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So tomorrow is the day!

Referring back to my Life List, “married with 2 kids”. I made it and god blessed i have a boy and a girl. So i guess that’s it!

Before i made this decision, I have always wonder why my friends would get “accidents” after they decided to settle with 2 kids. I also heard stories of people get “Accidents” when they are in the process of getting temporary Contraception Methods. I do not want to follow my mum’s footstep of having a baby at age 48!

I figured out that one day i would regret of having just 2 kids hence i gonna list down all my reasons here of shutting my factory down.

I spoken to mums with more than 2 grown up kids, they all find having more than 2 kids are still not enough. I should learn to be contended with just 2 kids.

Is getting more and more expensive to raise kids, especially we send them to Interation School. Travelling is cheaper and easier with just 2 kids rather than 3 or 4. Imagine the extra room and extra taxi that you would need. and in case of anything, is easier to have 1 parent to save 1 kid.

I always want to be fair to both of them, i made hand casting for 1, and i did the same for the 2nd. I wrote Baby Memory book for him, and i did for her. Now i still owe her 2 photobooks and have no idea how i gonna catch up with that.

My body is not getting any healthier with more kids and i want to get healthier for my kids. I am getting more and more forgetful and i guess having more kids will make it worst. I breastfed my daughter til 3 years old, i have to be fair to my 3rd if it ever happen. No!

For the sake of myself and my kids, yes tomorrow is the day!

Initially i plan to do it in Miri as the price is 3 x cheaper, but the doctors wouldn’t do for me. Hence gonna fix at Jpmc.

Good Luck to me !!

 

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Good Morning Vang Vieng!
Baguettes Breakfast in Laos Style

Baguettes Breakfast in Laos Style

We knew It was gonna be a wet day, so we rented a Wet Bag at 10 000 kip a day to keep our things. Had a quick breakfast beside the wet bag rental place, cos we were almost late!! First they drove us to pick up another few more guests via tuk tuk, then to the starting point of the cave visit. It was only 2 of us at the beginning, I tried to relax in the tuk tuk’s hammock, it was so bumpy and it would cause me motion sickness eventually.

Me posing in the truck

Me posing in the truck

the Tour begun and we had Gabriel* from UK and his darling Ah Man from Thailand with us. We visited the Elephant Cave, there is a stone which looked so much like an elephant. Then we walked across a village to the other caves. During the walk, Ah Man stepped into cow’s dung! “is it warm?” I teased her. we also saw some piggy around, and among all the quite run down houses, we saw satellites were installed and a house with LCD monitor computer. and not long after, i also stepped into a pile of Cow’s dung! 😦

the Story of 3 Little Pigs

the Story of 3 Little Pigs

 

Elephant Cave in Vang Vieng

Elephant Cave in Vang Vieng

Me and Man with our Special Umbrella 
Me and Ah Man with our Special Umbrella

BBQ Vege, The Lunch Provided by the tour operator

BBQ Vege, The Lunch Provided by the tour operator

 The caves were not nicely paved, is quite a challenge to get in and we had a deep walk into the cave. We saw crystals formed in there, limestones, and a corner where u can play music by beating the limestones. When we were in the cave’s end, Boon (the guide) asked us to turn off our torch. Wah! it was completely dark! i nvr been into such a dark room before where you really can’t see anything even u have ur hand right in front of your eyes. he told us a super long story. Ah Man cried because she was too afraid or maybe she felt something? mmm..  we had lunch then, they bbq some meat and veggie for us. Houseflies flying around and Surprisingly we didn’t get stomach upset after that. We visited the other cave, and we walked about 15 minutes and Boon told us no one had ever reach the end of this cave! its the longest cave in Vang VIeng, and people walked in for 1 day, also can’t reach the end. So we turned back from there!

We then walked to the water cave, changed to our bathing gear and start to explore the cave with a tube! I almost got drove away by the current at the beginning. with a headtorch, we started to explore, The experience was great and i enjoyed every moment of it. It felt like you are in SUnway Lagoon but you can’t see whats down under your butt. We just follow the guide and keep moving in. The water was so cold and i kept sneezing in there. THere were few times when you have to get off the tube and walk across the stones and continue tubing again. Thanks god we wore our knickers in there, else we will have a “Fantastic Foot Massage”. When tubing into the cave, we were actually go against the current. but when we tubing out of the cave, we could simply follow the current and get out of the cave. however we still have to beware of the walls.

Tubing in the Cave Tubing in the Cave

After tubing, we had a Long walk, i think probably an hour? walked acrossed the padi fields, corn fields and visited villages. During the village visit, we saw kids swimming in the river, ducks mating and old ladies carrying big Tree trunks! A question was brought up about where are all the teenagers. According to Boon, teenagers work in the mountain during the day! Everyone we met, you can heard sweet and soft voice saying “SABAIDEE” to you. We Sabaideed the whole day!

the long walk to Namsong River

the long walk to Namsong River

At last about 3pm, we arrived at a tuktuk with kayak on it waiting for us. After a short drive, we arrived at the Nam song river. Bye to Man and Gabrielle, we started to kayak down the river. Kayaking through the river wasn’t tough, we enjoyed seeing bars playing loud music and tourists playing river swing, tubing there. after an hr kayaking, we stopped by a bar and attempted to do a river swing. 

At the Namsong River

At the Namsong River

Louis tried it first, he waited for aboout 40 sec holding on to the swing b4 swinging. He said he wanted to enjoy the view! haha… Now my turn, i was really freaked out. its so high and its so scary, I wandering at the departing area for around about 20 minutes. there were a lot of tubing people gave me a “GO” sign. I really wanted to do it!! but i was so scared lah. I wouldn’t know if i can hold on to the swing or not. and its so high up there. A japanese uncle talked to me and encouraged me to go.

The bouncer offered me a cigarrette and I started to smoke. I told my self i have to do it after i finish the cigarrette. the cigarette left only the bud, i knew its time. my head was abit drowsy, hold on to the swing and i squarted a little, and i left the platform. I screamed so loud that i think the whole Vang Vieng knew i did the swing. THe experience was great and really scary, i swinged for 3-4 times and dropped into the river. During the drop was scary too… it seems like the fall tooks forever b4 it reached the water! I screamed all the way!!!After the swing, i wished i could tell the Japanese uncle that i did it!!


Craziest thing i’ve done

We continued to kayak. River, mountain and people, are all we saw. The kayaking ended at 5:30pm.

At nite, we settled down in a nice western restaurant. We had Morning Glory, Pattai and American Style Lamb Chop. Morning Glory is actually Kang Kong.  While eating, we saw Jon (the spainish guy we met on Bus yesterday) walking by. After dinner, we explore the town again and bought a “Tubing in Vang Vieng” Tshirt. Bought the ticket to Luang Prabang the next day at 105000kip via mini van from the same place we rented our dry bag. and exceeded budget again! We arrived to the guest house b4 the gate close that nite 😀

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Last Sunday, It was the AFC Talentime again.. Remember we won the Traditional dance category last year? Click here

This year’s theme is Bollywood, we shared the 1st prize with another team. Check out the Video, not bad for a 3 weeks preparation huh?!

 

The Sapphire Team

The Sapphire Team

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Although I’m not a big fan of King of Pop – Michael Jackson, but i feel sad for his departure.

Being a 80s baby, we grew up with his Mtvs. Michael Jackson is the 1st Artist from the Western Countries I knew. I remember when i was in Primary 2, my friends gave me some flash cards of his.

In 1996, We heard that Michael Jackson might perform in Brunei during His Majesty’s 50th Birthday. and Entrance fee is Free of charge, yes Free of charge. Yeen, she is a big fan of MJ, she was pondering if she should go to KL for holiday or stay back. But she decided to go to KL because the concert wasn’t confirm yet.

The concert confirmed few days before the concert. My mum wasn’t too agree to let me go, but i insisted. It was kind of cloudy on the concert day, and my mum brought a sunshade to school for me, she said i can use it as shelter from the rain.

There were too many people, so i stood quite far away. although i can only see one small blink blink object going around the stage, but i enjoyed the concert very much! and definitely Bruneians are very lucky, how many people on earth get to see Michael Jackson for free?? 

Man with Sidebun = Elvis Presley, Gril with Curly Hair and a mole on the lips = Marilyn Monroe. Curly long hair man with sun glasses = Michael Jackson, the icon we will always recognise.. The man who taught us to unite, who taught us to care, the man who entertains us.. Gone forever but will always be remembered.

After watching the MJ’s Memorial Service, me and honey both felt the pinch.. in fact i felt the pinch on the very first day, and honey finally felt the pinch after watching the Memorial Service.  We love you Michael.. Rest in Peace…

One of my Favorite Mj’s Videos.

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I have heard about Eggs will stand at Noon of the Rice Dumpling Day, but i never tried it. I saw people doing it while having lunch. I tried as well, and i got them standing!! According to the tradition, if you can get it stand, you will be lucky for the whole year!

Standing Eggs

Standing Eggs

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舞动活力,唱响青春

Several weeks ago, RTB Chinese division invited all RTB Mandarin Singing Contest participants to RTB to do a recording for one of the Chinese New Year Programmes. We enjoyed the games and food they prepared and it was broadcast on air on the 2nd day of Chinese New Year. Now the recording is available on E-Huawang.com.

Click Here – Enjoy Listening 🙂

xx

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What I did when i was 27

Summary of what i’ve done when i was 27

1. I travelled to China with my whole family (Dec 2007) and I was massaged and pedicured by a Handsome and well built masseaur :”)

2. I organised Milk awareness Campaign and being the main speaker for several Schools, there were altogether 8 sessions.

3. I self-directed a short clip and the wedding organiser for Sister’s wedding

4. I attended Money and You.

5. I drove to Miri myself for the 1st time

6. I cried for a comic – Crayon Shin chan

7. I backpacked to Laos, did a river swing in Vang Vieng, Laos and tubed in a cave, took a 9 hrs bus in Laos, I swimmed under the Kuangsi Waterfall in Laos and  jumped from a tree into one of the lagoon of Kuangsi Waterfall

8. I overtalked and missed a flight from KL to Brunei.

9. I Admited in Hospital for 4 nights, and got dripped for the very first time.

10. Joined the Mandarin Singing Contest organised by Radio Television Brunei and E-Huawang.com. Made it to the Top 20 but didn’t made it to Top 8. Somehow i was treated like a star, many thanks to family and friends. I love to sing on stage!

11. Joined AFC Talentime, we danced a XinJiang dance and Won!

12. MC for a Singing Contest.

13. Cut my hair short then shorter

14. Backpacked in New Zealand and Took the longest flight (10hr only) ever in my life

15. I saw snow and Skiied for the very first time.

16. Ride a bike for 33km at Otago Trail

17. Attended Tour Guide Course and Officially a Tour Guide Now!!!

18. Provided Consultation to 5 friends on Japan Trip Planning.

19. Got Interviewed and broadcast on Radio and on web.

Part 1   Part 2   Part 3

20. Hired a Personal Trainer for Gym Sessions and gained 4kgs in 2 months time

21. Someone norminated me as the Board Members for the Buddhist Associations.. but wasn’t selected..

22. Being Sent to KL and stayed in the hospital to take care of a Dengue Fever Patient for few days.

23. I’m 52KG now… 3 more kgs to go for my ideal weight!

24. Turned down an invitation for a vacation to Hawaii… (still can’t believe that)

25. Recovered from the Milk Scandal’s Depression.

26. I’m an Auntie to my little niece – Avril 🙂

Little Avril

Little Avril

27. I saw Proboscis Monkeys (Biggest Monkey on earth) while doing Mangrove Tour.

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Realising one of my Dreams

Referring to Blacksnail’s Lifelist #47 – be a Tour Guide. Why Tour Guide? it started up when i flung my air stewardess 2nd Interview (more), and i think Tour Guide is the closest job to Air Stewardess because both bring tourists a holiday and you get to meet people.

I attended the tour guide course since July, we have classes twice a week, sometimes once a week, it involves studies about Brunei’s history, customs, statistic, periodically we have to stand in front of the class to present what we learned, sometimes we were given a topic and have to talk about it for minutes without preparation. We did have classes on Bus, and field trips. After i have more understanding about the job, Tour guide is more than bringing the tourists around.

A tour guide has to:

  • have knowledge on almost everything, Tourist might not have interest in the history that you know, they might ask you questions on economies of Brunei.
  • Update with current News, Tourists might had read the latest news on brunei before they arrive, so the info given to the tourists have to be updated
  • Time Management – When the itinerary said you can only be in that place for 20 mins and you have to arrive at another place at certain time, you have to ensure you do.. else it will cause other groups to delay in the schedule too!
  • Customer Management – Sometimes you told them not to go out of the boundary, they will still do it or they will tell you they saw some tourist went there too.. ( i did that before while i follow some tour)
  • Nursing – There are older tourists who walk very slowly and have problem going up steps.. we have to hold their hands and walk with them patiently.. Its really good to train our patience to take care of people.
  • Entertainer – Sometimes tourists will demand you to sing and keep singing..
  • Waiteress – Serving Drinks and food… to ensure excellent service, we have to refill drinks for them and bring trays of foods to them..
  • Complaint Handling – Its unavoidable to receive complaints from tourists, they can complain about the Microphone, the itinerary, the place, the toilet, and even “why can’t we enter the king’s palace?” . we have to give the best answers to avoid them for bringing the complaints home.
  • Avoid any liabilities – in the case if tourist fell down by accident when you holding their hands, they can sue you until nobody business…
  • Attend more courses – we can’t be a Brunei Tourguide forever, we have to go into other specialties to be a successful tourguide..

The Class started with about 40 people and we left only 8 of us. the rest quited because of other commitments, phobias, and pressurised. Its been 4 months since we been doing this training, and i can’t afford to do a bad job and i have to do my very best. I went to some places of interest on my own to study into every single little things… Brunei Resources has been a great website for me to learn our history.

Our Class Outing at Temburong

Our Class Outing at Temburong

The first day when i worked as a tour coordinator, I got so excited when i see the tourists coming down from the cruise… musical instruments were played to welcome them. Thru out the journey, i Observed my senior Guide on how she ran the tour, and wrote down info that i didn’t know, help out here and there.. and i tell you.. i really wanted to grab the Microphone from her hand! i can’t wait to give commentary and run the whole tour! After the tour, i called adam and told him how eager was I to run my own show..

The Cruise

The Cruise

I dreamed about me becoming a real tour guide. I was late, and i didn’t get to do headcount, didn’t have an itinerary, didn’t know the name of the driver and so on. I can remember the commentary i designed for my first 5 minutes in my dream. I dreamed that Lunch break before the first places of interest, Adam gave me a form to fill in regards to bus no, no of guests, bus driver name, i didn’t have any info on that. After the Lunch break, everyone got into the bus, but i didn’t know how many ppl it should be, and i didn’t know who should be in the bus. Some passengers left the bus halfway then only i realised they are not my tourists!! and out of sudden a group of chinese at the back requested me to speak in mandarin. The Tour i had in my dream was a complete screwed up!

2nd Dec 2008 is my Big Day, is the first time i handle a tour group by myself! Its the Singapore Army Group, these guys were having their 3 weeks tough training in Temburong and were all exhausted. My Group has 44 of them and they are all GUYs.. got young got old ones. They requested me to sing for them, and i chose a Song from Singaporean Singer – Tanya Chua – 陌生人。Experience is important, but i think the most important thing is the Passion and sincerity that you wanna bring a good vacation to your guest. Although this is my first time, but i know i didn’t look like one, i had great time today, although some of them slept (because of their training, not my boring commentary), but i was still able to make them laugh.. and i’m looking forward for the future tours. 

So far, I was an observers Twice, and bringing my own tour once, and all these three times i was arranged to be on the Same bus and Same driver – Hj Maidin. wat a coincidence!!

Singapore Army

My first Guests: Singapore Army

Thanks to Mike for all the tips on how to get the boys responsive.. and Special thanks to Adam for the training.

One of my guests took pictures of me using his Lomo Toy Camera, I wish my mic can be seen in this picture.. thank you very much, Sharif..

Esjay the Tourguide

Esjay the Tourguide

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还没下笔,眼泪已在眼角。。 好兴奋阿!!!

I received a phone call that almost made me happy til heart attack! I’m selected, yes is me! the snail!

The Buddhist Light Associaion of Brunei selected me to attend the Buddhism Teaching Workshop in Taiwan!! Hip Hip Hooray!! The 1 week Workshop will be held in Taiwan, and we will be taught how to teach the Children on Buddhism in Orphans Homes and of cos at the Temples. Only 3 people will be selected from each country or State, and I’m one of the 3 from Brunei.

Why why why? why god treated me so nice? why am i selected? or maybe they saw the way i taught in several children classes and they think i should go for a course to improve it? mmm…

anyway, It’s really very rewarding! for the chance given, i will make sure i do my best in the course and contribute myself to the children of Brunei. 😀

P/s i think my boss gonna sweat kao kao for taking leave again 😛 

Fyi, due to lack of fund, i have to pay for my airticket, and the rest will be fully sponsored.

 

 

 

*clap clap clap * Children, please wait for me!!

*clap clap clap * Children, please wait for me!!

 

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Just wanna crack you up 🙂

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