Monthly Archives: February 2025

Mind Blowing, Healing, Life Changing Love

This is the heart of my memoir I have been putting together.                                                         

My story is about discovering Jesus, who is the Love of God fleshed out for us. It’s about how Jesus and God have shown up for me like the calvary in Westerns. And how their love for me is not because of me, but because that’s what God is, Love.  It’s a Love with no small print and it’s for everyone, no exceptions.                                                                             I did not deserve God’s love. In fact, I didn’t believe in God and thought Jesus sounded like a kind but delusional man. I still don’t deserve God’s Love, because Love is not something we can earn. Period. So quit trying. Just accept it. Then absolutely float in it until you absorb it. Because it can heal you, teach and change you, and use you to give others a taste of the kingdom of the Love of God.                                              One of my responses to my experience of the Love of God fleshed out in Jesus was to sing “Jesus loves me” unabashedly like a child. And I wanted to tell everyone I met, “Jesus loves us, both you and me. No matter who we are or how broken we are, we are known from the inside out and loved anyway. And we are all children to God. We think we know so much, but in the big scheme of things, we haven’t got a clue. Not even is we’re the greatest scientist ever known or have learned all the Scriptures by heart. We still would not have a clue.

But as we encounter that tender love in the blessings and coincidences in our lives, we can begin to take time to quietly savor that love and let its gentle touch heal our wounds and free us to forgive ourselves and then to celebrate that forgiveness by letting it flow out to others.

When the hard times come to stretch us and we wonder where the loving God of Jesus is, the challenge becomes to persevere through our doubts and fears, not to deny them, but to wait for glimpses of God’s Love even in them. Which brings the grace to grow even closer to God in our suffering. Along the journey we will begin to feel loved enough to recognize parts of ourselves that we haven’t faced. And as we open to God’s Love even in our shame, those parts are healed and we become free of their control. Sometimes we have experiences of God’s slightly warped sense of humor and discover how humility frees us. This is all about the difference between secondhand religion and a relationship.

Is This the Key to Ending Chronic Unemployment?

Second chances transform lives and raise the potential of the entire U.S. workforce.

What if we could revive the American Dream for 1.5 million Americans? 

What if we removed employment barriers — like past incarceration, addiction, and homelessness — and opened jobs to people often passed over

These changemakers believe that including individuals traditionally excluded from the workforce can transform lives and benefit companies by tapping into untapped talent and addressing the labor shortage in the United States.

“If every American business decides to hire one person that not only wanted a job but really needed it, I’m telling you, we can make the most massive difference in this country,” said Rob Perez, cofounder of DV8 Kitchen, which provides employment opportunities to people in recovery for substance use disorder.

Perez and other changemakers are charting a course that could restore hope for millions and raise the potential of the entire American workforce. 

A pipeline from prison to Silicon Valley

In the U.S. technology sector alone, nearly 500,000 jobs remain unfilled. Meanwhile, more than 600,000 people exit the criminal justice system each year. Many want to work but struggle to find jobs because of misconceptions, fears, arbitrary degree requirements, and lack of skills or experience. 

Enter The Last Mile, a nonprofit working to close this gap in Silicon Valley. 

TLM offers personal development and technology training, including coding boot camps inside prison walls. Upon reentering their communities — as up to 95% of incarcerated individuals will — TLM participants have the skills, experience, and confidence to get a good job and start their new life on a solid track. 

“To be honest with you, Silicon Valley is probably the ideal place for us to start this because Silicon Valley is all about failure, dusting yourself off, starting over again,” said Chris Redlitz, cofounder of TLM. 

So far, TLM has trained more than 1,200 people across eight states. The program boasts an impressive 75% employment rate, with many landing jobs at major tech companies like SlackZoom, and Checkr

It also stops the revolving prison door dead in its tracks. 

Statistically, 61% of individuals released from incarceration eventually end up back in prison. But for graduates of The Last Mile, that number drops to 4%.

The power of jobs for those in recovery

In the United States, 48.7 million people struggle with addiction. Rob and Diane Perez have witnessed its devastating impact firsthand in the restaurant industry, where it runs rampant. Over the course of 10 years in the business, they lost 13 employees to addiction-related deaths.

“One of our employees in particular went through rehab, and as soon as she started back in the restaurant, she was shooting up again,” said Diane Perez. “That really made me go, ‘Wow, we gotta do something different.’”

In response, the couple founded DV8 Kitchen, a workplace designed to support individuals in recovery, helping them stay employed and preventing them from falling through the cracks.

At DV8, employees not only serve up delicious food but also support one another through biweekly workshops focused on life skills and fostering a positive work environment for those in recovery. They hold each other accountable every step of the way.

“Our culture seems to be, ‘I’ve got to hide this,’ and it’s not working for us,” Rob Perez said. “So we pull 100% of our workforce from people that are in recovery. Instead of hiding everything that you’ve done in your past, we talk about it. We’re conscious of people that have trauma.” 

The model is proving successful. DV8 employees are realizing their potential and staying clean. Diane Perez noted that it’s even improving DV8’s business. 

“Our quest is to take every single customer and turn them into a believer in second-chance work environments,” Rob Perez said. “We just need to give them a chance.” 

Jobs for people other employers won’t touch 

“Why don’t they just get a job?” It’s a question many ask about people experiencing homelessness.

But getting a job when you don’t have a home is harder than it seems. Many employers won’t even consider hiring someone without a permanent address — not to mention challenges like transportation, banking, and proper work attire. 

First Step Staffing breaks down these barriers and helps people get to work right away. It starts by identifying the individual needs of each person and connecting them with resources so they can start working in 72 hours or less. 

“We have a line out the door every single day,” said CEO Amelia Nickerson. “They’re interested in working and want to work. When they have three successful months, and they’re getting recognized by a supervisor, they’re seeing just how much potential they truly have, and it’s limitless.” 

It’s a win for businesses, too, as they now have access to a formerly untapped workforce. 

“We’re on a path to try and employ 20,000 people a year because our employer partners see the value in the individual, see potential where they used to see a problem,” Nickerson said. “Because we have a highly motivated and a highly supported workforce showing up for them so that their businesses can be successful.”

“At the end of the day,” she noted, “we’ve just left too many people in our communities caught in a vicious cycle of unemployment and poverty. The job really does provide that permanent pathway to exit that cycle.”

An increasing number of employers are recognizing the possibilities in this overlooked population. They’re finding a wealth of drive and untapped potential. As opportunities grow to harness these qualities fully, the possibilities are endless.

The Last MileFirst Step Staffing, and DV8 are supported by Stand Together Foundation, which partners with the nation’s most transformative nonprofits to break the cycle of poverty.

Learn more about Stand Together’s efforts to transform the future of work, and explore ways you can partner with us.

Prophets

by Richard Rohr with commentary by Eileen Norman

Prophets by Richard Rohr
Like most of us, the prophets started not only with judgmentalism and anger but also with a superiority complex of placing themselves above others. Then, they move from that anger and judgmentalism to a reordered awareness in which they become more like God: more patient like God, more forgiving like God, more loving like God.  
There was a deep need, then and now, for someone who would call the people to return to God and to justice. Someone who would warn them, critique them, and reveal God’s heart to them. We call them prophets, and every religion needs them.  

There are plenty of prophets among us now in every church and society, and it is vitally important that we listen to them, support them, and protect them. Often, they are not formally aligned with religion, yet they are deeply influenced by its deepest values. 

Eileen

I like this, but I think the prophets become more loving by understanding why people struggle with their message, that it is from fear.  I think the prophets knew the love of God, because they often had a firsthand experience of it. And only then were they freed to be humble, to recognize and admit that they too had limited understanding. Some people value the past, others live in the present moment, some are focused on the visible concrete world, others on people around them, and a few focus on possibilities both positive and negative in the future.  All of these ways of being in the world are gifts from God and we didn’t get a vote.

We need ALL those gifts. The problem is twofold: we don’t understand that, and we react in fear of the differences. And fear leads to a struggle for power over the other ways of seeing and being in the world. 

The gifts were made for balance, for learning from the past, for celebrating the present, for making the physical world work for all of us, for valuing all God’s human children, and for recognizing new possibilities both positive and negative of the future.

Somehow, soon, we must begin to value all the gifts of God and find a way to make them work together for the good of ALL. To stop pushing each other to extremes and taking turns using our power in ways that unbalance life on earth. It’s fast becoming a matter of survival of our planet and all that is on it, including ALL of us.

I Apologize by Old and Blessed

If you’re reading this two-hundred years from now and the globe is simmering from sauna-like heat and humidity, I apologize.                                                                                                   If crops are facing challenges never seen in human history, I apologize.                                                     If the oceans are slowly meandering to the back yards of coastal homes, I apologize.                           If it’s difficult to plan outdoor activities because you’ve no idea what the weather is going to be like from one minute to the next, I apologize.                                                                               If you live in a world where death rates are elevated no matter the advancements in medical technology, I apologize.                                                                                                                  If the gap between the haves and the have-nots has widened instead of contracting, I apologize.                                                                                                                                                                 If history tells you that we were aware of what we should have done to give you a better inheritance, but we were too busy chasing money and too afraid of being woke, I apologize.                                                                                                                                                        My prayer is that you can fix the mess we gave you and that you will finally take the lessons history offered and make a better world.                                                                                              If you choose not to accept my apologies, I understand.                                                                         I wish you Godspeed!                                                                                                                                          I’m old and blessed…hope you

Is Our Suffering Redemptive for Others?

To me the root of sin is fear.  We dull fear with pleasure and we try to fight it with power. And human power is an illusion…..as Adam and Eve found out. A tiny, microscopic germ can wipe us out. The question of why the good suffer is confusing. Perhaps accepting suffering and trusting the grace of God to get us through it is somehow redemptive not just for us, but possibly for those that don’t get it together with God until the last minute or even until they see God. This may be wishful thinking on my part because of being the matriarch of five generations, some of whom don’t seem to be getting it together with or without God in a world that is increasingly scary.  Perhaps our suffering somehow helps those we love unconditionally. Perhaps like Jesus, we can say, “Father, forgive them. They know not what they do.” If we who are imperfect can hurt for them and forgive, surely a God who is Love does.

Civil Dialogue, the Key to Empathy

Empathy is tricky.  It’s different from caring.  We can care about people without a clue as to what is going on inside them.  And it’s easier to have empathy for people who are like us, who respond the way we do to things or ideas or people and who share our culture and language. Extreme differences can make us ill at ease around others. The differences can be in looks, color, age, mental or physical ability, nationality, economic, cultural or even religious.

My mother grew up in the early 1900’s in Mississippi. There were only a few Catholics there and they Polish immigrants who all lived in one neighborhood.  As a child she believed the nuns she saw when passing their school on a bus wore headdresses because they had horns.

Though some people are more interested and curious than afraid of differences, most are not. And negative experiences with a person different from us can make us nervous around all others like them.

Empathy comes easier with people who are most like us. Without time spent in intentional dialogue with those different from us, it is impossible to understand them enough to trust them or work together.

At this time in our own nation, we have become drastically alienated from people who only differ in their politics. And communication across that ravine has become almost impossible.  So even with all our similarities it is impossible to have empathy for one another.

Without goodwill civil dialogue is impossible. Our language, our demeanor, our tone, misinformation, projections from our painful experiences build walls of fear and anger. We are like wounded porcupines unable to kiss and make up.

Both sides have lost perspective on what damage this is doing to America. Violence is becoming more and more common and even acceptable. Nobody wins in a civil war. More Americans were killed in our civil war than in all our other wars. We don’t see that if we don’t learn to work together for the good of all, we will self-destruct as a Nation. Get rid mental and verbal barbed wire and reach out.

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