To sum the last 17 years of my life up I think we need to start at the beginning. And by beginning I mean my ex mother in law. A woman who’s maiden surname was Stone. She went on to marry a Brick. And the result was a cold hearted narcissist who’d sue her in a heartbeat if he didn’t need her money in order to do so.

Now that the lawyers are out of the picture and reality has set in, I can be honest about rhe fact that this hideous woman is the maternal influence in my daughters life right now. And there is no ways this Ice Queen is mothering my child when she produced the disgusting piece or trash she did and now she thinks that suddenly she can do a better job with my daughter when her she still washes her 50 year old sons skid marked underwear cause he can’t even wipe his ass properly, like fuck you. A whole woman who never put a brush through my child’s hair cause she isn’t white, who called her fat, who sent her son for an Aids test instead of asking me for a paternity test when she found out he had knocked a Black woman up. Who made me sign a prenup when her son had nothing to offer me and my father invested in a business so he wouldn’t have to sell couches during shift work at fucking Coricraft. Then still had the nerve to take my dad to the CCMA when His boss, who was a friends husband, had a stroke and who also by the way hired The Fucker cause of my friendship with his wife, same reason my father invested in his business.

This person who physically abused me when I was pregnant with the same child I apparently am incapable of parenting. This woman who saw me bleeding after her son attacked me a week before I gave birth and had told me he had taken an overdose whilst I brunched with my sisters, and told his family and friends not to come to my baby shower the day before. She saw me run out of the complex scratched up and had the nerve to tell me I provoked him WHILST she was running victim support at SP police station.

This same woman who made my domestic violence charges against her so docket disappear cause I had a restraining order against him and who was still abusing me even after he moved out.

This same woman who told the police not to talk to me when I asked them to do a wellness check last year when my daughter and her father cut all communication so that he could exact his threats and revenge he’d long been promising, and then paid for this disgusting ambush because she, too, wanted my child back and was willing to facilitate lies and perjury in order to make that happen.

For someone who herself said “I hope you choke on your chow mein” to and about Her own son in front of my daughter. Then he tells my daughter he hopes I drop dead?

These are the people influencing the adult my child is going to be one day? Hell fucking no! Absolutely NOT!

They are going to regret the day they ever used their white privilege and money against me. My ex enticed My kid by showing her her her grandmother’s millions in her accounts she mistakenly left her computer screen open. Who does that? So he’s living there waiting for his mother to die then my kid also lives there forever waiting for him to die?

What the actual fuck? And I am the toxic environment? They will not influence my daughter with their sick and twisted toxicity and blatant abuse of the justice system and attacking an unemployed single mother with their millions.

Activism takes many forms. I can only imagine how many women out there in my position. I worse positions! Let’s fight the system. We should not be forced to coparent with abusers and this form of child abuse needs to be recognized.

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