[17] Forever

Wintry bliss of a morning when you could actually see the sunrise, and the bare branches and boughs of trees were still for a change. But a moment later, with nary a cloud in sight, it begins to rain small neat little balls of not-quite-hail and not-quite-sleet but perhaps a bit of both. The little balls pile up tidily over each other to form little mounds, and these little mounds connect. On the roads they form a crunchy slush, and on the grass and cars and rooftops why, it looks like it has snowed.

An Arctic Blast. That is what the news tells us all. But who can believe the news nowadays. Did you know humans produce an obscene amount of garbage? The sheer numbers of this will astound and depress you. All to make money. Millions of phones, billions of clothes, all cheap and break easily, to make one man a multi-billionaire, and to make us want more and buy more and waste more and need more. Things are made to break quickly these days so you can buy another of the thing and keep the profit-makers in… profit.

But, a profound thought hits me as I watch the not-sleet-not-hail bounce off the tarmac and patter on bright red maple leaves. I think to myself, well, the world is not meant to last forever.

Brain Rules

This year I promised last year’s me that I would read 30 books (5 books more than my 25 book challenge last year!). I completed 26 books last year so I thought I would up my challenge a little bit. Just a small margin, haha!

One condition with these books, though, is that they have to be less fictional. My TBR (to-be-read) pile increasingly contains non fiction books about parenting, child brain development and other things I found an interest in but never pursued (such as the strange story of Typhoid Mary!), and I thought this year I really ought to buckle down and really the read things I have saved for later.

So it’s the end of January and I have completed one book so far. It’s called ‘Brain Rules for Baby’ by John Medina.

It was a wonderful book, full of scientific research about the best practices to follow in order to raise happy, healthy and most importantly, emotionally regulated children.

John Medina (who is a father of two) never writes in a way that makes you feel bad for not doing something. His tone is cheery, upbeat and optimistic. There is always something you can do, as long as you do it! Big or small.

One of the biggest things I took away from this book was the need for children to play, and to have a social circle. I won’t go into anymore detail as I am currently with my children (they are having breakfast and I am typing this out quickly while they make a colossal mess everywhere!) – but I loved reading this book. I learnt a great deal, and I am going to be using it as a reference point over the years to come. It made me feel energised and full of ideas for play and connectivity as my children grow.