There are men in my world, confused as to what I like. Or maybe they are simply confused when it comes to dating…

In the midst of my grief and ever shifting life, I got asked out a few times this week. At my age.

But at my age, people also hand the reins over to you a little speedily when trying to ask you out. Instead of building a case for themselves or the courtship, the ask is replaced with a kind of dry business like ask. As if they are asking you to a meeting, or to purchase a product.

People should spend a little time, wooing their crush. It just doesn’t move a woman to “yes” when you call up and ask if she would consider seeing you without any wind up, or to construct a date to fill idle time.

Because breakup. Or friends that aren’t available that day.

When do “romantic men” become the rage again?

I said no.

From Moda-Creative Thinking