Old & abandoned


Found pacifier

Last week, at the end of a roundtable discussion with other English language tutors at my local library, I casually remarked that whenever I need my faith in humanity restored, I go to the library.

Lost sunglasses

Libraries are wonderful in part because of all the free things you can access there: books in print and on audio, technology such as computers and scanners, and all manner of things such as games, puzzles, and toys. I also love libraries because they are one of the few places where you can hang out in public without having to buy anything: a common good freely available to all.

What I didn’t tell that fellow tutor is this: I’m constantly on the lookout for things to restore my faith in humanity. Every day, my phone sends me alerts with news that ranges from bad to worse. There is ample evidence that people can be wretched, rotten, and corrupt beyond measure. If you want examples of people being kind and considerate, you have to have a keener eye, as these examples won’t seek you out.

Lost glasses

So, whenever I see a lost object that some anonymous passerby has placed in a prominent spot, I take note. What small kindness prompts someone to pick up dropped keys, lost glasses, or a forgotten pacifier, then put it in a place where the rightful owner might retrace their tracks to find it?

Whenever I see lost things set out to be found, I imagine an entire story of loss and hope and redemption: because of an anonymous stranger, a thing that was lost might in the future be found.

Toy blocks

Whenever I see used toys set out on the curb, free for the taking, I imagine the second life they will have with some young child. How much better it is to be put to use rather than gathering dust in a box?

Abandoned shopping cart

Given the generally impassable nature of neighborhood sidewalks, which are navigable if you are able-bodied and wearing boots but not if you are in a wheelchair or pushing a baby stroller, I’m not sure how a Walgreens shopping cart landed in a roadside snowdrift more than a mile away from the closest store.

Lost

Don’t worry, Teddy. I’m sure your little one will retrace their steps to find you, and when that happens, just imagine the tales of adventure you will share.

Reading glasses

If you or someone you know dropped a pair of reading glasses on the Cochichuate Aqueduct Trail in Newton, you can relax knowing I picked your glasses up from the ground, where they surely would have been stepped on by a passing jogger, and put them on a tree for you to find. You’re welcome.

Lost

J and I recently rewatched all four Toy Story movies. We’d enjoyed each of the movies when we’d watched them years ago, but we had never watched them back-to-back. Revisiting them now was like reuniting with old friends.

The Toy Story franchise is irresistible on several levels. Every child anthropomorphizes their favorite dolls, action figures, and stuffed animals, so seeing the characters of Woody, Buzz, Jessie, and Bo Peep come to life is a childhood fantasy come true. Adults watching Toy Story will have a spark of recognition when they see old toys from their childhood, like Slinky Dog, Barbie and Ken, and Mr. and Mrs. Potato Head.

Adults watching the Toy Story movies will also appreciate something lost on younger viewers, and that is the poignancy of time’s passage. Children love their toys, and toys-come-to-life love their children in return, but adults know children inevitably outgrow their toys. The moment in Toy Story 3 where Andy’s mom stands in his empty childhood room as he is about to go to college is heartbreaking, even for a Childless Cat Lady like me. Children grow up, move out, and move on, and both parents and beloved toys get left behind.

I always think of the Toy Story movies when I see dolls at yard sales, boxes of action figures left at the curb, or lost stuffed animals set in a prominent place, waiting for their kids to find them. Loving toys is an essential part of childhood, and feeling sad when children lose or outgrow their toys is an inescapable part of being a tender-hearted adult.

Someone forgot the milk

I don’t know what it is that compels me to reach for my camera whenever I see a lost or forgotten object, like this gallon of milk someone left behind in their grocery cart at the Auburndale Shaw’s this afternoon. There’s something lonesome and forlorn about castoff things. I always wonder about the story behind these objects, and I feel sad for the people who left them behind. Is someone upset now that they’re home and find themselves with a full refrigerator of food, but no milk? Is some harried parent making an emergency trip back to the store right now because the kids will need milk with their Saturday morning cartoons-and-cereal tomorrow?

Angry Pig

I guess I feel a kind of sympathy for lost objects and the unseen folks who might be looking for them: who among us, after all, hasn’t lost something, and who among us hasn’t, at some point, felt lost? Often the lost objects I find (and compulsively photograph) are prominently displayed on fences, benches, or other eye-level perches: someone took the time not only to retrieve this lost thing but to place it somewhere that it might be found. The sight of such kindness from one stranger to another always cheers me: it seems inherently hopeful to think that a frantic searcher might find a castoff thing, all because of the kindness of an anonymous stranger.

Castoff glasses

One day last week while J and I were in New York, a woman dropped her sweater as she bustled down a busy Chelsea sidewalk, and no sooner had the sweater landed but a handful of strangers each lunged forward, separately, to retrieve the garment and alert the woman: “Ma’am!” “Miss!” “Hey, lady!” J noted how this instantaneous rush to help an anonymous passerby belies everything you hear about brusque New Yorkers. Although city-dwellers might walk fast and avoid eye-contact, there still lies within us an instinctive urge to reach out, retrieve, and reunite lost objects with their owners. Perhaps we all know, intrinsically, the ache of lonesomeness, and this compels us to reunite lost objects and lost souls whenever we can.

This is my contribution to today’s Photo Friday theme, Lonesome.

Off season

Collared

I’d love to know the story behind the large canine pinch collar someone has put around a tree in the vicinity of Cold Spring Park. Are Newton trees so rambunctious, they need prong-collar correction? Or did some dog, on his way to Cold Spring’s newly debuted off-leash area, throw off the choke of oppression before he got there?

Whatever the explanation, this much I’m guessing: this tree’s bark is probably worse than its bite.

Spring training

It’s another cold, bright day, with tightly furled crocus buds emerging but not yet daring to open. The light still angles deep, as in winter, and it retains a cold, sharp, colorless intensity. But you can almost feel the looming fecundity of the earth underfoot, even in places where the bare mud has refrozen to concrete hardness. Even through the earth’s obdurate solidity, you can almost feel the subtle rumbling of a tangled universe of roots awakening: spring in training.

If you follow me on Twitter, you might recognize today’s photo as being the inspiration for this morning’s Tweet.

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