Life isn’t fair.
We don’t all get the same opportunities, but sometimes you have to work HARDER, dream BIGGER, and GIVE EVERYTHING to get somewhere.
Sometimes you have to crawl to get what others just drive up to get.
But you chose your path; yours just might have more obstacles than everyone else’s’.
We don’t chose our hand of cards, but we chose whether to get up from the table or to keep playing.
How can loving someone be a worse sin than hating on those that do?
Whether or not you believe in gay marriage, you have no right to hate. No one does. God said LOVE EVERYONE. He didn’t make exceptions.
I am straight myself, but I don’t allow hate.
Here’s to the lost friends.
To those who never got to drive, or more specially never got to ride in the passenger seat blaring music. To the ones who will be spending their birthday this year in heaven, no matter how many they’ve spent.
Here’s to those who’s lives have been cut too short; like the clipping of a premature rose. Who won’t turn 21 or 24 this year. Who promsised to be by your side forever but can’t.
Here’s to those who had a giant life, and as you raise your kids you wonder how they’d raise theirs. No more late night phone calls or girls-night-out. No more guys day fishing. No more of the sound of their voice or the music of their laugh.
Here’s to the ones who lived long, but that didn’t soften the blow. Didn’t make you not miss them any less or harbor the pain. Because they were a shining beam of something real and alive and one minute they weren’t and that will never be fair.
Here’s to those friends who will be spending their holidays up in heaven.
I won’t tell you the things they all say to make it ok because I know it is never ok, and nothing makes them come back so instead I’ll give a moment of silence for the loss of someone who was too big to ever describe as just one, and I know there isn’t words to sum it up.
“I miss you,” is never enough.
Nothing makes this ok for us. For those left behind, even if we understand our loved ones are better off where they are; but we are so terribly Ill with the thought they won’t be coming back.
God loved them first but how I want them back selfishly.
So here I take our collective moment.
The one moment we are allowed to be selfish about it. To know it doesn’t make sense. We can be ok and know that it’s what was suppose to happen any other day.
But here it’s not; for a whole moment.
So, I was nominated for the “Very Inspiring Blog Award,” a bit back, and have been on the hunt to find ten blogs I find inspiring, which is way harder than I thought.
I was nominated by the very inspiring himself, Desiretoexpress excuse me if I don’t know how to actually put the link. I’m kinda new to the blog world.
Thank you so much I really don’t deserve this.
Here are my nominations.
I know some of you have already been nominated, but oh well.
• Elm (because your comments keep me going.)
• Faceless Fitness ( even though I personally don’t do fitness, I admire you inspiring others.)
• Crowninstability (because photography is inspiration.)
• My nominator (because I looked at your stuff and it’s amazing.)
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The rules for Very Inspiring Blogger Award are mentioned below.
Thank the person who nominated you for the award.
Add the logo to your post.
Nominate ten (10) bloggers you admire and inform them of the nomination.
Sorry I didn’t have ten.
Or a logo.
I cheat.
My questions were:
1. In your personal life, which person inspires you the most?
I don’t want to sound like people don’t inspire me, or that I don’t admire others but I wasn’t born into a family of inspiring people. I grew my own strength from myself, I never really needed to be inspired by anything more than what I wanted. I am more inspired by the person I can be , than what I am. The future inspires me more than anything, because my whole life I’ve been waiting for what is out there. I was born with the need to grasp at a future I know I will have.
2. Who is your role model?
My grandparents because they are always there for me, and teach me how to greet everyone you meet with unconditional love.
3. Do you make efforts to make others feel emotionally and mentally stronger? For example- to boost their confidence,or to give them suggestions or to help them the best you can?
I really, really do try to express to people their self worth, because everyone is a lovely person. And I love helping people, it’s actually selfish of me to get thank you’s because I honestly receive more from helping people than they do, I just love it. But I am human, and I’m not as good as I could be. I’m not a very good person or inspiring, which is why I’m so confused by this nomination. I’m just me, and I hope to only improve.
4. Which sound do you hear this current moment?
The AC
5. Which is the best quote for you?
Oh no, don’t get me started on quotes. I love quotes, I collect them in a little notebook full of my favorites.
But one of my favorites is this:
“There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.”
C.S. Lewis
Nominees, please answer the following questions also.
1. Why do you think I chose you?
2. What’s your secret hobby?
3. What makes you smile no matter how sad you are?
4. What is the most important word of advice you can give to anyone, anywhere.
5. How do you try to inspire others? What is the number one message you try to give?
I often wander
The exact moment
It all changed
And did any of us
See it
Starting
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I think
We all just kinda quit
Being the people
That brought us together.
You drenched your sorrows in the heart of another, the only problem with that is in their absence you never learned where else to displace of your sorrow-filled thoughts, and you drowned in your self-destruction
So there’s this girl at school who hates me. And long story short she’s telling everybody she wants to punch me.
And I have come up with the perfect solution.
I am liking everything she pins and commenting nice things on EVERYTHING because I will kill her with kindness and how can she react to someone putting smiley faces on everything in a bad manner without looking like a complete jerk?
I think one of the things that shows human nature is how we don’t stop writing until the end of the sentence, the explanation point. Because we-
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