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Maintaining a positive perspective in life is not about the absence of problems in our lives, but has to do with the way we handle the difficult situations we face every day. Successful decision making depends on our ability to effectively handle stress and conflict. This is the reason why people seek counseling to begin with—life has become so difficult or problematic that they are unable to make rational decisions. They come to counseling to be relieved of their suffering (Clinton & Ohlschlager, 2002)

Purpose. The purpose of this step is to help clients evaluate the best way to solve their problems and make good decisions (Cormier & Cormier, 2008). Most clients know about the problems they face but are simply unable to solve their problems without help. Counselors help their clients determine the best way to go about solving the problems that brought them to counseling in the first place.

Eight-Step Plan. It is important to recognize that although there are many plans to help clients make decisions, the will of God for their lives takes precedence above all else. Teaching clients to listen for the voice of God in their lives and to look for his leading will help first and foremost when making important life decisions. Corey, Corey, and Callanan (2007) have also developed an eight-step procedure to help clients in the decision-making process.

1. Identify the problem, including its ambiguity.

2. Outline the various elements and potential issues of the problem.

3. Review the relevant ethical codes that apply in the matter.

4. Know the applicable laws and regulations affecting the issue.

5. Consult with your client and with knowledgeable colleagues.

6. Consider possible and probable courses of action.

7. Define the consequences of various courses of action.

8. Decide on the best course of action for you and your client.

Core Components. There are several core components to problem solving and decision making. When training clients how to effectively solve problems, the GRACE acronym offers people a proven and successful five-step model.

Goals. It is difficult for clients to make decisions if they are unsure of their goals. Helping clients set meaningful, achievable goals will give them the confidence they need to begin making more and better decisions in their lives.

Resources. Providing a list of resources to clients such as books, articles, homework, or online assessments will give them the tools they need to effectively solve their problems and achieve their goals.

Alternatives. Many clients are cognitively unable to successfully navigate their way through the normal decision-making process. Providing alternatives and other problem-solving options for clients will help them stay grounded and feel empowered to make decisions.

Commitment to action. Talking about problems all day does not do anything to help solve them unless there is a plan in place to act.

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The Popular Encyclopedia of Christian Counseling, General Editors: Dr. Tim Clinton & Dr Ron Hawkins