family photo
Thursday, November 29, 2018
Errands
Wednesday, November 28, 2018
Interview
Our first interview of course was with our Bishop. We were new to the ward, but not really. We had lived there when we were first married, so it just felt like we were talking with an old friend. So that interview didn't bother me. The second interview was with our Stake president. This was a little intimidating considering our Stake President just happened to be someone who was in our ward when we were kids. He has known both of us for a really long time and really well too. Not to mention Ben was his home teacher and we made visits to their home monthly. Our third interview was with the individual in charge of all the candidates in the program, Bro. Frank Clawson. He's the one that gets you where you need to go and when you need to. Our final and last interview was with a member of the 70, Elder Kacher. That one I was really worried about. Which is where we were headed today.
After dropping William off, Ben and I headed to Salt Lake. When we got there we followed the instructions of where we needed to go (church office building). We made our way to our third interviewee, Bro. Clawson, and while we waited for our interview with the area authority, we sat and visited for a few minutes. It wasn't technically supposed to be an interview, but after we were done Ben leaned over and said that that was the easiest interview so far. He, Bro. Clawson, then walked us over to the building next store through a basement/parking structure walk way. Once in the building, we walked through a few hallways passing a few gentleman on the way. Ben tapped me with his elbow each time. I finally discovered why on the last tap. We had been passing members of the Quorum of the 12 Apostles. We passed Elder Runlund, Elder Andersen, and Elder Christofferson. It took me of guard and made me even more nervous. I felt like a fish in a fish bowl which is exactly what our third interviewee said we would experience. However he meant it for when we were finally at and on assignment.
Once at the office of the 70, Elder Kacher, we waited a minute and then were shown into his office. We sat at a table in the corner of the office. It was a round table and he asked us if we felt comfortable. I just smiled. I wasn't comfortable and had not intentions of feeling comfortable until we were done and on our way home. Luckily the majority of the questions were related to Ben and I really didn't have to add much, but when he did finally ask me a few question at first I felt like a deer in the headlights. I finally spit out some answers. I can't tell you what he asked and I can't tell you how I responded. I just hoped that whatever I said made sense and sent the right impression. I was crossing my fingers the whole time. Ben handled like a champ.
When we were finished, he said that this program needed more couples like us. I took that as a good thing and that we passed this scary part of the process. At least I hope that's what it meant. He then walked us out to Bro. Clawson, who was waiting for us in the waiting room and then Bro. Clawson walked us back to the church office building were we were then cleared to go home. He told Ben that he would be in contact, but that everything looked good.
To clear my nerves now that we were done, we went to Blue Lemon to get a treat before heading home to pick up the kids.
I want my Mommy
Tuesday, November 27, 2018
Scout Activity
Chillin
Sunday, November 25, 2018
Post-op
The next day was Ben's first follow-up appointment. I was surprised that they were open on Sunday, but they were and that's when they told us to come back. I asked Mom if she'd watch the kids and she of course said that wasn't a problem at all as long as I got them ready for Church before we headed out. Which I did and when they were done, Ben and I headed out.
Once at the office, Ben went and sat down while I checked him in. They told me that they would call him back when it was his turn. We waited about 20 minutes before they called him back. I was surprised how many people were there and had gone in before us.
When they finally called him back they took us to an exam room. They had him take off his sunglasses and sit in the optometrists chair. They got it ready to checked his eyes. I was surprised what they were asking. It literally had only been 24 hours. They shined a light in his eyes and asked him how well he could see the pictures. He then asked Ben to identify letters and numbers on their chart. Once they were done with that they checked eyes for swelling and so see how well it was recovering. I was even more surprised that they said they could already see that his eyes were on the right road to recovery. They even removed the lens they had put in to protect his eyes. At least that's what I thought they said those lenses were for.
Once done in that exam room we were then taken back to another exam room where Ben would see the actual Doctor who performed the surgery. He took a closer look at Ben's eyes. He numbed Ben's eyes for this. Ben was grateful. He said the first part really hurt. It was hard for him to keep his eyes open while having the light shined directly in them.
When the Doctor was finally done with his exam, he told Ben that everything looked great. Things were healing like they should and that anytime his eyes were bugging him, he could use his eye drops and that should make it not as uncomfortable. He then told Ben to continue his post-op care the way he was instructed and told us to come back in 5 days.

Saturday, November 24, 2018
Thanksgiving
Eye Surgery
Friday, November 23, 2018
Game night
Games are something that we absolutely love. It doesn't matter who with, we just loved to play.
We made plans to go back to the Bodily's to not only to pick up the kids after having left them there while we were Black Friday shopping, but as well as being able to play some games. It was a good way to end the long night of shopping. They told us to come over whenever we were ready and we could play some games. I then asked about lunch/dinner plans and they said they didn't have any, but had plenty of leftovers that we could take advantage of. We planned a simple lunch and then a leftover Thanksgiving casserole for dinner.
When we got there Christy had already fed the kids lunch, so we went ahead and sat down to play some games. We played a few different things. As time went on the kids complained about being hungry again so Christy and I worked together to get dinner going. When it was done we had all the kids come up to dish up. When they have we sent them back downstairs to eat. After they went downstairs the adults took their turn to dish up. We all ate quickly so we could get back to the games.
Christy then pulled out a game that she had bought not to long ago at the recommendation of a coworker. She said she was dying to play it with us. I wasn't sure why, but once I looked at the box and read how to play, I figured it out. She wanted to see how I would handle that type of game. The game itself was somewhat like Apples to Apples, where one player reads a statement and then the rest of the player fill in the blank using their imagination. It was a slightly provocative game, it pretty much said so on the front of the box. Its claims its for groups of immoral people. That wording scared me and I was worried about playing, but sat down to see how it would go.
After the first statement was read, I knew exactly how this would go. I can only imagine that the game changes depending on who your playing with. If the people your playing with are more of a "loose cannon" then you'll have one heck of an interesting game. If your playing with "bubble minded" it would probably be boring. We were playing with half and half. That meant that some answers were not as funny as other and others were so funny and embarrassing that it was hard to read and continue. I don't think any of us have laughed so hard in our lives. I was laughing so hard that my stomach hurt. It was a great game night and once we were done, we took the kids home to get them to bed.
Thursday, November 22, 2018
Thanksgiving
After leaving Jenny and Brian's we headed to Brandon and Christy's, well to Scott and Jana's. They invited us to come and have dessert. When we got there, they had just pulled out the pies. It really was good timing. Once everyone had a piece we all sat down to eat them. When we were done we played a In a Pickle and then sadly had to say goodbye. We'd be back, but it was time to head to Garland.
Sunday, November 18, 2018
New calling

Saturday, November 17, 2018
Disney on Ice







We then got to see Cinderella and Prince Henry (Charming); Aladdin and Jasmine; Rapunzel and Flynn Rider; and they finished it up with Snow White and Prince Florian/Ferdinand (Prince).








































































