Last Thursday I had a really bizarre day. Not only were strange things happening, but I could also feel a weird vibe in the air. It all started when I went out to my back yard at around ten o'clock in the morning and found a mutilated bird on my patio.Now, mind you, I live… Continue reading Strange Juju
Tag: pets
Small Talk
Whether on my blog, on social media, or in person in conversation, I'm not really a "small talk" kind of person. Unless that small talk includes humor. Yes, I'm all there for humor. Each person has a story, and I enjoy hearing those stories and how their life's experiences led them to where they are… Continue reading Small Talk
Tea Time with Tre
Every afternoon between two and three o'clock, my husband and I treat ourselves to a cup of hot tea (we both work from home). When the whistle blows on the teapot, our dog, Tre (Trey) knows it's tea-time and wants to join us. He goes straight into his crate and waits to be served. Of… Continue reading Tea Time with Tre
Since I’ve Been Gone
Since I've been gone from the blogging world, WordPress changed the format for drafting and posting. I don't like it. It's taking me forever to figure out how to add photos. What is this block thing? Why can't I just write paragraphs as if on a page? Why do I need blocks? So frustrating. 🤦♀️… Continue reading Since I’ve Been Gone
A Year Ago Today
Faith that Someday I can’t believe it’s been a year Since I stroked your soft fur so dear I still watch for you around every corner But find it empty and remember I’m a mourner How is it that I’ve made it so far Walking alone is so bizarre You were such a well-behaved little… Continue reading A Year Ago Today
The Best Disinfectant
Over the weekend we were hoping to get some of that disinfecting UV light, but Saturday it rained all day. My brand new tulips enjoyed it though. Never fear, because Warrior Sun showed up on Sunday to battle and conquer the plague (using positive, affirmative words can't hurt).My tulips had a wonderful weekend, getting plenty… Continue reading The Best Disinfectant
Regenerated Routine
After we said goodbye to our dog, Max . . . simply doing our regular routine felt like a knife to the gut. He was always there during every routine. It's difficult to change things up, because I still needed to do all the same things I always did, only without him. I started to… Continue reading Regenerated Routine
Take a Pill
Last week I posted about how a couple of people have tried to rush me to get a new pet after saying goodbye to my beloved dog, Max. Today I’d like to discuss a topic that is related, but more about processing emotions in general. You might say that those people think they’re trying to… Continue reading Take a Pill
Find Someone Else
If you knew someone who lost their spouse just a few weeks ago, would you say, “I know it’s hard, but there are other men/women out there looking for love. Get on eharmony and find one who needs you?” Of course you wouldn’t. You’d know that the relationship needs to be grieved first. No matter… Continue reading Find Someone Else
Raw
Five Stages. Denial. Anger. Bargaining. Depression. Acceptance. Raw Denial. Maybe it was all a dream When I get home You’ll be there waiting for me Blocking my way in the door Until I give you a hug Anger Dammit you’re not here. Why were you taken from me Why do other dogs live longer It’s… Continue reading Raw
Resistance is Futile
Warning: loving a dog can lead to a broken heart. Would I have adopted my first dog had I been warned? Probably. I didn't get my first dog until I was thirty-five years old. Before then, I had no idea about the enormous bond that occurs between human and dog. Of course, I had heard… Continue reading Resistance is Futile
Before and After
Before (Written January 16, 2019) Max He watches me intently His brown eyes earnest and pure Does he wonder what I’m doing? Does he wish he could speak to me? Does he think I’m a total goof? I leave the room and he follows His eyes catching my every move I wonder what he is… Continue reading Before and After
Happy Horrible Holidays
Good Day everyone. I hope this finds you in a bright, lovely start to the new year. I had looked forward to publishing the many blog drafts I've had in my queue, but of course, God laughed at me for making plans. We had nice visits with family on Christmas and the New Year holidays,… Continue reading Happy Horrible Holidays
Half full
I originally wanted to start by writing that the summer is half over, but instead I decided it's still half full. Right? I hope everyone else is enjoying their summer. So far, mine has been quite busy. I cherish all the social events, because I felt like a hermit when I lived in Florida. I… Continue reading Half full
Disoriented
I woke up on Monday morning (yesterday) feeling very disoriented. Why? Take a look at the photo below that I posted as my header back in January. Except, this photo isn't the one from January. I took the same photo the day before yesterday, on Sunday, April 14! After it snowed all day, and I… Continue reading Disoriented
Amazing Companions
Pets are amazing companions. They are loyal friends - gentle, yet protective. Pets stand by their human companions without judgment, filled with unconditional love. Take this moment now to acknowledge the pets in your life, both present and past, including those pets of friends and family. Bestow blessings on them. Honor the many ways they… Continue reading Amazing Companions
Blaze
I hadn't planned a second post for this week, but I feel the need to write this story. In May of 2007, my husband brought home a stray puppy that had been roaming the busy city streets of Tampa. We had our beloved Piezon in those days, plus our cat, Sneakers, and weren't really up… Continue reading Blaze
My Guys
Listening to the neighbor's nonstop barking dog made me grateful for the dogs I've had in my life. Max and my beloved Piezon (Paesano in Italian who is now gone 😥) have been fully obedient and only bark when someone is near our house or approaching the door. If you don't mind indulging me, I'd… Continue reading My Guys
A Glimpse of Halloween
What a perfect night for Halloween in suburban Chicago 2018. The temperature requires only a sweater. The sky displays layers of pale yellow to pinkish-gray, reflecting onto golden glowing trees. On the lookout for goblins and ghouls, ballerinas and Batmans. What the heck are these below? Orange and green Oompa Loompas? … Continue reading A Glimpse of Halloween
That One Time I Lost My Temper
I've been having a bit of a problem lately. Nothing huge. In fact, it's quite minor compared to most problems, but it's so pesky, so annoying . . . that sometimes I want to scream at the top of my lungs. We had a very difficult time finding an affordable house when we moved back… Continue reading That One Time I Lost My Temper