Monthly Archives: November 2012

It Does Not Add Up

Posted on by rmott62

A common fallacy about prostitution is that it must only be a minority of men who are punters.

That does make any sense, even if all you think in numbers without emotions.

I understand it is nice to think that only a certain type of man is a punter, that he can distanced from your ordinary life. But in this post, I will lay out a few reason I think and know punters are the majority of men.

Or at least half the male population.

I write coz I am sick of so many women and the Left sheltering punters by betraying them as Other from normal men, as some kind of victim, as men who should mothered.

Let look with a clear eye at the scale of prostitution.

In just English cities – just a very small country such as England – men have access to hundreds of prostitutes any day and any night.

Punters will find prostitutes in the average English city on the street, in clubs, on the net, by phoning escort companies, in saunas, at hotels, in flats – just as examples.

Most long-term prostituted women and girls are in the life for a minimum of three years, many for decades.

Most prostitutes have at least 5 to 15 punters in just one week, and that is a very low number many prostituted women in brothels or on-street may have 5 to 15 punters in one night.

Most punters are not regulars.

Therefore it makes no sense that it is a minority of men who are punters – for there the minimum of 9,500 known prostitutes just in England, and most have had minimum of 10 punters owning them.

Most long-term prostituted women have had so many punters inside them that their brain cannot take in that horror.

I, just as one example of indoors prostitution, have counted to 300 then double that – then my brain closed down.

Most men that made the decision to buy were one-offs, or more likely used me once and then brought other prostitutes.

Many punters go in groups to torture the prostituted, gang-rapes and taking turns is common in all aspects of prostitution.

It is common that there is a queue of punters in brothels.

How can that be put down to just a minority of sad men.

The scary fact is that the majority of punters are very ordinary men from every background, every cultures, all beliefs systems, all ages – they are just men who know they have full permission to make the prostituted sub-human and to ground her into nothing.

Punters are very ordinary men who are given permission to express all male hate and violence to a class that is branded as the prostituted.

There is nothing special about punters – they are invisible in plain view as society decides it only sick or sad men who used the prostituted class.

The fact is the man who uses prostitutes will lie and hide that he does. So we should never believe statistics that say only a minority of men are punters – we only have their word for that.

The word of a woman-hater, the word of a mass rapist, the word of a porn-brain – you believe that.

You believe the punters or the word of the sex trade – but dismiss the word of exited or prostituted women who say they cannot count how many punters used them.

Could this be coz then any punter could your friend, colleague, father, brother, cousin, doctor, teacher and all other men you consider to be nice?

Do you think punters must be the Other coz it makes you ignores that men you trust or love are making a class of women into sex goods?

Or do think if men are violent to the prostituted, that keep you safe?

All I know is very ordinary men torture me and stole my humanity – and it was made invisible.

 

Not Allowed to be Under-Aged

Posted on by rmott62

There is often a groundswell of anger and grief when girls are sexually abused.

But only if are classed as good girls – that not from care, probably middle-class and white, and certainly not prostituted.

Most teenage girls that are abused fall between the gaps, and in this post I focus on what it was and is to be a teenage prostitute.

I write because I feel strongly, and terrible grief, that to be a teenage prostitute is to be stripped of the right and freedom to be young and to make mistakes.

I know that most eyes view a teenage girl who is embedded inside the sex trade as an adult – this lets society off the hook by making out that she has chosen her lifestyle.

I know many will deny this – but just let’s explore some attitudes to good girls and to girls who are made prostitutes.

There is outrage at grown men raping good girls from say 13 to 15, it is rightfully known to be a crime.

But if that girl is paid or given gifts for sex, if it is framed as a business exchange, and if it classed as adult entertainment – it not viewed as rape, or even harm.

Girls are being brought and sold everywhere all the time, and little is done to say it is wrong.

If the girl is a teenager, she is old enough to be a whore – and everyone knows it is impossible to rape a whore.

I was raped so many times between the ages of 14 to 17, I was raped with extreme brutality and hate, I was made to know I had no existence but to be their living porn doll.

I know so many beautiful women with similar and much worse experiences as teenage prostitutes.

No-one was fighting for us, no-one cried with rage and grief for us.

We were not allowed the privilege of being under-aged, and our rapes being viewed as a crime.

Rape was made into our job – rape was surrounding everything that made us exist – we were not allowed to have shock, not allowed to know deep grief, no time to rest to feel our pain.

No, to survive and somehow hold on to some sanity, we became robots and wipe out all roots to our own humanity.

We were the lost girls – and that is the deep shame of every society that toss us away.

I learnt how lost we were early on in prostitution.

I learnt that lesson as punters and pimps would speak on and on and about how easy it would be to kill us – hell, no-one would notice a whore disappearing.

I learn that lesson as I saw and watch the news reporting yet another good girl being raped or not found – knowing those prostitutes in my heart and memory who had vanished or sat with dead eyes from countless rapes, are never on the news or even seen.

I learnt that lesson as I heard and knew it to be true, that it is impossible to hurt a whore, coz they have no feelings.

I learnt that lesson as police did nothing as they raided “parties” or brothels, only told the girls off for being slags.

I learnt I was no teenager, I had no innocence, if I was hurting it was my own fault.

I learn the lesson that no-one gives a damn about a teenage prostitute.

That how I felt when I was embedded in prostitution.

Now, I know and see that there are some excellent people do vital work to listen and hear teenage prostitutes, to help them exit so they do not become adult prostitutes and be made all the more invisible.

I hold in my heart all those wonderful people – but there is so much to be done, to make that teenage prostitutes are given the right and freedom to be young.

To start with the simple and straight-forward, it is a crime to have sex with a girl under 16 – it not acceptable that if that girl is paid or framed as a prostitute that it by magic becomes a non-crime.

Most punters that used teenage prostitutes are at least 10 to 50 years old than she is – that is rape, that is at least abuse of an under-aged girl.

Know punters lie when they say they did know she was under-aged, they say that to look good in public, they say that because they have been caught out.

No many punters like under-aged prostitutes because they can made to do any violent sex he wants, because she is easy to manipulate, and because it can be cheap.

As long we allowed that it is no-crime, punters will treat under-aged prostitutes with hate and violence.

I feel so full of grief, I’m really unsure how to write this post.

I look head-long in my grief.

I see that 14-year-old that I was.

I should have been free to be innocent, I should have had room to make mistakes, I should have understood silly love songs, I should have explored sex – god, I should have had the freedom to have angst.

Prostitution stole all that. I went from a hurting child into a damaged adult – without having any access to being a teenager.

How can I and so many exited women get justice for that thief?

All we can do is fight tooth and nail for full abolition – and stop so many other girls getting lost.

Breathing Underwater

Posted on by rmott62

I have been in deep shock after starting to explore what it was to tortured as a prostitute.

The shock is not from what happened to me, however horrific and life-threatening that was, however much that torturing has given me extreme and more than life life-long trauma.

No that is just the shock that is easy for those outside of being the prostituted class.

No the deep shock was how normal the torturing became for me; how normal is and always has been, and will be if we do nothing, for all the prostituted class.

The deepest shock is that our tortures are made invisible, or worse are made into the lifestyle choices of the prostituted.

To survive that hell, I learnt to breathe as I was drowning, I breathe in death and stubbornly stay alive.

How can explain the blatantly of torture for the prostitution.

All I know it was my norm, that it was and is the norm for many prostituted women and girls I knew or know, and it is the norm for the vast vast majority of all the women and girls in all aspects of the sex trade in every country that makes it acceptable to buy and sell the prostituted class.

It is torture on a scale that is so vast that it pollute almost every country, every city, most hotels, every computer, most newspapers – it is torture that is everywhere and made nowhere.

No-one outside the sex trade hears the suffering of prostituted women and girls – for they are too beaten down mentally, physically and sexually to do more than silent screaming.

Look and see our realities, and search your hearts why it is not named as torture – use the logical part of your mind, and it can nothing but torture.

Let’s look and see clearly what is seen as the basic to being a prostitute.

That you will have sex with any punter who pays for it. That it your role to do whatever he wants – that it is not your role to say no or think about your own desire.

The basic stereotype of what it is to be a prostitute would be labelled as rape if there was no exchange of goods or money.

Look and see that most long-term prostitutes will be brought by hundreds or even more punters – that cannot be always “nice” punters.

Look and see that prostituted women could have been raped so often that they have no concept of how many men have raped them.

I hear so often non-prostituted women say being raped once is a form of torture – that is true.

What is hard for prostituted women is our rapes are made invisible, made into wrong choices, made into what we are paid for.

We are told over and over and over that it is impossible to rape a whore – so what the hell are we complaining about?

But it is rare that the prostituted are just raped – the punters, the porn producers and the pimps see the purpose of the prostituted to be there to sexually and mentally torture to the point off death and usually keep her alive to do it all over again.

The prostituted class are tortured so often and with so much hate, that they lose any concept that they could be human.

We were made into goods – and part of our survival mechanism is to become nothing but a sex object – and try desperately to have no feelings of pain, of grief and self-respect.

We are breathing as we are drowning – we are pretending to be alive as we know we are dead.

Every part of my body was tortured, every part of my body belong to haters – I had privacy ripped from me.

The only private space were the moments alone where I learn to think nothing, learnt how to feel nothing, and taught myself to not know my past and refuse to think on the future.

That is the reality of being inside deep torture, that is the reality of being the Prostitute.

How Can It Not Be Called Torture?

Posted on by rmott62

I am exploring how torture is interconnected with prostitution, and I may write a series of posts to get my head around.

This post is written after looking at a list about non-state torture, and finding how awful my past.

I suppose I should put trigger warning, but I presume my readers are mature enough to stop reading if they find it too hard.

I hate the concept of trigger warning for it gives an excuse for apathy and turning away from everyday horrors.

It treats readers as children or keep them in the victim-role.

I respect my readers too much to put up trigger warning – I think you can look after yourselves and are stronger than you know.

In this post, I will go down the list and explain what it means to me as much as I can.

1. Savagely and repeatedly beaten

This was normal for me, I was so used to being beaten up, I hardly felt it.

It is the norm in nearly every aspect of the sex trade, that the prostituted are beaten up.

It may a punishment from a profiteer for any and no reason; it may be a punter thinking beating a whore down is a game; it may be re-branded as s/m or kinky sex.

In the end, the prostituted are made into goods, so beating her is no big deal.

2. Savagely and repeatedly kicked

I was kicked in the head, I was kicked in the stomach – I was kicked in my vagina.

It was a game to see if I would cry or complain.

I did not cry – but I often fainted.

A prostitute learn as soon as possible not to show pain or terror – it does not stop the torture, but it may save her life, and most important she keeps some pieces of dignity.

Being kicked is be made sub-human, to be made goods.

I blocked it as much as possible.

3. Fingers, toes and limbs twisted

I had my limbs twisted to mold me into the porn image they wanted to fuck.

The punters twisted my body with no regard to my pain, or that it was not natural to be move that.

They often copy from porn which was cartoons or manipulated film, where it was impossible to be in that position with great pain and wanting to die.

But to be prostituted is be their private porn-doll, who twist into shape they can wank over.

4. Sat on making breathing difficult

That was common, although I would it sitting on and still raping me, not noticing whether I could breath or not.

I mean some punters sat on my chest as they fisted my vagina and/ anus.

Some punters kind of sat on my face as the choked me with their penis.

Or just sat so hard on me I was convinced I would die.

5. Forcibly impregnated

For me as a prostitution, that means most punter who fuck me in the vagina never even thought of using protection.

Why bother when it is just a worthless whore.

I had one abortion, but took morning after pill quite often, I think I had miscarriages as well.

Being pregnant means nothing in prostitution – it does not stop the violence, it does not make punters or profiteers suddenly see the prostitute as a human.

No, it is common especially in indoors prostitution for sex trade to have access to quick abortions, and then send the prostitute back into hell.

6. Raped by one person

All that I can say is this is the norm of all prostitution.

It is normal for the prostitute to have access to the language of no, no access to her body being keep safe from violent sex.

It is normal for the prostitute to never know which punter or profiteer will rape her next.

I was raped by one punter after one punter after one punter after one punter and on and on and on – till my brain stop counting.

Rape is prostitution – rape is so common in prostitution that all it can framed as is torture and complete violation of the prostituted’s human rights.

7. Raped by family or group

Gang-rape is very common in all aspects of prostitution, it is used to control the prostitute.

It is so common that it is made invisible and made if viewed into just kinky sex or extras.

I was gang-raped more often than my brain wants to remember.

When I was a teenager, it became my norm.

But no-one intervenes when a prostitute is gang-raped – for beyond her control, society has decided she must enjoy it.

8. Raped by a weapon (gun or knife) or other objects

Objects were often used to raped me.

Forced into my mouth, forced into my vagina, forced into my anus – and used to create fear.

They were mainly ordinary objects.

Pens pushed into my ears; hair dryers put in my vagina or anus; objects that my mind won’t know forced down my throat.

I have blanked out so much of these objects, I cannot cope with the terror and losing so dignity.

It make my body lose control – and that made the punters laugh.

9. Near drowned when held underwater in a tub, toilet, bucket or stream

I was often forced to drown by having head forced into bath water, water in a basin or in the toilet.

But punters wanted more, they would anally raped me and often fist me.

There was so much hate there – a hate that many prostitute know and have so few words to tell the world.

10. Choking

I was choked so often, that even now I have major issues with my swallowing, breathing deeply, and feeling like I am suffocating.

I had penises and objects forced down my throat: I was suffocated with pillows or hands blocking by breath; I was strangled.

I had punters copying “Deep Throat” into me.

I cannot get rid of the nightmares from all that choking.

11. Suffocated by object place over one’s face

This was funny to punter – a life and death game.

I had pillows put on face as I was being violently raped, that is such a laugh.

It was to drowned or to be inside a coffin.

12. Porn pictures taken

That was common as well, and is very common in indoors prostitution.

It is all about showing the prostitute that she has no privacy; it is about holding over her as blackmail if she get free will or the strength to imagine exiting.

I think many times the camera had no film in it, it was just a general threat to keep me in my place – the place of the sexual slave.

13. Porn or snuff films made or used

This is common, and is used to control the prostituted.

I was filmed when the punters were gang-raping me, I was filmed as I was being degraded.

It is a cheap way to make porn – for you do need a studio, you do not have to pay the prostitute, you do not have to get her permission.

It may call amateur porn, then it can re-branded as fun and entertainment.

But it rape and sexual torture.

Being inside porn, is to know that all your tortures and rapes are out in the world for any wanker to view.

I have no idea where those images are or if they even exist.

14. Forced to watch others being harmed

This is common, it is yet another way to control the prostituted, especially when they are being seasoned into prostitution.

I was made to watch young girls sadistically raped – told maybe if I am good that will not happen to me, or told that is nothing to what will happen to me.

I felt so guilty, but also relieved it was not me.

15. Threatened to be killed

Many punters would love to say “as a joke” that they could and would kill at any time, and in any place.

They said a terrible truth – nobody would miss a dead whore, hell they would do the world a favour.

Profiteers could kill me at any time or place – some spoke in detail how they made dead prostitutes disappear.

I live with death as a prostitute – being murdered was the risk that shadowed every day.

16. Called derogatory names

That is so normal in prostitution, that most prostitutes do not hear the words – it is just white noise.

Every vicious sexual insult of women is thrown at the prostituted.

Every hate word for her sexual organs is thrown at the prostituted.

All language that framed women as evil manipulators of men is thrown at the prostituted.

To be a prostitute is to name as everything men hate and fear of all women.

Name-calling grind us into being sub-humans, it is no minor thing for the prostituted.

17. Put down as sub-human

Everything about the structure of the sex trade is designed to make the prostituted sub-human.

She is made into sex goods; she is made into living porn; she is holes and hands; she is non-human.

Conclusion

I know this was very hard to read – and may be hard to accept or believe.

All I write is this post is a sketch of the normal sadism that is prostitution.

How can it not be called torture?

 

Prostitution is Torture

Posted on by rmott62

I have been asked to write about my experiences of torture, and this post is a start to exploring that.

I believe the whole structure of prostitution is founded on torturing the prostituted class – and when it is not sadistic, that is almost unimportant.

The structure of all forms of prostitution is designed to make the prostituted have no access to the language of no, it is a designed to give the prostituted no real access to safety, it is designed that the prostituted are stripped of their humanity and made into sex goods.

That is why we must see and know that it the system of prostitution that allows and makes invisible the everyday torturing of the prostituted.

There is a fundamental that makes it clear how it is torture, and how effective the prostitution profiteers and punters make it invisible.

Most so-called sex in prostitution is rape or abuse, but by re-branding as consensual by the exchange of goods or money – then the rapes/sexual violence disappeared.

But to have to have sex with many strangers, most of whom will want to do violent sex acts, most of whom will have contempt for just coz you are a prostitute, most of whom think and know they treat you no respect or dignity – that is torture.

I became numbed to “ordinary” rape, and only remember the extreme sexual torture – for I like most of the prostituted, was raped so many times it was my norm, and made give up believing in hope.

What is hard for many exited women is speaking to the depths of pain, horror and grief of what is was to be raped so often and so violently that we lose the language of rape.

It is hard to listen and hear how often sympathy will gather round women and girls who are raped once or three times – we find hard to know where to place.

I have learnt to say the right things in the rights places, as my prostituted soul is screaming that was my norm, that was what I was – no-one will hear that scream.

So exited and prostituted have learnt to scream in silence, and on occasions to rage to each other.

Who is holding the prostituted woman or girl who is raped and bleeding, but has to tidy enough for the next punter to rape her.

That is torture shut away from the public, shut away from any show of sympathy.

And rape is just the everyday business of being a prostitute.

Many if not most punters pay to do whatever they want to the prostituted.

Profiteers sell as much access to sadism as possible to have variety in the market.

The prostituted are made so sub-human, that it is considered fine to experiment with her body and mind to see how pain and degradation she take – hopefully without actually dying.

Though if the prostituted are so inconvenient to die or be too sick to be fucked any more – that is no problem, for the prostituted are replaceable and so can be thrown away.

That is an environment of torture.

But most important, all forms of torture can and are placed in the minds and bodies of the prostituted – but because most of the prostituted are women, because it is framed as the private sphere, and because many have decided it just sexual entertainment for men – it not viewed as important.

I remember when water-boarding was all the news – the horror that male soldiers and civilians could be degraded so, and place inside so much terror.

I then found words for what done to me by some punters.

I found word to describe having my head forced into the bath water as I kneeled by it.

Only it was more than just drowning, no punter want just physical torture – there must be sex, they must get their money worth.

I was anally raped as I drowned – but not to kill, just a game to push me to the edge of death.

It is the same with gang-rape, which is the norm in all forms of the sex trade.

Gang-rapes only seemed to matter when done outside the frames of the sex trade.

Gang-rapes is normal in most wars, but it often inside army brothels – so it is made invisible or just a way for men to de-stressed.

But if many civilians are gang-raped, especially if it is men, there is deep shock and horror, and campaigning for change.

It is the same with gang-rapes of young women.

It is normal in internal trafficking that teenage girls are seasoned into prostitution by being gang-raped on a regular basic.

This is hidden, it is made that it must be consensual for she took the money or goods, it must be consensual for she came back to the same violence several times, oh, it must be consensual for whores don’t care what happen to them and they like it really.

But when non-prostituted teenage girls are passed around and gang-raped, it then become a society’s issue, and a sign that we do not care about young women.

I suppose if I saw UN or police raiding all aspects of prostitution where it is known torture is going on, I may think society is seeing the reality of what it is to be prostituted.

But, it is usual that punters know they do any sadism to any prostitute in any place with consequences or punishment.

The torturing of the prostitute has become so normal that it no longer seen.

It is invisible.

Wild Horse Spirit

Posted on by rmott62

This is for all my brave, beautiful and wild exited Sisters – you all know who you are xxxx

Exiting the sex trade is terrifying and exhilarating all at the same time.

It is to fly whilst having roots deep in the earth, it is to on the edge of sorrow as your heart is celebrating the fullness of being human, it to know the dark whilst blinded by the light.

To be exited from the sex trade, is to know that freedom is no concept, no speech, no page in a book, no hope that cannot be reached in a lifetime.

Freedom is solid, freedom is simple as others make it complicated, freedom is knowing what it is to be a full human – nothing more, and certainly nothing less.

Freedom for exited women is to reach into the depths of their essence, and to find with surprise and some shock there is the spirit of the Wild Horse deep inside them.

This spirit is real, it is the part that every punter fears, it is the part that every sex trade profiteers wants to destroy – it is the part that all supporters of the sex trade want to say does not exist.

The Wild Horse spirit is deeply human, there is nothing supernatural or detach from the human essence in it.

It could be seen as a metaphor, it can be a spiritual event – just know the Wild Horse stands for human freedom, the human ability to find it own rules of how to live with dignity and respect for others, the human courage to stand up to wrongs that destroy the will to live with freedom.

The Wild Horse spirit is all about true independence but knowing to be connected to all that strives or freedom for all who remain oppressed.

For the Wild Horse spirit has deep and unending sorrow and wild rage that so many prostituted are still in prison on a mental, physical and sexual level.

This sorrow and rage can and does make the Wild Horse spirit want to run away, run till the pain of such deep grief has faded enough to fight harder for true  freedom.

There are many times that exited women have to run and hide – this is never weakness, or means they have given up hope.

No, it is a gathering of strength and finding isolation for a small piece of safety.

The Wild Horse spirit needs solitude for refreshing its essence.

The Wild Horse spirit need and must have time and space to stare straight into the depths of grief and view what it was to be prostituted.

It is in solitude and silence, that the true courage is drag out of exited women.

It is a time and space, where it can understood inside the body and mind what it was to be tortured on all levels.

It is a time and space , where it can understood what it is to be stripped off basic human rights is.

It is a time and space, where it truly understood what it is to be the unrapeable.

And it is a time and space, where it be truly understood what being a slave is.

That is the depth of sorrow and rage the Wild Horse spirit can contained.

This is hard to write, for it so personal.

Pulling the Tail of the Tiger

Posted on by rmott62

I normally ignored and blocked out the constant lies and hate created by the sex trade lobby about exited women daring to speak out with power and clarity.

I normally ignored and blocked out how the sex trade paints us as victims so they can feel back in control, and having power over.

I normally ignored and blocked out the way the sex trade lobby manipulate the media into believing indoors prostitution can be made safe, or at least the normal violence done to the prostituted indoors will be hidden from the public gaze.

I normally get on with my work and life – but sometimes my rage at the constant lies and propaganda gets too much.

I will roar as a tiger angered at the pointless and irritating pulling of her tail.

Enough is bloody enough.

In this post, I will confront a few of the most common attacks and lies that the sex trade lobby said over and over and over and over again about exited women.

THAT IT JUST A MORAL ISSUE

This is a dismissive attack to say we cannot have politics.

Or if it decided we have politics, we must be right-wing, we must be religious zealots.

It is a refusal to allow to have intelligence, refusal to say we can think without instructions, refusal to see exited women as full humans.

It is a refusal to know that exited as individual fighters have many beliefs, with many grades of politics, with or without religious or spiritual beliefs, come from many and varied traditions and cultures.

I am atheist, who is Northern European, I was brought upper middle-class, with traces of liberal Christianity in my background.

But more important, my background was surrounded by conversations about civil and human rights, I have a magpie brain that love understanding how culture works, understanding how power structures destroys the oppressed, understanding the power structures are held together by not giving the oppressed access to reality.

To be against the sex trade is not a moral issue to me – to be honest, I think morals are used to silence the oppressed and give them no language for what is destroying.

Morals were invented to keep the oppressed down, and steal their language of justified resistance with the language of guilt, self-blame and apathy.

It is an issue of giving all the prostituted class their basis rights, giving them the language of resistance, giving the courage to see the reality of being made into sex goods.

It is an issue of tearing down the sex trade from the roots, not tinkering at the edges by just forming unions and speaking the language of limiting harms to the prostituted.

Exited women speak in a language where their dreams are bigger than just patching up the prostituted and then sending back into danger.

We see millions of the prostituted drowning – we don’t pick out one body at a time, exited women join with those who are damming the flow of water to stop the endless suffering.

PORN IS SEPARATE FROM PROSTITUTION

That is not true, and it makes no sense to the many women in the sex trade who are moved around all aspects of the sex trade.

Filmed porn is paid like prostitution – so tell what is the real difference for the woman inside either porn or prostitution?

But the sex trade lobby are only concerned how the consumer views porn as somehow different – the consumer has the money to feed the monster, so his delicate feelings are worth more the torturing of the prostituted.

Remember that in all aspects of the sex trade, money talks, and the suffering of the prostituted is of little importance.

The prostituted are not allowed to be full humans, whether inside porn or prostituted – they are goods that made to be interchangeable.

That means it is normal for the long-term prostituted to moved round many aspects of the sex trade – it is common to be moved from indoors prostitution into hard-core porn.

It is assumed that women that have done long-term prostitution are suitable for hard-core porn – for they are “used” to pain without anyone caring, “used” to being degraded, “used” to having sexual acts done to them that are dangerous to their mental and physical welfare.

I cannot and will not separate porn from prostitution – the only people who do can because they see no human inside porn or prostitution, just goods to be used and thrown away

IT IS FORCED LABOUR, NOT FORCED SEX

I think the sex trade think they have “discover” yet another clever way to deny the ordinary rapes and sexual torturing of the prostituted, by saying it just bad labour issues.

They use to compare to other forms of forced labour, such as exploitation of children making goods for the West – only they miss out words like exploitation, slavery, trafficking – and paint it as better than starvation.

It is the tactic of guilt aimed at the Leftists and liberal feminists.

Only miss out the slavery words – and called forced labour – and it sound there no serious issues of power and control, no silencing of the multiple voices of the slaves, and no constant genocide of the slave class.

This is the voices of the sex trade profiteers who say if there anything bad – it just the “bad side” of prostitution, the so-called forced labour.

In the voices of these profiteers, no prostitute can ever be raped, coz that is impossible for the goods have paid for, the costumer is always in the right.

There is no rapes, no sexual torturing, no disappearances of the prostituted – and if they are seen it just an employer being careless.

It cannot be known that it is normal to have forced sex in all aspects of the sex trade, it is the foundation of how the sex trade works.

The prostituted class were invented to have a slave class that have no rights to dignity and no access to full humanity.

The prostituted class was made so men have access to humans who had no right to say no to any sexual violence that men can imagine.

There is no equality or normal work rights in any aspects of the sex trade – it is always the structure of the prostitute as slave and the sex trade and its consumers with full control and power.

That is not labour – forced or not.

SOME PUNTERS ARE NICE

Of course, not all punter torture prostitutes – but all punters pay knowing the prostitute cannot say no, knowing he can be violent if he wants and no-one will intervened, knowing he can not be violent once and be violent the next time.

There is no such thing as a nice punter.

There no reason that is good enough for buying another human for sexual greed/needs – everyone gets lonely, that is part of being human; many disable men can find sex without oppressing others; it is not part of growing into an adult man; prostitutes are not be collected or researched into whilst sampling the goods; it is not pushing the sexual boundaries to buy another human as your sexual goods; prostitutes will not mend any long-term relations by providing sex your partner won’t give; prostitutes are not your mother, daughter, therapist, goddess or porn object.

All punters cannot be good for they have made the conscious choice to buy another human to be his sexual goods.

He is buying mainly women and girls who are stripped of the language of saying no – knowing to say no will and does lead to worse violence.

He is buying that he can demand any sexual act – no matter that it threaten her physical and mental welfare.

He is buying that whatever he chooses to the prostituted will be from the public gaze, so there no consequences if he makes the choice to be sadistic.

So when a punter makes the choice to be non-sadistic, it becomes meaninglessness to most of the prostituted – for there always more punters waiting to use her and violence can happened any time or place.

BRAINWASHED BY RADICAL FEMINISTS

This myth makes me laugh.

So, the only reason that exited women are so against the sex trade is because we are so stupid that we are led by the nose by radical feminists.

It could not be possible that living more rapes than the mind can remember, that living inside constant sexual torturing, being made sub-human, being stripped of dignity and right to live in safety – could that be why so many exited women hate the sex trade?

If I am a radical feminist, it more because I became one because of the violence and hate put into me by the sex trade and its consumers.

I would criticise radical feminist or not giving exited women enough leadership, or for not seeing we most have a separate movement.

So I have never been comfortable in the radical feminist – but I proud alongside the radical feminists who fight for abolition and freedom for all the prostituted.

It is insulting to say that exited women are brainwashed by radical feminists – for most of the strong language about abolition was written and thought up by the prostituted whether they were exited or inside the sex trade.

I know the reason the sex trade lobby went to create the myth that exited women are brainwashed by radical feminists – is really coz they are saying exited women are too stupid, weak or trapped in a victim-role to think or themselves.

This is said by a sex trade that needs and wants all the prostituted to speak in one language – the language of their propaganda, the language of the slave saying they are free and happy, the language of never letting the outside world see and know the ordinary violence and hate that is the sex trade.

No wonder the sex trade lobby hates exited women – for we have broken free from the language of slavery.

We have become wild and free, we have the strength of warriors.

We speak to our truths even through pain, grief and fear.

The sex trade lobby are right to fear our voices.

SAYING IT OVER AND OVER

Another way the sex trade lobby likes to hold exited women as victims, is to say we just repeat ourselves and that keeps us in mental pain.

Of course, the sex trade lobby refuses to see being sexually tortured, being raped on industrial scale, being made to feel at any time you could be killed – that could the real sources of trauma for exited women.

No, to say that is bring the punters and profiteers at the centre of all the harms of the sex trade – and that it what the sex trade lobby is so desperate to make invisible.

So, say the prostitute is to blame for being weak, for having come from previous sexual abuse, for misreading punter’s body language, for not having the mental strength to be the perfect whore.

It can never be the fault that she is sold as goods for punters to do any violence they like to.

It can never be the fault this make no safe place, no aspect of the sex trade that can be made safe for the prostituted.

No blame the prostitute – and make the punter and profiteer invisible.

CONCLUSION

This is a very small sample of the hate language of the sex trade lobby.

It is mainly said by those who profit from the status quo of the sex trade, pimps and punters. Remember that, then it become easier to wipe out their propaganda.

One thing, I love is they are so needy that they always write to exited women, and get very cross and sulk if we choose not to print their lies.

How dare exited women not obey or bow down to their oppressors – how rude! How dare have a mind of their own.

This the bottom line – the sex trade lobby still see exited women as their property, who should be controlled and punished for speaking out of line.

They cannot bear that we have freedom and an independent voice.

They cannot bear that we are strong – what other reason would they waste so much energy saying we are mentally ill, deluded, weak, unable to think for ourselves or too damaged to know our own reality.

One way they do this, is to deny that we write our own worlds, or think our own concepts – for we are too stupid to say such big words, or to connect ideas. Instead we must be manipulated by the religious right or radical feminists.

Well, this is all my own words and concepts – sorry if to hard to think an exited woman can have power and courage, at the same time as trauma.