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Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Kedua

Alhamdulillah. Tanggal 23 Februari lepas, genap usia Raudhah Amani 2 tahun. Bermakna sudah 2 tahun jugalah saya dan suami bergelar ibu dan ayah. Syukur ke hadratmu Ya Allah.

Pengalaman indah pertama kali bersua saya abadikan di entry ini.

Dear Raudhah Amani, ibu dan ayah doakan Raudhah terus membesar dengan sihat dan ceria. Mudah-mudahan jadi anak yang solehah, baik sahsiahnya, cemerlang peribadi menghadapi keperluan dunia dan tuntutan di sana kelak. Amin.

fantastic four :)

Ibu sayang kakak, sangat sangat sayang :)

Monday, February 20, 2012

Beautiful doa

Am touched by the beautiful words shared by a friend and wish to capture them here for my future reference.


"Ya Allah, give us eyes that see the best in people, 
hearts that forgive the worst, 
minds that forget the bad 
a soul that never loses faith in You."

 Thank you :)

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Teaser of the day


Source: Facebook.

Any comment? :) Well life is not a fairy tale. But one can choose how to make the most out of it.

Life is too short, so whats with the fuss?

The game of LOVE. You never knew what you have until you lose it. Question, what if it is too late?

Peace.

Pleasing the Princess


Yesterday, adik had the most attention; clinging to ibu for his precious milk. Kakak, felt unattended; cranky and a bit violent towards her baby brother.

So today ibu brought kakak for a quick outing. We went to Tesco to get some groceries and later to baby store. Guess what, the feeding bottle teat needs replacement, again! Hehe

It was fun spending time together, just the two of us. The first stop we made when we arrived was at the kid's section. There, ibu picked up a gardening tool set and a bubble gun. Ah, can't wait to play with my girl in the evening... :) On the way back, we shared Chocolate ice-blended. Yummy! That sure 'glued' her at the seat all the way home.

bubble time
tolong siram rumput atok ;p
picnic, Bukit Beruntung style :D

She had fun, I am so glad!

seminggu sendiri

Dah 8 hari suami kerja luar kawasan; di Temerloh. First time kena tinggal since the transfer. Rindu datang lagi. Perjalanan pergi balik ke pejabat seminggu lepas terasa sepi, sendiri. How I wish you were there; especially during the traffic jams. Ada juga teman bicara :) Lumrah manusia, bila ada depan mata nampak biasa. Dah jauh baru mencari. Rugi. Kita jangan macam tu la ok? Setiap detik itu sungguh bermakna.

Sekarang jam 3 pagi. Anak-anak masih belum tidur lagi. Rindu ayah juga mungkin. Kedua-duanya minat menonton macam ayah. Boleh mengadap tv atau laptop berjam-jam lamanya. Ibu bagi peluang. Hari ni seharian Raudhah puasa-tv, giliran atok tonton perkembangan semasa. Sangka ibu Raudhah meragam kerana sibling-rivalry. (Sorry kakak, adik nak menyusu tak henti. Bila kenyang tak tidur, celik pula dia. Terbatas plan ibu nak jenguk kakak.) Rupanya amuk tak dapat bersua dengan Disney Junior. Nah, tontonlah sampai puas hati. Ibu teman, mujur esok cuti.

RA.UF dan youtube
Kesal. Seboleh mungkin nak luangkan masa sama-rata, secukupnya dengan 2 anak kecil ni. Tak beri ruang pada sibling rivalry. Betul, keadaan ni normal tambah lagi dengan kehadiran orang baru. Tapi ini bukan alasan untuk bersenang hati. Harus terus perhati dan ambil langkah awal bendung hal-hal kecil hati ini. Hari ni saja, macam-macam gaya protes kakak. Tepuk perut, tepuk kepala, baling mainan... Kecut perut ibu. Mujurlah adik tough orangnya. Lebih sedih, kakak bertindak pukul diri sendiri. Signal kurang perhatian ya nak? Ibu kerja, balik lambat, balik penat... Tapi semua itu amanah. Suami, anak-anak, kerja itu berhak ke atasku. Belum lagi masuk tang baba dan mama. Ya, masih banyak ruang for improvement. Trust me, it is not easy as it seems; coping with work and bigger family. It is not bad either. The philosophy that drives me is simple; 'It is hard when I have to, it is easy when I want to'. Islam pon ajar setiap dugaan yang menimpa itu, Allah tahu kita mampu hadapi.

Come on Ja, this is not dugaan. This is blessing. Look how beautiful they are. Subhanallah, Alhamdulilah...

Let's work things out dear husband :)


P/s: I am not complaining. This entry serves as a self-reflection for improvement. Peace.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

NGV-ed

Due to our bad experience with the old route to KL, we agreed to take the highway to work everyday. This costs on RM13.20 a day. Now how do we lower the monthly expenses for traveling? Exactly, by using NGV!

Read a little bit about NGV here.

Being meticulous about engineering and the related matters, husband did his research first; in terms of the specifications, costs and testimonials. Baba, being the experience NGV user for more or less 10 years now, act as our advisor. Baba also helped us to find the reliable workshop for installation. Thank you Baba!

The car was sent to the workshop on 3rd February and the installation completed on the next day. So far, we are satisfied with the performance and the reduction in fuel cost. Our journey to work costs us RM15 for petrol daily. Thanks to NGV, it is now RM6 to RM8 daily. But, the tank needs to be filled daily. So husband has to make a pit stop at the NGV station everyday before heading to office.
so long storage space...
interested? you know the number to call :)


We are still in the observation period. Hopefully everything is smooth as silk. Our cute car has been really good to us and our pocket, since day 1. Alhamdulillah. Use good motor oil; PETRONAS Syntium 800 - semi synthetic pon dah cukup baik. Dapatkan di pasaran ok? Hehe promo pulak.


Wednesday, February 08, 2012

Milky-deal

Nowadays, awareness on the benefits of breast milk (BM) is the main highlight of motherhood and indirectly, parenting. Many hospitals carry out campaigns and advertisement to encourage breast feeding for the new generation. Facilities at their premises are enhanced and advisory or consultation on the topic is offered to mothers/parents, especially the young/new ones. Efforts to support this aspiration are massive, but is worthwhile in the long run. Serious, indeed. To the extend that some even labeled their organization as breast feeding-friendly or established a non-formula (FM) or non-feeding bottle compound. Great. Not-so-fortunately (unfortunately sounds so ungrateful), both my babies were introduced to FM since day 2. And at the hospital, they feed the baby using a small cup; worry that baby gets confused when introduced to feeding bottle that early. Luckily, not in my case. Anak-anak belasah je; gaya askar.

Yes, BM is the best source of food for the newborn and babies; the right composition of nutritions, complete with immunization and water to keep a baby 'full' and happy. So keep on breast feeding, mommies!


Panjangnya mukadimah. Sebenarnya nak cerita pasal botol susu je. Haha. Alhamdulillah, both babies tak memilih. Tapi kalau dah kenal, percubaan untuk tukar botol lain sangat besar kemungkinan untuk tidak berjaya.

For working mothers, feeding bottles are our best friend besides our beloved gadget; the breast pump. Few weeks before going back to work,   introduction to feeding bottle is one of the crucial modules for the babies. Masa ni lah nak tengok baby serasi atau tidak dengan botol-botol pilihan ibu masing-masing.

Raudhah Amani's first feeding bottle was non other that what's included in Medela's CityStyle breast pump bag, teat sponsored by her Maklong Tida, from Dr Brown's. Relaks je; nothing grand. I only bought her proper feeding bottles when she was 6 months old. And MAM's anti colic bottles caught my eyes; bought a pack of 3 terus. Happy! I love MAM's anti colic feeding bottles. All parts can be opened/detached from each other; which ensure the peace of mind as cleanliness is reachable to every inch of its parts. The price is reasonable and among the cheapest too. To date, I have 3 units of 5oz bottle and 3 units for 9oz = 6 all together. Now, the 5oz bottles are passed down to Umar Faruqi. The bottles are still in good shape! Plus the material used is durable. Tahan lasak. You don't hear disturbing noise (macam Avent) when thrown hard by a toddler like Ms super RAZ. Tak kan terfikir, 'aduh habis pecahlah botol mahal tu...'with MAM. But one thing I do not enjoy is the time you take to assemble the 5 parts before feeding. Every connection must be in tact or you will find yourself crying over the spilled milk; moreover if the milk cost you RM94 per tin.

Stylish with MAM anti colic

A month after Umar was born, I thought of trying new bottles. I was looking for baby gift for a friend when I decided to buy one for my RA.UF too. Avent's PES feeding bottles. PES is an enhanced version of PP. Besides the 'grand' honey-tint colour, PES does not require additional valve to operate. So it is a normal 3 parts bottle like botol cap Disney. The starter pack contains 2 units of 4oz bottle, 2 unit of 9oz bottle, a soother, extra teats and bottle brush. In my limited feeding bottle experience, I would say Avent is expensive. Learned from a blogshop that Avent's PES 4oz bottle cost RM46.90. MAM RM40 pon tak sampai. Nonetheless, I am happy that milk leakage is no longer an issue with Avent. Just, RAZ and UFZ got problem with Avent's teat. They prefer MAM's silky teat. Yeah, Avent teats got wasted in my house! Teat MAM pula, memang pelawa kena gigit. Berlubang RAZ kerjakan. Hehe anak, anak...



Avent-ly happy :)

As for Tommie Tippie, I bought the Explora cup for RAZ. Biasa buat pakai untuk minum ribena. Pricey than MAM but cheaper than Avent. There are a lot more brands out there. But the question is, do they suit your baby? Bottom line, look for Bisphenol A (BPA) free; chemical content usually found in plastics that can harm your child's development.

Ms RAZ and Tommie Tippie
Breast feeding is so convenient. One does not have to wake up, assemble the feeding bottle, mix the FM with water, shake a little bit and serve the FM to the baby. All you have to do is breast feed; you can even continue the beautiful sleep while feeding your baby. Simple! I hope I would be able to breast feed Umar longer compared to Raudhah. Mudah-mudahan ada rezeki. I miss cuddling Raudhah while she is having BM. I miss that 'bonding' moment :) How time flies. She will celebrate her 2nd birthday this month. This also means that I have stopped breast feeding her for almost 1 year now.

No matter how breast feeding works for you, what FM your child consume and how expensive the feeding bottle is, take a step back and remember, rezeki ini dari Allah. Ramai kawan yang merungut susu tak banyak or bangga sekali pam 20oz. Well, Allah adil. Saya, awak, mereka malah kita semua ni kurang kat sini/situ, lebih kat situ/sini. Tak ada yang mewah dalam segala hal. Kalau kita hebat, ada yang lagi hebat di luar sana. Usaha, doa dan tawakal. Semoga rahmat Allah sentiasa bersama kita. Setiap kesusahan ada hikmahnya. Jangan putus asa ok?

P/s: This quote inspired me to bits, brighten my day when production gone low than usual. Hope it makes your day too :)

"In the end, how much milk you pump doesn't determine your worth as a mother. Your child will be better off with you as a happy, responsive, loving mother than the world's most productive wet nurse" - BSC


Alhamdulillah, besar nikmatMu Ya Allah...

Wednesday, February 01, 2012

Hidup sihat

Sejak akhir-akhir ni cuaca agak panas, bukan? Hati terdetik sejenak, perit barangkali bagi rakan-rakan yang bekerja di kawasan 'bebas-hawa-dingin'. Syukur punya nikmat bekerja di pejabat serba lengkap. Motivasi untuk kerja lebih bagus tahun ni. Insyaallah, amanah akan dilaksanakan sehabis baik. Mudah-mudahan berkat buat sama-sama suami menyara hidup empat beranak .

Akhir-akhir ini juga, ramai yang teruji kesihatannya. Raudhah dan Umar tak terkecuali. Ahad lepas, sedang empat beranak siap-siap untuk tidur, Raudhah batuk-batuk dan muntah di katil. Dua kali. Tugas tambahan untuk ibu dan ayah. Sudahnya, berdenyut kepala ibu semasa bertugas Isnin lepas angkara kurang tidur. Cumulative, setelah 2 minggu bertahan kelmarin ibu collapse. Terpaksa telan panadol 2 biji. Ayah keluar ke pejabat pon ibu tak sedar. Satu badan sakit. Mujur hari ni cuti umum. Ambil kesempatan untuk recharge.

Sebenarnya gaya hidup begini sungguh tidak sihat. Macam mana sibuk pon, jangan korbankan tidur dan rehat yang mencukupi. Pernah baca artikel tentang bahaya tidak cukup tidur.

Akur dengan hujah artikel di atas. Tetapi tengok anak kurang sihat, ibu manalah yang boleh senang hati? Penat macam mana pun, ibu gagahkan diri bangkit melayan anak yang menangis. Penat macam mana pun, emosi dikawal supaya terus tenang dan sabar berdepan kerenah anak yang sudah tentu resah dengan keadaannya yang tak seperti biasa. Oh anak...bagi ibu lah batuk, selsema tu. Raudhah cepat belajar cakap ya. Ibu tak faham bahasa 'German' kakak :(

Besar tanggungjawab seorang ibu, kan? Semoga terus diberi kekuatan untuk menjaga amanah Allah ini di samping tuntutan kerja yang kian menggunung kebelakangan ini.

Peringatan untuk diri sendiri, get good rest Ja. Quality sleep if enough sleep is not possible.

P/s: Pergi pilih tile untuk rumah petang tadi. Hopefully the combination blends well. Oh please get me the grey-coloured tile for the floor! I have problem with cream-coloured. BB needs more tile shop. Boring lah the designs offered...