, just think of it as a chill out day; like an eco-friendly Sabbath where we abstain from being wasteful and see if we can enjoy ourselves without spending.

All over the world there are events on Buy Nothing Day promoting things like making homemade gifts, cutting up credit cards, and renouncing the evils of consumerism. That last one makes me think of my favorite church from NYC: Reverend Billy and The Church of Stop Shopping. Check out Rev Billy here:

I will admit, the one place I’m tempted to shop on Black Friday, or at least this weekend, is our local Ace Hardware. They have an awesome Saturday deal that we may take advantage of like we did last year: Any one item under $30 for 50% off. Given that we still have some home renovation projects going on and “need” materials for them (depending on your definition of need), it’s hard to pass up a deal to get things we were going to buy anyway for cheap.

But for the most part, people getting into the Black Friday shopping craze, lining up the night before, pushing and shoving people out of the way to the best deals, even trampling an employee to death in my own hometown back in 2008, are not doing it to buy one item at their local hardware store. So why all the hype about buying cheap stuff on sale on Black Friday anyway? Oh, right. The gift-giving season is coming up.

I say maybe it’s time to question the whole gift giving craziness.

Year after year I hear people lament, Don’t get me anything for the holidays (or my birthday, etc.), I don’t need any more stuff!  I wholeheartedly agree. I mean, who really wants more things in their life anyway? First of all, getting stuff as gifts is laden with obligation: I have to store it or use it, keep it clean, make sure it’s visible when the person who gave it to me comes over, pack it up when I move, or, if I don’t want it and decide it’s finally time for a new home, I have to donate it, give it away, or trash it. And if I received a gift from someone and didn’t have one in return for them, I have to deal with all the above stress plus some added guilt!

Secondly, most people in middle class American society already have more than their fair share of the world’s resources that have been turned into stuff. For example, in 2004, the 1 billion residents of high-income countries consumed more than 80% of the global total. The United States accounted for 4.6 percent of the world’s population and 33 percent of global consumption–more than $9 trillion U.S. dollars. This seems an appropriate time to link to an important video that I encourage you to watch if you haven’t ever seen it: The Story of Stuff.

But I digress. Let’s get back to the gift topic for a moment. There are many ways to avoid gift-related stress.

In my own family we practice brutal honesty – it’s okay to say when we don’t like/need/want what we received as a gift and ask the giver to take it back. We also believe in telling our family exactly what we want. Typically practical gifts fit the bill. Underwear and socks are the norm. Batteries. A calendar for the new year. Consumables like food, vitamins and water filters. In recent years I have specifically instructed my family: don’t buy me anything I didn’t ask for. This reduces the risk of getting some random unwanted gift and then offending the giver by telling them you don’t want it.

My own personal gift buying habits that help keep me sane, save money, and hopefully make the receiver happy:

  • Buy used. If you bought it at a thrift shop, you supported the local reuse economy, and it’s likely that you saved a lot of money by not buying new.
  • Buy local. From art to clothing to food and wine, support your local artisans.
  • Buy something you like. In case the person on the receiving end doesn’t want/need/like the gift (and is honest enough to tell you), then you can keep it for yourself! (While you figure out something else for them, if need be.)
  • Give nontangibles. A subscription to a magazine, tickets to an event or show. Gift certificates for a massage, to the movies, or a favorite restaurant.
  • Don’t buy anything. Make homemade gifts like some of the great ideas here and here.
  • Wrap with homemade wrapping paper. It’s fun, cheaper than buying wrapping paper, and gets your creative juices flowing!
I have other thoughts on the holidays and gift ideas that I’ll undoubtedly share over the next month or so as the season ramps up. Regardless of your feelings about Black Friday, diy gifting, and the holidays in general, I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Thanksgiving postscript

Amazing Thanksgiving leftovers sandwich

In re-reading my Thanksgiving post I realized I neglected to include a few juicy tidbits.  First, I’d like to offer an acknowledgment and wholehearted thanks to my sweetie for doing 90% of the Thanksgiving day preparations.  From waking up at ~4am to brine the turkey (we made our brine so late the night before that it wasn’t cool enough to dip Mr. Turkey in until the wee hours of the morning), to whipping up some amazing dishes on the fly, to helping clean the house, to keeping the music and conversation going all afternoon and evening long, I couldn’t have done it without him.

A picture from one of our recent walks on the beach near our house

My second note might be of more interest to some of you (depending on whether you’re here for the “relationships” or “renovations” aspect of this blog). Below I’ve included a post from the environmental media outlet Treehugger.com regarding the eco-friendly qualities of dishwashers.  Our aim is to be as eco-minded as possible with our renovations and upgrades to our little piece of the world.  Sometimes this means eschewing technology, which can often also be fun and save money.  Using solar energy or a heater that’s already on anyway to dry clothes instead of a clothes dryer, for instance.  Or playing a board game with our housemates, like we did last night for more than two hours, rather than watching TV.  But sometimes technology helps us save energy, not only in the form of human labor (which I don’t generally believe needs to be “saved;” physical labor is good for us,) but in a reduction of electricity or other resources compared to doing it manually.  Read the below if you’re interested in Treehugger’s take on a 2005 study regarding dishwasher efficiency.

We recently covered a tip on dishwasher efficiency, but may have left you still feeling guilty or at least wondering about whether you should be pampering yourself with this labor-saving appliance. Now, thanks to a scientific study at the University of Bonn in Germany, you can have your cake and eat it too-relaxed in the knowledge that the cleaning up with your trusted machine will be a piece of cake and the eco-friendly thing to do…

The Bonn study proves that the dishwasher uses only half the energy and one-sixth of the water, less soap too. Even the most sparing and careful washers could not beat the modern dishwasher. The study also rated the cleanliness achieved, again in favor of the washing machine (sorry grandma). There have been studies before, but this is one of the few that stands (wo)man against machine and it sets itself apart by including a thorough analysis of the effect of half-loads and the whole demand range from your cake plate to the grimiest pots. Surf to research under household technology at U. Bonn’s site for more. :: U. Bonn Household Technology

In other news, winter has begun here.  Below are a few shots from a light snowfall two days after Thanksgiving.

Our property ends at the posts beyond the tree stump but we like to think it extends into our neighbor's garden beyond

This is what happens when Mark leaves his flip flops outside

The last bit of kale struggling to stay alive. With any luck it will come back next year