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Saturday, a week’s end | #WeekendCoffeeShare 6 June 2020

Weekend Coffee Share is a time for us to take a break out of our lives and enjoy some time catching up with friends (old and new)!

Grab a cup of coffee and share with us! What’s been going on in your life? What are your weekend plans? Is there a topic you’ve just been ruminating on that you want to talk about?

Hosted by Eclectic Alli, her post and InLinkz link party here.


Flowers, ahead of the expected winds, rain, and thunderstorms. I have so missed taking photographs of large raindrops clinging to branches, leaves, and blades of grass.

Time for a cup of tea, here, and buttered toast or strawberries with milk. This has not been the most coherent week. I feel like I have been doing chores forever, trying to reassemble living spaces. I think that the last of the laundry is in the dryer, now. Finished the kitchen catch-up yesterday with scrubbing out the sinks with baking soda.

At the beginning (on Wednesday, I believe) of the laundry project, my feet tangled in a bedsheet that slipped from my arms on the way downstairs to the laundry room. I have fallen enough in my life, and seen other people fall, that I knew to fall backwards and slid down half a flight, and so, just severe carpet burn, some skin rubbed off, and a couple bumps. Grateful that a couple aspirin evening and the next morning did it for discomfort and swelling, so that’s good.

Also good was that after more than a month and a half, a local store finally got in the one brand of toilet tissue that I am not allergic to. We tried some substitutes in the interim, but…too much blood from open sores. We still haven’t found the safe facial tissue. I used the last of what I had, last night, and am now rummaging in winter pockets and purses for any emergency stashes.

I am quite looking forward to attending worship via Zoom again, this week. And cheerfully anticipating the Artist’s Way workshop via U of Wisconsin Platteville that begins on the twentieth also via Zoom. All my appointments with dentist, doctor, ophthalmologist, labs, &c, will be done with by then. and I will go back to being a hermit. I decided to treat myself to the deluxe edition of The Artist’s Way 25th edition with all three relevant books by Julia Cameron included.

Also, I would let you know that I put my hands on the hitherto unopened box of Hamilton, the Broadway play? musical? I do not remember whether one of us purchased it or it was a birthday or Christmas present. Anyway, I hope to play the disks and look through the printed material during the coming weeks. I may actually count it as a couple “Artist Dates” during the (13) weeks of the AW online workshop.

If we were having coffee/tea together, today, I would lament that my eyes feel strained quite early on in the afternoon. Needing to do something “not sighted” and give them a rest. The letters become blurred on the screen. (Must quit using the “safe” eye drops and try instead the boiled salt water I use to clean the Scampers’ eyes.) I have gotten back to doing more miles on the exercise bike, some days. Only two yesterday, but six miles, a few days before that and four, previous to that. Not so much exercise as I would have liked, but moving around more while doing work around the house. Al got the whole yard, except for the fenced-off portion, mowed and the grass clippings hauled off for city composting. Now, we look to be in for a week of rain and thunderstorms, pretty much. And the grass will grow…and grow…and grow some more! How lovely that it will do that!

And now the Scampers are restless. I do not know what Charlie is doing or where!

I look forward to visiting with you later in the week.

Best wishes,
Lizl

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Saturday, a quiet rest | #WeekendCoffeeShare 30 May 2020

Weekend Coffee Share is a time for us to take a break out of our lives and enjoy some time catching up with friends (old and new)!

Grab a cup of coffee and share with us! What’s been going on in your life? What are your weekend plans? Is there a topic you’ve just been ruminating on that you want to talk about?

Hosted by Eclectic Alli, her post and InLinkz link party here.


Welcome! I don’t know how so much of the day passed without my getting back to the computer. Thank you for stopping in. We have Toddy coffee (made with filtered water or whole milk), hot tea, and broccoli, carrots, and cauliflower to nibble. I am happy that you showed up, this weekend. I have been sleeping long nights, mostly,and getting in a nap during the day. I have looked forward to the weekend and Weekend Coffee Share company.

On Monday, at last, the Scampers met with the groomer in the morning and were returned to us later in the day, looking like someone else’s dogs. Surely, not ours!

We also got grocery shopping done on Monday, and so we were happy to find the meat counter fitted out with choices, although we did not need lots of stuff. Al was going to do yard work, but there was too much wind (gusts to +30 mph). Now, on a wind-free day, he has decided that there are more important things to do. Both neighbors are mowing their yards, again, and I think rain and winds were mentioned in the forecast for the first part of the week.

In the meanwhile, I did get some photos along the way that I’d like to show you. I’ve enjoyed in particular the blue wild flax and the appearance of a sprinkling of daisies. Most of the tulip varieties have now run their course. I think I have figured out which among the plants in the side garden are going to bloom and which are returning invasive weeds. Within the (unmowed) fenced-in area on the south side of the back yard, there were blue wild violets as well as beautiful dandelions with visiting bees. Nothing has come up in my back wildflower garden but chives for cooking and the occasional dandelion. I am considering late-season alternatives for planting.

If we were visiting together, today, I would tell you that I did enroll for the Artist’s Way workshop offered through the University of Wisconsin system, the instructor is an Internet friend of many years whom I met in an AW group a decade or more ago. There are many activities involved that I can no longer do. And some that I never could. I will make do. I do think it will be good, again, to go through the guided weeks as a member of a group. (When I facilitated {in the ’90s}, I found myself writing essays about each week, and I will be happy to not take on that pressure. So nice, not being in a position of responsibility.)

As far as my health is going, the blood sugar level is coming back to regularity, and I am no longer taking aspirin or antihistamine for neck and back pains. I have gotten into my old dance warm-up routines and seeing improvement in both muscle strength and flexibility. Harder to stay in one place for any length of time. Too much energy, I think. And I more often forget to eat—which is NOT good, but…

Reading continues apace. On the 20th of June, my (revamped) college book club begins reading Celeste Ng’s Little Fires Everywhere. I strongly suspect that I have extreme experiential deficits of background, going in, and so I probably will just shut up and read both book and ensuing discussions.

During the week, I wrote two poems that you might enjoy and put on my Quilted Poetry blog: “Closer to the Heavens” and “playing hooky”. The second woke me up as I was drifting off to sleep, so I made a note to finish writing it the next morning.

Again, thank you for stopping in. I’m looking forward to a visit to your blog as I am able. Best wishes for the coming week!

Hugs & much love,
Lizl

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I apologize for the long silences, here. Still trying to get my bearings. My father’s funeral was on Friday morning, and the graveside military service took place in the afternoon. As the eldest, I received the burial flag.

One of the family gathered the cartridges from the three-volley salute, and we hope to polish them and pass them along as keepsakes to immediate and extended family.Actually, Al and I now have the flag and gun cartridges from Mother’s graveside service, also, the family feeling it was fitting that their flags should be kept together.

parents in 1942, about the time of their marriage
Father and Mother

I am glad that once again so many family members returned for the funeral. We got chances to visit, although I had to take Saturday off to sleep. Friday evening, a bunch of us gathered at a restaurant for dinner and extended sharing. On Sunday afternoon, my brother from California came over to the house, and we visited until Al got back from his volunteer shift to give him a ride back to his hotel. And after his volunteer shift on Monday, Al also gave him a ride out to the airport.

I am not dealing comfortably, this time. One of my friends, a Friend in Colorado, telephoned me this afternoon, just as I awoke from (another) nap, and we had a good visit about parents, family dynamics and other sometimes unrelated topics. That felt really good.

In the midst of this, I am attempting to get back into the routine of exercising at least once a day. I also need to start preparing daily meal plans and following a proper diabetic diet, again.

It was good that John telephoned, because I feel rather as though I do not care to write anything. Or listen. Or talk.

 

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Labor Day Weekend | #WeekendCoffeeShare

If we were having coffee together, this morning, I would welcome you with machine-brewed Folgers Classic Roast, the same stuff I use for the Toddy coffee. Also, there is more sushi, left over from last night, and lots of mixed berries (for which I bought half-and-half on sale, inspired by fantasies of blueberries in cream). Don’t wake the Scampers, please. They’d do just about anything to get their teeth into the banana slices. 

buff-and-cream and sable cocker spaniels, sleeping on and in front of the love seat in the front sitting room

We can enjoy our coffee and treats in the back yard. The mild breeze and a temperature in the low 70s outside make this a good day to visit in the gazebo. I still am adjusting to the loss of the incredibly tall, but dying, cottonwood tree that until a couple of weeks ago, towered over our gazebo. The neighbors found a company to remove it for a reasonable price. The wood filled their entire back yard, and we thought they never would get it all hauled away.

As I mentioned in an earlier post, this week, a lot of time and energy centered on my husband’s cataract surgery. He will have a last check-up on Tuesday morning of the right eye. It seems to be doing well so far. If that is a fact, then on Wednesday, the left eye will be operated on. This will be the first time since his school days when has not had to wear eyeglasses. He is seeing things in the distance, and there is a radical change in the colors. Much more vivid!

If we were having coffee together, this morning, I would share with you about the larger tablet that I ordered to make reading easier for me, but without the bulk of a notebook computer. The tablet comes with a cover that is also a keyboard. On days when I am having breathing problems, I sometimes also have trouble seeing the smaller type and using the on-screen keyboards. When the box arrived from the manufacturer this last Tuesday, the top of the package was not damaged, but the bottom of the shipping package and one of the corners were mashed. I will need a replacement, because the screen was shattered. Happily, the power bank that I ordered at the same time is undamaged, and so I will be able to recharge my cell phone when I am away from home.

Before you leave, I would mention an unnerving dream from two or three nights ago. It involved becoming (in one’s mind) a young animal and eating, sleeping and playing with the other baby animals (who were digital constructs also, but lacking a human awareness within them). I felt safe, comfortable and free as a baby chick, and so ignored and then avoided call-back requests that would trigger moving my consciousness back to my body. At long last, I decided that I wanted to go back for just a short while to walk about the city and see if it all still felt familiar. When I managed to find my way out, it was into an old, invalided body that could no longer walk or move easily, hooked up to an almost dry IV. The lights…the power was out in the building. When I looked out of the window, the city’s streets were empty of everyone and of any trace of human presence. And I could find no way to return to the digital reality in which I had been lost for so long. I have often had vivid dreams, but this one was out of the ordinary.

My recent piano practice sessions have been quite short (back and arm pains/weakness), but I am doing well with the exercise bike. I am thinking about taking the 10-lb hand weights to the gazebo with me and trying my old arm exercises while I am pedaling. I need to strengthen arms, back and breathing muscles, now, and concentrate on maintaining my balance while pedaling, so that next spring I can walk around the neighborhood.

Thank you for joining me for a visit, today. You can find Diana’s Part-Time Monster blog here, along with the InLinkz linkup button where you will find links to other #weekendcoffeeshare blog posts.

Best wishes for the weekend!

Lizl