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Don’t Let the Children Get Caught Up in the Chaos of the Online World

Because your children are minors, they can’t be held responsible for their selling their personal data to the scam artists, because they are minors, they aren’t accountable for getting enticed into something illegal, and you, as their parents should know better, to WATCH your kids more closely, and that’s why, in these cases of scams, frauds involving minors, the parents are SUED, for their underage children’s behaviors…the online world is too dangerous these days, so, watch your children closely…off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

In the trials of late, I’d come across the preventable situations of children-parents in conflict.  The child who still looked naïve enough, with that vacant look on the face, not knowing that s/he had already, stepped into the edges of criminal offenses.  The “devils” in these cases, aren’t far away, but close at “hand”, the cellphones that these minors are logged onto all day long.

“The contact from online told that if I get the certification codes, I will be given the free tokens for the games, so I’d, texted the person my number.” This parent had been sent to court to get processed because s/he’d gotten a cellphone for her/his child, and the cellphone number was used by a scam ring’s nominee account’s certification code.

The parents thought that their young were in their bedrooms, learning on their own, without realizing, that once the bedroom doors get shut, the kids became the sacrificial pawns of the scam rings.  The unknown scammers used the verification codes to set up the money laundering accounts, selling the fake items, conducting the scams.  As the investigations by law enforcement began, the most easily caught are those minors who are foolish, to offer the scam artists their, account information.

Based off of the statistics from Police Bureau, since 2020, fraud charges ranked at the very top of the crimes with the underage children as perps, and the rates is rising annually too.  From January to August last year, the police agencies had caught over 10,000 underage minors who had committed the crimes, there were close to 3,000 minors who were involved in frauds and scams, there were 1,846 pickup delivery persons, close to sixty-three person of the fraud cases,
“the nominee accounts” are ranked second at close to twenty-three percent, with the “collectors”, ranking lower.  And the statistics of Justice Department estimated that the number minors in the juvenile facilities charged with scams and frauds exceeded the minors charged with assault or battery.

On the other hand, the traps online may be a huge money pit too.  Some of the children see that the rare equipment are at a discounted price, they were excited, and clicked to order, with the small billing charges from the telecommunications companies, the credit card companies coming too fast.  The parents originally thought that their cards had been stolen and swiped, and reported it to the police in anger, then, they’d realized, that it was their children who’d done it, and these care cases that already in the systems, and they can retract back!

What aches us more, is the darkness that’s hidden behind the sweetened traps.  The kid placed their trusts by mistaken into those whom they interacted from online, take intimate shots of themselves, and got trapped in the swamps of sexploitation, and into that nightmare they can’t get out, of.

These sexually illicit images, once they’re online, they’d spread so fast like the viruses, can’t get taken down.  And, there were also the cases of the half truths, with the unknown individuals offering the smaller benefits, the kids were recruited, and started getting used as the “busy bees” that transferred the drug packages, to collect the conned sums.  As their legal guardians, the parents not only have to face up to their own failures as parents, the parents also get sued for the civil damages by the victims.

In the verdicts of the juvenile court, there were the side effects of maladapted minors caused by internet addiction.  Early exposed to the unsupervised online contents, with the immature minds, getting trapped by the thrills of the virtual world, and became disinterested in the realities that they are, living, in.  And as the parents realized this, attempted to limit the cell phone usage of their adolescents who are already, addicted, it usually causes huge conflicts, to the point of tragedies of losses of, life.  All it takes to destroy a family is one cellphone.  Nobody could expect this, but there were, too many cases of tragedies like these.

In the age where A.I. ruled the world, we can’t treat online influences as floods or monsters that will sweep the younger generations, over, we should find a better way to adapt, to coexist.  As parents, we need to set up that safety valve for our young.  The internet can be used as a place to explore new things, it can also become a Pandora’s box.  Rather than regretting it in court, you should put your cellphones down right now, and get to know the online world your children are, interacting, in.

Don’t, for the sakes of peace and quiet in your homes, give up your right to supervise your children’s cellphone usages, to let your children enter into the labyrinth of the online world that your children won’t get out of safely.

And so, this is on the responsibilities of YOU the parents, for not supervising your young enough on their cellphone usages, and there are those tell signs of your children’s internet addictions to see and to note, but, you’re all too busy with making your families’ ends meet, that you let what’s the most important, your children’s safety, slide, and you will get sued, because your children are still minors, and they can’t be held responsible for their own behaviors, because you FAILED to watch them all, closely enough!

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The Social Worker in the Kai-Kai Case Sentenced to Two Years

Because the social worker did NOT follow up with this kid’s case carefully enough, and now he’s dead, and someone HAS to hang for it!  But this is still SCAPEGOATING, I mean, these social workers already had so many cases to per individual, and it’s still the SYSTEMS that malfunctioned, and NOT these workers’ faults, and yet, this would be a VERY BAD precedence, because who would want to work in social work now, huh???  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The Taipei District Court Ruled that the Social Workers Need to be Held Responsible for the Role of Guarantor, They’re Now Responsible for the Criminal Charges of Negligent Deaths, the Entry Level Now Worries that Nobody Dares Become Social Workers

The social worker, Chen was charged on negligence manslaughter, in the case of the young boy, Kai-Kai getting abused to death by the sister nannies, the Lius, the social worker from the Children’s Welfare League was charged on negligence manslaughter and forgery.  Chen argued that she wasn’t the primary case worker, the Taipei District Court confirmed that she has the status of the guarantor, sentenced her on negligence manslaughter to two years, and the charges against her for forgery dropped, this can still be appealed.

This is the first case of the social workers getting confirmed as responsible for the death of the child because she carried the status of guarantor.  The Social Workers’ Guild called out, that the Department of Health Welfare should note the huge impact of the case on the social workers, and amend the “guidelines for at home nursery visitations”, to actively prevent the holes in the system of foster care.  The entry level social workers however, worried that after the ruling of this case, there would be no one else who DARES work as a social worker.

The Child Welfare League issued another apology, and stated that the hearts are heavy after the first trial’s verdict came, that they feel regrets in the holes in the nets of social security, that all the blames went to the frontline of this, the social workers.  The Child Welfare League will respect if the social workers wanted to fight for another appeal, and will be supportive of the social workers all the way.

Chen helped matched the families with the fostering of young children, conducted the visits, and followed up on the children’s mental health conditions before placement, the maternal grandmother of Kai-Kai, Yen, because she could no longer look after him, and adopted him out through the Child Welfare League, Chen worked the case, and placed Kai-Kai with the nanny Liu for around-the-clock care.  During the time when the child was placed from September 1st, 2023 to December 24th of the same year, he’d been abused long-term by Liu, Chen had visited three times, and learned of the large bruising on the toddler’s forehead, how he appeared too thin, with three to four teeth missing, that there was huge disparity of the child’s condition from before the placement, but did nothing, she didn’t pay enough attention.

The Taipei District Court found, that Chen had blindly believed the words of Liu, evading responsibility for what had happened to the young child, causing Liu to not be supervised in the care of the young boy, which allowed her to become even more abusive, leaving Kai-Kai without the proper care and medical treatment needed, that under the abuse and torture of Liu for over three months, the young boy became isolated, and had become diagnosed with depression.

The verdict pointed out, there were at least forty-two inflicted intentional physical wounds on the boy, which caused the cells to not having enough blood flow, long term malnutrition, in the midnight hours of December 24th of the same year, the boy died from hemolytic shock.

The Taipei District Court started the trial in February, Chen told the Collectivist Court that she was “only the social worker responsible for the placement of the young boy”, that she wasn’t the social worker assigned to oversee the working of the nursing center, that it wasn’t her responsibility to supervise the nannies; Chen said, that after the death of Kai-Kai, she was under criticism by the public, but Liu had no prior records of mistreating children, there were no reports of drug abuse either.

Chen claimed, that back when she’d switched to social worker from N.T.U. law, she’d hoped to give back to the community with her social work degree, and to this very day, she still has a hard time accepting what happened to Kai-Kai, when she thought about him, her heart would wrench, and she’d felt very sad.

The Collectivist Court found, that there’s no clear definition of “the primary case worker”, that there are differences of what constitutes as primary case worker in the various foundations, there would be no point in assigning the blames under this preset, the key lies in that if Chen done her due diligence as Kai-Kai’s social worker and had followed up on Kai-Kai’s case to see if he was cared for well or not.  The Collectivist Court didn’t believe Chen’s claims, and believed she was responsible for negligence death.

As for the D.A.’s accusations of Chen’s covering up for the crimes by not recording down the details, the Collectivist Court found that this was oversight in the records, and dropped the forgery charges against her.

At the reading of the verdict yesterday, there was a gathering of the “Defenders for Kai-Kai” in the courts, someone from the group shouted, “injustice” as the judge read the verdict out loud.

And so, this is still, the SHORTCOMINGS of the SYSTEM that caused this young boy to get MURDERED by the nanny, and, the nannies are primarily to blame for the boy’s death, with the case worker, secondary in causing the young boy to get tortured and abused to death.

Ultimately, it’s still the system that’s flawed, and not yet perfect, that’s caused this tragedy, and the social worker still used the sorry excuses of taking the nanny’s word for it.  She should’ve stayed and observe the boy, and then, she would’ve realized, that hey, something isn’t right, but she failed to do that, so, partially, the boy’s murder was, her fault.

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What Make You THINK, You will be a Good Grandparent IF You’re a LOUSY Parent???

Time for that, long sheet of, excuses here…

What makes you THINK, you will be a good grandparent IF you’re a, LOUSY parent???  Because back when we (your children) were born, you were still in the primes of your lives, working your hands to the bones, to provide for us, is that it?

And now, you’re retired, and we are popping our babies out quicker than you can say one-potato-two-potato-three-potato.

What makes you THINK, you will be, good grandparents, if you weren’t good enough as, parents to your own children?  What’s more, what makes you, god DAMN parents think, that you’d matured as our parents (no you hadn’t, you just got, old!), that you’re finally, ready, to take on the mothering/fathering role to us, huh?

And, what makes YOU think, that we would want you back, IF you weren’t there for us when we were, growing up?  Because we children are supposed to be, forgiving, and loving toward our adult counterparts, is that it?

Think AGAIN, because I for one (any seconds, thirds, PLEASE, “chime in”!), won’t, you weren’t there for me, what makes you think, I want you here for my young (and no, still don’t got this DEAD daughter I would’ve carried from 2008 to 2009!)?

Because I don’t!

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The Five School Children Were Horseplaying & Hit Their Classmate, the Parents of the Children Were Ordered by the Court to Pay $300,000N.T. to the Child Who Was the Target & His Parents

How easily, kids these days, can “mask” up bullying into, horseplay, and yet, it still got, BUSTED, and the parents are the ones, paying for it, because these are elementary school, BABIES that had, physically ASSAULTED their, classmate, because they were, “playing”, and these perpetrators only still received their, “equal shares of” slaps on the wrists…off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

A first grader in an unnamed elementary school in the city of Taipei was bullied by five of his classmates using the “game of tag”, beaten, kicked, physically bullied, his mother went to school and saw her own young getting subdued by his arms, with his classmates beating her son’s abdomen like crazy, the mother demanded the bullies to pay three million dollars N.T..  The Taipei District Court confirmed that the five students’ behaviors constitutes as bullying, mandated that the five students and their parents to pay the victim and his parents a total of $300,000N.T.s.  This can still be appealed.

does this look like, “horseplaying” to you??? Photo from online

The victim’s parents stated, that their child started hitting at home at the start of January of 2024, and asking the family members he’d hit, “does it hurt?  You must bear with it, because this is acting” and mother absurd statements, he’d had repeated nightmares too, and begged his parents to dress him in thicker clothing every day, begun having stomach pains with no apparent, causes.

On March first, the mother of the victim went to school, and she witnessed her son getting held back by his classmates by the arms, with another student beating his abdomen like crazy, and attempted to fly-kick him, as the lookout student saw her, he’d hollered, that was when the group ran off scattered.  As the parents went home and asked the child, they’d learned that the classmates used the excuses of playing the “game of catching the monsters” to make their son the “monster”, and the five repeatedly beaten, and kicked their own son.

The parents reviewed the school’s surveillance camera footages, and found that their son had been bullied from February 16th to March first repeatedly by his classmates, the parents called the police, the school also confirmed that the incident constitutes as bullying, but the five students who bullied the victim and their parents showed no remorse whatsoever, nor had any of them apologized genuinely, the parents of the bullied boy asked for a total of three million dollars N.T. in restitution.

The five students and their parents rebutted, that the children were only playing that game of tag, chasing each other around, just playing, there’s no bullying involved, even if they went overboard in play, it still didn’t constitute as physical bullying, and the victim student participated in play on his own, which clearly showed that he wasn’t, singled out or that the group targeted him, and the students already apologized to him, and he’d forgiven them, but the parents of the bullied child pressed charges against them and their young, that this was a violation of principles.

The courts used the records of surveillance kept by the school, the documented interviews by the school, confirmed that the five student had physically beaten the victim with their fists, kicked his shoulders, punched him in the face, dragging him, etc., etc., etc., the five also told that “we play that game of tag that involves hitting”, the places where the victim was hit included the abdomen, back, “wherever it is we can reach, we’d hit him”, and when the victimized student didn’t come to school, “we would just play a game of running around chasing each, we don’t hit each other”.

The courts found, that the five students’ taking turns assaulting the victim using brute force, that it’d passed the reasonable boundaries of playing, that the group had ganged up on the victim purposefully, that their behaviors constitutes as bullying, and the victim had been diagnosed with anxiety attacks, even as the victim and his parents accepted the apologies from the bullies, it doesn’t mean that the victim and his parents waived their rights to pursue the civil charges.

the bad behaviors exacerbates into…photo from online

The courts considered that the five perpetrators had only begun in school, hadn’t spent enough time in school yet, still learning how to socialize with others, testing the means of social interactions, mandated that the five perpetrators and their parents pay the victim student $250,000N.T.s, his parents $25,000N.T.s each, a total of $300,000N.T.s.

And, what do you think these minors learned?  Yeah, if I bully someone, it’s my parents who are responsible, because I’m still a minor, and the sorry excuse of I didn’t know that hitting someone else is wrong, is reinforced, but because these are still young children, we can’t just, lock them all up in prison, and throw away the keys, before they “advanced” into murderers, or rapists.  The punishment is still not severe enough in this case!

and ultimately, you get, this! Murderers on DEATHROW! Photo from online

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Missing from My, Life…

You went missing from my, life, and, I guess, it’s, weird, that I don’t, miss you, one, bit!

You and I were, practically, strangers, who shared similar, DNA, nothing more!  Missing from my, life, you had been, and I’d grown, accustomed to living with, your, absence, and yet, every now and then, I’d, wondered, if things might turn out, different, if either one of us, took another, route, at the designated times of our, lives.

what you’d, become, to us, all…something fading from, all our, minds…photo from online

Missing from my, life, you will always and, forever be, you do NOT exist in my world, NOT anymore, I’d, EXORCISED you, out of me!  Missing from my, life, that’s what you’d, been before, and now, you will stay, MISSING, from my child’s life too, besides, we don’t need our fathers, after all, your “hard work” was done, the moment, YOU had, EJACULATED!

So, keep on, missing out on all our, lives, daddies dearests, we don’t need you, EVER!!!

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What’s, Going Through His Mind, Right Before He Pulled that, Trigger…

Nobody knows, for sure, and we can, only, deduct, from the pieces of information we collect…

What’s, going through his mind, right before he pulled that, trigger?  All we can guess, is that he must’ve been, experiencing, severe pains emotionally, psychologically, to drive him to do such an, awful act!

What’s, going through his mind, right before he pulled that, trigger, nobody can know for sure now, as the only one with all the answers to all the questions left behind is already, dead.

But, had we paid a little more attention to the man crying out for help, without a single word blurted out of his lips, then, maybe, this didn’t need to end, tragically…

What’s going through his mind, right before he pulled that, trigger, can anyone know for sure, and, can any of us say with confidence, that we will be able to, sto psomethign like this, from happening again?  Of course NOT, because everybody is missing out, that’s just how the world is, we all care about what we deemed to be important to our own, selves, and, neglected that someone may be in need of our words of care of “hey, how are you?” or, “how’s life?”

If we could only, pay a little more attention to those around us, then, how many of these murders, massacres, could’ve been, avoided?  But we don’t, we can’t, because we’re all too, wrapped up in our own lives, stuck in our own selves, to show what slightest amount of care or concern for “that guy”!

Then, the person broke, and went out with a gun…

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The Predatory Stepfather Had Sexually Assaulted His Stepdaughter a Total of 578 Times Over the Span of Many Years, & Received Twelve Years

This mother FUCKER (don’t pardon me here!) should’ve received twenty-to-LIFE, but instead he only got a whole of, TWELVE short, years for his repeated SEXUAL abuse of his own stepdaughter, how’s that just?  It isn’t, but that is what we all came to expect, under the REIGN of HORROR of the DDP here!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man in Hsinbei City, at the frequency of three time a week, started molesting and sexually assault his young daughter, to 578 times total, as he was taken into custody, he’d denied the allegations of the crimes he’d committed, stated that it was his daughter entering into puberty, wanted to date, that’s why she’d accused him for something he didn’t, do.  The school counselor testified, that the man treated his stepdaughter as an “emotional spouse”.  The Hsinbei District Court found the man guilty on forced sexual intercourse, forced sexual molestations, sentenced him to twelve years.

This man, due to his wife of his second marriage, busying with work, rarely came home, started living with his stepdaughter in the fourth grade in September of 2017, and used the time of putting her to bed, and bathing her to sexually assault her, and had forced the young woman to fellate him five times.

The victims had cried and told her mother, and her stepfather was kicked out of their home, but shortly, he’d moved back in, until the summer of her entering into the second year of middle school back in 2021, she couldn’t take it anymore, moved in with her aunt, got out of the control of her stepfather, then she’d worked up the courage to report to the police about her sexual abuse by her stepfather.

The man denied the allegations, claimed that it was because his stepdaughter in in her teenage rebellious stages, wanted to date, that’s why she’d made up lies, to stop him and her mother from disciplining her.

The school counselor testified, that in October of 2022, she was referred to counseling due to self-mutilation, and they’d continued the therapy once a week, when she’d described what happened, she was in a bad place, showed the negative emotional responses of anger, helplessness, and would burst out crying.

The counselor believes, that the man used his stepdaughter as an “emotional spouse”, telling her about the household economics, and how he was getting along or not with her mother, when all of these things, he should’ve communicated with the adolescent girl’s mother on, but instead, he’d made her into a significant other.

The Hsinbei District Court found the conversations of the man with his stepdaughter on LINE had, “every time I told you I wanted to make love to you, you got mad at me.”, “I’m your daughter, not your wife, do get it through to your head.  Stop threatening me with this!”, showed the clear sexual intents.

The Collectivist Court found that the man to fulfill his own sexual needs, disregarded the mental, psychological welfare, and development of the stepdaughter’s, disregarded how his stepdaughter had objected time and time again, continued to sexually molest, raped her, sentenced him to twelve years.

And the sentence was still NOT severe enough, comparing to how much this young woman had to weather through, from her younger childhood years, she’d had to put up with this man’s sexual abuse of her, and he’d raped her a total of 578 time (given it’s still quite “far off” from a thousand, sure!), but that would still be way too many times, and this should’ve NEVER have happened, but because the mother was negligent, the young woman was way too young, and this IS, power rape!

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The Birthmother & Her Boyfriend Sentenced for Physically Torturing, Abusing, STARVING, a One-Year-Old Infant to Death

In these cases, you still have to wonder: if you can’t take care of them, then why the FUCK (don’t pardon me!) are you still, humping, and popping them all, out, huh???  And based off of how the law works in this shithole, the punishment still doesn’t fit to the crimes, these unfit adult are more than likely to receive slaps on their wrists, the CRIMES against a young defenseless, INFANT child here…off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

A woman, Chuang in Taoyuan, moved in with her boyfriend Wu after she gave birth to a son, Wu physically abused Chuang’s infant son, Chuang starved her own son, when the toddler was a year four months old, he was taken to the hospital, and was, declared dead, he weighed in at eleven pounds, half of what children his age should weigh.  Yesterday the Taoyuan District Court found both Wu and Chuang guilty for the offenses of preventing children under sixteen from developing normally, sentenced Chuang to three years six months, and Wu to two years eight months; this can still be appealed.

The indictment of the district attorney’s office stated, that Chuang gave birth in 2017, the following April she’d met her boyfriend, Wu, and moved in with Wu at Daxi, Taoyuan in a rented home with her young son who was ten-months old, Wu had beaten the young boy on the head, limbs and other parts of his body using his bare hands or bat, causing the toddler to sustain multiple abrasions, hematomas, contusions, and large surface area of bleeding on the young child’s scalp, injuries to the skin behind his ears, and multiple contusions on the toddler’s limbs.

The boy had been starved long-term, never taken to the hospitals or medical clinics for health exam, not received his scheduled vaccinations, on October 11th, 2018, he’d stopped breathing, and his heart stopped, and was finally taken to the hospital, where he was declared dead, the hospital found, that the young child had been malnourished, covered in bruises and wounds, reported it to the police.  Wu admitted to physically abusing the child, while Chuang stated that she never laid a finger on her son.

The judge believed, that Chuang knew that Wu had been abusing her young son long-term, as his mother, she should’ve put an end to the abuse of her young by Wu, but didn’t, that she was passive in her behavior, and the extent of her not doing a thing, was equally critical in the beliefs of the law in causing the young boy to die, that she too should be charged criminally; both adults had evidences of abuse toward the young child that’s been proven valid, that although Chuang didn’t directly abuse her son, but she’d not shouldered the responsibilities of protecting him.

The Collectivist Court considered that the involvement and the degrees of the crimes between different for the two adults, considering the attitudes of both, the Taoyuan City government expressed that tit hoped for the severe punishments added on, to weigh the degree of their crimes against the young child, and giving them fitting sentences.

And so, because you didn’t do a thing to protect your young son from getting abused by your boyfriend, for whatever reasons there may have been, you will be found equally guilty for causing the child to death, simply because you did NOTHING, to protect your baby boy.  I hope these two get the most severe of sentences to them, because of the brutal way that this young boy was, abused and then, murdered!

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Remember His, Kindness…

Remember his, kindness, because we are NOT, supposed to, speak I-L-L of the, D~E~A~D, or so, we’re, socialized by this, value here…

Remember his, kindness, I’m tryin’, real hard here, digging back (and I do mean WAY, WAY, WAY back into that, lost cabinet of my, memories here) to find that solitary memory of him, ever being, good to us, and, I still came up, empty!

when this, is what you’d been, raised, with…photo from online

You see, NOT ALL of us were, BLESSED with, amazing parents who loved us, UN-conditionally (I mean, for a long, long, long time, I thought that UNCONDITIONAL love does NOT exist!!!), who gave us everything they never had (but never asked if what they’d given to us is exactly what we needed from them???)…

Remember his, kindness, yeah, I can’t, I really, can’t, so, guess I better, sit out on this eulogy (b/c if there’s nothing good to say, don’t say, NOTHING at ALL!!!) of his.  Remember his, kindness, why is it, that everybody always, forgot, WHAT the DEAD had done to them when the DEAD used to be, living?  I mean, what gives us the ability to have, AMNESIA, of ALL the evils our parents did to, us?  And, you think, AFTER they’re all DEAD, it’s O-V-E-R???

Think again, nothing’s ever, over, because everything will keep on getting, PASSED on down the line, what happened to you that was bad, imposed onto you by your own, FUCKED (so???) up parents, you will pass that SHIT down to your own, young, unless you have a whole lot of self-awareness, and, NOT pass this, SHITTY cycle down to your own young, but most of us, don’t got that self-awareness, and so, SHIT still gets passed down…

And that is the LEGACY of the DEAD, impacting the LIVING, until the end of the, human, race here!

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A Two-Year-Old Boy Tortured to Death, Both Parents are Charged

Even if one of these bad adults didn’t participate in the physical assault of this young kid, she is, still, RESPONSIBLE for NOT stopping her husband from physically ASSAULTING her own son!  How can parents do this to their own children, and, if they abuse their young, then, why did they have him in the first place is, my question!  Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

The Toddler Was Physically Assaulted & Tortured by His Own Father, His Mother Ignored it, Left Him Home Alone for Twelve Hours, He Fell into a Comatose, His Maternal Grandfather Was Heartbroken Over Him, SUED His Own Daughter & Son-in-Law

A two-year-old boy in Tucheng, Hsinbei City had been slapped across his face, kicked repeatedly by his own father, Wu, burned by cigarettes, his birthmother, Chen didn’t stop the toddler’s father from abusing him, seeing her son in pain, she didn’t do anything to protect him; the day following, the toddler was left alone at home by his parents for twelve hours without any adults, he was taken to the hospital, and the measures to save his life was to no avail, he’d died a little over a month afterwards.  The Hsinbei D.A.’s Office charged the parents on assault and murder and domestic violence.

The indictment pointed out, the young boy originally stayed at his maternal grandfather’s home in Sinchuang, cared for by his maternal grandfather, great maternal grandmother and great uncle and other adults, days before he was abused to death, he was taken by his parents to raise, and had been improperly disciplined, and abused.

a collage of faces of innocence, lost, DEAD from being ABUSED by their, adult counterparts, found online

The investigators found, that between January 28th and February 16th, the thirty-two year-old Wu was suspected of burning his young son on his chest, and left arm; around eight at night on February 17th, he’d slapped his own young across the face five times, kicked his buttocks twice, picked the toddler up by his feet, shaken him, then, slammed the young boy onto the bed.

The thirty-three-year-old mother, Chen works as a substitute teacher in elementary school, she was in the shower, as she heard her son cried and screamed, she’d not stopped the abuse, and, as she got out of the shower, saw her son started turning white, losing focus in the eyes, with a delayed response, she’d not gotten him to the hospital, nor seek out help from outside, acted like nothing had happened, the day following, she’d gone out to work with Wu, to the dinner parties.

At eight in the evening on the eighteenth, when the two returned to their residence, they’d found their young son’s face turned green, started convulsing, losing consciousness, that was when they finally called emergency, rushed him to the hospital.  Other than the cigarette burns on the young boy’s left forearm and thorax, the hospital diagnosed him as having subdural hematoma, with the optic nerve hemorrhage, and convulsion, he’d stayed in the hospital for over a month, and on March 24th, he was declared, dead.

The couple had evaded answering the police inquiries afterwards, both are in custody to date; the maternal grandfather, who’d lost his young grandson, is pressing charges against his daughter and son-in-law for the murder of his young grandson right now.  The district attorneys asked the courts to give them half more than the sentences they are to receive in the trials based off of adults’ abusing a helpless child to death, domestic violence prevention.  The case will be decided by a jury.

And, this is what you get, a young boy of only TWO years of age (and he didn’t even HAVE any chances to OFFEND anyone Y-E-T!), gets abused to death by his own father, because the adult lacked emotional control, is way too immature, unready to become a parent, and the mother was negligent, not realizing that her son is being assaulted by her partner, and she is an elementary school instructor (what kind of a teacher would you be, IF you allowed your own toddler to get abused to death, huh?), and, imagine how difficult these final DAYS of life of this young toddler must be, and you will come to the conclusion, that NO amount of punishment will SERVE JUSTICE to this, innocent child who’d been, ABUSED to death in such a, brutal, manner!

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