I dont seem to get to spend alot of time with the girls, so this past saturday was a blast. Although i was dealing with a crazy shoulder that thought nice to dislocate, spending time with my sister and the girls at the bridal shope was quite nice. Trying on dress after dress. Some flattering and some not so much. Dress shops can be fun..generally i prefer the beach, bikini’s and flip flops for girl time, but the bridal shop was a must for this day. We all know i am my worst critic, but im working on it. Putting on a dress in the size i would have worn a year ago was an eye opener. It was 4 sizes to big. It made me looks as if i had no shape at all (see Belle of the ball i am not pic)………yes, that dress is 4 sizes too big. It made me feel alot better about myself than i have been lately. Every morning i step on the scale and we dont seem to see eye to eye. It says one thing and i would like it to say considerably less. Anywho, I guess the moral of todays story is that sometimes what you see isnt whats really there. It is okay to step outside of the box to gain a different perspective sometimes.

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