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#TuesdayBookBlog The Germans Have a Word for It by T.R. Thorsen #RBRT

Hi, all:

I bring you another book I discovered thanks to Rosie’s Book Review Team, and it is one about a subject that seems to be all around us these days.

The Germans Have a Word for It by T.R. Thorsen

The Germans Have a Word for It by T.R. Thorsen

A poignant, witty, and often disquieting peek into what happens when AI enters our personal lives.

She texts like Rachel. Funny, clever, and with plenty of old-school emoticons. She looks like Rachel . . . mostly. She even breathes like Rachel; he can hear it when he brings the phone close to his ear. Davis no longer thinks of the app as something that replaced Rachel, he thinks of it simply as her.

It’s a good thing he signed up, because he thought he might go mad when Rachel first died. Now, everything feels right again, save for one thing: she’s not satisfied being an app. She wants more out of life, and it’s going to cost him. Rachel also has her share of problems to deal with. She’s a bit glitchy . . . and someone wants to delete her. Life is complicated, even artificial life.

A curious tale, laced with intrigue, oddball characters, and provocative dialog, The Germans Have a Word for It will introduce you to a world you’ll recognize as almost the one you’re already living in.

About the author:

T. R. Thorsen is a writer, composer, and technologist from Crozet, VA. He writes primarily in the speculative fiction genre. His first novel is The Germans Have a Word for It. During the 2010s, he produced and engineered music for many Virginia artists and was guitarist and songwriter for the band Mill, releasing two albums. He also co-wrote the stage musical The Leap. Outside of the arts, T. R. has worked as a computer scientist, most notably developing the first Internet stock trading system. He shares a small farm with his family, sports cars, and several cats.

My review:

I write this review as a member of Rosie’s Book Review Team (author, check here if you are interested in getting your book reviewed) and thank her and the author for this opportunity.

I must confess that as I did not know the author before, the first thing that intrigued me about this book was its title. I know many readers who, like me, love words and their meanings, and having read many articles about words in other languages that manage to grasp the meaning of some concept we cannot quite express (or at least not in a single word) in our own languages, I suspect I won’t be the only one intrigued by this title.

So, to put everybody’s minds at rest, I thought I’d start with a quote from the book. This bit of dialogue takes place very early on in the book, so I don’t think I’m giving away any spoilers.

Davis, the protagonist, is talking to the funeral director, while trying to organize the funeral of Rachel, his wife, and he has a bit of a moment.

“I, uh, it was like I had to tell my wife something, but then I realized I couldn’t, and then I just kind of… got lost in the neverness of it.”

The funeral director’s expression softened slightly.

“Yes, that’s very common, A kind of déjà vu for the grief struck. In fact, the Germans have a word for it.”

“They do?”

Geisterstille.”

From this fragment and the description, you can probably guess what this debut novel might be about. Davis, a young man, and a not terribly successful writer, has just lost his wife, Rachel, to illness, and he finds it difficult to get on with things. Writing can be a pretty isolated occupation, and it seems that most of Davis’s existence was dedicated to trying to find paid writing jobs (and it was getting increasingly difficult due to A.I., as the payment for reviews and other short pieces kept getting lower and lower, and that meant having to spend more time working for a smaller and smaller pay), spending time with his wife, and enjoying simple domestic activities (cooking, looking after the garden, chatting…). They had managed to find the perfect home, but now, paying the mortgage, the bills, and buying food are becoming a struggle. And his wife, his main incentive, is now gone as well. So, when the funeral director mentions an App (the ‘Hey There’ App) that will reproduce his wife’s text messages and allow him to ‘communicate’ with an A.I. version of her, despite his doubts, he decides to sign on and try it. After all, it’s only an App, he can try it for free for one month, and then delete it, and that’s it. If that was really it, this would be a pretty short and not terribly interesting book, so, anybody who has guessed that things will get complicated, will be right. Davis becomes very dependent on the new version of Rachel (well, they become dependent on each other, although in different ways), and both, he and `Rachel`, want more, but it doesn’t come cheap and not only in a monetary sense.

On the face of it, this is a novel about a grieving man who gets into trouble for trying to keep his wife’s memory alive in a not-very-healthy manner. But, apart from the subject of grief —which is very important and we are all bound to experience in our lives—, the book also reflects upon the role of technology and Apps, and how dependent we can become on our screens, phones, and the interactions we establish through them, with real, or not always so real, people; modern society, loneliness, and the nature of our relationships with others; the ethics and morality of certain human reproduction techniques, like surrogacy; our memories and past and what makes us unique; how far we would go to keep the memory of a loved one alive; what will A.I. look like in the future and how this will affect us…

This book could be turned into a play or a TV series with very few settings, as most of the action takes place indoors and in only a few places, Davis and Rachel’s house most of all, and that gives the novel a more insular and claustrophobic feel as if Davis was living inside his own world, now shared with this App, and only a few intrusions from outsiders, although some become quite important later on. The story is told in the third person from Davis’s point of view, and apart from the narrative about what he experiences and thinks, we also get some examples of the texts he exchanges with ‘Rachel’ and of some of the types of writing they work on (and to anybody who might have thought of making a living by writing, these examples will both ring true and be horrifying).

Although the novel is not high in action and it is more about subjectivity, dialogues, and human (more or less) relationships, it has a few surprises in reserve, even for the readers who always guess the ending.

This is a fascinating study of the mind of a person who might have seemed pretty unremarkable until he was touched by grief and his life got derailed, and a story that is likely to make us wonder if what happens in the novel is far-fetched or just around the corner. I’ve read several novels in the last few months exploring similar topics, each one with a completely different take and emphasis (from horror to humour, politics to crime), and this is a subject that is bound to keep coming up because it is fast becoming a reality, whether we welcome it or not. An interesting debut novel, as interesting as the German word mentioned, from an author who has inside knowledge of the subject and plenty to say about it.

Thanks to Rosie and her team for all their work and their support, thanks to the author for this first novel (I’m sure it won’t be the last one), and thanks to all of you for reading, sharing, visiting, commenting, clicking, and for being there. You are stars. Keep smiling!

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#TuesdayBookBlog The Physics of Relationships by Chas Halpern (@guernica_ed)

Hi, all:

I bring you another one of the books I “discovered” thanks to ReedsyDiscovery, and I was pleasantly surprised by the age of the characters, and by the way they are portrayed. Oh, and although some of the circumstances of the protagonist, Lexi, reminded me of a blogger friend and great author of memoirs and non-fiction books, I also felt a strong connection with the main character. I think many of you will enjoy this one.

The Physics of Relationships by Chas Halpern

The Physics of Relationships by Chas Halpern. A coming-of-older age-story with an assortment of authentic and varied characters you’d love to call your friends

A highly readable, intimate story about loss, aging, female friendship, family, and renewal…told with grit and humor.

Lexi is a sixty-year-old widow whose solitary life is thrown into turmoil when a desperate young woman moves in with her, soon followed by the unexpected arrival of her best friend, who has separated from her husband of forty years. The mix of these three very different personalities – a powerful omnivore seeking to live life to the fullest; a sweet, self-denying vegan; and Lexi, a thoughtful, still grieving widow – leads to some surprising (sometimes humorous) situations that force Lexi to re-examine her life. In the physics of relationships, Lexi observes that nature abhors a vacuum. She begins to wonder if she herself has somehow manipulated her circumstances to fill that vacuum…simply to imitate the life she had before the death of her husband. 

Author’s Biography:

Chas has made a living writing and directing marketing videos for global tech companies (including Google, Microsoft, Oracle, Cisco, and Intel). He’s known as a storyteller, with a specialty in humor. His previous novel, Humans Anonymous, is soon to be published (Touchpoint Press, 2023). Chas is also a screenwriter. Awards include top honors at the International Script-to-Screen Festival. He wrote a PBS documentary, which was shown throughout the U.S. and internationally. And he has written for a Disney Channel series. His screenplay, “Positive” (a dramatic comedy) has been optioned and is still in development.

My review:

I received a free ARC from Reedsy Discovery and you can find my original review on their site here. Authors and readers might want to check their website, as they offer recommendations, services, blog posts, and other interesting and useful content.

Lexi, twice-married, the second time to a man 15 years her senior, with two grown-up children, Brandon and Tasha, is recently widowed —after a long illness— from the love of her life and finds it difficult to adjust to life alone. Her tendency towards kindness, generosity, and her attempts at being on friendly terms with her daughter, make her accept as a non-paying lodger one of her daughter’s school friends, Danielle. And later, the marriage of her Francophile best friend Amy goes into crisis, and she ends up moving in as well. The novel explores Lexi’s day-to-day life, her adoption of a new ersatz family, and how her existence enters a new and inspiring stage. This is an adult coming-of-older-age story, one that celebrates women’s sisterhood, and the power and endurance of creativity.

This is one of those rare novels whose protagonists are not all young, attractive, and fit, and even rarer, most readers would be quite happy to meet them in real life, as they are ‘good people’. It beautifully portrays the inner life, thoughts, reflections, and adventures, of a sixty-year-old widow whose life has changed beyond all recognition with the death of her husband. She had a career (there is hardly any work coming in now) and also volunteered to tutor students, but her main role was that of wife and mother. Although her financial situation is reasonably stable, there is a big hole in her inner life. She has accepted her children’s independent lives (this is not a standard case of empty-nest syndrome), and she is keeping herself busy but something is lacking. As a result of her difficulty in saying ‘no’ to her daughter, she ends up being surrounded by small (or big, depending on how one looks at them) dramas, and those end up teaching her a lot about life, especially hers.

The beauty of this novel, narrated in the first-person by Lexi, is the way the story flows organically, and readers are witnesses to Lexi’s thoughts, reflections, doubts, and hesitations. She is always trying to second guess the desires and motives of others and is used to always putting others’ interests before her own. She has a great sense of humour, is a deep thinker who does not easily share her opinions with others, and describes herself as an observer. Readers see the rest of the characters through her perspective, and that, in turn, makes her easier to understand. The contrast between Lexi and her best friend, Amy, lively, opinionated, direct, and who loves to experiment and try everything (she’s a fabulous character), works well; and Lexi’s relationship with Danielle, her temporary daughter, and the contrast between her and Tasha also help create a deeper picture of the life and the experiences of an older woman in today’s society.

Readers who are looking for stories with older protagonists, are fond of insightful and realistic characters articulate and witty, and are not only looking for a conventional plot full of ‘thrilling’ adventures will enjoy this book. If that wasn’t enough of a recommendation, the ending is an ode to creativity, new beginnings, and the ‘never-too-late’ philosophy of life, (and yes, the title is explained too), and the book is full of quotable sentences and memorable comments and reflections. A couple of examples:

“I don’t know what happens. We get old and something starts flapping around in there,” she explained, gesturing toward her throat. “That’s pretty much true of our whole body, the flapping part,” I said. (This is from a dialogue between Amy and Lexi)

I had an old car, which was perfectly fine with me. I actually had a certain affinity with my car. It was old and dented, and it had lost its luster. That was a pretty fair description of me. 

Thanks to Reedsy Discovery and the author for the opportunity, thanks to you for reading, and remember to like, comment, click, share with those who might enjoy it, and especially keep smiling and doing the things that make your life worth living. ♥

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#TuesdayBookBlog ASCENSION by Nicholas Binge #sci-fi

Hi, all:

I bring you the review of a book that seemed pretty original to me, although when I read the comments, it might not be so original, perhaps because I don’t read a lot of science fiction, but I still found it interesting, and I hope you might do as well.

Ascension by Nicholas Binge

Ascension by Nicholas Binge. For readers happy to explore big ideas and embrace uncertainty

A mind-bending speculative thriller in which the sudden appearance of a mountain in the middle of the Pacific Ocean leads a group of scientists to a series of jaw-dropping revelations that challenge the notion of what it means to be human.

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When a mountain mysteriously appears in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, a group of scientists are sent to investigate – and discover what is at the summit.

Eminent scientist, explorer and chronic loner Harry Tunmore is among those asked to join the secret mission – and he has his own reasons for joining the team beyond scientific curiosity…

But the higher the team ascend, the stranger things become. Time and space behave differently on the mountain, turning minutes into hours, and hours into days. Amid the whipping cold and steep dangers of higher elevation, the climbers’ limbs numb and memories of their lives before the mountain begin to fade.

What will they discover about themselves and their world as they rise? What, or who, will they discover at the top?

Framed by the discovery of Harry Tunmore’s unsent letters to his family and the chilling and provocative story they tell, Ascension considers the limitations of science and faith and examines both the beautiful and the unsettling sides of human nature.

About the author:

Nicholas Binge is an author of speculative thrillers, literary science-fiction, and horror. His novels include Ascension and Professor Everywhere. Binge has lived in Singapore, Switzerland, and Hong Kong, and is based in Edinburgh, UK, where he teaches literature and works on new books. He is an active member of ESFF (Edinburgh Science-Fiction & Fantasy).

His most recent novel, Ascension, is being published by Harper Voyager (UK) and Riverhead Books (US) in April. It is also being translated into eight other languages and has been optioned for film.

Binge has a deep love for anything weird, anything that pushes boundaries, and anything that makes him cry. He is never happier than when he is with a book.

The best way to keep updated about news and new releases is to go to his website: http://www.nicholasbinge.com, sign up to his newsletter, or follow him on Twitter: @BingeWriting

My review:

I thank NetGalley and Harper Voyager (Harper Collins UK) for providing me with an ARC copy of this novel, which I freely chose to review.

I wasn’t familiar with the author before I read this novel, but my curiosity was piqued by the concept, and I also read some intriguing comments about it, so I had to check it out.

The description of the novel is quite apt, and the premise pretty original (although when I read some of the comments, it seems that readers found similarities and connections with other novels, some I am unfamiliar with, so I’m just speaking for myself here). Imagine that, suddenly, a huge mountain appears, here on Earth, much bigger than anything we know, in the middle of “somewhere” (“where” is never made clear). Even more curious is the fact that most people don’t know anything about this mountain (this part of the story is set in the early 1990s, so at a time when perhaps one could imagine it might still have been possible, though improbable, for something like that to be kept hidden from the general public). Harold (Harry) Tunmore, a scientist with several careers under his belt, is recruited for an expedition to that mountain, with a team of other scientists. Only, this is not the first expedition, and it is unclear what happened to the members of the previous one, other than a couple, who came back but they are not quite themselves. The story doesn’t reach us directly, though, but it is framed by an introduction, set in 2020, provided by Harry’s brother, Ben, who was always in awe of his intelligent, aloof, and socially inept brother, and who, together with their sister, Poppy, had given Harry for dead almost thirty years earlier, when he had disappeared and never been heard of again. Suddenly, Ben receives a phone call from a friend who believes he has recognised Ben’s brother at a mental health asylum. When Ben goes to investigate, he discovers that Harry is still alive, and also that he has kept a stack of letters addressed to Harriet, his niece, and Ben’s daughter. In these letters —three of which had reached them at the time but didn’t seem to make any sense— he tells a pretty curious and outlandish tale. Apart from the frame, this epistolary novel also includes the editor’s notes, commenting on the order of the letters and the process of trying to get the narrative into shape, Ben final’s words, and the author’s acknowledgement. (Remember that I read an ARC copy, so it is possible that there might have been some changes in the final published version.)

If one had to try and fit this novel into a genre, speculative science fiction fits it quite well, but there are also elements of horror (Lovecraftian monsters included), philosophical and psychological inquiries, a bit of a mystery thrown in, and there is an exploration of themes such as guilt, grief, avoidance, religion, faith, destiny, fate, time, free will, conspiracy theories, and what it means to be human. Many different thoughts came to my mind, and many possible comparisons: Brigadoon, where a charming village appeared magically every so many years and disappeared again (nothing to do with the tone and themes of this novel, though), The Descent (a group of people isolated in extreme conditions and confronted with some unknown dangers, although it lacks the philosophical depth), Interstellar (different plot but some of the questions it faces are not that dissimilar), Gravity (although in these last two rather than a full team there was an individual doing the searching), Alien… I’m sure you catch my drift and you will probably add many more if you read it.

We have an international ensemble of characters, and experts in different fields, as is to be expected from books and movies where humanity confronts an unknown challenge. You have a couple of ex-military personnel (from the US, a woman and a man, who had been married in a past life, but no longer), an expert climber and mountaineer (Australian, arrogant and full of himself), three soldiers, and a group of scientists: a geologist, a chemist, a doctor (who was a member of the previous expedition and who also happens to have been married to Harry), a biologist, and an anthropologist. I don’t want to spoil the story, but let’s say they are quite different, some friendlier than others, some more focused than others, some determined, some placing a lot of importance in faith and religion, others completely opposed to anything that is not rational and logical, and they are all confronted with things beyond their wildest imaginations. They are faced, not only with the difficult conditions of the climb (and most of them are completely new to it), but with confusion, strange changes in the time-space continuum, paranoia, secrets, lies, and, especially in Harry’s case (although as he is narrating the story in the first person, it might be that we are only told a very biased and one-sided version of it) a reckoning with his own personal history, his own past, and his own sense of guilt. He experienced a terrible loss in his life, he has spent many years trying to avoid dealing with it, and he finally has to face the truth.

I read some of the reviews, and I cannot disagree with some of the negative comments, although I don’t feel quite as strongly about the issues they point out as some other readers do. Some people find that the suspension of disbelief required to read the novel stretches their limit. For example, the fact that we are asked to believe that somebody in such extreme circumstances would find the time to write letters —especially letters he didn’t think he’d ever send (only three of them ever reach his niece)— is asking a bit too much for some readers. That is true if we read the novel as totally realistic, but there are possible explanations, some of which are contemplated inside its pages as well. I am not sure if the novel would have worked better in any other way, but I thought it added something to it, and I didn’t mind it that much. I don’t know enough about some of the concepts and theories about time and space mentioned in the novel, so I cannot comment on how accurate they are, and people who know more might take issue with those, but I enjoyed the explanations and they gave me plenty of food for thought (so, I’d say one doesn’t need to be an expert in Physics to enjoy the novel, no). How realistic some of the characters are is another matter. We are used to reading books and watching films and TV series where an individual or a team, are experts on everything and show an amazing capacity to solve problems by taking up tasks that seem well beyond their training or experience, but, as I said, that is a convention of the adventure genre (and a few others), and we are all aware of some individuals who seem to fit into that kind of profile. So, again, that didn’t bother me much. Some readers were not very impressed by the ending (and the twist that comes with it), but, although I understand the disappointment of some, it made perfect sense for me in light of everything else that had gone on. As I mentioned before, there are some alternative explanations offered to the story, but even without those, I feel there is a sense of equilibrium and completion to the narrative which I enjoyed.

For my part, I was gripped by the story, by some of the concepts about time, space, and destiny that are part and parcel of the novel, and also by the process that Harry, the main character, goes through, and how he has to face what happened. In some ways, the rest of the characters can be seen as aspects and issues of his own personality and psychological make-up, and he needs to confront all those to achieve a degree of peace and to make sense of his life, whatever is left of it even if it doesn’t make sense to anybody else. This is a book that asks a lot of questions but doesn’t offer any reassuring answers. This is not a novel for readers who are sticklers for rationality and verisimilitude in a story, who prefer everything to be settled and all issues to be sorted at the book’s closing, and who are seeking a reassuring read. This is for those who don’t mind their suspension of disbelief being stretched, who appreciate a bit of adventure and a few scares, but who also like to read challenging stories that question the nature of time, free will, memories, and what it means to be human.

Thanks to the author for sharing such a fascinating story, thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for the opportunity, and especially, thanks to all of you for reading, commenting, and sharing this review. Keep smiling and living life to the full.

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#TuesdayBookBlog Laugh Cry Rewind: A Memoir by Judy Haveson (@judyhaveson) A moving and amusing memoir full of heart #RBRT

Hi, all:

I bring you another great find from Rosie’s Book Review Team, a memoir this time. Thanks to Rosie and all the members of her team for their support and hard work.

Laugh Cry Rewind A Memoir by Judy Haveson

Laugh Cry Rewind A Memoir by Judy Haveson

Growing up in 1970s and 80s suburban Houston, Judy Haveson is funny, sarcastic, and fiercely loyal, especially to her family, friends, and big sister, Celia. When she suffers a series of unimaginable traumatic events, her seemingly idyllic childhood comes to a halt, changing her life forever.

In Laugh Cry Rewind, Judy takes readers on her journey of self-discovery, sharing funny, touching, and heartbreaking stories from her childhood all the way to the birth of her son. Her experiences serve as a reminder that while life is not always fair, ultimately, the choice to surrender or keep on living is ours. Her message to others who have experienced loss or tragedy is this: stop waiting for the other shoe to drop. Let life go on, and good things will be waiting for you on the other side of the pain.

About the author:

I’m Judy Haveson, a proud Texan living in New York.

My fascination with compelling storytelling plays well with my lifelong communications career of promoting products, services, companies, and individuals spanning various areas and industries, including non-profits, travel & hospitality, entertainment, fashion & retail, authors, and even rock stars and rap artists. You’ll have to read the book for details on that last piece of information.

I love to share stories about life’s observations and experiences that never seem to amaze me. These stories focus on living in New York City, raising my son, and self-publishing my first book and life.

I will never lose my southern charm or accent and use both when the situation absolutely calls for it. I once had a boss tell me that there are two types of people in the world: those who know and those who want to know — be the one who knows. That boss fired me, but his words have always stuck in my head. I’ve been addicted to current events and People magazine ever since, and not necessarily in that order.

I like to think I’m witty, but many call it sarcastic. You decide! I thought I would be a journalist until my first journalism professor told me to pick a new major. He said I’d be an editor’s nightmare because I wrote as I talked and never stopped talking. According to my parents, this fact makes sense because I was an early talker. Those close to me have no problem believing this bit of trivia.

The most important things to me in life are (in no particular order): family, loyal friendships, staying fit to always appear younger than I am, a good cut and color, cavity-free dentist appointments, spectator sports (mainly football), travel, my son’s infectious smile and laugh, and good food and wine (or a dirty, vodka martini) along with the company of great friends to enjoy it all.

Life is a crazy journey, but as my wise mama once told me — a long time ago — while there are many things we can’t change, our hair color isn’t one of them. And I always listen to my mama.

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My review:

I write this review as a member of Rosie’s Book Review Team (author, check here if you are interested in getting your book reviewed) and thank her and the author for this opportunity.

I am not a big reader of memoirs. My preference is for reading fiction, mostly novels, perhaps because I’m always intrigued by how the authors came up with their ideas and how they chose to tell the story. The story itself is not an issue with memoirs (although the process of choosing what to include and what not must be really complicated), but the way the story is told is very important, especially because we’re unlikely to keep reading a narrative about somebody we don’t feel any connection with or any affinity and sympathy/empathy for. That might not be so crucial if the protagonist is somebody famous, as we might be interested in knowing about them even if we don’t particularly like them (or, precisely because we don’t like them, and we want to see if we are justified in our feelings for them), but if we don’t know the person, the author needs to be able to make us feel and connect with their story/history, at least in my opinion.

And Judy Haveson definitely does that. I checked a short sample of the book before deciding if I wanted to review it or not, and it was a quick decision. She and I might hail from different parts of the world (Texas, in her case), be born in fairly different families (hers is a Jewish family, and she had an older sister), have taken career paths with few similarities (she started as an intern at a radio station, then worked for a music publisher, gala dress company, a PR company looking after a variety of clients…), and her personal life is not close to mine either, but I could easily imagine chatting to her, listening to her tell her story (in the first person, of course), and, as the title goes, laugh, cry and rewind with her. Because, yes, there are moments in the story that made me cry (Judy goes through severe trauma when she is very young, then she experiences an unexpected loss that leaves a void in her life that is never filled, and there are even more losses later in life), and many that made me chuckle as well. In her description, she talks about being witty, or perhaps sarcastic, and I think there’s a bit of both because sometimes she is unable to rein in her “wit” no matter how inconvenient the moment or how likely her words are to get her into trouble. Some of her comments make one gasp, but they are always funny, and those who know her appreciate her for it. (And it seems that she takes after her father in that aspect, although her mother shows her wit quite a few times as well).

I loved Judy’s voice. She never takes herself too seriously, never blames others (if anything, she tends to blame herself for things that go wrong even when she has no control over them), can be irritating one moment and delightful the next, and she knows how to tell a good story, for sure. On top of that, she is surrounded by wonderful people as well. I love her family, and I love the closeness between the three of them, and also with the rest of the family (her grandfather, her uncle, her cousins…). She has good friends with whom she shares great moments, and she is happy to let us into her thoughts and shows no interest in making herself appear in a good light. She doesn’t claim to have any great insights about how to live one’s life to pass on either, although she has learned to make the best of anything life throws at her and live life to the most. There are people she does not like, but she wastes no time in attacking them or trying to get back at them. She appreciates those she loves and who love her, and she keeps going in spite of the rest.

The book also includes some pictures that help readers imagine the scenes and situations described more easily, and there is also a section of acknowledgements that I recommend reading as well.

Readers who have suffered trauma due to sexual abuse/rape and/or have lost somebody close recently, and women who have had difficult pregnancies might need to be cautious when reading this memoir. The story is positive and ultimately uplifting, but I have already said it made me cry, and I suspect I am not alone in that.

I recommend this book to habitual readers of memoirs, especially those growing up in the 70s and 80s in the USA, although anybody who enjoys a non-fictional story with a lot of heart and a protagonist with a wicked sense of humour and a particular set of priorities (washing her hear beats going to watch a beautiful sunset, and a manicure beats almost anything…) should give it a try. You’re likely to be as amused, charmed, and moved as I was.

I leave you a reflection by the author, which will give you a sense of the philosophy behind this memoir.

What matters is living your best life every day despite whatever obstacle gets in your way. What matters is understanding life doesn’t always go as planned, but you don’t stop living. What matters is what you do with your life, however long it lasts. Because in terms of universal time, we’re here only for a moment.

Thanks to Rosie, her group, and the author; thanks to you for reading, and remember to like, share, comment, and always keep smiling and keep living!

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#TuesdayBookBlog SNOW ANGELS by Jenny Loudon (@jenloudonauthor) Grief, family, the healing power of nature, and gorgeous writing #RBRT #grief

Hi, all:

I bring you another fabulous find from Rosie’s Book Review Team. Thanks to her for her hard work and to the rest of the team for their ongoing support and inspiration.

Snow Angels by Jenny Loudon

Amelie Tierney is working hard, furthering her nursing career in Oxford. She has a loving husband and a small son, who is not yet two. She jogs through the streets of her beloved city most days, does not see enough of her lonely mother, and misses her grandmother who lives in a remote wooden house, beside a lake in Sweden. And then, one sunny October morning, it happens—the accident that changes everything and leaves Amelie fighting to survive. Set amid the gleaming spires of Oxford and the wild beauty of a Swedish forest, this is a story about one woman’s hope and her courage in the face of the unthinkable. Praise for Jenny Loudon: ‘The writing is superb—literary in many ways—with vivid settings, filled with quite exceptional descriptions of the natural world… There are moments of lightness and humour—those slices of life that make the whole feel so real—and others when you feel at your core the frustration, the despair, the sheer impossibility… quite stunning.’ Anne Williams, Romantic Novelists Association Media Star of the Year, 2019

Author Jenny Loudon

About the author:

Jenny Loudon is a British novelist whose work includes SNOW ANGELS, a moving and uplifting tale of recovery after loss, and the bestselling love story FINDING VERITY. She read English and American Literature at the University of Kent in Canterbury and holds a Masters in The Modern Movement. She lives with her family in the English countryside.

Learn more about Jenny Loudon at

https://www.jennyloudon.com/

 My review:

I write this review as a member of Rosie’s Book Review Team (author, check here if you are interested in getting your book reviewed) and thank her and the author for this opportunity.

I had never come across Jenny Loudon before, but I don’t think this will be the last of her books I read. This is a beautiful, poignant, and moving novel, and I do not hesitate to recommend it, despite it being also terribly sad at times, and people who have experienced a recent loss might find it a bit hard to read (although, it is also inspiring and full of light).

Amelie, who lives in Oxford and was born there but whose mother is Swedish, has visited Sweden often and speaks perfect Swedish, suffers a terrible loss. She loses her family, almost in full, and although she tries, going back to work seems impossible to her, and she decides to give up her profession as well. She finds refuge with her Swedish grandmother, Cleome, who lives in a lovely cottage by a lake, close to a forest, and this is the story of her (and their) grief, their healing process, her acceptance of the situation, and the eventual rebuilding of her life, a new beginning, and a recovery of sorts.

This is not only the tale of these people. The story is told in the third-person, mostly from the point of view of Amelie and Cleome, but also of some of the other characters, and the author does a great job at describing their emotions, their thoughts, their psychological makeup, and making us feel as if we were inhabiting their skins. There are quite a few secondary characters, all interesting in their own right, and some we get to know better than others, but nature and the seasons play a fundamental part in the story. Cleome is very attuned to the rhythms of nature, the land, the lake, the trees, the creatures, and she picks up herbs, goes foraging, and engages in little ceremonies to give thanks for the many gifts the land bestows on her. The descriptions of the landscape are as good, if not better than those of the characters, and the healing powers of time and nature play an important part in the novel. I’ve never visited Sweden, but after reading this book, I am eager to do so.

I have mentioned grief before, and it is accompanied by survivor’s guilt, a desperate search for a guilty party, for meaning, and for an explanation, creating a totally realistic picture of two women confronting a tragedy beyond their imaginations. Apart from this, the novel also explores other themes, like motherhood, conventional and chosen families, secrets, political changes in Europe, immigration policies, in Sweden in particular, how to adapt to a new culture, prejudice (both, from a different culture and within one’s own culture), intolerance, romance, and love… Helen, a close friend and neighbour of Cleome, is a doctor and volunteers working with immigrants, and although this is only a small part of the story, there is one of the main characters, Tarek, who gets to explain his experience as an asylum seeker (from war-torn Syria) in a compelling way, and he shows an understanding of loss and love which inspires Amelie in many ways. I did learn about something called ‘resignation syndrome’, which seems to be a unique phenomenon suffered by some young immigrants in Sweden, and a very challenging one. (Helen compares it to Snow White, and it makes sense if you remember when Snow White is given the poisoned apple and falls into a kind of deep sleep, still alive but with no external signs of it).

I have already mentioned the effectiveness of the descriptions, and the style of writing is gorgeous, lyrical, poetic, and packs a big emotional punch. It conveys images of breathtaking beauty together with truly heartbreaking moments, although, thankfully, there are also bright and hopeful moments, and those increase as the novel progresses. Readers experience the landscapes, the sensations, and the emotions vividly, and there were moments when I was transfixed by my immersion into that magical world. The author’s deep knowledge of Sweden and her connection to it are explained in the author’s acknowledgements, which, as usual, I recommend reading.

The ending is perfect for the novel, and it will please particularly those who like to have everything tied-up, as we get to catch up on all the characters more than a year after the end of the story, and that answers many questions most readers might have.

So, as I have said at the beginning, I recommend this novel to anybody who enjoys beautiful writing, contemplative stories, and those where emotions and psychological insights take precedence over adventures and action. I have mentioned recent grief, and I know that each individual going through it has a very different way of coping with their emotions, but those for whom reading about the subject is useful, will find much to inspire them and bring them hope in this novel.

 For those of you who enjoy a little sample of the writing, here are a few paragraphs:

Tiny, fairy-like, nameless insects danced in a pale sunbeam that pierced the tree canopy. The air was full of music—cheerful tunes from a multitude of hidden birds. The sounds were beautiful and heartfel, and her grandmother was right to question it: why did they sing like this? Why bother?

 ‘You know, all these people in power? They think one more bomb will bring peace. All we ever hear is that they are killing people to get peace, using chemical weapons to secure peace. One more war will bring peace. Are they crazy? Do they not listen to themselves? How did a bomb ever bring peace, I ask you?’

 ‘Grief is like a rucksack. You might have to carry it for a long time. Sometimes, when you have had enough though, you can take it off and put it down. And sometimes, you can take things out of the rucksack and leave them by the roadside. You won’t have to carry everything forever but you will probably always be carrying something.’

 If you want to know a bit more about Resignation Syndrome, I found these two articles, and some of the things described in the first article appear in the novel.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/04/03/the-trauma-of-facing-deportation

https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-41748485

Thanks to the author for this wonderful book, thanks to Rosie and her team for keeping us going, and thanks to all of you, most of all, for reading, sharing, commenting, liking, blogging, and being there. Keep smiling!

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#Bookreview ‘The Opera House’ by @Hans_Hirschi. Re-defining family an emotion at a time.

Hi all:

First, a word of warning. I’ve been having all kinds of computer trouble (I’ll tell you about it later) and I hope to be able to get it fixed during the week, but if you don’t see me replying to the comments straight away, that could be the reason. (I try and programme a few posts in advance to keep things going in case of unexpected things happening. Oh, and doesn’t life love randomness!)

As you know I was away from the internet for a while and I used the time to read. I’ll try and catch up with the reviews in the next few weeks (and might do a roundup for Christmas).

Today I bring you a review of a book by Hans Hirschi I’ve read two of his books before and participated in blog tours for some of his books (and have another one coming up next month). So I knew I was in for a treat.

The Opera House by Hans Hirschi
The Opera House by Hans Hirschi

The Opera House by Hans Hirschi. Creating the Family You Deserve.

This novel deals with some serious and important themes we all come across at some point in our lives, some more directly than others: grief, homelessness, family relationships, love, spiritual and religious beliefs, prejudice (sexual, social…), paedophilia, young runaways…but it is not an issue novel where the characters are just mouthpieces for different points of view or an attempt at indoctrinating the reader. It is a novel where the reader gets inside the skin of a series of complex characters and experiences strong emotions with them . We might share their points of view or not and the world they live in might be far from our daily existence but the author manages to get us completely enthralled by the events life keeps throwing at the protagonists and we can’t help but feel for them.

Raphael experiences the loss of his teenage son to a cruel illness, and full of guilt for not being able to reassure him about the afterlife, he lets his life sink, falling into depression and losing his partner, his job and his voice in the company he created, and his earthly possessions. He meets a boy slightly older than his son at the cemetery, Brian, who is homeless like him and whose life is a disaster waiting to happen. Through him, he meets Michael, a children’s social worker. There is hope and Raphael works hard to rebuild his life and create a new family but there are also many difficulties on the way, and the happy moments are interspersed with disappointments and drawbacks. The lives of all the characters in the story are touched by their interactions with each other, and in this drama, nobody is truly evil (with the exception of one of Brian’s johns) and most are trying to do their best. The third person narration that follows the different characters and allows the reader to see things from their point of view works well; it avoids becoming too intrusive whilst offering insight into the motivations and emotions of the main players.

I was very intrigued by the character of Angela, the nurse, who plays the part of the fairy godmother/guardian angel, always appearing at the most difficult moments, with vital information, support and advice. I’d be curious to know what other readers thought about her.

The title of the novel comes from Raphael’s job as an architect, and the impact his experience of homelessness has on his creativity and his design of the next big project for the city, the opera house, that serves as backdrop to the action. Although I don’t know how well the practicalities of the design of the opera house proposed in the novel would work, I admit to loving the concept and the idea.

As a word of warning, there are some erotic scenes (not the most explicit I’ve read by far, and fairly brief, one with violence towards a minor). Ah, and emotions ride high. I’d advise readers to be prepared, especially if they tend to get emotional when reading, and have tissues at hand.

If you like novels about relationships that explore serious issues, with complex characters you’ll get to care about, I recommend it. This is the third novel I’ve read by Hans Hirschi and it won’t be the last one.

Links:

http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B014JYNF9U/

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B014JYNF9U/

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Thanks to Hans Hirschi for his novel, thanks to you all for reading, and you know, like, share, comment and CLICK!

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New books reviews. ‘Believe’ by Mia Fox and ‘Phantom Bigfoot Strikes Again’ by Simon Okill

As you all know, I’m a writer and I’ve always loved books and reading. Unfortunately I don’t always have time to read as much as I’d like (for pleasure rather than for professional reasons, although when you’re a writer, reading other people’s books is always informative as well). Recently I’ve finished reading two book, a romantic novella with a paranormal touch, ‘Believe’ and a Young Adult story also set in the realms of fantasy (or maybe not. Bigfoot anybody?). I thoroughly enjoyed both reads and I thought I’d shared the reviews with you.

Believe by Mia Fox Cover
Believe by Mia Fox Cover

Believe (#1, Chasing Shadows Series)

Romance, Grief and a Love that Survives Everything

I came across ‘Believe’ through a sample posted in Wattpad and the beginning of the story hit me like a bomb. The different voices, the changes in rhythm and twists and surprises and the transitions form sweetness and everyday life to tragedy made me want to keep reading.
‘Believe’ is the first in the ‘Chasing Shadows Series’ but rather than starting slowly and building up the tension, we hardly have time to get to know the characters before we are thrown into emotional turmoil and deep waters.
Ella suffers a huge loss and the author shows great skill at capturing, through inner dialogue, the depth of sadness and desperation she experiences. Despite her sister’s attempts at restoring normality and comforting her, Ella wants her boyfriend, Nate, back. And it seems he does not want to leave her either.
Is this love beyond death? Or a manifestation of grief? Ethan, the therapist/resident assigned to her case when she finally collapses, has issues of his own. What will their meeting do for both of them? Is it fate?
The story is gripping and intriguing and the writing vivid, sensual and focused on the internal workings of the minds of the characters. As a reader I found it difficult not to empathise and share the feelings of the characters, their doubts and insecurities, and also their excitement.
I recommend ‘Believe’ to readers who enjoy an emotional rollercoaster and being thrown into the internal universe of the characters. Only one word of warning. The book ends up on a cliffhanger and I know some readers find that frustrating. Personally, I’m looking forward to the next book.
If you want to have a look:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IVXZ5AS/

Phantom Bigfoot Strikes Again by Simon Okill
Phantom Bigfoot Strikes Again by Simon Okill

‘Phantom Bigfoot Strikes Again’ by Simon Okill

Movie waiting to happen

I had read the previous incarnation and incursion of Simon Okill’s into the world of Bigfoot and Big Beaver. I saw that the author had written a young adult version of the novel and of course I had to read it. Much of my original review still stands and I’ll include the parts that are relevant, although I must admit that I prefer this version. Why? Although the story is still humorous, it has become also more complex, and the characters are more nuanced. We have added elements to the story (the aliens and the fact that Duane’s affinity for the Bigfoot is fully explained now and he even has special powers) and the characters are more fully-fledged. Although it is classed as a young adult book, I think adults will enjoy it as much, if not more, than younger readers, especially as many of the cultural references might be more familiar to people of a certain age.

I am not a genre reader. I don’t read a particular type of novel (or even only fiction, although it is my predilection) exclusively and I normally see what tickles my fancy at the time of choosing a book, although once decided I’ll usually stick to it.

I like comedies and humour but rarely buy books that are exclusively humour. I probably watch more comedy films than I read comedy novels.

One thing that struck me as soon as I started reading Simon Okill’s new novel was how much it felt like a film. From the establishing of the setting (‘Big Beaver’) and the characters (female sheriff still pining for the boyfriend who left five years ago for unknown reasons, large donut eating deputies, lascivious female bartender, young Native American chief with wise sayings, hunters and crackpots) in the first few pages you feel as if you’d walked into Big Beaver and are an observer (when not a full participant. I must say I sometimes thought I could smell the Bigfoot) in all the shenanigans taking place. It made sense when I read that Mr Okill had written a number of scripts. He has a knack for it, that’s for sure.

You have a mysteriously disappeared youth (that like Peter and the wolf had pretended to be abducted so many times that nobody believes he’s gone missing), bizarre crimes (Bigfoot breaking and entering to have a bath and leaving a variety of sweet foodstuffs there), FBI investigating team (hot female agent and the return of the Big Beaver prodigal son) and some set pieces you’ll never forget (alien abduction by Swedish-looking and lusty aliens from the planet Abba).

And of course, you have the Bigfoot. Although narrated in the third person this is an omniscient narrator who gets in the heads of all character, including the Bigfoot. If the human characters keep defeating your expectations (they’re all familiar types but keep surprising you), the Bigfoot are (at least to me) completely unexpected. Loveable and romantic, civilised and wild, they are not far from the noble savage ideal…only a bit hairier.

If you like out-of-the-ordinary comedies, have a soft-spot for lovable and unwise characters and long to submerge yourself in an unexpected world you’ll feel right at home in Phantom Bigfoot Strikes Again. Imagine ‘American Pie’ or ‘There’s something about Mary’ in a small mountain-town setting, with Bigfoot, and you might get a vague idea of what the book is about. If you fancy that image and are looking for a series that promises never ending entertainment, what are you waiting for? Go on and buy the book!

If you want to read more about it:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00H5Y2AWU/

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