Category Archives: growing up

January.February.March

Whew, it’s been a while since the last time I posted here! I decided that I’m kind of missing it– so I’m back again.

I’ve been wanting to write again for a while now, but I keep pushing it off. It’s like the longer I wait, the better the post needs to be. People (like you) will read the post and be like “hmm… that is all she has to say for the last 3 months?? She waited that long to post that?

Instead of just posting about what happened today or yesterday (which would definitely get the above mentioned response)… I’m going to run through some of the bigger things that have happened in the last three months. While these events will NOT amaze you… make you cry… or give you a life-altering new view on the world, they will at least give me something to get started again with. So here we go, starting with Christmas.

1. Christmas with my family. It was the Bears-Packers game, and we have a bitter rivalry within my family. Luckily, all of the cousins are Packers fans.

Packers Cousins

Cousins

2. AIESEC Winter National Conference in San Francisco. A week-long conference with over 300 national and international delegates. It was tons of fun, and also an incredible learning experience. After the conference, we got to tour around San Francisco. I LOVE San Francisco– it’s a city, but it also is right by a beach and near to a lot of beautiful forests!

The Madison Delegation

The Madison delegation

3. The Rosebowl in Pasadena (right outside of L.A.). Despite the unfortunate loss, we had an amazing time. I’m so glad that I was able to experience going there! We did keg stands (my first time!), and were able to tour around Pasadena after the game.

Rosebowl

At the stadium before the game!

4. AIESEC Local Committee Winter Retreat. I’m a Vice President again this year in AIESEC, and the winter retreat is a time for our local committee to get prepared for the semester. We also bought a GIGANTIC globe– see it in the picture? It’s HUGE. I love winter retreat– we just go up north to the middle of nowhere, with no internet access, to enjoy a weekend of planning and having fun with some of my closest friends.

Winter Reteat

Our Local Committee (and the giant globe!)

5. Awesome Valentine’s Day surprise. I have a new boyfriend named C.J. who also used to be a music major, and he got an a cappella singing group on our campus to come sing a Valentine to me– it totally caught me off guard, and was the best Valentine I’ve ever received. I don’t actually have a picture of the singing… so I will just put a picture of us dressed super classy ;)

Dressed up as hicks

6. Rowdies West Regional AIESEC Conference. Wow, I guess  I do a lot of AIESEC stuff… this conference (called RoKS) is our regional conference where we teach our new members the skills they will need to contribute actively to the organization. This was my first time facilitating a conference, and I facilitated the communications track. My sister, Sarah was at the conference, too :)!

Some of my wonderful External Relations teammates!

7. Study for class. I’m only in 12 credits this semester, so it’s a lighter load than usual… but I think there is always more to be done in terms of studying…

Studying

My desk

8. I will be going to Sao Carlos, Brazil this summer through AIESEC! I’m really excited because I will be spending three months travelling to local high schools to teach about entrepreneurship, globalization, and leadership with 12 other students from all around the world. Now I just need to get through final exams and prepare for the trip abroad…

Sao Carlos, Brazil

9. Just got back from Orange Beach, Alabama. Spent about a week there with my mom, dad, and sister Emily. It was awesome to get a break… but now the reality of the semester is starting to sink in. Mom and I even got to go back to Mississippi one day when it rained to go gambling (we both lost $20 within the first 15 minutes).

At the Beach

Me at the beach

Overall, it’s been a pretty eventful past three months I guess. I didn’t even realize it until I wrote it all out on this post! Anyway, I better get back to studying… I can only procrastinate so much. Happy Easter!

Sleep, Taking Exams, and Studying

Okay, so I will pick up with class-reflections after exams are finished. For now, I will focus on what I will be doing over the course of the next few days: sleeping, taking exams, and studying. Clearly, all three of these activities are super interesting and are worthy of being featured in a blog post.

Last day of class

First, sleep. I love sleeping. Some people I know wake up naturally early in the morning, or claim they do not need more than six hours of sleep per night… definitely not me. I honestly think that I could sleep 10 hours every night. I’m not sure if I just have interesting dreams, am lazy, or just really like keeping my eyes closed, but I will be the first to admit that while sleep may not be the most interesting use of my time, sleeping is by far one of my favorite activities and passions in life.

Second, taking exams. I am indifferent towards taking exams. By the time you get to the exam, you pretty much know what you are going to know, and will do well or not do well accordingly. Even though exams are a really important part of my resume for my future, I still just go into an exam, fill out the stupid scantron, flip through the pages, check the time, fill in the bubbles, check it over, and turn it in. I used to get so nervous for exams, but now I’m much more just like “eh, okay, I’ll take it.” And for the record: I have only 2 exams left until I am officially on winter break.

Third, studying. I think that the term “studying” is often quite misleading in the description of how I utilize my time when I am “studying.” While the dictionary definition of studying is “The pursuit of knowledge, as by reading, observation, or research,” I would venture to say that studying would be more accurately described as “The attempted pursuit of knowledge through browsing Facebook, getting distracted by news articles, texting friends, chatting with roommates, browsing interesting blogs, and the occasional reading, observation, or research.” Not to say that I don’t actually study, but it gets so hard to focus by this time in the semester! (I’ll blame technology).

Alright, well I’m out. This time next week, I will be back at home- finished with first semester senior year!

Reflections: Freshman Year Classes

While I will not be graduating until December 2012, I still feel like college is almost over and that I need to start preparing to be a “real adult.” As I prepare to take my senior year final exams, I have become pretty sentimental about college.

I found myself thinking about memories from classes I had taken earlier in college and realized that there are a lot of random memories attached to different classes that I have taken. As a result, I am going to devote the next series of blog posts to reflecting on classes: what I learned, how I felt about them, random memories…etc. So here it goes, starting with Freshman year.

First Semester Classes————————————————————————

1. Advanced General Chemistry. I was beyond shocked when I received my first exam grade in college from this class: a big, fat, D. The main thing I took from this class was the amount of effort necessary to do well in school and how much help working in groups is. My lab group was really close in this class, and even though I didn’t end up doing anything with chemistry, I really liked this class.

2. Principles of Microeconomics. Opportunity cost: the cost of not picking an available alternative. After learning this, calling into work became much tougher to justify when I began to think of it in terms of “Is it worth not getting the $30 dollars I could have earned at work today just to sit around watching Modern Family?”

3. Vocal Instruction for Non-Voice Majors. Since I got mono first semester freshman year, a severe sore throat made it nearly impossible to practice singing. When I had my jury (singing exam) at the end of the semester, I messed up and sounded horrible. Despite the embarrassment, I still was given a good grade for effort!

4. Choral Union. Culver’s is one of my favorite fast-food type restaurants. One day when I had a concert for Choral Union in the evening, my friend and I took a bus to Culver’s. Little did we know, the return bus only comes once per hour… we missed the bus, and were stuck out by the mall for an extra hour. This nearly made me late to my concert, but I sprinted to get ready after we got back and made it just in time.

5. Introduction to Philosophy. Our discussion about whether or not humans have free will was absolutely fascinating to me. I forget what the theory was called, but there was one that thought of everything we do as a series of cause-and-effect. So, instead of being able to make decisions freely, our preferences, actions, thoughts, emotions, reactions, etc. are all a result of our past experiences and a series of cause-and-effect.

Rent

Trip to Chicago to see Rent

Second Semester Classes——————————————————————–

6. Cultural Anthropology: Human Diversity. Before taking this class, I always knew that there were some religions with “weird” medical practices and stuff, but I never realized that there were significant differences in medical practices between different cultures, too. We learned about different ways of viewing disease/illness from different cultures’ perspectives. This really shifted the way that about sickness when I was sick, and made me question Western Medicine a little more.

7. Principles of Macroeconomics. As we entered into the recession, my professor for this class was on some advisory board for some governmental organization. One thing he said that will stick with me is that he (someone with a doctorate in economics) doesn’t know the right answer to fix everything. Therefore, he said that you should always doubt when you hear politicians claim that they have all of the answers to “fix” the economy which is a very complex and not-well-understood concept.

8. Introduction to Modern Literature since 1900. In high school, I was always that person who managed to squeeze by in English class without ever really reading books. However, I decided to take this literature class to force myself to begin enjoying reading again. It definitely ended up working, I always would go sit in coffee shops and read the novels for this class as a “break” from my other school work.

9. Evolution and Extinction. You would think I would have known about this before, but there have been 5 major extinctions on our Earth that wiped out a very significant number of species alive at each point in time. Each was caused by various events such as earthquakes, flooding, and asteroids. We learned about the different species alive during each major era, and about mechanisms of evolution. I wish I had spent more time really memorizing everything we learned in this class because I don’t remember much, but I wish I did because it was some cool stuff!

10. Concert Choir. This was my first semester in Concert Choir and my first time in this excellent of a singing group. Everyone in the choir can sight read music so well, which really gave us the chance to make music with the notes on the page. I met a lot of cool friends in the group and my choral singing improved significantly in this semester.

11. Vocal Instruction for Non-Music Majors. This was the semester that I regained confidence in my vocal abilities after getting mono first semester. I became really excited about and devoted to music during this semester and decided to audition for the School of Music for Sophomore year.

First Madison Halloween

A Nation of Fatties

We are a nation of fatties. Next time you are walking down the street, look around, it’s true. Most of the people you see walking down the street may not be gigantic- but most of them will be overweight. I mean yeah, it is kind of funny that we are fat… it may not be attractive… it may make us feel a little insecure… but let’s be honest- it’s way bigger than that (no pun intended).

The obesity epidemic that we hear about is killing people and costing us a lot of money. As diseases such as diabetes, heart disease, cancer, liver disease, depression, infertility…etc. skyrocket, healthcare costs rise, too. According to the CDC, in 2008, medical costs related to obesity were estimated around $147,000,000,000. That figure has only been on the rise since then.

So what’s the solution then? We’ve all thought it at some point in time, “Why don’t those fat people just eat less? They are making the choice to be big and unhealthy.” Much of our policy with food revolves around the concept that adults have the choice to eat what they put in their mouth.

But is this true? Is it really this simple? Do adults really get to choose what they eat? Let’s look at some of the influences on food consumption in adults:

  1. Childhood. Everyone was a kid at some point! This is where you learn how to eat, how to cook, what role food plays in your life. According to the CDC, 17% of children ages 2-19yrs are obese. Even more alarming, 1 in 7 low-income PRESCHOOLERS are obese. If you were obese from the time you were 4 years old, can you even imagine how much you would have to learn about healthy eating and how much effort you would have to put forth to lose weight later in life?
  2. Wealth. It is a pretty well-known fact that eating healthy costs more money. In fact, according to a study done by the University of New Hampshire, many people in America can’t even afford the USDA’s new “MyPlate” food recommendations. Additionally, lower income individuals are less likely to have a reliable car to grocery shop with, likely to have grocery stores located further (on average) from  their residence, and are less-likely to be well-educated about healthy eating.
  3. Marketing. Billions of dollars each year are spent each year on trying to make unhealthy food appear healthy. For casual consumers trying to make healthy decisions, choices can easily be swayed by such tactics. Let’s take the organic food market as an example. Since organic foods appear healthier to the average consumer, people will often pay a surplus for goods labeled as organic, even if they aren’t actually healthier. There is organic mac-n-cheese, goldfish knock-offs, cookies… pretty much all the junk food you can imagine in “organic form” to appear healthier.
Obviously there are many other factors which affect eating habits, but those are some indirect influences that are easily overlooked when considering how people become overweight. What I don’t understand is why more isn’t being done to improve eating habits in America.
A few things that could make a big impact include:
  1. Tighter restrictions on food and beverage marketing and sales. Why do we even allow crappy food to make it to the shelves? It’s literally a toxin that pushes our people towards an earlier death and less fulfilling lives. It would be one thing if it were just adults feeding themselves, but we are letting parents feed their kids frozen pizza, McDonalds, chips… etc.. for dinner every night. Those kids who have been overweight since younger ages not only are likely to continue those habits later, but are also more likely to develop chronic diseases later in life.
  2. Health education in schools. Remember health class? Yeah, that class you have for a year during high school where you learn about sex, drugs, and that you should exercise? These classes should be better utilized to inform our youth about healthy eating and the impacts of unhealthy eating. In an ideal world, schools would combine foods class, gym class, and health class to create a well-rounded approach to encouraging health lifestyles.
  3. Healthier hot lunches (good tasting ones!). If we are feeding our children chicken tenders, fries, and flavored milk for lunch… how can we expect them to make healthier choices outside of school? Many schools who have tried to feed kids healthier food end up giving their kids gross canned peas or “mystery meat.”  If we teach our nation from a young age that eating healthy food can be good tasting and fun, there would be less of a stigma on healthy eating later in life.
I guess those are just a few things that I think need to be done to help improve our nation’s obesity epidemic. I guess another solution would be to just stop making clothing above a certain size… but that might be a little too extreme…
That’s it for today! I probably should start doing homework…

First Week of Class

Yep, it’s over. Summer is over and school is officially in session. Is this a good thing? To be honest- I’m not really sure yet. I am PUMPED about some of the classes I’m taking this semester, but I’m sure I will miss the nice weather and freedom in a couple weeks…

Here are the classes I’m taking:

  1. Health Psychology
  2. Management and Human Resources 300
  3. Marketing Research
  4. Business Law
  5. Child Psychology

Something really weird– my dad had the same Business Law professor as I have!! (Or at least we are 99% sure this is true…)

Either way, I am really looking forward to all of the classes that I’m taking this semester, especially the Health Psychology class in which we will be discussing some stuff about Public Health Promotions which I would love to someday get into!

I’m going to go take a nap and finish up some readings now so I can have some fun tonight :) — another update to come soon!

PS- visit www.aiesecus-madison.org for information about how to INTERN ABROAD or become a MEMBER of AIESEC-Madison. We will be holding info-sessions next week!

Hippie Christmas

This past weekend was what we call in Madison, “Hippie Christmas.” It is the weekend of move-out/move-in during which a good portion of the city becomes homeless for a night or two. Many people who are moving on to bigger, better things also dump large possessions on the side of the street (such as beds, dressers, and tables) which they don’t want to move with them to wherever they are going.

Basically- Madison transforms from a nice-looking college town to looking like an actual landfill in a matter of hours. People (college students, homeless people, and randos from around the city) then dig through the piles for hidden treasures. Thus- the nickname “Hippie Christmas.”

 

The thing is, “Hippie Christmas” for me consisted of many of the things a “Normal Christmas” consists of… I cleaned for hours on end, ate unhealthy food (and a lot of it), spent a lot of money, and got some free stuff!

We moved a bunch of my stuff into my new place on Friday afternoon, which I was super excited for. My new house/apartment thing is AWESOME. A great view of the lake, my own room, windows, a lot of cabinet space in the kitchen… pretty awesome overall. Well, so I thought anyway, until I talked to the previous tenant (who hadn’t moved all of his stuff out). It turns out that my beautiful new dwelling is shared by RODENTS and COCKROACHES. Oh- and it was a former crackhouse. Hmm- interesting… nothing much I could do except move my stuff in and hope for the best… oh, and buy as much roach spray as we could find at Walgreens.

Friday evening was spent as a last-time roommie hoorah with my old roommates and some of our mutual friends at a bonfire by picnic point (until the racooons started to attack!!). Then, after having nightmares about cockroaches and mice all of Friday night- we spent the entirety of Saturday cleaning our old apartment. Oh- and eating Rocky Rococo’s and donuts… (shut up- you would have done it too!).

Then it officially arrived- MOVE IN DAY!! Unlike many, I was able to manage being homeless for a mere 3 hours on Sunday. I don’t think I would make a very good homeless person though… during that 3 hours, I managed to eat breakfast, buy coffee, and then paint my fingernails. I suppose I could make a good rich homeless person, but I don’t think I could do the whole not having money AND not have anywhere to go type of thing. 

My things during the 3 homeless hours

I was supposed to get a bed delivered on Sunday from a guy on Craigslist. (dont judge me…!). The guy sounded super legit- he had bought the QUEEN sized bed 2 years ago, and was willing to sell it to me for $140 AND deliver it to my house. He said the bed had been used max 30 times because it had just sat in his guest room. After waiting all day for him to call or show up, he never returned any of my calls– nor did he ever show up… Asshole.

So after being totally screwed over with that bed, I ended up finding another bed from a girl who was moving in with her boyfriend– they delievered it yesterday (Tuesday) and her boyfriend was even nice enough to set it up! It looks amazing, and I slept super-well last night. It feels amazing to finally have a place to sleep.

Our kitchen is looking great… and all we have left really is to get a couch into our living room. One of my roommates’ parents are brining one up this weekend, so it will be nice to finally have everything together :).

So that is my story of Hippie Christmas in Madison… I’m glad I survived 3 hours of homelessness and 2 nights without a bed. I suppose reflecting on the weekend I have nothing to really complain about, although it seemed pretty horrible when I was living through it. Let’s be honest though- moving/cleaning and stuff is annoying and stressful. Perhaps Hippie Christmas 2012 will be a little bit more low-key?

Oh and ps- only one cockroach has been spotted (it was dead!) and no mice have been spotted as of yet. I will definitely keep you updated.

Move Out!

The weekend is finally here (well, almost)!! I’m moving my stuff into the basement of my new house tomorrow — will clean my old apartment all day Saturday (yayy?) — and then will finally be able to officially settle into my new place on Sunday afternoon.

When I first started packing, I was SO excited to move, thinking about how much fun it is to organize my stuff and get settled into a new place… but then the logistics of moving came into play. I’ve spent the last few days trying to figure out when I can do everything, who will be bringing me,  how I will transport things, calling landlords, e-mailing random people on craigslist, texting my parents…. it’s been quite the process. I definitely take back what I said earlier this week about “loving moving.”

Either way— all of my stuff is packed up and ready to be moved tomorrow. Then it’s on to the weekend… I’m embarrassed to admit it, but I am really excited to dumpster dive all of Saturday and see if I can find a desk chair and a dresser for my new apartment (cheap college kid here– I’ll admit it)! If I’m lucky, maybe we will even find a cute little kitchen table!

I can’t wait to post pictures of my new place. Moving out of the closet I currently reside in is something I am definitely looking forward to. My room now is about 7ft x 10ft ish, shared by my friend, AND has no windows. My huge room that I do NOT have to share will be a welcome change :). Although I will miss those late night roomie talks…

That’s all for now. Check back for some photos of the new place!

Spike the Fluffy Girl Dog

Spike

The only living creature that gets so excited that they can’t contain themselves when they see me for the first time in a couple weeks is my dog, Spike. If only my friends were the same way… although I might be a little embarrassed if my friends jumped around and wagged their butts like dogs when they saw me. Yeah, maybe I would rather only my dog act like that when she sees me…

Either way- back to the point. When they say dogs are a man’s best friend- they aren’t kidding. Spike is a mixed breed dog called a Cantel– which we are pretty sure means something more along the lines of “can’t tell” … but we love her anyway. She might be awkward-looking (at least when she gets shaved), slightly annoying, and loud… but all of those traits are what make her so endearing.

Spike

We bought her at a place a couple hours north of my hometown when I was in 8th grade for Father’s Day. As we were looking at the different breeds of dog- my dad picked out Spike from of all of the other dogs there. When we first picked her out, we were told that she was a boy… but when we went to actually buy her- it turns out that she was actually a girl. By that time it was too late. We loved her, and it was definitely too late to change her name to an actual girl name (at least according to my dad…).

Cantel

Cute Puppy!

Thus began our time with the fluffy girl dog named Spike. She smells bad sometimes. She is scared of rabbits. She humps blankets (don’t ask… she might get embarrassed). She loves playing catch. She loves eating bones and pretzels. Overall- she is a great dog. Other than when she pees on the carpet… but she’s gotten better. We all make mistakes, right?

Spike

She also does some really cute things. Like the other day, everyone was asleep in our house and I was in the shower. Spike usually stays downstairs, but as I walked out of the bathroom in my towel, I saw her laying there on the ground in the upstairs hallway out side of the bathroom! Ahh the little things in life- totally brought a smile to my face.

Well- that’s the end of my dog-bragging for the day. I’m starting to remind myself of the Psychology Statistics lecturer I had last year who couldn’t stop talking about her dog… which was for lack of a better word… beyond boring. I honestly never thought of myself as an animal person until Spike- now I’m a little bit of an animal-nerd. Oh well :).

Off to watch my sister Sarah paint and maybe watch a movie. Night!

Craft Spurts and Pork-ing Lots

Per-usual, I rolled out of bed 10 minutes before I was meeting two of my friends for breakfast… and by the time I biked there I was more than ready for a cup of coffee. We met at P.J. Pipers, a new place in Cedarburg… and it was really good.

I’m seriously amazed though, how can cooks keep it straight which eggs they are cooking which way? We all ordered our eggs differently- I got mine over-medium, and my friends got theirs’ sunny-side up and over-hard. Half of the time when I try to make eggs in the morning, I forget they are cooking and they wind up a little too hard/brown. Oh well. Someday I need a class in egg-cooking… any experts out there?

Next door to the breakfast place is (or was) a scrapbooking store which is now going out of business… so I stopped in and bought some cardstock and random patterns of paper to make cards with! I then spent the rest of the afternoon with my sister Emily (Sarah was babysitting…) cutting and pasting messages on cards. I do not claim to be an artist– but I do go through spurts of craft-making. Today was “most def” one of dem days.

The cards are what Emily and I like to call “ugly-cute” — i.e. we tried, but it’s hard to make actually good cards out of paper! (Some of my friends call that my lack of artistic ability… but I like to call it being creative. Or maybe seeing things from a different angle…)

I also made a Spongebob card for my friend who likes Spongebob- I thought this one was pretty cute!

After card-making, I continued my day of being social by accompanying my mom to the grocery store (why is it always so cold in there??). This errand was then followed by dinner!

Weird story though– it’s my mom’s birthday on Sunday so she got this coupon in the mail today for this restaurant called Jerry’s Old Town Inn… which she looked at, confused, and then tossed into the garbage. Then we were driving around looking for a place to eat when she found this place that sounded interesting. We drove into the parking lot, or should I say “pork-ing lot…”

Hahaha. I got a kick out of that one… But back to the story. We thought the place looked cute, so we walked in… sat down… ordered some wine… and then we took a closer look at the logo on the menu. It turns out that that was the place she had received the coupon for this morning! I am not sure what the chances of that would be… but we thought it was pretty crazy/random/ironic.

We ordered ribs– which were delicious. I never used to like ribs, but I have definitely joined the fan club. There was also a lot of pig memorabilia located all around the restaurant (see the pig-chef-man above for an example). Definitely worth a drive out to Germantown though if you are ever in the area.

Overall- a good day. I have to get my teeth cleaned tomorrow morning so that is all for tonight. G’night!

The Hypocrisy with Fart Jokes

Laughing

Sisters

Call me immature, but I still get a laugh out of a good fart joke. I’m writing this assuming that most people reading this also laugh at fart jokes still… and for those of you who do not still find immature crude humor funny, you should probably stop reading here.

For those who giggled a little at the thought of a good fart joke, let’s continue on. Today was the first day in a while that I have hung out with a seven year old, but my mom has a little sister from the Big Brother Big Sister program, so I was given the opportunity to hang out with her little sister today.

After getting past the initial re-getting-to-know-you phase, we started making fart jokes with each other. Meanwhile my mom is standing in the same room playing along, and then cringing… eventually encouraging us to talk about something else.

Later that day; however, after dropping off my mom’s little sister, we were driving home and we started giggling about how funny those fart jokes actually were! That marked the beginning of my new theory that those immature fart jokes are actually funny to all generations, it’s just that you reach a certain age where you discipline younger people for making jokes… and then go laugh about it afterwards! Such a hypocrisy– all of those years I thought I was just gross or un-funny, when in reality I was making some of the few jokes that everyone can laugh at.

NOTE:  If you don’t know me that well- I swear, I am not always making fart jokes… but the occasional one is definitely welcome.