Me, Myself & I

I think it’s interesting how the word INDEPENDENCE is being abused in the most peculiar way by females nowadays, they managed to turn the word independence (a word that symbolizes strength, self-empowerment & freedom) into something that men now see as a negative quality to possess..

The thing is, that most women take the being independent thing just a tad bit too far. 
I’m a firm believer of the “Being independent” concept & yes I personally think that you, not even just as a woman, but as a human being, shouldn’t be dependent on anyone..
BUT, here’s where the clash happens between men & women. Women have become independent to the point where they start acting like they don’t need men at all (Forget the newly lesbians & Bi’s, I’m not referring to those), I’m saying that you ladies out there forget how to let the man, BE A DAMN MAN..
YES, I said it!
When you as a woman make the man feel like he’s unnecessary, that’s when men start to dislike “Independent Ladies”..
Men & women were created differently:
Men have this need of feeling like the provider, the one in control & he certainly feels the need to be NEEDED by a woman, like some type of superman Nshit.. 

& the problem is that women today don’t really need men like that, because they can provide for themselves.. But you know DAMN well that you do need a man & that they are capable of thing’s that you probably aren’t & vice versa

 STOP acting like men are just an accessory, let them complement you & most important, let him feel liken he’s the MAN! Cuz honestly, as much as you do want to take the role as a man or talk about being all equal & dandy, it just doesn’t go down like that.

If you really do want to be equal, then how about you pay for the dates he takes you out on? You know, do all the thing’s a man is supposed to do?

Bet you don’t wanna be that independent huh? 

We All have emotions I guess, I’m just not too good at displaying Them, are you?

This post is something I’d like to Call “Therapy Session”..
Being almost 24 & considering myself a grown woman, not being able to display emotions towards the ones that matter, I feel set’s me back a few steps from being a complete woman..
& the fact that I hear this same sentence “Samira, why are you scared of sharing your feelings” EVERY freakin’ day irks me!
I’m not a cold person & yes I do have a heart!
It’s just not that simple when you’re the one in the situation..
So here is what goes on in my mind:

Showing emotions = Voulnarability = Pain.. Let me elaborate, the way I see it making myself voulnarable to others gives Them the advantage of possibly hurting me..
& YES I know That’s a fucked up mindset, but this is why a lot of the people going through the process of getting to know me, assume I’m cold..

Well I’m fucking not cold, the matter of the fact is that I don’t let too many people get close to me..
New people only see the funny side of me & maybe That’s my comfort zone, I hide behind my jokester side, but there’s so much more behind the Big smile & my kindness..

Not that it matters, cuz apperantly people are too much in a rush, instead of giving me the time I need to Open up..
With that Said, I’m done & out..

I don’t give a Fuck anymore, cuz I’m getting tired of explaining this over & over again!

Peace & Love!

I’ve chosen to adress an issue that matters, at least it matters to me & as a human it should matter to YOU!

There’s a humanitarian disaster going on in Somalia at the moment and while the rest of the World is too slow to actually do something about this situation, people are dying in search for food and water. According to the head of the UNHCR Antonio Guterres, somali refugees are fleeing to Dadaab which is a Kenyan camp, and it’s also repported that up to 2,000 Somali refugees are crossing the border into ethiopia EVERY day!

The World Food Programme is also trying to raise awareness on how CRITICAL the state of the Somali people is in actuality. The amount of people needing humanitarian aid is estimated to a staggering 10 million and on top of that more than 2 million children & Young people are malnourished, and in desperate need of life saving aid! This has been categorized As the WORST humanitarian disaster in the World!! 

We NEED to do something & the first step is to donate whatever is possible, I wasn’t aware of the possibilities when it comes to donations, but one of my girls (Bella) sent me a link I would like to share with all of you reading this blog.

http://www.unhcr.org/emergency/somalia/global_landing.html —-> Click the link & remember every penny counts!

My prayers go out to the people in Somalia!