I don't like to focus on our (Ben and I) birthdays as much as we do with the kids. That didn't stop the kids and Ben from making a big deal about mine though.
They (Ben) first surprised me with an EARLY birthday present. A few days before going to Bicknell with Beth and Parker. Ben had me sit down on the couch and then handed me two boxes that were nicely wrapped with written messages from the kids on them, they were sweet birthday wishes. When I finally opened the wrapping, I discovered a selfie stick and some fancy lenses for a camera phone. Ben said that he wanted me to have them before our trip so I could use them while we were there. Now I just need to figure out how to use them.
Now that it was actually my birthday, yesterday Ben and I went and got an early birthday sweet treat. I had a free birthday waffle from Waffle Love and we took advantage of it. When we got there, we waited in line for out turn to place our order. When it was our turn I ordered the Red Wonder (that's what the coupon was for) and Ben ordered The Sunshine (the one I normally get).
After placing our order, we found a table to sit at while we waited for our order. When they called our name, Ben went and picked it up and came back and sat down. We then started to chow down. We both shared our waffle's so we could both taste a little of both. I love The Sunshine, but the Red Wonder was amazing. I think I might have a new favorite.
This morning (being my actual birthday) the day was started off with a birthday surprise from Gabbi. When I went out to the van to take the boys to school I found a sweet homemade birthday card waiting for me on my front seat. It looked like she spent a lot of time on it and it was very cute. She did a great job.



While the kids were at school, it was a relaxing morning and afternoon. While waiting to go and pick up the kids, we had a knock on the door. That is unusual at our place, but I walked to the door and when I opened it, no one was there. I looked down and their was a bag sitting there. I grabbed the bag and took it into the kitchen. After opening the back I saw a food container that said Happy Birthday on the top. Inside was a fruit filled crepe. I had no idea who sent it, but I didn't hesitate to taste it. I only had time for one bite before heading out to pick up the boys. When we got back, I shared my special treat with them. They were grateful for it and literally as we finished up with the treat I got a message from Melissa wishing me a happy birthday and letting me know that something special would be dropped off. It was so sweet of her and very clever even though divided by miles.
Now with the treat done, the kids did their homework with no arguments. That one surprised me a great deal, but was very grateful that I didn't have to fight them today. When it was time we loaded up in the van and headed to go and pick up some dinner. I wanted Hawaiian for dinner, but wasn't sure where to get it. Ben found a few places were we could go, and I randomly picked one and that's exactly where we went. It just so happened to be next to the Crumbl store too, so we were able to get dinner and dessert in one stop. After we had both, we headed back home to dig in.
Once at home, we sat down at the table to dish up our dinner. Each of us had our own meal, but really everyone shared a little bit of everything. Everything was okay, I've definitely had better. In my head as I was eating I was picturing the little place in Layton, now that is yummy Hawaiian. At least the cookies were good.
When dinner was over, we cleaned up and Ben went back to his homework. The kids didn't hang around either, they ran off to play in their rooms. I sat down and did some blogging in hopes to catch up. When it was finally time for bed, I had the kids clean up their rooms, brush their teeth, and get their pajamas on. Once they were ready for bed I went and grabbed Ben and we went into the boys room for family prayer and then put the kids to bed.
Now that the kids were in bed, I said goodnight to Ben and headed out the door. Ben had some homework to get done so I made plans to have some birthday fun with Christy. It was Thursday night and Christy has been bugging me forever to go and do karaoke night with her. Thursday night is normally Disney songs night, so I figured this was the best time as any to go and not only have some fun, but to fulfill a promise.
When I got to Ogden I met Christy at her house. She was just getting off work, so the timing was perfect. When she was ready to go, we hoped in her car and headed to the bar. I wasn't sure I was comfortable with it being at a bar, but it wasn't the first time we've done something like this and knew it would be a lot of fun. I had no idea this place even existed when we pulled into the parking lot. It was literally across the road from El Matador and I have been there many times. I discovered out why I had no idea that it existed, it was in the basement of that building.
When we got inside, we walked downstairs and were greeted by the bouncer. He asked for our ID's and once we were cleared, we went in and found a table. Once at the table, I was surprised to see that there weren't very many people there. Christy always talked about how busy and fun these nights were. Christy could probably tell by the look on my face and said that small number of patrons was normal, it was still early in the evening. I wasn't sure why 9:30 was considered early, but seeing how the main karaoke crowd doesn't come until around 10:30, I guess that was normal.

As we waited for the crowds to come, we enjoyed those that did get up to sing. I however was surprised that they weren't Disney songs. Christy apologized for it not being Disney, but hoped that we could still have some fun. She said that the normal guy who plays Disney on Thursday's wasn't there. After getting our drinks and debating what songs to sing, she went up and put her name on the list. Back at the table she debated back and forth as to what song she should sing. When her name was called she went up there and did a great job. She was a lot braver than I was. I was fine sitting and being a spectator.

After an hour or so, we went ahead and ordered some nachos. When they came to the table, they looked delicious and I couldn't wait to dig in. As the night went on, more and more people started showing up and more and more people started putting their names on the list. Some were really good and some were just "sing talking." After having gone up their twice now, Christy convinced me to go up and do a duet with her. We decided on Titanium and when it was our turn, I nervously walked up with her.
To make it less scary, I only sang the chorus with her while she sang the rest. I wouldn't have been able to sing the whole sand any way's, I didn't know it. We have always harmonize together whenever we hear it on the radio and knew that I could do that part. Once on stage we did pretty good. When we walked back to our table, we were told that many times that we did an amazing job on the song. Despite it being scary, it was a lot of fun.
After a little over two hours of being there, I could tell that Christy was getting tired. She had gotten up early for work this morning and still had to get up early to go to work tomorrow. I told her that we should head out since I was still planning on driving home tonight. She had invited me to stay the night, but since she had to work in the morning, I didn't want to impose. When we got in the car, she said thank you for suggesting to head out. She said that she had been debating it for a little bit, but didn't want to spoil my fun. I smiled and we headed back to her place. Once there, I got in my van, thanked her for a fun night, and said goodbye.