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Guilt-Tripping Me into, Pitying You

You can, kiss that, thought G-O-O-D-B-Y-E!

‘Cuz I’d already figured you O-U-T.

Guilt-tripping me into, pitying you, that’s what you’d done, too well too, I might add.  You’d, saved those, “hard-to-come-by”, and, “swallowed-down-hard” tears, just for me.  You never cried in front of anybody else, (not that I’d ever seen you) but me.

what you used to do…

and it got you, the, attention you needed too! Photo from online

Guilt-tripping me into, pitying you, you had, and I was, way too young, way too, unknowing, to allow you to, control me with your, tears, until, until one day, your tears they’d, stopped, working their, “magic” on me.

I’d, finally, broken FREE, and that felt like I can, finally, breathe!  And, as soon as the gates were, broken open, I’d, flown out, far, far, FAR away, from you, and those, god damn, bullshitting tears of yours.

Guilt-tripping me into, pitying you, well, you know what, I do, pity you, and I do, feel sorry for you, but I have, NO more, sympathies for you, to waste, you’d, wasted all of my, sympathy away, since, a long, long, long time ago.

And besides, I’d, allowed you to, control me, for more than, twenty years of my god damn, life too, and, it’d, ended already

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I Won’t Feel Guilty

I won’t feel guilty, because you had tricked me into feeling that way!!!  I won’t feel guilty, NOT anymore, because I’d been guilt-tripped by you my WHOLE life (and I still don’t need to TELL anybody H-O-W long that was exactly now, do I???), and I’d had ENOUGH!!!

I won’t feel guilty, because you have NO control over how I act, for I am MY own “owner”, and, NOBODY can FUCKING (oopsy!!!) control me, EVER again, and, just because you weren’t taught right, doesn’t give you the RIGHT to teach me wrong, but, that, is how this sort of SHIT gets passed along, from one generation to the next one.

I won’t feel guilty, EVER, and, never again, will I fall prey to your crocodile tears.

I won’t feel guilty, and that, is that, and NO amount tears you are shedding right now is EVER going to turn me back to who I originally was, a bleeding heart, because I’d already applied a LOT of pressure, and my broken heart had stopped bleeding now…

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