Life rule: sort of
Never apply this rule number 1: “The standard of living, go beyond
your standard, and you will get outstanding”. We can’t simply apply this rule
because some people mistakenly apply this and they get vice verse of it.
For example: spending money beyond your limit. Yes, you will
get outstanding satisfaction for the expensive handbag or shoes. But at the end
of the day, it will go to waste. You will realize, "I should not buy that!". There you go, regretting!
What we should do is to live on the expectation of today and know on what you want. That how it should go!
Rule number 2, never blame people. It is a mistake for
blame people. Whatever reason, what is the point of blaming each other and
toward to the end, you will get nothing. The blame is actually on you!
We will never stop blaming people for every single thing. We
blame our parents for not giving the life as we wanted. We blame our teacher
for not giving the score as what you think you deserve on. Yeah, what we will
get at the end is some self-conflict. So, why don’t choose for forgiveness
and move forward!
Rule number 3, always live with this believes: Put yourself
on people’s shoes. I do live with this rule, but to live by putting yourself on
people’s shoe in not that enough. What we should do is “to put yourself on
people’s shoe but you must always be in your own shoe”.
Life situation, we put our self in people shoes, we will
understand more about their problem or their life. But, there is a time where you put yourself on the wrong shoe. You will see a high standard of living
which actually is not yours. You get motivated, “maybe I should be like him”,
but the fact is you not be able to have it and it cause depression. You try your
best to have whatever that person have, but you did it in a wrong way. So, know
you limit and live for the moment and keep up for future.
Rule number 4, always live with a right attitude. “When
something bad or something sad happens, deal it with right attitude”. Of course,
in life we will have the ups and downs but if we are dealing it with a right
attitude. The ups and downs in life will show you the best side of life.
It is not that only your behavior to be in right attitude.
In fact, your words can be really inspirational if you are saying it with right
attitude. Nothing sounds wrong if you say it with right attitude. Just said it
with confidence and hit the roof.
Rule number 5: to be continued…..
