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Saturday, February 7, 2026

Baby's First Bar Ride

 As I write, we are under an extreme cold advisory in NJ. Temperatures are in the single digits, but with the wind gusting at 20+ mph, it feels like -10℉. In someone else's words, that's painfully cold

Needless to say, I am not riding today. In fact, I haven't been riding much at all in the last two weeks. This week, I took Booger for a drive around the "block" for 2-3 miles. It looks like that will probably be the only riding we'll be seeing for the foreseeable future. 

Last weekend, just as my cabin fever was reaching its peak, Sandy texted, "Want to ride to Pattenburg with me?"

To be honest, I was not feeling inspired to leave my house, where I was actively putting the finishing touches on my January cross stitch project. I gave myself a three minute pep talk and agreed to meet Sandy for a road ride. We would figure out a game plan as we went.

It wound up being Tot's first bar ride.

Sunday, February 1, 2026

January 2026

 This is the month that never ends,
It just goes on and on my friends...

The theme for this month was snow, snow, and more snow. And then a ton of ice. Good times. 

I didn't blog because I didn't feel like we did much of anything, but then I looked back at all these photos. Guess I should have blogged....

Here is my 50 pound dog sitting on top of over a foot of snow because the ice is so thick she doesn't break through it. (Also, this is my arena. All hiking and riding has pretty much come grinding to a halt.)

Sunday, January 25, 2026

Dashing Through the Snow

 The morning dawned clear and bright, the sky an improbable blue above a world freshly remade.. Eight inches of snow had come down over night, feather-light and pristine. It rounded fence posts, softened sharp edges, and muted the noise of the land. Even familiar places felt new and exciting. 

Booger moved into this quiet with calm authority. Her coat, black as spilled ink, contrasted sharply against the snow. She stood statue-still as I hitched her to the little wooden gig. Then she stepped out with a flash of bright intent, ears pricked, neck arched, ready for adventure. 

We set off down the lane to the wide fields beyond, Booger lifting into a trot with unmistakable joy. Feisty, yes, but in the way of a horse who trusts both herself and the world around her. Her tail was flagged, a clear sign of her approval. Her breath came in clouds of steam that vanished quickly in the January air. 

The cart followed with a soft rattle. It was a two-wheeled one-seater polished by years of use. The sound traveled briefly in the cold air, then the quiet closed in again.

The trail bent away from the fields and slipped into the woods. The light filtered through the trees, becoming dappled as it fell towards the forest floor. Pine trees stood solemn and green, their branches heavily burdened. Oak and maple trunks bowed slightly towards the trail, while bare limbs laced delicately across the sky.

The world narrowed into a ribbon of snow and light. The trees felt close, welcoming us into their still sanctuary, their branches writing a careful calligraphy cross the sky. Sunlight filtered through the trees in bright, slanting beams. 

Booger became a silhouette of motion and purpose. A mare on a mission! Her black coat was rich and glossy, the chocolate trim of her harness highlighting her graceful form. 

The forest felt alive with the unseen, each curve promising something just out of sight, another stretch of quite joy just around the bend. 

We entered the cedar grove. Here, the light took command while the trail stretched forward in an inviting straight line. The sun broke through the trees in a brilliant spill, flaring into long, radiant beams, and striping the snow with dramatic shadows. Dark blue and violet crisscrossed in elegant patterns before us.

Sunlight poured over Booger's back, catching the curve of her hindquarters, the edge of her muscles, the gleam of her velvety coat. Snow fell in sudden, soft avalanches from some of the lower branches, dusting Booger's topline and cascading into my aproned lap. Booger tossed her head and snorted, delighted rather than afraid. The sound was intimate, a laughter shared between friends. 

The cedar trunks rose straight and earnest around us, dark needles piercing through the snow. They bore quiet witnesses to the passing of a perfect moment, one which felt simultaneously fleeting and eternal. 

As we turned for home, Booger became even bolder, stepping forward with that particular Arabian confidence, both an explorer and a queen of her domain. She surged playfully forward, eager to make short work of the wide and shining distance between us and the barn. The world unfurled with every stride, barren farm fields billowing on either side, snow spraying from the cart's wheels in shimmering curtains. 

I grinned broadly as cart followed horse, light and faithful, carried along by uncontainable joy. A bold, black horse moving gladly through the fresh snow. A path asking only to be followed.  The deep sense of calm and belonging. And the absolute certainty that there was nowhere else I'd rather be. 


Monday, January 12, 2026

Saturday, January 10, 2026

DIY Safari Ride

"How do you get your horses so quiet?"
"Well, on Sundays, we ride them around the lion pen..."

I've mentioned in passing a few times that it is theoretically possible to ride to the back of Six Flags Safari. The public sand road goes right past the back of the animal enclosures, and I've been mildly obsessed since I saw a between the ears photo of giraffes on a street view or AllTrails or something a few years ago. 

Last year, Mike and I even took a drive and saw giraffes and other critters from our car. 

The sand roads also connect to the trails on the north side of Colliers Mills. I have tried a few times to get over there on horseback, but there is only one connector trail from where we usually park, and it's always either extremely overgrown or full of downed trees. Since this trail runs through the swamp, there are no alternate routes. 

There is technically another trail that pops you out up the road about a mile, but I have not gotten desperate enough to ride up the side of Veteran's Highway to get there. 

One of the reasons Mike and I chose the north side of Colliers Mills for our hike on Saturday was so I could scope out the trails for riding. I knew it was possible to park the trailers on the side of the road, but would the trails be worth it? 

Short answer: yes. 

With my cabin fever at its highest setting, my desire to make this bucket list ride happen was renewed. It just so happened Sandy and I had loose plans to "go south" for a ride on Sunday. I called her excitedly on our drive home from hiking. I was surprised when it took almost zero persuasion to get Sandy on board. 

We agreed to meet at my barn at noon on Sunday and trailer pool to the Pine Barrens. I had only one goal: safari on horseback. The short version of this story is: mission accomplished.

(Do not try this at home.)

Dramatic reenactment. (Although this is probably how it felt to Booger.)

Friday, January 9, 2026

Exploring at Colliers Mills

 The ice has finally melted at home this week. Woohoo! That did not help us last weekend.

Mike suggested we go scout out the trails on the north side of Colliers Mills. I have been trying to get over there for years now, but the connector trail is never passable. Last year, Mike and and I did some exploring by car and made a mental note to come back. 

We finally checked this one off the list! Of course, Bonnie doesn't care where we go to walk and sniff. Besides, it's all new to her!

We did another five and a half miles, and everyone thoroughly enjoyed it.

Sunday, January 4, 2026

Saturday, January 3, 2026

NYE: Hiking the Assunpink

 First of all, thank you for all the kind comments and emails in response to my previous post. While I do not blog for the attention/reactions, it certainly felt nice to receive so much love. It sounds like this space brings several of you joy. In a world full of so much darkness and sorrow, who am I to deny anyone a snippet of joy? The blog lives another day...

2025 ended with ice, snow, and more ice at home. Despite a week of clear weather, the temperatures did not get above freezing, and both the house and barn were roughly the consistency of a skating rink. In fact, the brief warm rain we got only served to Zamboni the surface. Now would be a good time for some crampons...

I hadn't ridden since Sandy and I took Booger and Tot to Deer Path Park, and I was starting to go a little stir crazy.

Bonnie was also starting to get bored without our daily hikes at lunch. I've been romping her around the pastures at home, and she has been doing well on the ice, but I can't keep up without four legs of my own. 

Mike and I decided to head south/east to the Assunpink to scout out the footing. It would be a good leg stretcher for Bonnie, and I was hopeful the conditions would be favorable for riding. My goal was to do a first day ride on New Year's Day.

The following is mostly a photo montage of my dog against various brown backgrounds.


Friday, January 2, 2026

2025 By the Numbers

 Time for my annual post where everyone gets a peek at how neurotic I am. (I assure you, this is only scratching the surface.) 

This year, I made a spreadsheet to not only log my rides on each horse, but to log where I rode and who with. I can tell you exactly how many miles I rode with, let's say, Sandy on Tot at Horseshoe Bend. I'll spare you.

I'm still going to dive into the numbers a bit though... buckle up!