Monthly Archives: November 2013

Open Your Heart to Open the Door

Posted on by rmott62

I have to play the Blues, play deep soul, play the music of the heart that has lost words to come close to what I need to write in this post.

It is a post about opening the door to indoors prostitution, open the door to who I had to be to be that “whore” who was in endless rooms with endless beds.

I was inside a world where language is stolen, a world that is upside-down and inside-out.

It was a world where all that humans have decided is wrong is made out to be right but good and the only way to exist.

The world of indoors prostitution is a world where pain, confusion, lies, lack of control and lost of humanity are the rules to live by –  that is blood and breath of  the prostitute woman/girls in that environment.

In order to understand the reality of indoors, try to open up your heart – do not all back into logic and statistics, do disappear into detachment.

Open your heart, learn to be silent enough to hear the unspoken truths of exited women.

Open your heart, and think in a clear mind where and when is there an environment where any female is safer on the streets than behind closed doors.

Open your heart and place your body in that room – a room where many strange men owned you and demand all porn-fuelled sex from you.

Just open your heart, let your mind feel that pain, that grief and be in that confusion, let your body know it cannot stop it only try to stay alive.

Open your heart to knowing you may be alive, but life has no meaning except to obey what punters and sex trade profiteers demand of you – your existence is to be goods or a living sex-doll.

I know many reading this may close their hearts to that reality, and want to believe the lies that the sex trade promotes about indoors.

The myths spread about indoors are made so there can no empathy to the prostituted who are trapped in indoors prostitution, so they be thrown away and no-one will even notice.

A classic myth, a myth that goes back many centuries and cuts across most cultures – is the myth that indoors is empowering and a money-spinner.

This myth is founded on the lie that anything is better than street prostitution, and as prostitution “will always be with us”, it is kinder to place it indoors.

This myth comes from the roots of making the prostituted into goddesses, calling those “goddesses” courtesans, geishas, escorts or the Happy Hooker.

The invention of goddesses is so convenient for men – a goddess has no human emotions, a goddess is remove from human pain or grief, a goddess will and can do endless sadist sex with many men.

In other word, the invention of goddesses in most societies was just the commercialisation of the sex trade.

But so quick this goddess-prostitute was framed in so-called empowering language.

Instead of stating the truth that goddess-prostituted women were just females who were endlessly raped, tortured and thrown away – it became she had a strong libido, that she would love sadist sex for she is not feeling it as “real” women would.

It become made true the lie that to do indoors prostitution is high-class, is to control the men and it may the only way women can gain power.

This lie is embedded in nearly every country, every culture, every city and inside the hearts of the vast majority of men.

It is embedded in every culture that uses warfare to capture women and girls only to force into brothels, and slowly brainwash them to forget a life outside the brothel walls.

It is embedded in all cultures who encourage and condone men and boys to lose their “virginity” to any prostitute, only make it nice by having a bed and walls round him.

It is embedded every time a man uses a computer to buy an escort, girlfriend experience – he is paying to be indoors so all his control, hate and violence will be made invisible.

No culture, belief system or society is innocent of the destruction of the prostituted class – all have enjoyed having a class of women and girls that are made into sex-dolls and will be thrown away.

Some may have given up that way of living, and we should look deep into how they choose to see the prostituted as full human and not goods.

But for most of human history, and in almost all human societies – it is the norm not just to have the prostituted class, but for it to be so embedded that nearly every country has many levels and categories of what it is to be a prostitute.

Men of all cultures and times in human history have enjoyed making a fake science of what it is to be a prostitute.

The simplest is the classic concept that street prostitution is bad and highly dangerous, so indoors prostitution must be good and safe or safe enough that men don’t have to worry too much.

But use your heart to think – how is it possible that prostitution behind closed doors can be made safe.

Do you not see or feel the reality that those doors are firmly closed to make invisible all tortures, all the sadist sexual practices, all the hate punters bring into that room.

Why do know it is common that non-prostituted women and girls are beaten up, rape and murdered mainly behind closed doors – but then decide to turn it inside-out to say the prostituted must be safer indoors.

I am sickened when you believe such nonsense.

Maybe I too sickened any more.

International Day of the Elimination of Violence Against Women

Posted on by rmott62

Today the UN has stated to be International Day of the Elimination of Violence Against Women – but as I am in the middle of sending a petition to stop the UN from decriminalising all of prostitution – I would question their commitment to ending all male violence to all women.

This saddened me to the roots of my being – I was brought up to respect the UN and to think it upheld human rights for all.

I was wrong, and I cry as I see my dreams smashed into the ground.

Human rights are not for the prostituted class – the prostituted class do not have the right to be fully human, so why waste human rights on them.

I fully support all women and girls that are covered by this day – all I asked is that the prostituted class are included.

How can it be possible to even dream of eliminating male violence to women and girls, if we decide to exclude the prostituted class?

This is not possible when the prostituted class is in the front-line of all violence done to all women and girls.

The sex trade provide a training ground for men to learn how to mentally, physically and sexually torture women and girls – a training ground made invisible.

How can we eliminate male violence to females, if we make the conscious choice to ignore the torturing of the prostituted class?

Until we state in a clear voice, that to be inside any part of the sex trade is to be living inside extreme violence.

We must say that prostitution is of itself violence that being inside porn is violence, to be in a sex club is violence.

We cannot look for the “good” in the sex trade, for it just betrayed the prostituted class, leaving them abandoned as you debate good/bad prostitution.

There is no good punter, there is no sex trade profiteer who can be good, no porn can be made good, stripping cannot be made good, phone sex is not good, indoors prostitution is not good.

It all lies, the language that claim porn/prostitution can be made safe or good – lies that are destroying millions of prostituted women and girls all the time everywhere.

It is an international crisis – the prostituted class are dying, being tortured, getting raped and mentally abused on a scale that blow up my mind.

It is the longest, most effective and most invisible genocide in all human history.

For as long as prostitution has been a norm in most cultures and societies, it has work by destroying the prostituted and throwing them away, only to replace with more vulnerable or captured women and girls.

That is genocide, only it is made nothing for the prostituted are not considered human enough to be murdered or to know pain.

The prostituted class are made goods, as goods they no access to human pain or grief, no access to fear, no access to human justice – and certainly no access to basic human rights.

By discounting the prostituted class – all debate or discussion about violence against the prostituted, becomes quickly focus on the rights of punters and sex trade profiteers.

It become the answer to any violence done to the prostituted must be to place all prostitution indoors and make it fully legal.

That is great for punters, great for more profit for the sex trade – but it is death for the prostituted class.

Place prostitution behind closed doors, and you are giving full permission to all punters to be as violent as they wish without sanctions, you are encouraging sex trade profiteers to provide sadistic sex as extras.

By placing prostitution indoors, you are stating that the prostituted are too sub-human to worry about – just make it clean for punters, say there are condoms are provided and call it sex work – then you can turn your back on the prostituted class.

I am deeply angered and full of despair that one way the UN is pushing the legislation of prostitution is by claiming it may lower the rates of HIV.

This is bullshit, and deeply hurtful for it implies that it is the prostituted who are spreading sexual diseases, and implying that the prostituted are too weak to use protection.

It make the punters and sex trade profiteers invisible, for they have full responsibility for any HIV or other sexual diseases that the prostituted have.

The UN seemed to believe all the prostituted need is a constant supply of condoms and control of indoors prostitution and then there be no HIV.

Condoms are great if you not dealing with punter mentality.

Punters buy the prostituted not for sex, but to have complete control and power over the prostitute who has no rights and cannot say no.

In that environment, it is next to impossible to get a punter to use a condom or any form of protection if he decide not to.

Remember to a prostitute is to be in the position of a slave – a slave cannot make demands, cannot say it is unsafe, cannot give orders to the master.

I know that to even suggest to a punter who refuses protection is to be beaten up, is to be sexually torture for longer – and I have known prostitutes murdered or standing up for the simple human right of being safe and healthy.

It is the punters who are spreading sexual diseases, where is the condemnation and sanctions or those men?

And where is the fury that the sex trade profiteers will encourage to not use condoms.

It is made cheaper, it is provided with more privacy and longer times.

Using condoms is made to appear square and unacceptable in the sex trade.

What does it matter if the individual prostitute gets pregnant or get a life-threatening disease – just throw her away and replace her with any other prostitute.

We are interchangeable and disposable.

Please signed my petition, if you have not already – or spread it around as far as you can.

http://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/michel-sidibe-executive-director-at-un-aids-organisation-to-prevent-the-legalisation-of-prostitution-and-support-abolition?share_id=LPSdLcIDNN&utm_campaign=autopublish&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=share_petition

Coldness is My Heart

Posted on by rmott62

When you have somehow exited prostitution – the biggest unanswerable question is How come I not dead?

There is no answer, only more questions, only a background of survivor guilt, only a hole that never be filled.

One reason I may have survived, one reason many exited women may have survived is that we built a heart of ice.

You may call that detachment, you may say it was protection from madness of self-destruction – all I know is now I am safe and stable, the ice is still there on too many occasions.

I can find I view the world with a wall of ice between me and feelings, ice between me and knowing too much reality.

Like the Ice Queen, I hug ice to my heart refusing to know my own pain, refusing to cry, refusing to know deep inside my soul that prostitution is inside my skin.

I can write and speak out about prostitution, I can speak to close friends of some of the horrors – but I cannot let too much inside me.

What terrified is how I speak/write out, but as soon as I am alone I can make into nothing, make out it cannot truly hurt or formed me.

I place the world of my prostitution into an ice chamber, hoping it will die from neglect –  only to find my mind “forgets” but my body is sick with deep memories demanding attention.

I want to be the Ice Queen and never feel again, I want sometimes to return the world of losing my humanity and ability to know my own hell.

I want to live numb to all my past, numb to knowing torture is still inside my body, numb to knowing that all that happen to me is now happening to millions of the prostituted.

I want to an Ice Queen and forget how to care – for caring is too painful, caring bring a huge grief to the surface, caring make living whilst dreaming of dying.

But I know I am no Ice Queen, I know my heart is not frozen – I know my fear of being alive is a natural reaction to never being allowed to know what being alive is.

I know as I defrost that pain is re-birth or just a simple learning that I breathe without punishment or hate stopping me.

I was never the Ice Queen, I was Kaye the child trapped by the Ice Queen, who having no escape lost hope and adapted, adapted so well he claim he was happy.

I adapted to prostitution, I adapted to being used for “amateur” porn – I adapted and painted on the smile of the deaden Whore.

I adapted by losing all connections to feelings, all connections to hope, all connections to a world that may care – I adapted to the ice palace I was living in.

For much of my years of prostitution, the shell I was living inside appear comfortable and even relatively high-class.

I was always indoors, I had a bed or beds, I was only by up to 10 or 12 men at the most in one night, I was safer than the streets or some kind illegal brothel.

I was lucky, that was what I told myself.

I made myself lucky by locking away how often I was tortured, how common gang rape was, how often I thought I was going to be murdered – that was shut down in my ice chamber.

I made myself the Happy Hooker, smiling and laughing as each day I was amazed I was still existing.

Now my question to you – is how to live with that much ice in your heart, how in living can the prostituted learn to connect to the world beyond prostitution?

I have no answers, only the hope that as exited women bring their truths to the surface there is some true connection.

I know there will be, just is a long and hard road.

Trauma is Made

Posted on by rmott62

The greatest crime of the sex trade is how it drives trauma into each and every one of the prostituted.

The sex trade and its allies know this mental damage is inevitable, that if the trauma is push down deep enough it will form the ideal prostitute or “actor” in porn.

Trauma destroys memory, trauma destroys the will to believe in the future, trauma deaden the brain’s access to knowing pain – trauma makes all the prostituted class into living dolls.

The prostituted class become nothing but a mass with holes and hands, for all men with money and the will to consume the prostituted to masturbate into.

Trauma makes sure that there is human left inside the prostituted class.

That is why the only solution is to completely abolish the sex trade – for we cannot live a whole class being into sex dolls and call ourselves a decent society.

The trauma that is embedded inside me, and inside all the exited women I know or work with, is extreme and highly complex.

It is a trauma that cannot be just wished away or just got over – it is inside our skin, our memory, our breathing.

I never understand why our is so belittle or made invisible.

I see it said it is a trauma to be raped.

We were raped in the hundreds, we were raped for months or years – but we are not allowed trauma or if allowed only the amount of trauma other can deal with.

It would appear we were raped too often, it was too normal to matter – so we must have got used to it, it must have been our choice to be a fuck-object, it must be that the prostituted class cannot be raped.

It cannot be real rape – for we were paid or took gifts, for we advertise our bodies were open to any man.

How can it be classed as rape – when too prostitutes do react with shock, they are not crying, they do not speak of being in pain, they act as if nothing important has happen – how can that be called rape?

Again our trauma is complex and to the extreme – our trauma is made up of hundreds of strange men raping us, our trauma often started too young for our minds to want to remember, our trauma is assisted by any society that refuses to know the prostituted are fully human.

How can you know that the average prostitute or woman inside porn has raped by more men than the human brain can hold and say it is not real rape.

Do we not count, does money mean more than our mental welfare and right to life?

But most of the prostituted were not just raped, they live inside sexual torture.

We were tortured in a scale that is off the charts – the sex trade and its consumers see the prostituted class as goods that any form of sadism or porn fantasy is pour into.

I know what is rape outside the sex trade, is seen as foreplay by many punters, or as sex they can get for free – they pay to do extreme torture with the full knowledge it will be condoned or hidden from the public gaze.

There is no part of the prostitute’s mind, body and soul that a punter will not torture – and the more he torture the more profit the sex trade makes.

I know that much that would be framed as rape to women and girls outside the sex trade – was a relief to me, for it was less painful, lasted for shorter periods and I could numbed my mind and body from knowing what was happening.

Torture is inside me every day, though I built a wonderful life – the knowledge of sadism at its purest is inside me, and it is the backbone of my trauma.

How do you live with knowing no part of your body has not been in a war-zone, a war that is made unseen, unheard and unknowable.

I will not go through the multiple memories, only say sadism shadow me, only say when I have any pain in any part of my body it connects to a past I don’t want to.

Only say I get pain in my ear for a punter/punters thought it was funny to see if their cocks went down that hole.

Only say I choke loads often till I am sick – it could coz I was forced into water as I was anally raped, it may too many objects/fists/penises force down my throat, it may just be being unable to scream out or even have a voice as a prostitute.

Only say my legs often are in great pain – maybe coz I was often tied up, or just coz running away was no option when I prostituted.

I will not speak to my normal anal pain, or speak to how often I was strangled, or speak of how often I stopped breathing.

All that is the ordinary trauma of an exited woman.

That was our norm, our reality – that is what society tries so hard is not happening and never has happened.

What makes me deeply proud is that so many exited prostituted women are speaking to the truths of their trauma – and transforming it to be a power-force demanding abolition of the sex trade.

We are becoming a force that is unstoppable.

Copyright Rebecca Mott 2013

Indoors is Never Safe

Posted on by rmott62

A dreadful myth and the myth that many in authority use as a reason to legalise prostitution – the old myth that prostitution must be safe if it only placed indoors.

As a survivor of indoors prostitution, every cell of my body knows this is a horrific lie, a lie that is causing a genocide of the prostituted class to be hidden behind closed doors.

This is the lie that makes the UN think legalisation is a some answer to violence and disease in the prostituted class; this is the lie that allows governments to abandoned the prostituted class; this is the lie that underpins that prostitution is just sex work.

The lie that you make prostitution safe enough by just building more brothels, having more escorts and making it as invisible as possible to those who are not consuming the prostituted.

There’s is the rub – it is not about the safety of the prostituted, it is not about giving the prostituted basic human rights – the purpose of placing prostitution is to protect the sex trade and to increase the market for more profit.

Prostitution is never about the mental and physical welfare of the prostituted – we are nothing but goods – it is always about getting as much money as possible.

Profit is the only thing that counts – human rights mean nothing, concepts of consent mean nothing, spread of sexual diseases mean nothing, murders or deaths of the prostituted mean nothing – all that counts is that the cash keeps flowing.

That is why all who are pro-sex trade are fully behind indoors prostitution – it is a massive money-spinner for the sex trade.

Yes, they will trick you with language that appear to care for the prostituted – but always that “caring” is fake, or if real caring that punters get their money-worth and caring that prostituted are made silent so only a good image of the sex trade is shown.

Indoors prostitution can lie and lie and lie because most of society refuses to look behind those closed doors.

For at least 3000 years, the prostituted have been tortured, raped and murdered behind closed doors.

We live in societies in nearly every corner of this earth, in nearly every male-oriented cultures of all times – that view indoors prostitution by slamming shut their eyes, that silences the screams and complaints of the prostituted who are indoors, that will not touch the prostituted and then named them as untouchable/outcasts, that will smell the stench of death and torture coming from all forms of indoors prostitution from all times and all cultures.

To be inside indoors prostitution is to be totally invisible in plain sight, is to be dead as others say how alive and vibrant you are, is to be sub-human goods but told endlessly it is your choice.

To be inside indoors prostitution is to be a world where good is bad – and bad is slowly killing you.

There is nothing positive that can said about indoors prostitution if it is seen with clear eyes.

To place prostitution indoors is to say rape is fine if it called a business exchange.

To place prostitution indoors is to say torture is fine if kept inside a world of porn and prostitution.

To place prostitution indoors is say all punters no holds bar – all violence can be hidden, any dead prostituted body can be made to disappear, all concepts of respect and dignity mean nothing when the prostituted is just goods.

How can anyone, especially those in positions of power, imagine that prostitution can be made safe just by placing it indoors?

I figure it must be that the prostituted are not considered to be human enough or even allowed to be human – to have even that fundamental right to full safety.

Our safety is made unimportant when governments considered the profit of legalising prostitution; our safety is nothing when seeking for male votes; our safety means nothing for all men including the men in power want endless access to the prostituted class.

We are left to drown because we must never deprived all men of the right to buy and sell the prostituted class.

But you must open the doors on indoors prostitution – look inside and maybe then you see a small part of our living hell.

We must open the doors on indoors prostitution – we must let it become the unspeakable and unhearable.

See inside a normal brothel, and tell where is the glamour – where is the glamour in punters entering all holes in your body; where is the glamour in never how much violence will done to your body and mind; where is the glamour is having hours of enduring these men.

See the normal escort, and tell how safe it is – how safe is it to left alone in a room with a punter who knows he has complete power and control over you; how safe is it to be alone with a punter who will and does any porn fantasy into you; how safe is it to be an escort when murders are frequent just not reported or recorded.

All punters want more indoors prostitution for they know it give them free rein to all porn violence to a living body without interference or censure, and it give more space and time to destroy any right to safety for the prostituted.

So if you make the choice to imagine that indoors prostitution is some kind of answer to the safety of the prostituted – you are part of the genocide of the prostituted class.

The prostituted have for many centuries said and screamed out that indoors prostitution is hell – and it your choice to refuse to hear.

Our patience is wearing thin – as the bodies of the prostituted class are piling up.

We must confront the UN, we must confront governments, we must confront academia, we must confront anti-trafficking groups – we must confront all groups and individuals who want to place prostitution indoors and therefore make male violence invisible.

We can no longer keep turning our backs on the prostituted class, in the hope if we cannot see, hear or feel their hell it is just vanish.

As you debate or make up your mind whether prostitution is really that bad – millions of mainly women and girls are being murdered, are being raped, and are being tortured just for being inside the sex trade.

There is no safe place for the prostituted –  that is why the only real solution is complete abolition of the sex trade.

Posted on by rmott62

http://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/michel-sidibe-executive-director-at-un-aids-organisation-to-prevent-the-legalisation-of-prostitution-and-support-abolition?share_id=YCQmccgjLE&utm_campaign=share_button_action_box&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=share_petition

This is a petition I have written to challenge the United Nations and their push to legalise prostitution, and using HIV as an excuse to do it.
Please sign if you can, this is an emergency for it will give the sex trade profiteers and punters free reign to all sexual, physical and mental violence without real and lasting sanctions.

The UN is Selling Us Out

Posted on by rmott62

This is a letter I received from the United Nations on why they are backing the decriminalisation of prostitution.

 

Dear Colleagues,

Thank you for your email messages and for your engagement in this important global challenge: how can the world reduce human rights violations while improving health outcomes in the context of sex work?

Let me start by underlining that efforts to combat sexual exploitation and human trafficking are critical to both protect human rights and to advance the AIDS response. To these ends, the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS) supports the implementation of the UN Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women and the UN Protocol to Prevent, Suppress and Punish Trafficking in Persons, especially Women and Children.

We see as crucial, efforts focused on the identification and criminal prosecution of individuals and criminal networks that exploit and abuse sex workers through force, deception or fraud. This includes people who procure clients for sex workers (called “pimps” in some places) and people who run brothels. People who suffer trafficking or sexual exploitation should benefit from protective measures and should have full access to health and other needed services, as well as support to rebuild their lives. UNAIDS affirms the right of any person to leave sex work and to have meaningful access to options of employment other than sex work. UNAIDS also affirms the right of all children to be protected from sexual exploitation and trafficking and urges all States to meet their obligations to protect children.

As sex workers bear a disproportionate burden of HIV (globally, female sex workers are 13.5 times more likely to be living with HIV than women in the general population), UNAIDS has engaged in extensive consultations and research with sex workers and other stakeholders over the past several years to identify and support effective, evidence-informed and rights-based responses to reduce HIV vulnerability among sex workers.

Data shows that HIV infection rates are reduced when sex workers are able to: organize themselves within their communities; protect themselves from violence, force and exploitation (including from brothel-owners, procurers, clients and police); demand safer sex from their clients; and have access to health information, services and commodities.

UNAIDS is not advocating for the decriminalization of pimping or brothel ownership. Evidence indicates that criminalization of sex work can make it difficult for sex workers to protect themselves from HIV, violence and/or exploitation. Criminalization has the unintended consequence of compelling sex workers into hiding and into dangerous situations, where sex workers may experience abuse by clients, pimps and police. Furthermore, criminalization can also heighten stigma and discrimination towards sex workers. Many sex workers report that they cannot carry condoms or access HIV prevention, treatment, care and support services because of fear of arrest and prosecution. Sex workers who have experienced abuse and violence have said they are not able to bring these human rights violations to the police and authorities because they fear arrest and prosecution. Many jailed sex workers suffer violence, as well as increased vulnerability to HIV, tuberculosis and Hepatitis C.

In the 2011 United Nations General Assembly Political Declaration on HIV and AIDS, UN Member States called on countries to review “laws and policies that adversely affect the successful, effective and equitable delivery of HIV prevention, treatment, care and support programmes to people living with and affected by HIV.”

For these reasons, UNAIDS, WHO, UNFPA and the Global Network of Sex Worker Projects have called on all countries to:

▪ Work towards decriminalizing sex work and the elimination of the unjust application of laws and regulations against sex workers

▪ Establish anti-discrimination and other rights-respecting laws to protect sex workers against discrimination, violence, and other human rights violations

▪ Put in place laws and regulations that guarantee sex workers’ rights to social, health and financial services

▪ Make health services available, accessible and acceptable to sex workers based on the principles of non-discrimination and the right to health

UNAIDS welcomes a continuing dialogue on these complex issues.

Sincerely,

Michel Sidibé

This was my short response on facebook –

Just received this – please if you care about the prostituted class in any way, make it solid that we must have abolition, or at the least the Nordic Approach, not decriminalisation of the sex trade.
This is terrifying and will place all the prostituted in grave danger. Please support abolition.

And my long reply to the United Nations –

 

 

I am writing as an exited woman from indoors prostitution to say I am deeply shocked and angered by the UN’s thinking of decriminalising prostitution. This would highly dangerous to all the prostituted whether on the streets or indoors.

It appears you are more concern with keeping the status quo of the sex trade – that allow unacceptable amounts of rapes, sexual torturing and murders of all the prostituted. This is mainly because by making prostitution normal – it gives full reign to male violence and hate to all the prostituted.

You are using the spread of HIV as a stalking horse to bring about the legalisation of prostitution. This is disgusting, and does nothing for the safety and human rights of the prostituted – it just is seen as an inconvenient for the punters and the sex trade profiteers.
It is almost impossible for most prostitute to make a punter wear protection – when he believe he own her completely, and will use violence to get his way. Also, most sex trade profiteers encourage non-protection for more money.
Not using condoms is common in an environment of desperation and violence – and many prostitutes if not the majority have extreme self-hatred where they cannot care about their sexual, mental or physical welfare.

I cannot believe you would even consider that sex trade profiteers should not be made criminals – they are usually facilitating mass rape, allowing physical, mental and sexual torturing on their premises, may be internally and/or externally women and girls into prostitution, allowing under-aged prostitution, and often murder the prostitutes who they consider to be their goods. How can that not be criminal – only if you view the prostituted as not human so not deserving of human rights.

I find you have abandoned the prostituted in favour of the status quo of the sex trade. You are throwing us away, and there is great grief, fury and despair from many exited women that you have so little compassion or empathy for the prostituted class.

Please do not throw us away – yours faithfully, Rebecca Mott

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Here’s the Thing

Posted on by rmott62

This post is saying words I seemed to have repeated too many times, but here’s the thing all these words must be repeated until there is true freedom for all the prostituted class.

Here’s the thing, our trauma, our pain, our grief and our complete lack of justice can not be healed until these are read, are heard and fully taken on board.

We cannot live in the demi-world where the prostituted class are kept sub-human, as others “debate” whether prostitution is bad or not, discuss how to separate “bad” trafficking from “good” indoors prostitution, argue the toss whether prostitution should be made fully legal/semi-legal or illegal.

All these words and heat of debate goes ignoring the constant rapes, constant torturing and constant deaths of all of the prostituted class.

I cannot stop repeating myself until the genocide of the prostituted class is seen with clear eyes – and not left hidden in plain view.

All through this blog, all through my memories of my prostituted soul – I have repeated simple questions to the non-prostituted, I have repeated my simple truths of my reality and its connection to the prostituted class.

I am tired and frustrated that I must say over and over these words, my heart aches at how little the exited women who demand abolition are truly heard.

A simple but highly complex question I must constantly – what do really think punters are paying for when they consume a prostitute?

This question must force the focus onto the punter and his responsibility, his lack of any conscience, his ability to do torture/rape and make it a non-crime.

This question is not about the individual “story” of a prostitute, it not about her ability to cope, it not about whether she enter prostitution aged 12 or 27, it is not about what aspect of prostitution she is having to do, it not about her class or ethnicity – this question knows all punters don’t care about her right to be an individual.

This question is making the punter a lab rat – instead of the norm that the prostituted are analysed and thrown away.

So what do you really think punters are paying for?

Do you believe the endless myths and lies spread by the sex trade and its brother the media? Or do have the courage and integrity to hear the multiple voices of the prostituted class?

Do you think most punters just want ordinary sex and would not want to harm the prostitute?

Do you think many punters just are lonely, just cannot get a “real” relationship, or just need someone to talk to?

Do you think prostitutes teach men about more exciting sex, are willing to explore what “good” women will not do, that prostitution is just sex therapy?

I know these beliefs are common, I know as they poison my fight for a future.

I want to know why you choose to believe these myths and lies – is it easier to keep the prostituted class as sub-human goods rather seeing who and what punters really are.

Punters are paying for the right to have full control over the mind and body of the prostitute.

Punters are paying to rape without any consequences and with the knowledge that most males will celebrate the conquering of the prostituted.

Punters are paying to know at any time and any place they can torture the prostituted, and it will be made invisible.

Punters are paying with the full knowledge that if they murder or “by mistake” kill a whore, it will made a non-event – and more than likely there will no body, no record of her existence.

To pay for prostitution is to make all male violence into a non-crime, and to say all the prostituted class have no right to be human and are just sexual goods.

All punters are guilty of this destruction of the prostituted class – there is no such thing as the “good punter”.

Here’s the thing, if a man is truly good he would not even think buy a prostitute, and a truly good man would not only fully behind abolition but educating as many men as possible to never consume the prostituted.

If men do not take full responsibility for the class of men creating the genocide of the prostituted class, abolition will fail as too many men continued as punters without any sanctions.

All men have the blood of the prostituted class all over them.

All through this blog, my prostituted soul asks a simple question – do you care what happens behind closed doors when it is paid for?

This question comes from the pain and deep grief of hearing and knowing, much of male of male violence and hate is made invisible when money/goods is exchanged.

It is still a common myth that it is impossible to rape a prostitute – there can no such thing as torture inside the sex trade.

In this myth, all male violence is re-branded as rough sex, experimenting, being adventurous, paying for s/m sex, pushing the boundaries etc.

This re-branding is nothing to do with the mental welfare or safety of the prostitute – and all to do with making more profit for the pimps/businessmen, and allowing punters to think violence is fully acceptable.

Do you really want to know what it is to behind those closed doors, or do you want the silence that exited women are forced into to protect your myths?

Well, my prostituted soul is sick to death at that silence, that self-censorship – she is screaming nothing is so terrible that it cannot be expressed.

I say if humans is capable of torture, of rape, of murder, of institutionalising all that – then those must be exposed by those who are lucky to survive and remember their hate.

The multiple voices of exited women are the witnesses to this horror, we have somehow survive, we have always in our hearts so many who could live – our voices reach back to the long past of the silencing of the prostituted class, we speak with courage and vulnerability to build a road where exited women lead the abolition movement.

In this present, our voices are reaching out to be heard, we are at the beginning of a revolution that is so longed for – a time where the multiple voices of the prostituted class is in their own words, not translated by allies to be put into a safer and more acceptable language or re-written by supporters of the sex trade or punters to destroy all mention of male violence.

We are at the birth of a revolution – and it is the stage where stating with clearness and a forensic eye what it is to be a prostitute.

I use this blog, and all my work, to try and place the non-prostituted in the room of indoors prostitution.

Of course, I write from my personal but each torture, each rape and each near-death experience was and is common to most of the prostituted class.

My experiences are no worse or better than any other prostitute, they are just normal and common – that is the true horror of prostitution is you can say my experiences is happening now to millions of the prostituted all over the world.

Here’s the thing, I need to know why and how can our rapes, our tortures and our murders be made nothing just coz of something so unimportant as it was paid for?

Is money the same as full consent?

Is it ok to take a poor person’s liver if you pay for it? Is it ok take babies from Africa if you give enough money?

I bet you many of you say that is horrific – but at the same time make a million and one excuses for prostitution.

We are the unrapeable, we cannot be tortured – after being sub-human the prostituted feel no pain, have no right to the language of no.

Even when we are murdered, it is made nothing. Our murders are not inside statistics of male violence, our bodies are discarded – our murders are made out that “no human involved”.

The dark heart of being a prostitute is to live with the knowledge that in life you are made sub-human and in death you will be made nothing.

Now the voices of exited women is bringing a human face to that destruction.

I cannot write any more.

Just keep fighting on, it is a long and painful journey – but the freedom of the prostituted class will give back all humans dignity and routes to justice.