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The New Adventure

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The College Dude
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Friday, May 19, 2017
To Close A Chapter
When the time comes
to close a chapter,
may you honor the ending
as much as the beginning,
just as a hug is an act of
both claiming and releasing.
May you go with integrity,
finish with dignity.
~May It Be, Chrissa Ventrelle
It really spoke to me.
As most of you know, I was married in the Catholic Church. When I separated and then later divorced, I reached out to the priest who married me and was told that I apply for an Annulment with the Diocese so that, in the future, if I wanted to marry again I could do so in the Church. I paid the fees right away; but, I sat on the paperwork for about a year - for no particular reason - more because it was a lot of work that I just wasn't mentally or emotionally prepared for. About a year later, the Diocese contacted me to let me know that the fees would expire if I didn't get moving on the paperwork or I risked having to start over from scratch. So, I submitted the request.
To clarify, this is all 'in the eyes of the Catholic Church. This has nothing to do with my legal marital status. I am legally divorced. Going through this process will not change the status to annulled.
Fast forward to last fall. After having submitted all of the paperwork and asking several family members and friends to provide testimonies, the Diocese contacted me telling me that my case wasn't 'strong enough' and that the Cannon Judge would likely not approve the request. To say that I was hurt and devastated is an understatement. To be honest, it completely shattered me. It felt like an old wound was being reopened. I was already legally divorced, how could the Diocese do this to me after everything I had been through. After a bit of wallowing in my own self pity (shocking, I know), I picked up the phone and called my contact at the Diocese to figure out what I needed to do to make my case stronger. My contact told me to wait until after the New Year to see if another Judge would see my case and possibly grant me a different decision and if that didn't work, we would present the case in a different way.
After calling the Diocese to check the status of my case almost weekly for the past 5 months, I received a phone call from my contact at the Diocese last Friday. She told me that the Judge had made a final decision in the affirmative - that my annulment was granted and that "as of today, you are free." (Yes, she used the word "free.") I basically jumped for joy, I told everyone who has been part of this arduous journey with me and toasted a not so great margarita in celebration.
Now, back to yesterday. I received the paperwork with the final ruling in the mail. I felt relieved last Friday, but there was something about reading the words on paper with the Cannon Judge's signature that made it all the more real and sweet. As I was flipping through May It Be, I stumbled upon the above entry, read it aloud to my mom, we teared up, embraced and then I bought my own copy of Chrissa's book. While she signed it, I told her my story and she congratulated and thanked me for sharing about how, in just a few moments, her book touched me.
With all of this said, this annulment was the final string, the final attachment, the final chapter of that part of my life. I want to thank everyone for listening to me, for holding me, for loving me, for supporting me, for celebrating me throughout my life, but especially over the last three years. I truly would not have made it this far and am beyond grateful for the relationships that I have made, cultivated and cherished.
Thank you does not do my feelings justice.
Onward and Upward.

Wednesday, February 8, 2017
Whole30 x2
I made it through the 30 days in a breeze. It wasn't hard, the food that I was eating was super tasty and for the most part everyone was supportive of my decision. Another aspect to the Whole30 is to help overcome your food dependencies and bad habits; which I typically don't have. I do not self sooth with booze and I do not punish myself with food - I am not an emotional or bored eater.
I lost 20lbs - I know that weight loss isn't the intention of the Whole30, it is just a side effect - and I had never felt better. I hadn't had a stomach ache in 30 days. I was eating whole and delicious foods, had great sleep and overall had a lot more energy.

Thursday, November 10, 2016
Köln, Germany
After we finished walking through and admiring the beautiful cathedral, we walked across the famous Love Lock bridge: Hohenzollernbrücke over to the Rhine Promenade for some beautiful cityscapes and views of Cologne. We walked back over into Old Town by Deutzer Brücke and we headed to the Chocolate Factory. I wouldn't recommend the tour. It was kind of pricey and if you have done a Chocolate Tour before, you have done them all. But definitely make sure to enjoy a spiked Hot Chocolate. Caitlin and I both enjoyed the Geist der Azteken - hot chocolate made with chili, tabasco, tequila, white rum and whipped cream. Oh.My.God. This was soo good, I can't wait to replicate it!
After the Chocolate Factory and lunch, we headed over to the birthplace of the famous Eau De Cologne 4711. We walked around the shop, I dipped my hands into the Eau De Cologne Fountain and I found a perfume that I loved to purchase. We did a little shopping, since we were so close to the shopping district then for the rest of the day we brewery hopped. We had a few beers at one brewery next to the Cologne Cathedral and then went to another for our last dinner.
As we got further away from Munich, the beers got smaller.

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Thursday, November 3, 2016
Berlin, Germany
This was our first site of the wall on our trip.
The next day we woke up and headed down to Pariser Platz; where Brandenburg Tor is located for breakfast and to meet our guide to start our walking tour. Our walking tour was about 2.5 hours and we walked around the main sites in Berlin. Our guide was awesome, very knowledgable and very engaging.
Our tour included:
Pariser Platz
Brandenburg Gate
Site of Hitler’s bunker
Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe
Checkpoint Charlie
Gendarmenmarkt
The Berlin Wall
Luftwaffe HQ
Bebelplatz
Book burning memorial
Humboldt University
The air was cool and crisp, the sun was out and shining and it was a perfect day to walk around the city.
After our walking tour, Caitlin and I headed to the East Side Gallery by way of the TV Tower and the Berlin Dom. The church was very busy with a ton of tourists, so we decided to admire it from afar. Which was kind of a bummer because it's so beautiful from the outside, but we figured it would be frustrating trying to walk around and get out of it what we wanted.
Before we visited the East Side Gallery, we stopped over at Burgermeister for the best burger in Berlin. It definitely did not disappoint and it was perfect timing because it started pouring rain once we sat down to eat, so we were protected by the overpass. Once we finished our burgers and the rain had stopped, we headed over to the East Side Gallery to admire the murals and artwork painted on the still standing portion of the Berlin Wall. Obviously, most (if not all) of the art was very politically charged.
We then headed into the hipster district of Berlin for drinks and dinner.
On our last full day in Berlin we took the subway over to Mauerpark, which translates into "Wall Park." The park is located on the East Side of Berlin and, when the wall was still standing, it was right up against the wall, hence the name. The park was actually pretty ugly, there was trash everywhere and the grass was brown where there was still even grass. On Sundays, there is a market with music and lots of people, and this day was Monday, so I hope that it was just looking rough because the market was the day before.
After we walked around the park for a bit to soak up some warm sunshine, we headed over to walk through the Wall Memorial. We spent a bit of time walking through the memorial then headed over to do some window shopping and have lunch in another trendy area of the city.
Throughout Berlin, you will come across these stones on the rode. This signifies where the Wall once stood. When you can read the plaque right-side-up, that means that you are on the West side of where the wall stood. Our walking tour guide told us that they did this because the East Side was 'wrong' and if you couldn't read the plaque ride-side-up, that meant you were on the 'wrong side of the wall.' Kind of interesting note...
After lunch and window shopping - it was only window shopping because all of the shops were closed because it was a national holiday - more on that in a minute - we headed back to Pariser Platz to walk over to the Reichstag to see if we could hop on a tour either that afternoon or the next morning before we headed to Cologne. Unfortunately, we weren't able to get a tour, so we just looked on from outside.
On our walking tour, we walked through the Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe and since we really just passed through, we wanted to revisit the site and walk through the museum. We spent a couple of hours in the museum and walking through the memorial and to say that it was overwhelming is an understatement.
We walked back through Pariser Platz and headed to the Adlon Hotel (where Michael Jackson held Baby Blanket over the balcony) to sit outside on their patio with a glass of Champagne and a charcuterie plate. We had a great view of Pariser Platz and the Brandenburg Gate. Now for the National Holiday. We just so happened to be in Berlin for the Day of German Unity - which is the Day of German Reunification. So, there were a ton of people, street performers and there was a festival going on on the other side of the gate.
We thought that we had wanted to hang around the plaza and be part of the excitement, but at one point a man wearing a nazi uniform and flying a nazi flag walked by. We decided that we didn't want to get in the middle of anything political so we headed back toward our hotel for dinner and to get to bed early.
The architecture is just beautiful and I hope to revisit Berlin someday!

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Friday, October 28, 2016
Praha, Czech Republic
Now for our Spa Treatment. It was hilarious and totally one of the highlights of my trip. I actually found a Beer Spa while I was perusing pinterest and trip planning. It looked hilarious and the girls were in, so we booked it. It was hilarious. We arrive, change out of our clothes and into robes and then we hopped into tubs of water, bubbles and hops and enjoyed some fresh beer from the taps. We soaked for about 45 minutes - mostly laughed the entire time - and then got some back massages. It was glorious. If you are traveling to Prague, I definitely recommend checking this out. We were sent home with a certificate - don't ask me - some more beer and a commemorative photo, that I won't be sharing. Ha!
Our first full day in Prague we spent it walking for 5 hours while eating all of the yummy Czech specific food. We started our food tour at a cute little bakery with some cookies, because who doesn't want to start their days off with treats? And then we moved on to an assortment of open faced sandwiches and butcher shop meats. Oh.My.God. Everything was so good. Then we had a sauerkraut soup that was to.die.for, a pork belly spread with a hard cider and we ended the day with the traditional beef, bread dumplings and gravy with a glass of wine. Everything was delicious. We did the tour through Eating Prague Food Tours. We had an awesome guide who was very knowledgable about the history of Prague and he was able to tell us stories and point out famous areas of interest and give suggestions about what else to do. I would definitely suggest the tour, it was delicious and informative!
After our food tour, we walked across the Vltava into Mala Strana in search for the John Lennon Wall. I loved seeing all of the brightly painted and colorful houses throughout the entire trip, and Prague was no exception. The weather was perfect for a stroll, especially after all of that eating.
We found the John Lennon Wall and spent a bit of time reading all of the quotes and looking at all of the artwork.
This was my favorite quote that really resonated with me:
"I don't know what the future holds. I know who holds the future."
After checking out the Wall, we walked back into Old Town via the Charles Bridge. This bridge is famous for all street vendors and performers. They were selling anything and everything from postcards to jewelry to performing music with string instruments.
Jess had to head back to the hotel to do some work, so Caitlin and I decided to find some beer and food. We headed over to U Kunstatu which had an advertisement on our city map and a couple from our food tour had recommended it. Unfortunately, they were closed for a private party, so we found another spot nearby to grab a drink so we could head back over there to meet Jess once they reopened.
We obviously went big here. We ordered 2 different tasters with all different beers so we could try everything. We sat at the bar, the keeper was friendly and the other patrons of the bar were really nice and fun to chat with. Jess met us there to help us finish the beers and food we ordered and then we headed home and to bed. Jess had an early morning since her flight left out of Prague at 6am.
The next day, Caitlin and I headed over to St. Nicholas Church in Mala Strana and then for a self guided walking tour of the Prague Palace. The St. Nicholas church is very understated from the outside and breathtakingly beautiful on the inside. I would say that this was, hands down, my favorite church in all of the cities we visited.
We walked up to the Prague Palace just in time to see the changing of the guards. We were wondering why this ceremony existed because there isn't anyone living in the palace, so we figure that is just for tourists. We thoroughly enjoyed it, so no complaints here. The church within the Palace is massive and beautiful, but we didn't tour around it because it was so packed with tourists - it was a bit overwhelming. The Palace grounds were green and beautiful and provided unobstructed views of Prague. It was simply beautiful.
We headed back into Old Town via the Charles Bridge where we bought our souvenirs and then headed over to U Fleku - Shannon's recommendation - for some beers and lunch before we headed over to see the Dancing House. The Dancing House was a bit underwhelming. It is an office building, or at least that's what it looks like, and you go in, take an elevator to the top but you can't go outside unless you buy a ridiculously expensive drink or a ticket. We decided against it, which was, in hindsight, a smart choice.
We made our way back to U Kunstatu for the beer tasting and boy did it not disappoint. We sit down with another couple from Canada who had been traveling for 9 months around the world, and our host walks in already blasted. He was hilarious and was definitely a beer aficionado! We took a tour of the basement and the building, which is one of the 2nd oldest in Prague, and drank beer all night long. It was a blast. We ended up grabbing food with our Canadian friends and grabbing more drinks at our hotel with them. It was a blast!

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