anypose, avaway, foxcity, guapa, izzie's, kustom9, LeLutka, Maitreya, movement, second life, sorumin, the bearded guy, truth collective

This Kind Of Love Is Getting Expensive

Steel Magnolias is one of my favorite movies. I think it has so many quotable moments. But there is one quote that I think about a lot recently. “The only thing that separates us from the animals is our ability to accessorize.”

I was never quite an accessories person. I appreciate people who are. I love seeing people with lots of jewelry and hair ribbons and purses and other random things. I know that the difference between just wearing clothes and styling an outfit pretty much lies in the accessories. But for most of my life (well, lives) I just wear clothes. But recently in SL, I’ve gotten a lot more interested in accessories. If I’m going out shopping, I like holding a purse or a cup. I’m trying to buy more jewelry, although I do wear the same stuff often simply because I forget to take it off. I don’t want to just wear clothes. I want to lean into truly developing my style.

This Kind Of Love Is Getting Expensive

Featured Items:

Cardigan and Skirt – Student Girl by Sorumin [Kustom9]
Hair: Intuition by Truth Collective
Unique Handbag, Espresso Drink & Accessory by Movement

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Julianna by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
Necklace: Love by AvaWay
Rings: Alice by Vibing
Earrings: Kaylee by Vibing
Pose: Influencer by Foxcity [Modded slightly with Anypose]
Backdrop: The Campus by The Bearded Guy



anypose, chicchica, foxcity, guapa, izzie's, LeLutka, Maitreya, second life, the bearded guy, the kiwi co, Truth, vibing, warpaint

I Should Probably Get Some Help For All The Things I Ignore

This week has felt like it’s already been 12 days long. And it’s only Tuesday!! But one good thing from this week is the new release from The Kiwi Co! I’m in love with it. There are already SO many beautiful photos of the outfit, which I expected. But sometimes you have to keep it a little real and today? I feel like a mess. 😅 But my outfit is bomb, so you know. You take the good with the bad.

I Should Probably Get Some Help For All The Things I Ignore

Featured Items:

Top, Mini Skirt, Shoes – End Game by The Kiwi Co.

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Julianna by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
* Makeup Tears
* Smeared Lipstick (Hangover Face)
Tattoo (Arms): Twilight Garden by WarPaint
Hair: Lullaby by Truth
Wine Glass – Cherry Wine by ChicChica
Rings: Alice by Vibing
Pose: Nightly by Foxcity [Modded slightly with Anypose]
Backdrop: Party Was Here by The Bearded Guy



Anthology, anypose, guapa, izzie's, LeLutka, Maitreya, onyx, second life, the bearded guy, the kiwi co, Truth, warpaint

I Have Always Been A Storm

When I was a child, one year we had a pretty bad tornado season. Tornadoes in the spring and sometimes fall are not uncommon here. Nothing ever happened to us because my mom said we were protected. (Although that never stopped her from tossing me in a closet with a flashlight and a bottle of water during a tornado warning. Even when I was 18.) But that particular year, I always remember because a tornado had blown through late in the evening and my parents had the news on. They were showing a neighborhood that had gotten struck. It was a fairly well-to-do neighborhood and it was just destroyed. And as they were panning around the wreckage of these peoples’ homes, there she was. An older woman wearing nothing but a very small camisole and some granny panties.

I learned a couple of things that evening. 1, tornadoes don’t care who you are. They strike randomly. 2, live news is crazy sometimes. And 3, you really should wear pajamas during tornado season.

Anyway, The Kiwi Co. is OPEN!!!! If you were sad about Blueberry closing, it’s time to get over it, because the time of the Kiwi is here!

I Have Always Been A Storm

Featured Item:

Dress: Grace by The Kiwi Co.

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Maisie by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
Tattoo (Arms): Twilight Garden by WarPaint [Anthology]
Tattoo (Leg) : Wild Heart by Onyx
Hair: Breeze by Truth
Backdrop: Cornfield Chase by The Bearded Guy
Pose made by me with Anypose



Anthology, chicchica, guapa, hive, izzie's, LeLutka, lunar, Maitreya, OG Poses, sakura, saudade, second life, the bearded guy, The Fifty

If You Heard Me Say I’m Sad, I Was Joking

The other night I was a little bored and a little lonely in SL, so I put on a cute outfit and went out to a club. I didn’t really want to talk to anyone, but I also didn’t NOT want to talk to someone. I went to a club I’ve been to before, one where typically I get quite a few messages. It was a slower than usual night, so I just danced and listened to music and people watched. Eventually, I did get a message. This guy said I was really cute and sexy. I said thank you. He said I was the best looking woman in the whole club. I said thank you again.

Then I figured, well, I better head out. Because if I’m the best looking right now, that’s not going to get any better. So I left.

I’m really good at this meeting people thing.

Anyway, while I was people watching, I saw someone wearing cute shoes, so I had to go buy them. I shop better than I talk, I guess!

If You Heard Me Say I'm Sad, I Was Joking

Featured Items:

Top: Chica Hoodie by Saudade [The Fifty]
Hair: Chica by Saudade [The Fifty]
Shoes: Love Shoes and Socks by Lunar
Bento 2 Go – Chick box and Chopsticks by Sakura [Anthology]
Matcha Bubble Tea by ChicChica [Anthology]
Pose: Unbend by OG [Anthology]


Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Maisie by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
* Closed Eyes
Phone & Cig – Gas Station Grab by Hive
Backdrop: Sunset View by The Bearded Guy



Access, avaway, everfaery, guapa, izzie's, kibitz, LeLutka, Maitreya, rama salon, second life, the bearded guy, vegas tattoo

She’s Got A Little Demon In Her

So this is going to sound really… I don’t know. Pathetic? 🤣 Anyway. Sometimes I really do miss having a partner in Second Life. Someone who leaves me a good morning message, someone I can look forward to seeing when I log in, someone who is always available to take a photo with me. I have guy friends I know would be happy to pose with me, but I’m so bad about asking people for anything.

But the problem is that I don’t have a ton of time to invest the way I used to. And I’m not interested in going RL with anyone, meet ups or whatever. Texts during the day, messages, etc, that’s great. Yes, let’s talk about our RL. But more than that? No. And sometimes I’m not going to be in SL. I have other things to do. That has to be okay, too. For a lot of guys I’ve met, it’s not. So… whateverrrr.

Of course, there’s also the problem that I can be absolutely feral. But, that’s a story for another day.

She's Got A Little Demon In Her

Featured Item:

Dress: Paige by Everfaery [Access]

Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Maisie by Guapa
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
* 60’s Eye Makeup Hair: Eve by Rama Salon
Tattoo: Flowersoff by Vegas Tattoo
Necklace: Kyra’s Necklace by Kibitz
Earrings: Butterflies by AvaWay
Backdrop: Bar Peri by The Bearded Guy



Anthology, goyo, guapa, izzie's, kibitz, LeLutka, Maitreya, riot, second life, Summerfest 2024, the bearded guy, The Fifty, Truth, vegas tattoo

Time To Focus On You

So if you remember in my blog post the other day, I mentioned that my mom was in the hospital. She’s out now, but settling into a care facility. It’s been a bit of a transition for both of us. But we’re doing it. I have my mornings back, to sleep in, to stream again, to take care of things. I spend my afternoons visiting with her. I’m usually back home by 5 and have my evenings free. I don’t have to be worried that she’s alone at home and something crazy is about to happen.

I’d love to say that means I’m relaxed, but I’m not. I worry about different things now. I know that I should take this time to focus on me, though. To focus on my mental health and my quality of life. It’s hard. But I know it’s time.

Time To Focus On You

Featured Items:

Top: Mercury Blouse by Riot [The Fifty]
Bottom: Mercury Overalls by Riot [The Fifty]
Pose and Prop: Lucky by Goyo [Anthology]


Other Items:

Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Skin: Maisie by Guapa [Summerfest 2024]
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
* 60’s Eyeshadow
Tattoo: Gratitude by Vegas Tattoo
Hair: Bounce by Truth
Necklace: Reliane’s Necklace by Kibitz
Backdrop: La Feria by The Bearded Guy



anypose, foxcity, izzie's, LeLutka, madame noir, Maitreya, pure poison, second life, supernatural, the bearded guy, traditional face, vegas tattoo

I Like Your Blood On My Teeth Just A Little Too Much

I’m a girl on the internet. And as such, I get guys sliding into my DMs on occasion. Most of the time it’s okay and I enjoy the conversation a lot. Other times, they try too hard and it’s kind of gross to me. (I’m a demi. Chatting me up about sex immediately doesn’t get anyone anywhere.) Once in a great while, it just makes me angry. What makes someone think they can just speak to a literal stranger in a way that is very obviously for their benefit and not one ounce of consideration for what I might want? Gives me the ick. Then I have to be angry and mean and slash them with my vicious vicious words.

But hey. Try talking to me anyway. Let’s see which way it goes!

I Like Your Blood On My Teeth Just A Little Too Much

In This Post:
Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Face Skin: Delila by Traditional Face
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Highlight Corrector
* Nose Fix
* Under Eye Lashes Concealer
* Heart Mole
* Cheeks Contour
* Lips Concealer
* Highlighter
* Chin Dimple
* Everyday Blush
Tattoo: Gratitude by Vegas Tattoo
Hair: Kylee by Rama Salon
Top: Dorothy Bolero by Madame Noir
Dress: Dorothy by Madame Noir
Boots: Isolde II by Supernatural
Nails and Rings: Octavia by Pure Poison
Pose and Prop: Bad Kitty, Vol.2 by Foxcity [Modded with AnyPose]
Backdrop: The Excavation by The Bearded Guy



aleutia, Anthology, beauty factory, collabor88, fashionably dead, foxcity, izzie's, kibitz, LeLutka, Maitreya, opale, second life, the bearded guy, traditional face, vegas tattoo

I Wanna Feel The Rush

There’s something about summer. It makes me feel like being wild and wear kind of sexy clothing. Now I’m not a particularly sexy person in general. But the summer makes me feel like I could be. At least for a little bit.

Anthology has opened up and you absolutely need to go!

I Wanna Feel The Rush

In This Post:
Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX Petite by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Face Skin: Delila by Traditional Face
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Highlight Corrector
* Nose Fix
* Under Eye Lashes Concealer
* Heart Mole
* Cheeks Contour
* Lips Concealer
* Highlighter
* Chin Dimple
* Everyday Blush
Tattoo: Gratitude by Vegas Tattoo
Hair: Dandi by Opale [Anthology]
Top/Skirt/Panties: Emili by Beauty Factory [Anthology]
Butterfly Belly Chain by Fashionably Dead [Collabor88]
Necklace: Debra by Kibitz
Pose: Devilish by Foxcity
Backdrop: Angela House by The Bearded Guy
Welcome Board, Welcome Sign, Pinwheel – Hello Summer by Aleutia [Anthology]



e.marie, foxcity, izzie's, LeLutka, Maitreya, no.match, riot, second life, Shotgun Events, the bearded guy, traditional face, vegas tattoo

I Feel A Sin Comin’ On

I’m a Texas girl. I think everyone knows that by now. So as a Texas girl, I am required by birth to love boots. I can’t help it, it’s simply in my blood. When I was younger, I used to have a pair of blue ropers. (Ropers are wider in the toe and have a shorter leg part as compared to a traditional cowboy boot.) Oh I loved my blue boots. They were kind of a dark slate blue. I’d pair them up with jeans and a cute tank top or t-shirt and hit up the country bars with friends. I was so wild in those boots. I had other boots. Brown, black, lace up, heeled. But those blue boots. Those were my “I’m gonna kiss boys and be a menace” boots.

I don’t really wear boots in my offline life anymore, and I certainly don’t go to country bars. But in SL, I appreciate gorgeous boots. And it’s 50/50 on the menace part.

I Feel A Sin Comin' On

In This Post:
Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Face Skin: Delila by Traditional Face
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Highlight Corrector
* Nose Fix
* Under Eye Lashes Concealer
* Heart Mole
* Cheeks Contour
* Lips Concealer
* Highlighter
* Chin Dimple
* Everyday Blush
Tattoo: Gratitude by Vegas Tattoo
Hair and Hat: No Panic by No.Match [Shotgun: Wild West]
Top: Shiloh Corset by Riot [Shotgun: Wild West]
Jeans: Shiloh by Riot [Shotgun: Wild West]
Boots: Shiloh Suede Boots by Riot [Shotgun: Wild West]
Earrings: Cinzia by e.marie
Pose: Lucid by Foxcity [Slightly modded with AnyPose]
Backdrop: Gaucho Alegre by The Bearded Guy



foxcity, izzie's, LeLutka, madame noir, Maitreya, second life, supernatural, the bearded guy, traditional face, Truth, Truth x Faga, vegas tattoo, vibing

Now I’m Stronger Than Yesterday

I really like the store Madame Noir in SL. If you’ve never been, you really should go. They have some of the coolest clothes, including outfits that sparkle! (I bought a sparkle dress thinking maybe one day I’ll go to a club.) The store is often in weekend sales, too, so you can try some of their fabulous clothes inexpensively. My catsuit today is from that store. But I do have ONE problem with the store. Well, 2, if you count that they don’t make clothes for Lara X Petite right now, but a lot of stores don’t, so I won’t hold that against them. No, my big problem with Madame Noir? Their HUD. More specifically, the fact that the HUD actually SCREAMS REALLY LOUDLY at you when you put it on. Like, a horror movie scream!

I didn’t notice it the first time I got something from there. I don’t always wear my headset when I’m at the desk. But the second time? Oh my gosh. It scared me so much! I didn’t know where the scream was coming from and it just was a lot!

I don’t need a fancy HUD with screams and bells and animated anything. In fact, I’m still kind of old school and just want to throw everything on the ground to open it. 😂 But at least I know, and now you know, that when it comes to Madame Noir, take your headphones off before the scream. Unless you like that kind of thing, of course.

Now It's Nothing But My Way

In This Post:
Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Face Skin: Delila by Traditional Face
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Highlight Corrector
* Nose Fix
* Under Eye Lashes Concealer
* Heart Mole
* Cheeks Contour
* Lips Concealer
* Highlighter
* Chin Dimple
* Everyday Blush
* 60’s Eye Shadow Lipstick: Sabrina by Amara Beauty
Tattoo: Gratitude by Vegas Tattoo
Hair: Oblivion by Truth x Faga
Outfit: Eloise Catsuit by Madame Noir
Shoes: Zoey Heels by Supernatural
Rings: Leila by Vibing
Pose and Prop: Blademaster by Foxcity
Backdrop: The Excavation by The Bearded Guy