Tag Archives: communication

handling the marriage truths

A 3 hour conversation about our marriage, our intimacy issues and his sexual dysfunction. Complete, cards on the table, full disclosure for the first time in 27 years from him. Not only has he heard me, he has expressed regret, … Continue reading

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Relationship require reciprocation

I have many links back to web sites that no longer exist and the content and reference point is lost to me and others reading my writing. I have decided to start including content in my posts, with links back … Continue reading

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he has fears

because he has fallen in love with me, it’s scared him and it means he is going to occasionally panic as he did 2 days ago. he thinks about me constantly. he wants to spend more time with me. he … Continue reading

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Is an affair worth it?

Guess why affairs work? Because so much is missing in your relationship, that even the chance of getting caught doesn’t seem as bad as existing like you are. Think about that for a moment… You are sexually so disconnected from … Continue reading

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Advice to a Curious Cuckold

When a heterosexual couple comes to the decision that they want to include another man into their life, the decision comes with a myriad of questions they may not have previously considered. The one I want to focus on at … Continue reading

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Until Acceptance is Ignored

And so another cycle has truly begun. He has been “trying” with the major difference being is this is the longest period he has ever gone concurrently. In the beginning, it annoyed me, I kept waiting for the “shoe to drop”, the … Continue reading

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