Tag Archives: failed marriage

non mom day

Posted on May 13, 2019 by undermounted

it’s not that I am upset or even care, but by early evening, when i finally had time to sit down and check social media and saw all the messages husbands were posting to their wives, thanking them for the … Continue reading →

Posted in Husband, marriage, pushing buttons, Relationships | Tagged failed marriage, marriage, mothers day, no contact | Leave a comment

the lies he tells himself

Posted on April 22, 2019 by undermounted

You texted me a lie. Don’t say you love me when you clearly show me every day that you don’t. You are unable to have a normal sexual relationship with me. This has been an issue for 24 years. You … Continue reading →

Posted in Husband, marriage, Relationships | Tagged failed marriage, husband, marriage, separation, shitty husband | 3 Comments

non events

Posted on October 5, 2013 by undermounted

Every time I read a post celebrating an anniversary where he bought flowers or a gift then took her to dinner to celebrate, I am reminded that you never once did that for us. We have never gone to dinner … Continue reading →

Posted in Relationships | Tagged anniversary celebration, anniversary dinner, buying greeting cards and not giving them, divorce, failed marriage, failure to communicate, forgetting your anniversary, hating your spouse, how to be an asshole husband, husband, marriage, not celebrating milestones, reason to divorce, wife | 4 Comments

how dare you

Posted on September 23, 2013 by undermounted

Self imposed, cold exile As I refused him entry To the domain of my repose Do not befoul me Call me names And belittle me Because of a premature reaction To something you imagined A slight you assume I made … Continue reading →

Posted in Relationships | Tagged anger, anger with your spouse, arguing with your spouse, asshole, blaming someone else, bullshit, divorce, failed marriage, fighting back, fights, fuck off, fuck you, hating your husband, husband, jerk, kicking someone out of bed, lack of communication, marital discord, marriage, married to a jerk, no common sense, passive aggressive, prick, separation, she’s a bitch, shut up, sleeping in separate rooms, stupid, unable to communicate, upset with your partner, verbal fight, why marriages fail, wife, your wife is a bitch | 3 Comments

patience has left the building

Posted on September 14, 2013 by undermounted

I seriously am in a state of neutrality. Ok maybe not neutrality; how about almost depression or inability to move forward or be flexible in my thinking or actions? I am no where near recovered from my 18 month affair … Continue reading →

Posted in Family, Relationships, Sex | Tagged aspergers, autism, cuckhold, divorce, drama, dysfunction, dysfunctional, failed marriage, family issues, frustration, husband, hypochondriac, lack of communication, lack of patience, lies, lover, narcissist, no communication, people piss me off, reconciliation, sex, sexual frustration, short tempered, sociopath, tantrum, wife | 17 Comments

passive aggression

Posted on August 7, 2013 by undermounted

There were so many times you made me feel crazy. I started to write down everything, every stupid detail and circular argument. Every thing you said conflicted with everything you did. You re-wrote everything that happened and altered everything I … Continue reading →