breathe, lewd station, milota, rama salon, second life, top1salon

Don’t Try To Fix Me

Happy February, everyone! I hope January was a good one for all of you. It felt about 7 months long, but hey, we made it through!

There are a lot of really great events going on right now, so we’re going to keep this short! If you haven’t been out to Lewd Station yet, it’s time to go! It is probably the naughtiest event I have everrrr been to, but that just makes it fun!!

Don't Try To Fix Me

Featured Items:

Dress: Votum Cinchette by Milota
Boots: Kat by Breathe
Hair: Lumi by Rama Salon
Eyeshadow: Cry Baby by Top1Salon
All found at Lewd Station

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: Reborn by eBody
Skin: Astrid by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
* Arm Shadow Fix V2
Eyebrows: Peach by WarPaint
Backdrop: Downstairs by Blaink



breathe, fameshed, second life, tres blah

I’ll Keep A Light On In My Soul

I’ve never really been a winter girl. To me, winter can start on December 1st and then January 1st should start “slightly cold spring.” And by the time I get to February, I’m ready for actual spring.

Luckily, I can have spring and summer all of the time in SL. I used to always have my region changed for the seasons. I even thought about doing that again this winter, but I’m so glad I chose not to. It would have been a lot of work for just one month! Although, I am getting the urge to redecorate again… Maybe. Possibly. We’ll see where it goes. To be honest, I’ve been incredibly uncreative lately because of my mood. I think if I started redecorating, it would just look crazy. So maybe I’ll leave it for now and just shop for things that I might like to put out at some point. Shopping is usually the answer!

Fameshed is open for the month and it’s really SUCH a good round!

I'll Keep A Light On In My Soul

Featured Items – All from Fameshed:

Top: Viola Bolero by Tres Blah
Dress: Viola by Tres Blah
Boots: Austin by Breathe

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: Lara X Petite by Maitreya
Skin: Liv by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
Hair: Ceres by Truth
Pose and Prop: Versions Of April – Spring Chicken by Le Poppycock



anthem, second life, sorumin, Uncategorized

What You Give Is What You Get Returned

So my friend Gogo doesn’t like it when people just do lyrics and a photo for their blog, but I’m basically just doing that today. Sorry, Gogo! I don’t have a ton to say and this month has been 17 years long, so I’m not exactly chatty. I was listening to this song last night from my early 2000s playlist and this part kind of got to me because even though the song came out in 1999, it feels very current to 2025 for some reason.

Also, Anthem is starting on the 3rd, so get ready!!

I believe you can’t control or choose your sexuality
I believe that trust is more important than monogamy
I believe that your most attractive features are your heart and soul
I believe that family is worth more than money or gold
I believe the struggle for financial freedom isn’t fair
I believe the only ones who disagree are millionaires

I believe in Karma, what you give is what you get returned
I believe you can’t appreciate real love until you’ve been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don’t know what you’ve got until you say goodbye

What You Give Is What You Get Returned

Featured Item:

Shirt: Twinkle Heart by Sorumin [Anthem]

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: Lara X by Maitreya
Skin: Liv by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
Red Lipstick by Izzie’s [The Fifty]
Hair: Thais by Kuni
Skirt: Ava Pleated Skirt by Tres Blah
Boots: Kosumi by Breathe
Glasses: Neo Icon Sunglasses by Studio Exposure
Earrings: Yasmin by e.marie
Pose: Chill by Foxcity



breathe, chez moi, collabor88, guapa, hive, izzie's, LeLutka, Maitreya, minimal, roslyn, second life, truth collective

These Are The Simple Things

I hope everyone is staying safe and healthy in what has GOT to be one of the worst “First week of the year” weeks I have ever seen. I had covid! It FINALLY got me. It’s my first time, and to give covid its credit, it was gentle. Or at least, gentle enough. I’m still coughing my brains out and my voice is utterly awful, but it gets a little better day by day. It would probably be better if I had time to just lay down and rest, but that’s not my life these days, so what can you do?

I will say, though, that being sick like this has given me a chance to appreciate simple things. Like being able to breathe out of both nostrils, and smelling things, and being able to taste things. I rely on my sense of smell SO much. Much more than I thought. And not being able to smell the world was honestly giving me anxiety. But I can smell things again, and I know that one day, food will taste good again. So we wait.

But while I’m waiting, I went to Collabor88 and ooh it is SO good! You should go, too!

These Are The Simple Things

Featured Items – All from Collabor88:

Sweater and Skirt: Blanche by Roslyn
Boots and Socks: Reona by Breathe
Chairs, Table, Decor – Tashi Cafe Set by Chez Moi
Nature Wall 3 by Minimal

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: Lara X by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Katiana by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Cupid’s Bow Fix
* Heart Mole
* Chin Dimple
Hair: Pendulum by Truth Collective
Picture Perfect Phone by Hive



Anthology, breathe, fameshed, guapa, legna, LeLutka, magika, Maitreya, piXit, red girl, ricielli, second life, tropix

Wish You Could Be Like Me

Happy New Year, friends! I hope all of you made it through the holidays happy and healthy! Or, I just hope you made it through. 😅

I was thinking earlier that maybe I’ll try a new style of fashion in 2025. But then I thought, why? I like my style. That doesn’t mean I can’t try out different things, of course. But after a lifetime of not really feeling like I had a set style that was all my own, I feel like I do now. And that’s actually pretty cool.

Wish You Could Be Like Me

Featured Items:

Jacket: Emm by Red Girl [Anthology]
Pose: Angelica by piXit [Anthology]
Shoes: Sayuki by Breathe [Fameshed]

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: Lara X by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Katiana by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Cupid’s Bow Fix
* Heart Mole
* Chin Dimple
Hair: Artisan by Magika
Shorts: Laure by Ricielli [Fameshed]
Number Balloons: Gigi Balloons by Legna [Anthology]
Backdrop: Station 25 by Tropix



black bantam, breathe, collabor88, dollholic, guapa, izzie's, LeLutka, Maitreya, poison rouge, second life, sintiklia

That’s The Moment I Shine

Many many years ago, I used to host an annual “New Year’s Eve Eve” party in SL. I started in 2009 and kept it going until 2017. It was always a lot of fun. I don’t have ANY plans of hosting a party any time soon, but I do miss them on occasion. It was always so fun to get all dressed up and see people that I may not have seen since the last one. I don’t really get dressed up and go to parties anymore. Not that I couldn’t. I just… don’t. Maybe that will be one of the things I do in the upcoming year.

This year was a terrible year for me in so many ways, but I think I will definitely take some good from it, too. I came back to SL. I restarted my blog. I started truly working on my mental health. My mom is finally in a place where she is cared for and I don’t have to worry so hard. They’re not huge things in the grand scheme of life, but they are huge for me. And maybe in the upcoming year, I can add more to that and find my way back to even more things that I have loved, like doing YouTube videos for myself and streaming more on Twitch. I don’t really do resolutions. I have aspirations.

Have a wonderful new year, and please be safe if you’re going out on New Year’s Eve! I’d like to start the year with all of you. 💜

That's The Moment I Shine Featured Items – All at Collabor88:

Hair: Blair by Sintiklia
Dress: Amore by Poison Rouge
Lipstick Holdable/Decor: Holiday Lipstick Set by Black Bantam

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: Lara X by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Katiana by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Cupid’s Bow Fix
* Heart Mole
* Chin Dimple
Shoes: Rito Heels by Breathe [Dollholic]



breathe, collabor88, equal10, ersch, foxcity, guapa, izzie's, LeLutka, magika, Maitreya, paleto, second life, stardust, tentacio, what next

I Didn’t Know I’d Need My Coat

I’ll be honest with you all. I don’t know how to dress for the weather in the winter. I am a Texas girl, and our winters are almost always fairly mild. But our weather really can go from freezing at 6am to 75 degrees by noon. I typically just put something on and hope for the best. Some days, I’m dying of heatstroke because I chose to wear a sweater over a long sleeved tee. Other days, I’m freezing because I figured a dress and sandals would be good. Over the years, it’s made me very much a weather nerd and I check the weather constantly. But still, no matter how much I check, I’m almost always dressed not quite right for whatever the temperature is. Oh well. I always look cute, and that really is the most important part.

If you haven’t been out to Collabor88 yet, it’s time to shop!

I Didn't Know I'd Need My Coat

Featured Items:

Dress: Eirwen by Ersch [Collabor88]
Shoes/Socks: Miana by Breathe [Collabor88]
Hand Props: Winter Holy by Tentacio [Collabor88]
Bauble Tower by What Next
Backdrop: Village by Paleto [Equal10]

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: Lara X Petite by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Katiana by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Cupid’s Bow Fix
* Heart Mole
* Chin Dimple
Leg Tattoo: Alice by Stardust
Hair: Midnight by Magika
Pose: Bebe by Foxcity



atomic, breathe, coldlogic, earthstones, glam affair, IDK Fair, izzie's, jcny, kalopsia, kirsten corleone, livalle, ma vie, magika, pose fair 2015, SLink, Truth, wayward hunt

Girl, You Got To Change Your Crazy Ways

Back in the 90s when Aerosmith released the “Crazy” video, I fell in LOVE with it. And I wanted a cool friend to run away with in my awesome 90s clothes. Coldlogic is bringing us a bit of 90s realness with their latest release, so I grabbed one of my cool friends for a pic!

Style - Girl, You Got To Change Your Crazy Ways

Kirsten and I are both wearing the new Esper dresses from Coldlogic. These are cute spring dresses and they come with plaid shirts that tie around the waist. They come in different colors, and have standard sizes and mesh fitted for the Slink Physique body.

We’re also wearing the new Nymph lace up boots from Livalle that are out at the IDK Fair this month. The boots come in several colors and have several sizes for different bodies and avatars. But they are rigged, so keep that in mind.

Thanks for blogging with me, Kirsten!

In This Post:

Skin: Grazia by Glam Affair
Hair: Cameo by Truth
Physique body, mesh hands by Slink
Outfit: Esper by coldLogic
Boots: Nymph Lace Up by Livalle [IDK Fair]
Leather & Beads Watch Bracelet by Izzie’s [Wayward Hunt]
Soothe Bracelet by Breathe [Wayward Hunt]

On Kirsten:

Skin: Amberly II by Glam Affair
Hair: Surprise by Magika
Physique body, mesh hands by Slink
Outfit: Esper by coldLogic
Boots: Nymph Lace Up by Livalle [IDK Fair]
Slouchy Knee Socks by Atomic
Ring: Forever by JCNY
Tarnished Gypsy Bangles by Earthstones

Pose: Strength by Ma Vie [Pose Fair 2015]
Dolce Vita Scooter by Kalopsia