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cautiously happy

‘Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
Did gyre and gimble in the wabe:
All mimsy were the borogoves,
And the mome raths outgrabe.

“Beware the Jabberwock, my son!
The jaws that bite, the claws that catch!
Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun
The frumious Bandersnatch!”

He took his vorpal sword in hand:
Long time the manxome foe he sought —
So rested he by the Tumtum tree,
And stood awhile in thought.

And, as in uffish thought he stood,
The Jabberwock, with eyes of flame,
Came whiffling through the tulgey wood,
And burbled as it came!

One, two! One, two! And through and through
The vorpal blade went snicker-snack!
He left it dead, and with its head
He went galumphing back.

“And, has thou slain the Jabberwock?
Come to my arms, my beamish boy!
O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!’
He chortled in his joy.

`Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
Did gyre and gimble in the wabe;
All mimsy were the borogoves,
And the mome raths outgrabe.

 

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It was ten years ago today

Well, I’ve found something to put up here that isn’t about cuts or war or tsunamis – but it is about death… (Don’t worry, there will be some dogs later.)

I can never help feeling a bit guilty that one of the people I’m closest to lost his dad on my birthday, and it does cast a bit of a shadow of reality on the day, as with Christmas, that the imperative for celebration coexists with family upheavals and real sadness. And this one’s a difficult anniversary. But I assuage my guilt by reminding myself that it’s his sister’s birthday too. So it wasn’t my fault…

And this programme, which was recently on TV, makes today a great opportunity to take in a bit of that infectious humour, generosity of spirit and great zest for life that we could all do with a lot MORE of. Frankly. So here’s to Harry.

(Now – if I ruled the world…)

And then there’s this.

And this, a classic in my own family:

(You’ve got to absolutely love the fact that the Ying Tong Song has 20 ‘dislikes’! Classic.)

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the healing of the nations

The big fightin’ words you see above are the words of this man here, the one in the middle: that’s Morris Owen Evans, a Welsh minister who gave up his parish in Dolgellau to go and live in the US and work in a huge Concordance of the Bible. (Back in those days you could take all your grown children with you.) Once you’ve made a concordance of the whole Bible you know kind of everything, just about, I reckon. (I’m sure he’d also read Nietszche and the major Metaphysicals.) AndThe Healing of the Nations” is the kind of thing you could say back then, without sounding ridiculous. I know some of my b0rn-again atheist, post-apocalyptic, neo-fundamentalist, jihadi-&-anti-jihadi friends won’t like this, but it’s the kind of thing a really intelligent and thoughtful man of the cloth could turn his mind to, back in those days. The Healing of the Nations. Why not? And do pretty well on it in the lecture halls and so on.

In this case, it’s the title of his book. A book my family naturally considered rather important, as this man here is Great-Grandfather Baroque. I heard about his book as I was growing up, but I’ve never seen it, to my knowledge, unless there was a dusty old copy knocking around when I was little. So the great news is, The Healing of the Nations has been reprinted! I heard about it (oh woeful bathos, as opposed to overfull baths) on Facebook, of all places. My rock star cousin Morgan was quoting from it: “Whatever tends to draw the realms together in the realization of their essential unity, helps in the right direction.”

These words are true, I think (though I admit the comma is annoying) (and it’s also hard to imagine “helps in the wrong direction” being something you could say; but that was 1922, and maybe there’s an idiomatic Welsh element). In any case I was pontificating something of the kind just the other day. So far, it’s all I know about the book, and it makes me want to read it.

The tall man at the back, on the right, by the way, is my grandfather; next to him is a rare image of my Uncle Morrie, who died when I was about ten, and who was devoted to the horse-racing; a fine fellow; and also on the right, in front of Grandfather,* is Aunt Sallie, whose fiancĂ© was killed in the Great War. She never married. I think – those were more enlightened, or at least very different, days – she received a pension on his behalf. I heard a rumour that she had a gentleman friend in her twilight years, in Florida, but she remained forever true to the memory of Poor-dear-Leland, and also kept the pension. We used to have Great-Grandfather’s scrapbook, and it contained a clipping of Leland’s obituary. Terrible to think of an old man keeping a thing like that, and his grief-stricken daughter. You can see why he wanted to write a book.

Anyway, I will keep you posted as to Great-Grandfather’s book. I expect my copy to arrive today. It would be great if he had something that could heal the nations now; I notice we’re just as much in need of it as we can possibly have been when he wrote the thing.

* We really did call him this.

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the books! the books! (the saga continues)

Regular readers may well recall the recent melodrama hereabouts in regards to reshelving the Baroque library. It was one of those things, in the manner of the good old story of the pot of geraniums, about which I have written before: an influx of possessions, of one sort and another, due to the closure of the Brockley Annexe, resulted in there being nowhere to put anything – and least of all the books.

It was because the bookshelf that used to be in the “office” (i.e., on top of the chest of drawers in the bedroom, a spot that now houses a Victorian mirror with several bevels) is now in the hallway. The funny thing is that the bit of that equation I couldn’t bear was the presence on that bookshelf of the Oscar Wilde set and Edel’s several-volume Henry James biography. I thought, no! THOSE can’t go in the hall! Needless to say, having rearranged every single other thing in the whole damn flat, those books are still on the top shelf of the little bookcase outside the bathroom door. It’s not good, is it.

The rest of it’s been rationalised fine, though. And the thing is, I’ve been asked to share the pictures of the particularly cunning living room arrangement, but have not yet, heretofore, complied.

So here it is. Basically, you’re not to know it, but it is a massive improvement. The art books are now on the larger shelves, and the doll’s house is where the disused turntable used to be – meaning the shelves are now shorter, making them ideal for the first half of the fiction…* I mean, who cares, but here it is, anyway. And if I recall the thing that my friend wanted to see was the bottom shelf. This is because I had tried to cunningly arrange all the children’s picture books in order of size (very sad, I know), and of course once I achieved this they all fell over. They listed horribly, somehow, even when the shelf was full. So I had to mix them up, which you can see in the present sort of stepped arrangement. My friend was laughing quite a bit. But I know it’s the kind of thing she herself would do.

So let’s just hope it will do some good! Some fascinating research just published in the US seems to indicate that the mere presence of books in the home has as great an impact on the educational level children go on to attain as does the literacy or otherwise – literally – of their parents. This seems to be true all over the world, and even in cases where (however unlikely it might seem) illiterate parents might have a small library in the home…

The article did make me laugh. They use 500 volumes as a base figure: in China, for example, having 500 or more books in the home (aside from all other considerations, you understand) propels young people 6.6 years further in education. (In the US it’s less: only 2.4 years.) But get this! “Having as few as 20 books in the home still has a significant impact… and the more books you add, the greater the benefit.”

It doesn’t say anything about the benefits of being completely overrun by the blighters, but I reckon the point’s made, anyway. And indeed the Baroque firstborn, affectionately known as the Urban Warrior, is now doing a degree. Mind you, he’s doing Digital Media. Not a book in sight.

* For those who are interested, the poetry magazines are now lining the hallway along with other children’s books, cookery books and other things. Biographies are in the alcove that corresponds to the picture above, over some rather impressive coffee-table-style piles of the really big art books. (I was gutted recently to find that although they are beautiful, they aren’t worth a bean. Just as well. I’m already regretting Mlle B’s decision to sell her Sylvanian Families, and we haven;t even done it yet.) Miscellaneous and plays and film books are in the other bit of hallway, and in the “office” the poetry is on one wall and letters, criticism and reference books are on another. Plus the heaps. Don’t forget the heaps.

I don’t actually feel too bad sharing all this. My friend, above, recently blogged the insides of her kitchen cupboards, with detailed descriptions of her preference in jars. I reckon if I could find that interesting, this can’t be so bad.

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fresh beginnings?

Look at their ties! Look at all these colours!  What does it all mean?

Is it possible that something is possible? Is it fresh pickings, or is it only for them? The world’s gone mad. It’s spring, but it’s colder than March. I’m in winter clothing – and glad of it, as it means I don’t have to address the summer wardrobe issue. My clothes are grey. My flat is grey. London is grey. These guys are happy, they’re on top of the world, and with their Tellytubby ties and their cute first-day-of-school folders they look like little spring tulips, don’t they. Yes. Are they trying to lull us all into imagining we’re just kids watching TV, or is this really how they feel?? You know what – I don’t really care who they are at this stage. I just want them to spread the vibe. I don’t care how they do it.

Of course I was mildly amused to read in the Standard that it was Ed Balls who ballsed up the Lib-Lab talks, by being so bloody rude nobody could negotiate – and for this we pay him – and also ecstatic and overjoyed to see, in the redoubtable Londonist, that Respect, that parasitic veneer of opportunists, has lost both its money and its Chief Insect. But all I really want is to lose this constant feeling of dread that everything is about to buckle underneath me. Let these nice people be happy! They have lovely wives, lovely ties and a lovely new job: no wonder they look so shiny. All my friends look careworn and worried, people are out of work or even working f0r free – and all we hear is that it’s all going to get even worse, possibly forever. I can’t get Mlle B a prom dress, everything’s getting worn out, even my coffee pot has a crack in it. It’s nice to see someone looking really happy. Now let’s just get on with it shall we.

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