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Our Time of Exile
Richard Rohr
Beside the streams of Babylon, we sat and wept.
—Psalm 137:1
Father Richard Rohr reflects on the fear, violence, and oppression that empires and nation-states continue to create, challenging us to respond:
Few would deny that there’s a palpable and growing fear and anger in our country. This fear is felt deeply by those who are most vulnerable. As a follower of both Jesus and Saint Francis of Assisi, my primary moral viewpoint is not centered on the wellbeing of those who are on top, but first in those who are at the bottom. For the vulnerable who have now been rendered more vulnerable, I lament and pray and promise to stand with you.
A time of national introspection must begin with self-introspection. Without our own inner searching, any of our quests for solutions and policy fixes will be based in shifting sands.
I suspect that we get the leaders who mirror what we have become as a nation. They are our shadow self for all to see. That is what the Hebrew prophets told Israel both before and during their painful and long exile (596–538 BCE).
Yet the Exile was the very time when the ancient Jewish people went deep and discovered their prophetic voices—Isaiah, Jeremiah, and others—speaking truth to power, calling for justice from their own political and religious leaders. Their experience laid the solid foundation for Jesus’s teaching and his solidarity with the poor and the outcast.
Maybe some of us have naively thought that we could or should place our loyalty in one political agenda or party. Remember, Yahweh told the people of Israel that they should never put their trust in “princes, horses, or chariots” (Psalms 20:7, 33:16–17), but only in the love of God. We must not imagine that political changes of themselves will ever bring about the goodness, charity, or transformation that the gospel offers the world.
We must not be afraid to allow conventional wisdom to fail and disappoint us. This is often the only path to wisdom. Imperial thinking focuses on judging who is worthy and who is unworthy, who is in and who is out. We who know about universal belonging and identity in God have a different form of power: Love (even of enemies) is our habitat, not the “powers and principalities,” the kingdoms of this world.
The present disorder is our time of exile and has solidified in us an urgent commitment to our work of action and contemplation. It seems needed more than ever before! Grounding social action in contemplative consciousness is not a luxury for a few, but surely a cultural necessity. Both the Christian religion and the American psyche need deep healing, and I do not say that lightly.
Only a contemplative mind can hold our fear, confusion, vulnerability, and anger and guide us toward love. Those who allow themselves to be challenged and changed will be the new cultural creative voices of the next period of history after this purifying exile.
Exile from the Country We Love Can Happen While We Are Still Living in It
Old Testament scholar Walter Brueggemann describes how praying with the Psalms can be an act of solidarity with our universal humanity:
The Psalms, with few exceptions, are not the voice of God addressing us. They are rather the voice of our own common humanity—gathered over a long period of time, but a voice that continues to have amazing authenticity and contemporaneity. It speaks about life the way it really is, for in those deeply human dimensions the same issues and possibilities persist. And so when we turn to the Psalms it means we enter into the midst of that voice of humanity and decide to take our stand with that voice. We are prepared to speak among them and with them and for them, to express our solidarity with this anguished, joyous human pilgrimage. We add a voice to the common elation, shared grief, and communal rage that besets uss. us all…. When we do, we shall find that the words of Scripture bring power, shape, and authority to what we know about ourselves. [1]
Exiled from Cuba, theologian Ada María Isasi-Díaz (1943–2012) found solace in Psalm 137:
When I first read Psalm 137, I remember resonating with most of what the psalm says; I remember feeling it could appropriately voice the pain I was experiencing being away from my country against my will. After the Cuban missile crisis in 1962 I realized that my absence from Cuba was to a be a long one. Shortly after there came a day when my visa status changed from “tourist”: I became a refugee. Psalm 137 became my refuge: “By the rivers of Babylon we sat and we wept when we remembered Jerusalem” (137:1).
I recall vividly the day I dared to mention to a friend how much I identified with Psalm 137. Jokingly she answered me, “Are you going to hang your guitar from a tree?”… They were incapable of understanding the sorrow of being away from la tierra que mi vió nacer (the land that witnessed my birth). At times, my friends would ask me to talk about Cuba. Those around me could not figure out why I, who love to sing, always seemed reticent about singing “Guantamanera,” the song that uses for its verses poems from the father of my country, José Martí. One of them says,
Yo quiero cuando me muera
Sin patria pero sin amo
Tener en mi tumba
Un ramo de flores
Y una bandera.
I want when I die
without country but without master,
to have on my tomb
a bouquet of flowers
and a flag.
So I kept saying to myself, “How can we sing Yahweh’s song in a foreign land?” (137:4) [2]
Brueggemann concludes:
The psalms are not used in a vacuum, but in a history where we are dying and rising, and in a history where God is at work, ending our lives and making gracious new beginnings for us. The Psalms move with our experience. They may also take us beyond our own guarded experience into the more poignant pilgrimages of our sisters and brothers. [3]
An Illusion of Separateness
Father Richard Rohr explores a broad definition of the word “sin”:
The great illusion we must all overcome is the illusion of separateness. It’s almost the only task of religion—to communicate not worthiness, but union; to reconnect us to our original identity “hidden with Christ in God” (Colossians 3:3). The Bible calls that state of separateness “sin,” and its total undoing is stated frequently as God’s clear job description: “My dear people, we are already the children of God; it is only what is in the future that has not yet been revealed, and then all we know is that we shall be like him” (1 John 3:2).
The word sin has so many unhelpful connotations in most of our minds that it’s very problematic today. For most of us, it does not connote a state of alienation or separateness. Instead, it connotes naughty behavior and personal moral unworthiness. But these are merely symptoms and not the state itself! Disconnected people will do stupid and harmful things. Instead, the core and foundational meaning of sin is any life lived autonomous and outside “the garden of Eden.” We cannot ever become perfect or “worthy,” but we can become reconnected to our Source.
Sin primarily describes a state of fragmentation—when the part thinks it’s separate from the Whole. It’s the loss of any inner experience of who we are in God. That “who” is nothing we can earn or obtain. It’s nothing we can accomplish or work up to. Why? Because we already have it.
The biblical revelation is about awakening, not accomplishing. It’s about realization and not performance principles. We cannot get there; we can only be there, but that foundational Being-in-God, for some reason, is too hard to believe and too good to be true. Only the humble can receive it, because it affirms more about God than it does about us.
The ego, however, makes it all about achievement and attainment. At that point, religion becomes a worthiness contest in which everybody loses—which they realize, if they’re honest. Many people give up on the whole spiritual journey when they see that they can’t live up to the performance principle. They don’t want to live as hypocrites.
Yet union with God is really about awareness and realignment, a Copernican revolution of the mind and heart that is sometimes called conversion. (Copernicus, of course, was the first to claim that the world revolves around the sun, not vice versa—a truly shocking revelation in the 16th century!) Following conversion, that deep and wondrous inner knowing, a whole new set of behaviors and lifestyle will surely emerge. It is not that if I am moral, then I will be loved by God; rather, I must first come to experience God’s love and then I will—almost naturally—be moral.
Seeing the Oneness of Everything and Everyone
Christ in All Things by Richard Rohr and others.
Sunday
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.… All things came to be through him, and without him nothing came to be.
—John 1:1, 3
Monday
Discovering Christ as the transcendent within of every “thing” in the universe can transform the way we perceive and the way we live in our everyday world.
—Richard Rohr
Tuesday
God’s word to humanity is not primarily the word spoken in a book, in sacred literature, but it is a word that is incarnate, not only as a human being, but present as an element in all beings, in all created reality.
—Ursula King
Wednesday
On Christmas Eve, we celebrate a new beginning. We welcome the dawning of a new light.
—Brian McLaren
Thursday
Christmas became the great celebratory feast of Christians because it basically says that it’s good to be human, it’s good to be on this Earth, it’s good to have a body, it’s good to have emotions. We don’t need to be ashamed of any of it!
—Richard RohrFriday
Christ is more than Jesus. Christ is the communion of divine personal love expressed in every created form of reality.
—Ilia Delio
Through Memories
I remember you in memories of running in the rain, of funny children’s stories, and haunted Halloweens. Of how you learned to hold me and simply let me cry, listening to my many fears to heal me of my fright. Of you overcoming phobias so I wouldn’t be alone while camping in the woods or giving talks on Type. Nightmare trips in broken cars and cabins full of scouts, houses filled with strangers and jeep rides in the night. Letters shared in parking lots and rooms filled with flowers, the kaleidoscope of memories that keeps our love alive.
Eileen 2000
Thomas our Twin
Welcome, children of God. And that is what every single soul that ever was or will be is…a beloved child of God.
Welcome, Doubting Thomases, whose logic troubles our faith. And that is also every single one of us.
C.S. Lewis wrote: “We are not necessarily doubting that God will do the best for us. We are wondering how painful the best will turn out to be.”
Did you ever notice that the apostle Thomas is called Thomas the twin. But his twin is never mentioned or named. That’s because his twin is in us, whether he is in our conscious or unconscious and whether we admit it or not.
Actually, this is good news, because that logical twin can help us keep from turning faith into superstition. And also, when we do experience or witness miracles, it helps us avoid the delusion that this life is supposed to be heaven and miracles will save us from all suffering.
The apostle Thomas’s logical mind not only paid attention to the miracles he witnessed, but unlike Peter, Thomas also accepted what Jesus said about the suffering ahead. So, when Jesus announced that he was going to Jerusalem, Thomas realized that this was not going to end well. But, Thomas responded, “Jesus, if you are going, I am coming with you.”
That, brothers and sisters, is love.
There are faith, hope, and love. And the greatest of these is love.
Questions for Christians
What is the difference between “saved” and “loved?”
Does being saved mean being finished?
Is the Bible the primary Word of God or is Jesus the Word of God fleshed out for us?
Was Jesus making choices to love more and more people other than his own religion and nationality, even the Roman enemy, and ultimately even his fellow Jews who had him killed, a major part of being the Word of God?
Is the WAY of Jesus’ life and willingness to love even those that killed him supposed to be the WAY of Christian’s lives?
Did Jesus love unconditionally fleshing out the unconditional loved of God for us?
Do we love unconditionally?
What is the difference between need and love?
Could our life journey from the neediness of a baby be a process of becoming able to love unconditionally?
Does loving our neighbor mean only loving others whom we know and who are like us?
Does loving Jesus mean we get to be rich? What did Jesus say about the rich man?
Are our heroes rich? Are they kind? Are they like Jesus?
Is our Spiritual journey more that just following a set of ten rules that allow us to survive as humans living together?
In fact, are the Beatitudes the challenges that Jesus gave us for our adult Spiritual journey to loving both ourselves and others unconditionally, because Jesus fleshed out the unconditional love of God for all?
Do you love all your children even when they don’t live up to your expectations and even hurt and abandon you?
Does God?
Richard Rohr’s Daily Meditations
Week Thirty-Eight: Seeing Through the Eyes of Love
Monday, September 15, 2025


A Choice for Love
My children, I will be with you only a little while longer. I’m giving you a new commandment so you’ll know where I am, and who I am: You must love one another.
—John 13:33–35, paraphrased by Richard Rohr
Father Richard Rohr speaks on Jesus’ command to love one another in John’s Gospel:
Sister and brothers, the energy with which we do things matters. To be in love is to be standing in a different space. Love is not only what we do; it’s how we do it. When we stand in the state of love that Jesus offers, we live inside of a different energy. For those moments, we’re not entirely self-preoccupied. We try to care for the world. We’re able to say, “I have one life and when I leave here, I want to make sure this world is a little better because I was here.” What might happen if we woke up each day with this intention: “How can my existence on this earth increase the quality of life on this planet?”
Jesus says, “I’ll be with you only a little while longer, so I’m going to leave a sign that I’m still here. I’m going to reveal myself in the presence of loving people” (John 13:33–35, Richard’s paraphrase). That’s the only way anyone can know God. If we’ve never let anyone love us, and if we’ve never let love flow through us—gratuitously, generously, undeservedly—toward others, then we can’t possibly know who God is. God is just a theory or abstraction. If “God is love” (1 John 4:8) then those who live in love, live in God, and know God experientially. There’s no other way we can know who God is—or who we truly are—but to love and be loved. Take that as an absolute!
Love is not something we decide to do now and then. Love is who we are! Our basic, foundational existence—created in the image of the Trinity—is love. Remember, Trinity is saying that God is not an isolated divine being. God is a quality of relationship itself, an event of communion, an infinite flow of outpouring. God is an action more than a substance, to put it succinctly.
Love, like forgiveness, is a decision. It’s a decision in our minds and in our hearts. And we’d better make it early in the day, because once we’re a few hours into low-level resentment, anger, or disappointment, it’s too late. When we’re not choosing love, we’ll use any excuse to be unhappy or irritated. We’re already unhappy, and then something gives us an excuse to externalize it. The exact object for our unhappiness is actually arbitrary. Unhappiness just needs an object—as do happiness and love. We have to recognize ahead of time when we’re not living in love. This is surely why a morning prayer or practice is so important—to allow us to choose to love each and every day.
Old Age: Walking Humbly with our God
Old age is for walking humbly with our God. It’s when our worldly strengths betray us, and each day brings losses of family, friends, personal strengths, and sometimes even memories.
Often, like Jesus on His cross, we feel abandoned even by God and are called to trust in the emptiness of our loneliness.
It’s the last part of the spiritual journey. It takes clinging to the tiny signs of grace, like a beautiful butterfly outside our window or a smile from a baby in the grocery store. Thank God, we haven’t become invisible to babies. Our biggest challenge each day is getting up to face it. Our gift for each other now is shared laughter at something embarrassing that’s peculiar to age. Shared laughter, particularly at ourselves, is the saving grace of old age. At eighty-eight, I get to laugh a lot even when alone each day, at my comedy of errors.
My favorite LOL (Little Old Lady) story is of the elderly woman with Alzheimer’s in the nursing home when an aide was helping her get into her nightgown. She turned to the aide and said, “What is my name? I can’t remember it.” Before the aide could respond, she said, “Never mind,” pointing to a painting of Jesus on the wall. “He knows my name. That’s all that matters.”