Moving In

I’ve always known it takes much longer to put something back together than it does to take it apart.  Yet somehow, I managed to forget that and assumed that moving back into our newly-renovated upstairs bedroom would be a simple and speedy procedure.  And boy, was I wrong.

In the first place, the bedroom isn’t completely finished.  We custom-ordered closet doors, and they aren’t finished yet.  And we have to wait for the doors to put up the trim around the closet.  Still, the room is livable, so my husband and I have begun the process of moving our stuff back in.

The first thing we did was move our furniture back upstairs, which was painless because the construction workers, our son, and our son-in-law carried it up for us.  (Which is a process I can’t recommend too highly.)  We wanted to move our clothes up next, but first we had to actually find them.  I’d stored many of my Summer clothes in the closet of the guest bedroom we’d been sleeping in during construction, and I distinctly remember carefully organizing all the rest of my wardrobe into labeled bins.  But that must have been a dream, because it took me two days just to find my socks, never mind my extra underwear.

Eventually, all my clothes found their way upstairs and it was time to turn our attention to the wall-hangings.  You would think that adding a dormer to your primary bedroom would give you extra wall space, but it turns out that it actually reduces it.  Because although our bedroom is considerably larger than it was before, it’s still tucked in under the eaves, with a brand-new dormer on the north side.  It looks great, but the walls and ceilings still meet at odd angles, and two windows take up most of the new dormer wall.  An optimist would say this is good chance to re-evaluate our wall art and hang only the pieces we love best, but a pessimist would realize that my husband and I can’t agree on those pieces.  So we’ve been sneaking upstairs and hanging our personal favorites when our spouse isn’t around to dispute it.  It’s resulted in an interesting, if not exactly coordinated, decor.

Finally, I moved my books back up, with the help of my oldest grandson.  Since I’m very particular about how I arrange my books, my husband had taken pictures of the bookshelves before we emptied them.  But while I was carefully carrying them back upstairs in the correct order in which they’d been stored, my grandson was simply grabbing random books, carrying them up, and putting them down in various piles all over the bedroom.  He had good intentions, but he’s six-years old.  And I was still glad of his help, even if it meant taking a little extra time to get the books back on their shelves.

So even though it’s been over two weeks since the workers have left, we’re still not settled into our new bedroom.  Having an unusually busy August didn’t help, but the main problem has simply been that we’re trying to create order out of chaos, decide how we want our new space arranged and decorated, and further pare-down our belongings.  I know I promised a photo of the new room once it’s done, and I really will post one.  I just don’t think it’s gonna happen anytime soon……

The Home Stretch

Patience has never been my strong point.  And I’m not particularly good at “going with the flow,” either.  Which is why living through the renovation of our primary bedroom has been a bit of a challenge for me, and I’m more than ready for this project to be over.

I know this has been a relatively easy home-improvement project, compared to some.  Our primary bedroom is upstairs, so we’ve simply been living on the first floor of our house while the work is being done.  But my husband has been getting up early every morning (bless him) to move our cars out into the street before the workers arrive and block them in.  And as we all know, construction is both loud and messy, even under the best of circumstances. (Did I mention I’m allergic to dust?)   Add a couple of major thunderstorms while we had a huge whole in our roof covered only with a tarp, a roofing company that believed 5:45 a.m. was a reasonable time to start work on a Sunday morning, and a few other glitches that are common in construction, and you’ll see why I’m growing weary.

I had mistakenly believed that things would get easier as we neared completion, but I was wrong.  Because although the demolition is now over and the mess is winding down, now I have to make all sorts of decorating decisions.  And home decorating is not on the relatively short list of my talents.  I had a vague idea of what I’d like the bedroom to look like when it was finished, but absolutely no idea of how to achieve that look.  Panic was actually setting in before a friend who’s a whiz at decorating took pity on me and agreed to coach me through the process.  With her help, I managed to pick out paint colors, select swatches of materials to make curtains and throw pillows, and tie it all together with a neutral-colored carpet.

Of course the paint looks different from what I’d imagined now that it’s on the walls, and I’d forgotten that we’d changed the ceiling next to our largest window, which makes the curtain style I’d selected impossible to install.  Luckily, we have a contractor who seems to specialize in calming down jittery clients and coming up with solutions that actually work, so all will be well.

I know that when this is finally over and we’re moved into our new bedroom, I’ll love it. And eventually, I’ll forget about all stress and mess of home-improvement and happily embark on another project.  (Our house is old and the list of things it needs is long.)  Maybe I’ll even get up the nerve to update our kitchen.  I can see me being ready to tackle that in a few years…or maybe a few decades……