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Depression: It’s our fault.

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As you all know my marriage has come to an end and the Number One contributing factor in this happening is that dirty fuckin word Depression.
In the almost 4 years I’ve been writing this stuff out the number of people who come to me suffering from one form of depression or another has risen exponentially.
I’m talking it was one in 1000 before, but now it’s more like one in 3.

Depression is a pandemic sweeping across the world and we have no one to blame but ourselves.
Why? Because we now live in a world where emotions are bad and being lazy and no longer self motivated to do anything ourselves, we run to Doctors and Governments to do something about it.

No one allows themselves to cry any more, or be angry or hurt.
People, we were given emotions for a reason. They are our release valve. They dump all the toxins in our emotions and psyche and heal us.
But with Fluoride and Artificial Sweeteners, Sugar, Antibiotic filled meats and dairy, the low fat bullshit stripping our brains of the healthy fats we need to coat it and now the medications we take in bucket loads willingly, we have depression when the smallest thing happens.
I bet you no one will have depression when the Cleansing hits and we are all having to fight for tins in the Supermarket lol

Get off your asses and take your Blob Damn life back.
We have an entire Universe full of Conscious love and light out there desperate to teach us the ways of the Universe.
All our loved ones throughout the course of our Evolutionary creation are begging us to listen to what they have to say and what do we do?
We eat cake and watch the Fucking Kardashians.

Also this ‘Labels’ bull shit and the Moral Brigade, these pain in the ass ‘Black Lives matter’ trouble makers and ‘Feminists’ etc…the governments orchestrate these little pockets of sub division so we will run to them to fix it.
Well guess what people? You get the Government you deserve.

They’re coming, and they are bringing tanks and Thought Police. So now you can’t be angry that some cops are out of control because your a Terrorist and if you say anything bad your a Terrorist and threat to the nation you live in.
Even though freedom of speech and expression are in the front of all great nations Declarations or Constitutions.

Remember when we were kids, things were so much less complicated when shit happened.
They are allowed to cry and have tantrums but when your an adult you suddenly need to focus on working and going to University and pay taxes that aren’t even legal.
We hand ourselves over to the Matrix and then wonder why we are unhappy and our souls are crying out for us to be FREE!!!!

People, please, I beg you, STOP allowing yourself the right to have a fuckin emotion. Life is shit sometimes. Its supposed to teach you the lessons YOU asked for before you came here to be you.

We are incredible Vessels of love and light and only a few of us (Empaths) understand this needs to just cry or be worried or whatever.

We have ALL had to rise above shit that when it’s over we have unclenched our butts and breathed a sigh of relief. But life’s issues aren’t the hurdles we think they are. They are stepping stones not hurdles. We place each stone there ourselves.
WE are the masters of our destiny, no God or Deity. US, we are one consciousness. We are ALL one. We are symbiotic and connected by the light in the Universe. This is why we don’t know what is beyond the edge of space because we haven’t finished creating it yet. I’ve seen it. I know how t works. I can step outside all time and see the light and why and how it works because my brian (yes I know I said Brian, watch the animated movie Igor, I LOVE that movie, it is so sweet and I feel like I’m the monster) releases its own DMT it seems without the need for the drug. We all can but mine is just obvious lol

We are ALL supposed to be like me. The way I deal with stress, the way I understand the Universe, the way I leave all the big stuff to fate, my gift is nothing if we are all like it and if everyone was more like me in terms of this gift stuff depression wouldn’t exist.
Anyone can be like me if the want is there to put in the years of dedication and training.

This year should of been the worst of my life. So much has changed. My heart has been broken more times this year than any other in my life and you know how bad my life has been.
Yet I’m the happiest I have EVER been in my entirety of life here as Debbie.
Since I gave over to the fear and allowed myself to focus on following my compass, get it. What I am, what I need to be, what I need to do etc…..to be happy. I found pure light.

And boy am I getting happy. I see only light now. I’m surrounding by spirits hundreds deep, I have the most incredible job. Oh My Blob, my readings I actually enjoy them now because I’m helping those who want direction not answers. So it spreads positivity and hope. Where as before I was always worried I was letting people down. My fear of letting people down made me nervous.

I’m teaching thee most incredibly loyal, gifted, loving students. They all tell me how they followed their gut to find me. (They followed their compass) and of my senior students I can honestly say I have found my family.
Even when I’ve had to go Dark to teach certain lessons these last few days they ALL understand why it had to be done and never judged me and in fact by having their support and permission it illuminated many truths and brought certain people to the light who should never have found it in the first place.

My sons are so clever and funny. They are bat shit crazy like their parents but they are individuals and happy even with all this going on with Mr Ex.
But they embrace my crazy and now my 7 year old is in to Physics. Even has theories of his own we like to discuss.

Mr Ex and I? We are the best of friends and will continue to love and support each other through out all of time. All divorces should be like ours. I’m taking nothing but what is mine, and he will help me with the boys without lawyers getting involved. No drama, just healing.

Everything in life has an opposite, for balance. Without perfect balance nothing can evolve. Left/Right, Up/Down, Light/Dark, Yes/No, Good smells/Bad smells, Love/Hate, Day/Night, Sleep/Wake, Run/Walk, Laugh/Cry etc…..you name it, it will have an opposite. So you have to know that when your depressed because your marriage is over, the good times WILL come. It has to. It’s Universal law of balance. But what is happening with us on earth is there are so many of you suffering from some form of emotional or Spirit blockage that we are now tipping the balance the wrong way. We either go up the ladder to light which is evolution and all knowledge, all time, all creation, everything, or we tip it the other way to dark and de evoling or nothingness. Which everything in the Universe including the dark are trying to avoid.
Nothing wants to go down the wrong part of the Black Hole. I call it The Tornado Effect.

By us not doing anything about our situations we head further and further into the black hole (metaphoric black hole of life I mean this time not the actual black hole like I meant last time).

So how to beat depression?
Honestly? Grow up. Embrace the suck, admit your dramas, get off our medication, stop trying to pass the responsibility for your bad decisions onto other people, own your problems, take responsibility and get off processed garbage. Sugar and Fluoride, MSG, SLF, Sweeteners, all that shit is killing our brains, turn off your Blob Damn TVS and read a book, go for a walk, stop being fed the lies that your not good enough. Do what makes you happy and fuck every body else. You will give love and support where you earn it. Give respect where you get it, love with all of your heart, do what you love and love what you do. Stop working jobs you hate and follow your dream. It’s better to try and be happy than fail at being happy?
Know that you chose this life for the very lessons your running away from. So face them head on.
You ask for this life. The reason your so miserable is your Third self or Highest Self knows it is here to have the Human Experience and by you fighting your compass trying to point north your denying yourself the experience you sent yourself down here to learn.

If you are living a life where you wish you were doing something else then your pointing your dial away from North. Over time that wears heavy on the dial. Now imagine your intuition is the dial and the decisions you make the magnetic force pulling that dial to North. So like a magnets polarity pushing when your put two magnets against each other, your pushing your Soul away from where it was set to be all along.

So everything you do, every thought, every action, every decision, every plan has it’s opposite response. So if you make a positive decision, a positive plan, do something there is also the alternative to it out there. The potential of what could be if you make the wrong decision.
Your gut, your intuition is your compass and no one listens to it but me lol
I’m the only idiot brave enough to listen to every gut feeling and thought BUT I’ve lost 200lbs and found the love of loves because of it. I have an incredible career now and a book coming out and I’m fighting the fight to get to New England (well that area). I’m happier than I’ve ever been and at 43 I now have a 25yr old in love with me hahahahaha (I KNOOOOW RIIIIIGHT?) lol
Bless him the silly boy lol

But I did ALL the things my compass told me to do and my life has changed so dramatically I now welcome the bad shit that happens because the Universal law of Balance dictates that what turns to shit also turns to roses 🙂
That’s why you enjoy the positives in life because it can change in an instant but it’s AAAALLLL based on what you do with what happens next that decides what happens next.

See life as you standing on a pair of skis. One ski is Light, Positive, Evolution of your Spiritual Self, the Other Ski Dark, Negative and De Evolving on a Spiritual level.
Our job while having the human experience is to balance just right on those skis, not too dark, not too light just going at the right speed to have our journey. But soon enough you get the balance just right so your skis go so fast that before you know it your traveling at the speed of what??????? Anyone?………LIGHT!!!
Good Students. I know the 4 that had their hands up immediately already from here lol (see…..Time Traveller lol)
Get it now?
Sort your shit out and watch how fast you get to the light and evolve?
My light is blinding now I’m going so fast.
Many of my students have just gotten on the slopes so I can’t wait till they catch up and they will because my experiences mean I can show them how to avoid the hard stuff. I have the cheats to life lol no having to go through the shit I went through to know what I know.
Some still have the fear but honestly if your that miserable in your life, surely trying to be happy is worth giving it a go because if it doesn’t work you haven’t lost anything and you can say ‘See I told me so’ lol
Nothing found nothing lost right?

You owe this to yourself and your Ancestors to try. Otherwise you’ll be back down for sure.
We are those kinds of nerdy Spirits lol it’s ALL about the Lesson of the Human experience.
That’s why we do it. But we control what happens, when and how. Fight or Flee.
I used to think everything was predestined but it isn’t. We choose it all. Everything, even when we die.

I chose to fight and I’ve been fighting like a bastard these last 12 months Oh My Blob.

Oh and the reason I am anti Black Lives Matter is because I think ALL lives matter. I’d like to see the people protest the Asian Slaves in the textile and sex industry etc….the African Diamond slaves, The Eastern European Orphans, (All Orphans tbh), First Nations, Aboriginals, LGBT, Men, Hispanics, Muslims,Palestinians, Homeless, Gypsies Animals, Women, The Elderly, Black people, Irish, Gingers, Nerds, Handicap, Mentally challenged, even ugly Spiders the Devils Minions, ALL lives matter, I could be here all day,trees, plants, even dark side, all victims in some way, and we allow it to not matter. We all have good and bad versions. Your going to get good Priets and bad ones, Good Teachers and Bad ones, Good Judges and DAs and bad ones, good black/White/Hispanic/Catholic/Muslim/Gay/Straight/Handicapped you get my drift, I could go on and on. But you know what I mean. If you don’t agree that ALL lives matter then your to blame for the state of all of this in this world. Your either a part of the solution or a part of the problem because that’s the balance lol See how it works? lol
See….I told you I wasn’t crazy lol The dead people in my head taught this stuff. Lol
Wait till I do my book called The Science of the Paranormal.

So we are all to blame for this shit. We got what we deserved.
We are living our collective Spiritual Karma.

A handful of people tell us who to hate and we obey. Even though deep down we know it’s wrong.
Immigration…….we ALL come from Immigrants. We ALL came from somewhere. No one will be 100% pure anything.

The trouble isn’t letting someone in from a different country but letting everyone in without checking the moral fibre of the person you let in.
If your there to work and make a life for yourself then come on in. Your going to stimulate the economy, and build infrastructure. If your there for benefits and have nowhere to go then maybe you don’t come in, especially if you can’t read or write.
BUT…..what we should be doing is helping these countries so these poor souls aren’t having to leave in the first place. And we do that by getting rid of Bankers, Government, Sovereignty, Big Business, Pointless Celebrity, Military, Pharmaceutical companies etc….
If we all lived the same way there wouldn’t be any of this shit.

I’d of worked in every country but now if it wasn’t for immigration.
Bastards. Who are we to say no you can’t come my soil? It’s not even OUR soil, it’s Earths and she belongs to ALL of us in the Universe.

We are ALL responsible for each other, when we have the SJWs and Politically Correct, and Moral Brigade getting offended by every little thing we de evolve ourselves faster than war.
War is tragic and brutal and over with eventually. Take your emotions and freedoms and rights of expression away etc…and it poisons us slowly over centuries.

This is why we are on the dark side of the Black Hole and Brethren aren’t.
We are heading towards that black holes corner pocket faster than we can maintain the balance and we all know what happens when a house gets sucked into the wrong part of the Tornado.

So you choose. Life is choice. Be the change you want to see because know one can fix what is wrong in you because only your compass knows where it’s north is.
Deny it and you deny yourself.
So don’t blame anyone else if you don’t listen to yourself. The answer is in you and has been all along.

The question is how much do you want to be happy and live the life your soul asked for?

I was taught this by the dead. I share it with you to show you that the dead are NOTHING to fear. Nor the Dark Side as just these very last days I had to work WITH the Dark Side to resolve a problem surrounding a Student of mine.

You HAVE to know the Dark to know the Light. It is the balance of life.
Don’t be afraid. I’m trying to show you how, if you just listen and trust your instincts your compass finds it’s way to where it is meant to be every time.

The bad stuff happens because it is meant to, but with bad comes good. With good comes bad. You just have to find the balance.
But as I say The Fear of the Paranormal is never as bad as the reality of it and I’m living proof.
Now I just have to be heard a little louder which is why I need to get to America. I know the course of my true destiny lies there.
My compass is set and I can’t fight the magnets pulling me in and to be honest I don’t want to stop it.
Knowing this path is taking me faster to the light and the happier I become the closer I get to it.
So I won’t jump off any time soon.
Light is soooo right. I can’t even begin to tell you.
But I’m gonna try.
I’ve been crossing over so many Spirits I think maybe it might be my thing lol My main purpose, my true gift. I just can relate to them. They trust me to do the right thing.
But more about that later.

We are deigned to self govern
So when we bottle stuff like shaking a bottle of coke eventually it’s going to explode and erupt. It’s the same with emotion.
I admire people that withdraw and mope
or like me I go off and cry
crying is my release
it’s just in how you choose to deal with it comes the hard part
finding the balance
so get angry and punch a pillow but don’t go out and punch a cow or small child
hahaha

Listen to music that you know can change your vibration, go for a walk, hug a tree, bake a cake, play golf, paint, fish (catch and release or for dinner not for sport or the blood lust), whatever it is you have to do to bring calm to your light. Stop stopping yourself from feeling. Put your anger towards something that gets that kenetic energy out of you. Just put it into the right action. Make good choices when wanting to be angry not bad ones. YOU set the balance. YOU. No one else knows your balance but you. No one IS you but you so no one can understand what YOUR balance is.
And this is what I’m teaching you all, this is what my students are doing. Skiing lessons 🙂
And I’m the Ski Instructor called Sven, but it’s a Military grade Ski Slope so I’m the Drill Instructor as well and I’m sorry but my Teacher was right and I apologize to you now Pauline, can you hear me up there? lol I’m so sorry lol You were right you little tiny person. I am tougher than you. You said I’d be a tough teacher and I laughed at you. I told you I’d bake cakes and tuck them in at night lol
I’m hard Mama, Oh My Blob, I’m like Satan with big tits lol
I’m the Satan of the Paranormal Sciences hahaha bloody typical lol
My poor students lol they are tough man, I’ve not had to drop a student in months and boy have I thrown some shit at them lol
It’s an honor to serve with these men’s and women. We are going to war together to change history forever and I couldn’t ask for a better regiment to serve with.
Our galactic brethren are with us, fighting the good fight and the light is starting to shine.
Soon enough if I can do this right, before I die there will be a few hundred thousand less people afraid of death and what happens after and then we can see death as a celebration because they get to go back to the light if they lived the right life while here.
So get it right. Please listen to what I’m saying in these posts. What I want you all to do is try it. Try the way I’m saying to be. Just for a month or a year listen to what I’m saying. It works. I promise you. You wait till you see my weight loss. Once I’m down to my goal weight you wait till you see the change it made all because I listened to the voices in my head lol The dead.
If I’m wrong……well then I just won’t play anymore lol Your on our own. I’m done lol I quit lol

Love and Light
Mama
xoxox

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Over the past few months I have been learning, studying and developing a variety of new techniques which I have begun encompassing into a new form of reading.
The main aspect of this new technique is giving the client guidance on how they can achieve their goals and find balance unlike a traditional reading which is just predictive.
This will offer guidance from Spirit in regards to things like career, love, money, mental health etc….
I believe I am the first to offer this kind of reading.

In the course of doing so Spirit will show you the future and you can have with the predictions being far more accurate than me trying to pull them out of the ether.
You will learn more about your journey this way as there will be no fear on my part of getting the connection with Spirit wrong.

The sooner people realize Spirit are conscious energy and not physical beings to describe in detail the better the connection will be.
You will be able to learn so much from them if you just listen to the messages rather than look for evidence they are there.

If your having life issues, depression, worried about anything or just want to connect to Spirit and the Universe please come book a reading and let me show you how to follow your compass to perfect balance and peace in your life.

You get 5 questions $50 £35 but your readings will be done either digitally or written in great detail via email. I also do phone calls as well. Even international ones.
You will NOT be disappointed. I will work my ass off helping guide you with all the knowledge of the Universe behind me.

My students and I are on an incredible journey together and one day soon I’ll have more of me to go around but I want to spread Spirits hot sticky love all over the globe and show people how a reading should be done.
Spirit can change your life. You never need to be unhappy, lost or disconnected again if you listen to Spirit.

Email me at debbiedakiwi@gmail.com if your interested.

I am Psychic Therapy or Spiritual Counseling if you will.

I look forward to walking your journey with you.

Love and Light
Debbie

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My Gift Has Changed. I Appear to Time Slip during Readings now

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It seems to be now when I’m doing a reading I am able to Time Slip during the reading. I have found in the last 8 readings I have done not only could I Appear beside the Client while I’m watching them like a Spirit going about something I’m predicting in a reading but I am also able to Time Slip to their Past Life events as well.

I know this sounds crazy because it’s so different to an Actual Time Slip.

I don’t get the Hum or Buzzing like I do a Time Slip in Public. This is while I’m Psychically reading for the client.

Let me explain as best I can.

Before when I read for someone it was like a movie playing out in my mind. I would get images and glimpses often in quick succession and Spirit will fill in the blanks. But recently I’ve been basically transported to the space and time of a particular imagine in the reading where I can not only see everything as though I am actually there but I can smell the smells, feel the weather on my skin and describe what I’m seeing in great detail.

I did it just tonight with a client. I saw him standing outside a building taking a phone call. Instantly I felt the cold air hit my face, (Still do actually) I could feel the snow hitting my face and my face IS cold. I could smell his cologne, I could feel my feet crunching on the gravel. I could describe where he was standing in such great detail he knew exactly where I was talking about. I can touch objects and retain the feel of their fabric. It’s remarkable.

I’ve had two clients who were shown past life issues where I was right there, watching them go about their business in their last life. I could smell the blood, the heat, the screams of the men dying in battle. I could feel the metal of the saw as it cut limbs off. The feel of the cotton cloth she was using to wipe the blood off her face. She was in the heat of battle during the American Civil War. I can describe it in vivid detail because I was there.

The trouble is, I’m never prepared for it so I can’t make sure I take a tablet for the pain it gives me when I come out of it.

As with Time Slips the common thing is my eyes start to go blurry and my real life seems over lapped with the image from the reading. And when I come out of it I am WIPED out. Seriously WIPED out. I can barely move. The Nausea is oh my god…..I can’t even begin to describe it. Nothing takes it away either.

I will sleep like the dead tonight (no pun intended). It has taken over 2 hours for my eye sight to almost repair itself.

There is a down side though.

One of the Clients I read for lost his Mother when he was 9 years old. His Mother was murdered and no one knew to this day what happened and who. I was transported to the room. I witnessed in great detail this poor woman being beaten about the head and strangled. I felt her thinking about her son as she took her last breath. I was able to describe who killed her. I’ve seen death many times before but not like that. I will never forget it. The freakiest part about it all is I swear to God, she saw me. I swear she knew I was there.

I don’t know what is happening to me. I am letting Spirit guide me the way they feel I need it. I accept any experience they give me as being part of my Greater Plan. And I know I can’t interfere with anything I see and I never would but the incredible thing about it all is It isn’t just in a reading now that I can do it. It’s Past Life Readings and Future experiences I’m travelling too. So my Time Slips are without Time.

Ever The Student

xoxox

 

 

 

Never Ignore the Signs of Communication (revised)

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People always say to me ‘Oh your so lucky, I wish I could do what you do’ and it always makes me laugh because people always assume I get the lovely premonitions, the pleasant Spirits, and the lottery numbers.

The truth of the matter is Spirit communicate to everyone all the time but most people are usually too busy to notice.

The thing is you don’t want to do is ignore the signs because when it comes to Spirit, they are as subtle as a brick if they need to get something across to you. This is why people mistake being scratched and pushed as something dark and negative. 99.9% of all Spirits are just trying to get recognized and don’t realize their own strength of energy when they do manage to get across to someone.

In all honesty, they don’t want to hurt you, they can’t physically touch you, they can only project their energy onto yours to make you feel like you can be touched. It takes more energy to be a negative Spirit than it does to be a positive one. So in most stories of TRUE negative Spirit cases, your batteries will drain, they drain YOU, no lights will work, no TV or radio will function because they need that much energy. Besides which most cases of negative energy come with a level of positive protection.

Our ancestors and Spirit Elders would never allow anything to get too close to us. And so many poor misunderstood Spirits get blamed for being over zealous in their approach as being negative.

As I always say ‘You’ll know when it is a dark Spirit because the fear is so intense you feel like your going to die’.

Children and animals are the best judge of whether a Spirit is of positive or negative persuasion or not. If they are constantly sick for no reason, can’t sleep, can’t eat, restless, scream or growl at certain rooms etc…refuse to enter a home etc…then you know it is something to worry about. But if your hair goes up on your arms or back of your neck it is not a sign of negative energy. I explain it like this.

Our hair standing up on end and the goosebumps is like our alarm system. Remember I said if you imagine we are like a house and Your God whoever they are owns the house, and our Spirit Elders are our butler (you may call them Guardian Angels or Spirit Guides, they are all the same thing) and our Elders are our cook, cleaner etc…well we also come with a built-in alarm system that lets us know if something or someone is trying to gain illegal entry lol

Our hair stands on end, we get goosebumps, our mouths get dry, our heart beats faster, our pulse races, we get jumpy and jittery. But it doesn’t mean it’s anything negative trying to get in, it just means SOMETHING is near.

Then what happens is we become alert and aware of something and it automatically closes us down to prevent anything coming too close. By which I mean it shuts our relaxed energy down to prevent negative and positive Spirits from making contact we don’t want.

Most Spirit or Ghost encounters don’t come when we sit watching to see if the door will move with the camera ready to catch it but rather when we are going about our business. The saying goes ‘A Watched Pot Never Boil’s the same is said of  ‘A watched Ghost Never Performs’ so to speak lol and I’m sorry for using the term Ghost, it is rude and disrespectful of Spirit but they know I jest to make a point’

It really bothers me the way I see some investigators act when on an investigation. There is too much work done where they concentrate on the gadgets that can cost way too much money, there is a lot of talking and discussion and not enough paying attention.

You don’t need to do investigations at night, it makes no difference. If the place is haunted, it is haunted during the day and the night.

Investigations just seem to be best done at night because it is quieter. But with a lot of these gadgets can hinder the investigation. You really don’t need half the stuff they use today. EMF detectors for one. Yes they pick up on electrical frequencies but to be honest, even in buildings with no electricity, there is magnetic frequencies in everything because of the sun and because time is gravity based our planet is extremely magnetic and I feel magnetic energy around me.

If your good at investigating you don’t need them or anything else that lets you know they are there. If there are reports of activity it should be enough. You have to be logical and be sensible. Don’t put everything down to Spirit and don’t dismiss the small stuff. You need to pay attention to your surroundings because Spirit will try to come to you through many ways. From Loved ones to trapped Spirits, they have many ways of coming through.

Here are some ways you can tell Spirit are trying to communicate.

Apart from the obvious hair standing on end, goosebumps etc…they may play a song on the radio that reminds you of them, a commercial, a movie. It will usually be obscure or one that isn’t played often but has meaning to you.

You will feel cold or warm but down in your soul. It is more than a breeze, it touches the very core of you and you may find yourself wondering ‘who could that be’.

If ever you have felt an unexplained breeze and thought ‘That’s odd, I wonder what that was’ That it Spirit.

A photo or memento might come from nowhere. They LOVE the what I call ‘Look what you found’ game. So if something appears from no where and is out of place then that is Spirit too.

You might feel something touch you, it either feels like cobwebs or actual fingers. You’ll know because it stays with you for a long time after it happens. Nausea is a common one for me. Smells, and sounds. Often you might hear a cry, laugh, or your name being called.

It can be thoughts said out loud or in your head. Mostly in your voice but not always.

Objects will get moved. (They can’t physically touch them but if they build up enough energy they can make it move by thought aka telekinetics )

You may wake up feeling like someone is in your room and for no reason you’ll start thinking about the person. It can make you feel unsettled. Not frightened but almost,……like your soul can’t rest because it’s on guard. In that case if you acknowledge the Spirit they are happy to leave you be then.

But this is the trouble. They don’t get acknowledged so they have to become more drastic in their communications and this can lead to all sorts of misunderstandings.

In any case you need to calm yourself down and think logically. If you’ve been touched or scratched or pushed. Do as you would if it was any person doing it. Tell them off. Tell them it isn’t acceptable and you won’t tolerate any form of physical touch. Or do what I do, swear, apologies and then ask them what they want lol 9 times out of 10 they just want you to know they are there. They are happy with just being recognized. But please always remember this Spirit once was like you. Living, breathing, loved, nurtured, this was someones child, wife, daughter, husband etc…this will some day be you and your loved ones. Always remember that. Respect always. Someone might very well still be grieving for them. Respect ALWAYS.

Pushed and Scratched could mean many things like ‘This is how I died?’ or ‘this is how I was treated’ or ‘Hey you, I know you can hear me, listen to me’ (over use of energy and Boom you have a mark because they over shot the runway lol)

It can be very useful having a good relationship with your Spirits and Resident Spirits because they will protect you and your home. It may be that all they need is for you to know they were a good person as maybe in life they were deemed to be mean or nasty. It may be that they want you to know their name. Help find their family, let you know they are okay etc…but one thing that is clear with all my 43 years and ancestral knowledge of Spirit is, if you don’t acknowledge them they will only get worse. They can bug you for a long time if you don’t acknowledge them.

I did a reading for a client in Liverpool who didn’t recognize a Spirit who came through and he hounded me for 2 months before she finally remembered who he was. He said he had a long name but was known by a short name, like James to Jim, Anthony to Tony, he made it very clear to her that he could finally dance, I told her I could see wheels etc…..and it turns out after I got woken up every night and morning with his face staring at me and my clock getting thrown across rooms etc…that he made me ring her at 7am to go around there and I sat there for 3 hours making her remember him. It turns out he was only the wheelchair bound best friend of her daughter who had only passed away the year before. Her daughter used to dance with him in his wheelchair and he had told me he always wanted to dance with Laura and now he can. She felt so bad for not remembering him because Anthony otherwise known as Tone had been such a very special part of her family for many years. Once she finally acknowledged him, he left me alone.

So as with investigations and with you personally, the second you feel Spirit or even have a thought in your head that it could be Spirit, please acknowledge them because they aren’t subtle in getting their point across if you’re not listening.If your too afraid to want to open communications just tell them. They listen. They don’t want to hurt you. You just tell them ‘I acknowledge your communication but I’m not ready for this just now’ or if your okay with it you can say ‘I acknowledge your communication and accept it, Thank you, if you have a message for me I am ready to receive it, if you have a message to get out I am ready to receive it’ then they will let you know in their own way what they need to say. But like I say, for the most part they just need to know you know they are there.

I think the voice boxes are awesome but I’m wondering how much is true Spirit.

Knowing what I know about time manipulation and the power of conscious thought it has made me want to try out and test the theory that Voice boxes like Poltergeists and Seances/Ouija Boards etc…are a manifestation of our own desires for the communication with the dead..

I wish wish wish I could tell you EVERYTHING I know but people are starting to copy my work and twist the facts to suit their own insanity and this information is dangerous to the wrong person but if I told you everything I knew you would never fear death again and in fact I think you would celebrate it. But I need to protect you all from certain things and only my students are privy to this info but trust me when I say, ‘See death? it’s all an illusion’

The living are just the dead on holiday – Maurice de Maeterlinck (1862 – 1949)

Never have truer words been said. Probably THEE most apt description of death and Spirit I’ve ever heard.

We live our lives for such a short amount of time, and are Spirit for the rest. Life is just a holiday. Some are weekend breaks and some are world tours but ALL come with lessons and when it’s over we go home again and when we take our flight home they our loved ones in Spirit meet us in the airport holding huge signs saying ‘Welcome home’.

But we can still Skype and Email them. That’s what people like me are. We are the Skype and Gmail. But so can you be if you stop ignoring them.

‘Your perception of Spirit is always going to be much darker than the reality of them’ (me 2016)

We have been investigating Spirits for centuries quite successfully without a lot of this stuff they use nowadays.

Flour, water, sand, coal, bones, etc….Night or day, try it the old way. Quiet, respectfully and cameras at the ready. If you feel something odd, take a picture. Don’t go charging over with machines that light up and beep. The mere fact your going into their space with strange machinery can be intimidating for them.

This is why Most Haunted got so bad. They started introducing all sorts of ridiculous gadgets to communicate like Tesler Coils and Gongs and it’s quite insulting to the process of Spirit communication.

Nowadays it’s all about the latest gadget and the best this and the biggest that. Just cameras, digital recorders and patience would be fine.

That movement out the corner of your eye is them, that sudden urge to be happy or excited is them. That need to have a cry but you don’t know why, is them.

Take note of every emotion in your investigation. And please……please…….oh god please…..use a trusted Intuitive Clairvoyant. Not someone who comes with the title of Clarscentiaudiychic. Test them first.

Make sure they have a proven track record. Not just someone who carries smudge sticks and can ‘sense’ something. My cat can ‘sense’ something and he’s afraid of apples lol make sure they can take control of any situation in an investigation.

They should be able to run faster than the most frightened camera man too lol

Coz lets face it, if your in a room and someone says something in French in your ear when your half asleep your natural instinct is to leg it lol even for the Clairvoyant.

It gives you a bloody fright but this is why most Spirits talk to us in our own voices. It’s only if you build up a relationship that they will come through in their own voices, out loud for all to hear.

But if you take one like me, please choose someone who is relaxed and knows what they are doing. Any one like me worth half their salt wouldn’t tolerate Ouija or Seances. They are the Cocaine and Heroine of the Paranormal World, you just don’t go near them because they become addictive and once they have you all sorts of bad things happen and nothing good ever comes from it. They are not Spirit, never have been and never will be. They aren’t needed in an Investigation. And by Investigation I mean anything you do to try and capture Spirit Communication whether your a Society or a guy in your house.

I’ve gotten amazing stuff just by setting up a camera and leaving the building or going to bed. Just go about your business. If they want to communicate with you as with a reading, they will. They will show themselves to 10 people in a room of 1000 or to one person in a room by themselves. They aren’t performing clowns who jump through hoops just because your there. If they want to, they will.

That goes for loved ones as well. Spirit know what we can and can’t handle. Just when they do, be respectful, acknowledge them and move on. But if you can build up a level of trust with a resident Spirit, you have a level of protection and trust that you just can’t describe. Every time I leave my house I ask mine to protect my home or my family, cat etc…and I’ve gone away accidentally leaving my back door wide open.

I’ve had some quite horrible people be literally scared out of their clothing to leave my house because they were caught doing something by Spirit who made sure they left and never came back lol

And please remember ‘Never EVER ask a Spirit to follow you’. If you move house or leave somewhere even with the nicest most communicative of Spirits you don’t ask the Spirit to come with you or anything of the sort because not only would you be inviting them but unwanted things as well.

If your dealing with a child or lost soul like a murder victim existing in their own suffering the only thing to do is move them to the other side. It’s the only right thing to do. Imagine if you lost a younger loved one and you knew they never left the place they loved even in Spirit, Wouldn’t you want them to move on to peace and love? Plus You have to remember there is negative stuff just waiting for us to screw up so they can jump right in and cause trouble.

So as I say treat them like you would anyone else, Spirit are just us only dead. Don’t let them get away with anything you wouldn’t let a living person get away with but at the same time always respect them and acknowledge them because even the ones who are filled with love and light and want nothing more than to guide you can be as subtle as a sledge-hammer if you’re not listening.

 

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