Category Archives: marriage

non mom day

Posted on May 13, 2019 by undermounted

it’s not that I am upset or even care, but by early evening, when i finally had time to sit down and check social media and saw all the messages husbands were posting to their wives, thanking them for the … Continue reading →

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the lies he tells himself

Posted on April 22, 2019 by undermounted

You texted me a lie. Don’t say you love me when you clearly show me every day that you don’t. You are unable to have a normal sexual relationship with me. This has been an issue for 24 years. You  … Continue reading →

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i hurt

Posted on November 23, 2018 by undermounted

surgery is never fun, especially as you age. things aren’t as elastic, you aren’t as flexible. it simply takes longer to heal. the worst part, besides the obvious pain, is being vulnerable. i despise the weakness. and worse, i have … Continue reading →

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the ignorant oaf

Posted on October 1, 2018 by undermounted

because you are a clumsy and uncoordinated person at the best of times and you are never aware of yourself spatially, i often suffer the brunt of your misadventures when you are in my space, unless i pay close attention … Continue reading →

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a worthless spouse

Posted on September 29, 2018 by undermounted

and today, when you are selfish and snapping; mean and trying to hurt me, bait me into fighting, simply because you are frustrated and want someone to take it out on, I remind myself, that this is why i no … Continue reading →

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vente venting

Posted on December 12, 2017 by undermounted

you are beneath me in every way and i feel nothing but contempt for you. this is not how a wife should feel towards a husband. day after day, you perform little ways to undermine me. you forget the things … Continue reading →

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asexual spouse

Posted on December 6, 2017 by undermounted

i’ve not felt sexual attraction towards anyone in so long that it’s starting to become somewhat of a curiosity to me. to say it’s an anomaly, is an understatement, being the sexual creature that i a generally am. or was. … Continue reading →

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unwanted again

Posted on October 23, 2017 by undermounted

he’s angry. all the time. it has been 2 months of anger on both sides and something has to stop. i have to stop. if i try to say anything about the fact that it’s been months since the last … Continue reading →

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glaring eyes mean anger

Posted on June 27, 2017 by undermounted

you save the best of who you are for anyone else and simply give me the garbage leftovers of your personality. it’s worse when i hear you being kind to others and then you turn around and are trite with … Continue reading →

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sad profiles

Posted on May 31, 2017 by undermounted

i look at the silver streaking your hair and how the brown is still so shiny and soft to touch. i think about the years i’ve spent looking at you. sideways glances, seeing you in profile. knowing the outline of … Continue reading →

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