I asked my guy the other night if he would mind letting me be “brainless” for the evening since my brain had basically been on at 100 for the entire day. He’s pretty good at making sure I feel held, so even though it’s not something I would have asked anyone before because letting go of control for even a moment makes me feel like I’m getting hives, I felt like it was safe to do it with him. And I think that’s kind of a beautiful version of love in its own way, you know? Safety. Feeling safe with someone who doesn’t make you feel weird for needing things, even if you can’t really put into words what you need.
Now did I let go completely? No. I’m me and I’m kind of a control freak by nature because that’s how I’ve always protected myself. But I’m learning that it’s okay if I lean sometimes, too. It doesn’t make me less strong. In fact, it kind of makes me more.
Velvet Boheme is still going strong, so make sure you get out there!

Featured Items:
Top: Nouvelle Tee by Tres Blah
Bottom: Zoey Shorts by Mossu [Velvet Boheme]
Shoes: Bhoomi Tie-Up Sandals by Zaara [Velvet Boheme]
Hair: Crystal by Stealthic [Velvet Boheme]
Jewelry: Wanderess Necklace and Earrings by AvaWay [Velvet Boheme]
Decor: Leisure Spot by 8f8 [Velvet Boheme]
Dandelion Wind by anc [Velvet Boheme]
Other Items:
Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: Reborn by eBody
Skin: Alice by Avi-Glam
Face Layers by Izzie’s
* Heart Mole
* Nostril Lightener
* Chin Dimple
* Arm Shadow Fix V2
Eyebrows: Peach by WarPaint




