So tomorrow is the day!
Referring back to my Life List, “married with 2 kids”. I made it and god blessed i have a boy and a girl. So i guess that’s it!
Before i made this decision, I have always wonder why my friends would get “accidents” after they decided to settle with 2 kids. I also heard stories of people get “Accidents” when they are in the process of getting temporary Contraception Methods. I do not want to follow my mum’s footstep of having a baby at age 48!
I figured out that one day i would regret of having just 2 kids hence i gonna list down all my reasons here of shutting my factory down.
I spoken to mums with more than 2 grown up kids, they all find having more than 2 kids are still not enough. I should learn to be contended with just 2 kids.
Is getting more and more expensive to raise kids, especially we send them to Interation School. Travelling is cheaper and easier with just 2 kids rather than 3 or 4. Imagine the extra room and extra taxi that you would need. and in case of anything, is easier to have 1 parent to save 1 kid.
I always want to be fair to both of them, i made hand casting for 1, and i did the same for the 2nd. I wrote Baby Memory book for him, and i did for her. Now i still owe her 2 photobooks and have no idea how i gonna catch up with that.
My body is not getting any healthier with more kids and i want to get healthier for my kids. I am getting more and more forgetful and i guess having more kids will make it worst. I breastfed my daughter til 3 years old, i have to be fair to my 3rd if it ever happen. No!
For the sake of myself and my kids, yes tomorrow is the day!
Initially i plan to do it in Miri as the price is 3 x cheaper, but the doctors wouldn’t do for me. Hence gonna fix at Jpmc.
Good Luck to me !!
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