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January 18, 2026 · 3:35 am

Our Marriage, Almost Ruined by My Husband’s Impulse, But Saved by that, Turtle

The cause and effects of events, and the attributions, and all that adds up to, things the two of you shared, how memories are, made, whether it be good or bad at the time it’d, happened, it’s all, worth something!  Translated…

Back then, my husband and I planned to go abroad for our studies together.  Technically, it was me leaving him immediately, going to the U.S. for a year first, then, he would, follow.  At the time, because of my work requirement, I’d needed to earn my doctor’s degree fast as I possibly can, while he was in the U.S. for his masters, we planned to graduate together.

I was busy, working on my doctor’s degree, going to the lectures all day long, when I was off, I’d had to work on my dissertation, and do my researches.  As for my husband, his master’s program was focusing on the lectures only, he only needed to finish the courses, and pass his exams, no need for the thesis.  And so, I’d worked my ass off, busying about, with no time to tend to, him, and he’s, happy to be, leisurely too.

One day, he’d told me he was going to the library to study with a classmate, several hours later, he’d called me, told me that he’d, fallen into the lake, that he’d lost his glasses, his wallet, too!  As I wanted to know what exactly had happened, he’d told me he will tell me when he gets home.

Turns out, he was, on his way to the libraries to study, but he saw the U.S. Navy and Air Force recruiting, he was driven by his curiosity, took the helicopter to the canoe experiences, and lost his balance, fell into the lake in school;  thankful he knew how to swim, he’d immediately, gotten himself to the shore.  It wasn’t shallow, that lake, had he drowned or  injured himself, I don’t know what would happen to me then.  I started blaming him for not being, careful enough as I’d cried.

My husband’s the kind that would fall silent whenever a fight starts between us, besides, this WAS, his own, fault, and so, we’d, started, that round of, silent treatment.  The day following, his falling into the lake made the school newspapers!

this was, what “prevented” her from filing for DIVORCE back then…the “savior” of her husband’s lost wallet, due to hiso own, stupid impulse of trying something, dangerous, photo from online

I’d mocked him: you’re famous now!  He’d remained, silent.  The silent treatment persisted a couple weeks on, until one day, I’d received a call from school.  The man was very courteous, identified himself as the school’s dentist, told me, that as he was walking his dog by the lake, his dog retrieved something, it was my husband’s wallet, with his student I.D., driver’s license, and a couple of ten and twenty dollar bills.  We said thank you repeated to the man, and felt that this was, a miracle, and, as we went to school, to retrieve his wallet back, we’d found, the teeth marks of turtles on his wallet too.  And this wallet that was now found, had helped us made up, the war of our silence finally, ended.

The miraculous return of my husband’s wallet, I’d told this tale to my daughter, she was, quite impressed too.  Despite we had no idea how the wallet got to shore, along with whether or not that turtle had helped retrieved it, but it surely had, helped saved a young couple’s, marriage all right.

And so this, is one of those things that can’t be, explained, but, had your husband not gotten that wallet that he’d lost back, you would’ve probably stayed angry at him for being, stupid for doing something so dangerous, and, in a sense, your marriage WAS, saved by this wallet that he’d, lost.

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December 14, 2025 · 5:19 am

Too Many Time I’d, Tried…

Too many time I’d, tried, convincing my self, that forgiveness is the, right thing to do, because I need to, keep this, family of “our” (it once was!), together.  And yet, with the passing of the years, I’d found that the resentment from me forcing myself to forgive you, growing by the day, to the point, of it, spilling out, in form of me, lashing at the kids out in anger (b/c, they are, partially the reason why I’d, stayed!)…and that damaged me, our young, even more!

Too many times, I’d tried, to make sense of, what happened in this life, and why, and every single time, I ended up, with an, open head wound, from ramming into the walls too god damn hard.

Too many times, I’d, told myself, that it didn’t matter, but the more I tried to convince my self that it didn’t matter, the more it’d, mattered to me, made me, cared too much, and that just, wouldn’t, work!

Too many times, I can’t do it again, I won’t.  Too many times I’d, told myself, to say goodbye, and each and every time you’d come crawling back, apologized profusely for what you did, to damage this love we once shared, I’d, forgiven you.

Well you know what, the kids are all grown, they don’t need me to watch over them, and I’m done with you!!!

And what you should’ve done in this “CASE”, is to FILE for that divorce when the first thing that “went” wrong had, happened, instead of making your sorry excuses of how your kids are too young to be without their father or mother, because you’d, put your own young through HELL, because they would’ve, felt the TENSIONS in your marriage, and, got turned into the EMOTIONAL PUNCHING BAGS, and how do you think that will help them grow up into, well-rounded, adults?

It won’t!

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June 30, 2024 · 2:46 am

A Trip to Celebrate Her Divorce

What was supposed to be that final time out as a married couple, as divorce was what’s forecasted for their future, turned out to save their marriage in the, end…translated…

My eldest brother was a good-looking man when he was young, but he had an, AWFUL temper, and gotten himself into trouble a lot.  And yet, “bad boys attracted all the girls”, my gentle, mild-tempered eldest sister-in-law fell for him.  After she got married, my mother fell ill, became bed-ridden, and relied solely on my eldest sister-in-law’s looking after her, and the rest of us, siblings, couldn’t, even MATCH up to how well my eldest sister-in-law looked after our, mother, and she’d, gained all of our, respects.

Having a fitting wife, everybody said that my eldest brother had been, more than, blessed, but he’d, begun taken her for, granted, although he’d not behaved too waywardly, but he’d, distanced himself from my eldest sister-in-law, to the point of commenting on how she wasn’t, good-looking enough to us, and we’d, scolded him, said that he didn’t know what a good woman he already has.

And my eldest sister-in-law had always been tolerant, forgiving toward my eldest brother’s ways, and only complained occasionally to us about how cold he’d, treated her, and just like that, they’d, maintained their, marriage.

giving “us” another, SHOT!!! Photo from online

As the kids were grown, my eldest brother’s heart started, awaking too.  He’d met up with his first love from middle school, the woman was divorced, and, circled around, and, they’d, met back up, again, she was, too attractive for my eldest brother to, keep himself in check.  The man in love in the midlife years, was way more, persistent than the love of youth, my eldest brother, on the one hand, continued getting, taken care of by my eldest sister-in-law, and, on the other, he’d, continued, being in an extramarital affair with his first love from middle school, to the point of, not coming home at night.  And we can’t stand it anymore, we’d, given him hell over it, but we kept, my eldest brother’s affair a secret from my eldest sister-in-law.

And eventually, everything burst out, and, as my eldest sister-in-law learned about my eldest brother’s affair, without a word, she’d, asked for that, divorce: “the children are grown, and I want a life of my, own”.  Now, my eldest brother began to, panic.

None of us wanted this amazing eldest sister-in-law to leave us, and felt, that we should, support her, decision.  And all of us, siblings discussed it a bit, and planned a family trip, as a farewell present to my eldest sister-in-law, to take her away, from everything that’s happened in her marriage to our, eldest brother.

We went to Xiamen, we took her to visit the campus of the University of Xiamen, the beaches of White City, the Gulang Islet.  And maybe, it’s how the oceans being so vast, it’d, comforted our eldest sister-in-law a lot, she seemed, more peaceful then.

It always takes us losing what we cared about the most, to learn to cherish it, maybe, it’s, the islet that’s a small garden that’s, reignited the original heart that my eldest brother had for my eldest sister-in-law, he was, very, careful, attempted to reestablish her trust in him in the trip.

Strolling down the streets, my eldest brother took my eldest sister-in-law’s hand; when her feet grew weary, he’d carried her bag; as they came back from the beach walking barefoot, he’d bent down, patted the sand off of the pants she was wearing………..and at that very moment of time, I saw tears, glistening from my eldest sister-in-law’s eyes.  And the rest of the trip, my eldest sister-in-law smiled a lot more, and, we’d, made ourselves, scarce, so they can have more time to be alone together.

And, this trip to celebrate my eldest sister-in-law’s divorce, eventually, turned the end around, and now, my eldest brother and sister-in-law, are enjoying the loving moments, playing with their, grandchildren.

So, that would be, how this TRIP, SAVED a marriage, and normally, it wouldn’t, and should NEVER happen like this, but because this man who’d screwed around worked really hard, to earn BACK the trust of his wife, and his wife finally felt, that he’d turned over a new leaf, she’d, forgiven him, and that’s what made their, “happily ever after” possible.

Although, normally, once this sort of a betrayal happens, nothing will change, but the woman was willing to give her bad husband, one more, last, chance…

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December 21, 2022 · 3:28 am

The Most Precious Thing of Our Marriage is the Gratitude We Feel Toward Each Other

The SEXIST belief of how women are in charge of what happens within the household (all the chores are up to us!!!), while you losers (not name calling!) are all in charge of working your nine-to-fives out!  Translated…

Because of my children are growing up fast, they’d gotten a ton of energies in them, and naturally, it’d made me busier at home, recently, my wife had been working in and out, sweating like crazy, and, the accumulated stresses that she’d had, became, that final straw that’s, cracked her, back, one day, she’d gotten furious over something, stated, that she’d been working from the beginning, and we didn’t not only thanked her, we’d, taken her for, granted, that she’d become, completely, drained.  Suddenly, the air froze at home, the smokes are rising up then, without the joys of motherhood, with that added, crisis of losing my, marriage now.

Based off of the estimates of the offices of internal statistics, the rate of divorce was up to 47,888 pairs in 2021, second, only to China, second in all of Asia, while, the age group that’s found to be most prevalent for divorces are from ages thirty-five to thirty-nine, and suddenly, it’d dawned on me, that I’m, right at the highest risk of the divorce groups.

There’s a joke: at age thirty we see others around us marrying, start panicking because we didn’t have anyone; at age forty, we see, that everybody around us is, divorcing, and we’d felt glad that we never, tied the, knots.  Looking at today, less and less are choosing to get married, and more and more are, getting, divorced; the experts and scholars tried to find the reasons behind all of this, and, as the studies, research results showed, it was due to how “one side gave too much, and the other side not being, grateful enough”, it’d made me think hard.

how it used to, be…illustration from online

After we’d fought, I’d started, introspecting, if the household chores are split up unevenly, or that I’d, taken my wife’s giving to the family for, granted.  And further, all of these accumulations from long ago, maybe, it’s, the problems of the ordinary marriages, that we’re always, grateful for those who are outside of the realms of family, but not enough thanks given to those who are closest to us, and giving to us, selflessly.

Thought about how I’d, boasted to my wife, how I’d, automatically, did the laundry, hung them up in the closets after they’re all dried, and did the dishes too, and hoped to get a praise, but my wife was confused, because she thinks the household chores are originally, both our, responsibilities, why was I the one, “helping” her out?  Her words were a, rude awakening, so, I’d, believed that it’s a woman’s work, doing all the, household, chores.

Based off of the study of Harvard University, the 724 adults the school followed up since 1938, as the participants of the study are all in their nineties, they’d discovered, that the key to happiness, is originally built on “an amicable relationship”.  In sum, through scientific proof, the key to happiness is, “gratitude”.

It’s never too late, as they say, first, we must, learn to, verbalize our gratitude, then, act on it, toward the household chores, stacking up at home, we must, work in them too.  It’s never late to save your marriages, start offering one another the verbal thank yous when you were younger, and keep that heart of gratitude, say thanks, do more household chores, you will, live in the marital bliss!

and this, is how, it SHOULD, be! Comic from online

And so, this is still based off of the sexist beliefs of how women ARE, in charge of what’s in the house, while all of you, LOSERS (not name calling!) are supposed to be the “bread winners”, but that may be true, in the CAVEMEN days, these days, we women are also, working our separate five to nines (instead of nine-to-fives), and when we clocked out from our offices, we go home, and work some more around the house, because, if we don’t, then, who will, and most of us preferred our homes to be, neat and, tidy, that’s why, we women are, slaving ourselves, and you men don’t even help out enough, because, it’s etched in your BRAINS that you’re only in charge, of, “winning the breads”.

WAKE up!  This is NOT the CAVEMEN days, when all you losers (not name calling!) go out hunting with your god damn, oversized, clubs, leaving us women at home, tending to the “hearth”…

and this, is what we’re, or should, aim, at!

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March 17, 2015 · 9:13 am

Buying His Wife’s Forgiveness with a Million-Dollar Property…

And, I used to think, that forgiveness CAN’T be BOUGHT, apparently, I’m, once again, MISTAKEN here, from Yahoo!.com Taiwan, translated…

A married man in Taipei, Bai, had saved the photos of intimacy that he’d had with his whore in bed together, on his home computer, and was found by his wife, it was found by his wife last year, Bai then gave his wife, the property he’d bought, worth around ten million dollars N.T. as his way of begging his wife’s forgiveness.  Bai’s wife had, sued the other woman, Chou, and the District Court of Taipei found Chou guilty, and mandated that she must pay Bai’s wife $400,000N.T.

Based off of The Apple Daily, after Bai’s affair went bust, he’d given a house of a hundred million dollars N.T. in worth, in return for her forgiveness, which worked, and, Bai’s wife sued the other woman, Chou for adultery.  But the judge thought, that because Bai’s wife just went after Chou, and not her husband, she’d violated the “No Separations Clause” of the suits, and, decided, to toss the case out.

The reports showed that Bai’s wife had sued Chou in the civil front for $600,000N.T. for damages, and, the judge believed, that Bai’s wife’s right of being Bai’s spouse had been violated, and found Chou guilty, and that she must pay Bai’s wife $400,000N.T.

Is that fair?  Hell NO!!!  I mean, WHY the FUCK (and NO, don’t “pardon” me this time!!!) is it ALWAYS the women who get sued, I mean, what about the losers who couldn’t keep their DICKS inside their pants, I mean, it DOES take TWO to tango, right???  And that still just shows how easily a woman can and will forgive her LOSER husband for HIS infidelities, but, think of it in another term, if it were the woman who’d cheated, do you think, that the husband would forgive as easily?  I think not!  And, this, is one MORE case (and I’m more than 100% P-O-S-I-T-I-V-E, that this, is NOT going to be the LAST “case” that shows GENDER inequality!!!).

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March 9, 2015 · 4:43 am

The Boundaries of One Another’s Interactions with Members of the Opposite Sex

Translated…

My coworker showed up at the office with black rings around his eyes, complained how he wasn’t able to sleep last night.  Everybody joked about how he’d gotten to the age where insomnia set in, he’d laughed bitterly, “No, I’d had a fight with my wife.”, they were the model couple, rarely had any disagreements, and so, we were all very curious, as to what had happened.

“It’s all A’s fault, for LINE-ing me, said something that’s a joke, but, I wasn’t close to my phone, and, my wife went to check my phone, as she heard the alert sound, and, her face changed colors.”—heard that it was about A, we could all understand, how bad my coworker’s going to get it, because A loved telling jokes, including the sexist kinds too, and, those who don’t know her personally, can easily, misunderstand her.  Plus A posted her pictures from over a decade ago on LINE, she looked like a hottie, it’s a wonder, that my coworker’s wife got jealous.

My coworker explained to his wife a very long time, but, she’s still very angry.  After he’d made us all laugh, my coworker changed his tone to serious, said, “I’d never known how important I am to my own wife, and this time, it’d shown.  My wife wanted me to empathize, that if it were her, joking, laughing with her male colleagues, would I NOT feel anything?  And her words made me realize that I must, DRAW the boundaries.”

Similar things had happened to me, many, many years ago too, once I’d gotten into conversation with a male coworker, I’d not noticed how husband’s face changed colors.  After a few days of fuming, he’d told me, that I’d chatted with my coworker for too long, and, right then and there, I’d heard what he was actually saying, and, right then and there, I’d played coy with him, “You’re angry?”

“If it were you, wouldn’t you get mad too?”, he’d replied, self-righteously.  And ever since, that ruler from inside my mind was, put to work, until my husband, in order to help a female friend, sort through her emotions, he’d talked with her the entire night, the same topic surfaced.  I’d threw a fit, believed that he couldn’t even make time to hear his own wife out, but made the time to hear someone else.  After we’d both calmed down, we’d set up the rules, then, we’d ceased fire.

The boundaries between men and women are like the lines drawn on the ground with chalk, as you’d stepped on it, over, over and over again, the line will become more and more blurred, if you don’t draw it back on again, then, the line will eventually, cease, to exist.  The preciousness of a husband and wife lies in that they respect one another, and, in current day, when the high-tech products are all over the places, we must be more careful, in how we transmit our messages, until we want some huge tidal waves to attack our ordinary lives.

But, if you ask me, this, is still just two people, PROJECTING their own insecurities onto one another, I mean, I get, that you can get jealous if your wife/husband talked to someone from work so long, but hey, there’s NO point of getting jealous, and, you should just, VOICE out your concerns, at the moment of the incident, to CLEAR up the A-I-R, like the husband and wife here, they’d both held it down for a bit, and, you KNOW how those things have the tendency to ferment, and that, was why, these two instances almost went OUT of control!

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August 1, 2014 · 8:58 am

Stood by the Infidelities of a Man

Is that, S-T-U-P-I-D-I-T-Y???  Well, come right on in, I saved a special seat for ya!!! Stood by the infidelities of a man, but W-H-Y?  Because he looked so remorseful for his FUCKING his whore?  And, that, was only number O-N-E, because right after she’d forgiven him, he’d started huntin’ for his third, fourth, and so on.

Stood by the infidelities of a man, because she watched her mama did it, and, her mama just SUCKED it up, took everything on herself, and, she thought that that, was the right kind of values she too, should exert.

Stood by the infidelities of a man, but W-H-Y?  Does she need his monetary support?  Heck no, she brings in a BIGGER piece of the bread AND bacon too than he, in fact, he’s the one, living OFF of her, and so, why the FUCK (oopsy!!!) is she standing, by the infidelities of a man?  Oh, must’ve been her mama’s fault, because her mama put up with her daddy’s cheatin’ too, and so, she’d watched from her eyes as a child, and learned by modeling, as that, is how children learn, by W-A-T-C-H-I-N-G their bad adults behave…

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July 25, 2014 · 4:20 am

On the Eve of Healing Up

 

Always expect the unexpected, that way, NOTHING will come as a surprise, right???  Translated…

After he’d gone home, he’d started cooking, with his strength, he’d managed to flatten out three cloves of emotional words.  He’d used his bad temper to burn up the stoves, it’d made this sizzling sound……what do you think you are, olive oil?  When he’d made fried rice, the grains started missing the rice paddies, the eggs to, wanted to return to the farms.  But once the salt had been sprinkled, there’s NO looking back.  Otherwise, the lonely shadows will become salt sticks, and the vegetables are like the personalities, only wanted you to be healthy in the body, and the mind.  Frying the fish on both sides, recalling how if the ark was getting turned like so in the forceful waters, what would happen to it?………He’d eaten, with the television, what was supposed to have been stated by the newscasters wasn’t, but my silence became more sickening than the media’s.  Later, I wanted to go dump the leftovers, to walk my dog, and to help myself digest what I’d eaten, but just my luck, the rain start to pour down.

So, you’d had a rough day, when nothing went your way, and, as you were headed home, I’m sure, that you were looking for an easier night, but, the evening got harder, because you FAILED to deal with whatever’s bugging the hell out of you, and, when you leave things on the stoves like that, well, they’d get B-U-R-N-E-D, so, deal with whatever issues in your lives, N-O-W, don’t put it off!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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July 2, 2014 · 3:39 am

Exiting the Scene

Translated…

The movie she’d gone to see is old and boring, a LOT of the audience left the theatres in the middle of the film.  But she’d felt, that the ticket was too pricy and that she’d be on the losing end if she didn’t finish watching the movie, so, she’d held her horses until the end.

As she’d walked out of the theatres, she’d heard someone commented, “The female leading character is so stupid, she knew her husband didn’t love her anymore, why is she so insistent in staying married?”

And that, would be the main character’s feeling, I suppose, and, hopefully, by hearing the words of that stranger, she finally realizes that her marriage wasn’t worth keeping, but, because she’d put so much time and energy into the relationship, that, is what’s keeping her from divorcing her husband, even IF there IS no more love.  It’s really sarcastic, if you really think about it.

 

 

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May 11, 2014 · 5:32 am

The Husband Went Off the “Maps” After His Affair Went Bust, He Was Ruled to Pay a Higher Price by the Courts

If you cheat, you WILL get caught!!!  From the Front Page Sections, translated…

A man, Wang had asked for his son’s assistance, to transfer his files from his cell, to the computer, it’d caused his wife to find out about his affair, and he’d also used the opportunity of a business trip, to travel to Japan for a vacation with the spare wheel, Lin; after his return, his wife found out that the pants he took to get altered had listed Lin’s contact information, and that there were love letters inside his car, Wang’s wife sued them both, and asked for $800,000N.T. for emotional damages.

On the first trial, the judge ruled that Wang and Lin must pay Wang’s wife $100,000N.T., Wang left his house out of anger; the highest courts rulings believed, that after Wang had his affair, he didn’t deal with it effective, and had gone into hiding, he’d abandoned his wife for thirty years, and abandoned his own family too, exacerbated his wife’s pain even more, the judge ruled that the husband and his spare wheel MUST pay Wang’s wife $300,000N.T. for certain.

Wang’s wife’s claims in court stated, that she’d been with her husband for over thirty years, they have a son and a daughter together.  Two years ago, in February, she found that her husband had been in close contact with a married woman, Lin; in May of the same year, the son had helped the husband transfer some files from his cell to the computer, and she’d found numerous photographs of her husband and Lin’s intimacies, holding each other close, kissing.  She had a huge argument with her husband, and texted Lin, “Do NOT become the spare wheel that destroy my marriage”, but Lin ignored her, and kept dating her husband.

Wang’s wife said, that two years ago in October, the husband told her that he was on business abroad, when he’d returned home, she’d helped him unpack, and found a pair of brand new pants, with the tag from the alteration with Lin’s information, and she’d found Lin’s love letters to her husband in the trunk of his car, after grilling him, she’d found out, that he’d gone on a trip with Lin on vacation.  She was emotionally distraught, and was diagnosed as severely depressed too.

Lin claimed, that she and Wang had common friends, that they’d head out to dine or to hang out, that it was within the normal socializations; that the tag on the pants had her contact, because she was doing him a favor, helping him to get his pants to be sent to get altered, that she did NOT break any laws.

Wang also claimed that he and Lin were just friends, that the love notes were a one-sided crush she’d had on him.

The first trials used the evidence stacked against the husband and his spare, and the judge found them guilty, and that they must pay the wife $100,000N.T.; Wang’s wife went for an appeal, after Wang learned, he’d gotten mad, and ran from home, refused to show up for his court dates, and because Wang’s wife couldn’t find him, she’d reported that her husband was a missing person with the police.

The story of the THREE BLINID M-I-C-E, see how they run?  Except that in THIS case, it’s see how HE ran!!!  Because this loser did wrong, and was made to pay what he thought was unreasonable, so, he went into HIS “burrows” (like those rabbits???) to DODGE his responsibilities, and that, is all too IRRESPONSIBLE still.

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