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I was talking with someone the other day and they asked me if I had gotten my Christmas shopping done. I answered that I don’t do Christmas. I don’t send cards, I don’t put up a tree, I buy a gift only for my son and his girl friend and all is well. They were horrified and I could immediately feel the guilt tripping begin, being accused of being a scrooge, why was I so bah humbug etc…Blah…blah…blah. I am beginning to wonder if people do Christmas more because they feel a pressure to comply or be regarded as a scrooge. I read a great many online blogs where everyone is talking about how they hate the pressure to buy, and bake, and party and deep down they don’t really want to. So why do they do it? I truly think it is pressure from their peers. Humans are a herding species and so what the majority does the others do as well and follow along. Is there a feeling that if we do not follow along we will be regarded as not part of the herd, an outcast, odd? This is a grand example of a situation we can take the time in which to explore ourselves. Do you have the courage to buck the system and follow what your heart and spirit are telling you? Do you have the internal strength to stand up for your beliefs no matter what other people say about you? Why are we being judged by others in the first place? The new world is all about living our lives as we choose without judgment from others. What concern is it of ours whether so and so has a Christmas tree or not, celebrates the holiday or not, if they believe in God or not? These are the areas we need to be aware of within ourselves because they offer good lessons for us to learn from. They challenge our beliefs in ourselves, they challenge our strength and our ability to live by our own personal rules and not somebody elses.
Everyday we come face to face with situations that can teach us great things but we must be aware of them when they present themselves. If we are not paying attention we miss a golden opportunity to check in with ourselves and see where we stand. My whole life is lived pretty much in simplicity. I find great peace and calm in simplicity and believe it or not, deeper meaning. Seems like an oxymoron. I wonder if many cling hard and fast to old rituals for security regardless if they feel right or not. The first year I didn’t have a tree felt odd in some ways but a relief as well. We decorated a tree outside with fruit and nuts for the animals instead of lights made in China. The house was filled with candles and soft lighting and shadows that wavered about. The presents were few but chosen for a definite reason. I found nothing lacking but instead found a deeper connection with my feelings and those of my son. The birds and squirrels were thrilled with their treats and that in turn filled my heart. Please find the strength and commitment to yourselves to celebrate the holiday in a way that your spirit finds peace and happiness in. Cast aside the pressure and the insecurity you won’t fit in and just do what your heart tells you to do. All will be well and the pressure will vanish.
Blessings to us all,
Visionkeeper


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