(death begets life…a picture by Ireena worthy
Being Human
By Dr. Nelson Kattikat
Humans are social beings.
We live in families, communities, and societies—not in isolation.
Unlike other animals, whose lives are guided largely by instinct,
human life is shaped by learning, thought, and choice.
We seek connection not just for survival, but for meaning.
Because we think, we reason.
Because we reason, we choose.
This makes us rational beings—not only driven by need,
but by values, emotions, and vision.
Yet in the modern world, something is shifting.
Self-centeredness is growing.
Technology connects us, but often at the cost of genuine connection.
We scroll endlessly, yet feel alone.
We accumulate more, but feel less fulfilled.
Being human is given.
Keeping our humanity—that is a choice.
Each of us experiences ourselves—our thoughts, our feelings—as separate from others.
But this sense of separateness is an illusion.
A deeply rooted delusion.
And it is the root of much of our suffering.
When we confine our attention to personal desires, private comfort, and narrow affection,
we unknowingly build a prison around ourselves.
We name it “personal life,”
but truly, it is like a chrysalis—
a pupa stage, waiting for transformation.
When will we become butterflies?
When will we break through the cocoon of comfort and self-interest?
Greatness does not lie in reshaping the world to fit our wants.
It lies in reshaping ourselves—
In widening the circle of compassion
to include not just our loved ones,
but all living beings,
and the entire web of nature, in all its beauty and fragility.
Only then do we become truly human—not just by birth,
but by the depth of our empathy,
the courage of our renunciation,
and the reach of our love.
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