I firmly believe that it is a woman’s choice but I also believe it was her fault. I have always been a considerate lover and have used the withdrawal technique to some critical acclaim, and then one night, I told her what was about to happen and she pulled me in and locked her legs around my back so that I could not withdraw. Why did she tempt fate? This obviously lead to her becoming pregnant and having an abortion. I still feel guilty about this ’til today and presume I will always feel guilty. The writing was on the wall, obviously, and then her parents came to Sydney and she told me that I had to go. Go where, I asked? Anywhere, she replied, I cannot let my parents know that I have a white boyfriend.

I know that abortion is a “hot topic” due to America’s stance and due to declining birthrates worldwide but nobody talks about the Fathers’s on the other side of the equation. Yes it should be a woman’s choice but what about the women that tempt fate? I know one woman who has had numerous abortions and has also had the “morning after pill” too many times to count. Is that her fault for not demanding her sexual partner to “rubber up” or is it his fault for “wanting to shoot in goal”?

I have been watching things on YouTube where woman wanting abortions are saying that it is just a clump of cells that they are aborting or calling the foetus a zygote instead of a human. Is this a way to escape guilt? Once again it is the woman’s choice but what about the father? Also I have done some research and Japan is considered to be one of the most racist countries on the planet hence her not wanting her parents to find out she had a caucasian partner. All lives should matter, just don’t shoot the messenger