Tag Archives: marriage

non mom day

Posted on May 13, 2019 by undermounted

it’s not that I am upset or even care, but by early evening, when i finally had time to sit down and check social media and saw all the messages husbands were posting to their wives, thanking them for the … Continue reading →

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the lies he tells himself

Posted on April 22, 2019 by undermounted

You texted me a lie. Don’t say you love me when you clearly show me every day that you don’t. You are unable to have a normal sexual relationship with me. This has been an issue for 24 years. You  … Continue reading →

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vente venting

Posted on December 12, 2017 by undermounted

you are beneath me in every way and i feel nothing but contempt for you. this is not how a wife should feel towards a husband. day after day, you perform little ways to undermine me. you forget the things … Continue reading →

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seasonal sidelines

Posted on May 27, 2017 by undermounted

after all these years and unresolved issues. knowing that you will never communicate with me as i need you to. seeing you make the choice to put your mother before me, year after year, by abandoning me physically and emotionally. … Continue reading →

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reply to scifriedlv426

Posted on October 21, 2016 by undermounted

I’ve had a comment on my post The Forced Affair, that I want to take some time to reply to. He self identifies as “a coddled mama’s boy who feels inadequate, a (victim) of childhood abuse and self hate (who) feels alone … Continue reading →

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the forced affair

Posted on October 14, 2016 by undermounted

the mistakes you make on purpose, push me away; making it impossible for me to resist the hands you are blind to, pulling me away from you. all you want from me is comfort in the role of substitute mother, … Continue reading →

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i like a boy

Posted on September 13, 2016 by undermounted

I’ve been so busy, I’ve had zero time for myself and that equates to lack of exercise and no time to write. Am I happy? No. Am I sad? No. I am Neutral positive. That means that as I go … Continue reading →

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Marital improvements

Posted on August 15, 2016 by undermounted

My husband is trying. And by trying I mean full court press of shit he should have done over the last 20 years, kind of trying. As in little surprises and doing some thoughtful things because he’s heard me say … Continue reading →

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the facebook block

Posted on July 27, 2016 by undermounted

i’ve blocked my spouse from facebook …again. he just frustrates me so much at times that i feel i can’t subject myself to that kind of explosive and instant anger he inspires in me. i tell him to not do … Continue reading →

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excluded and wanted

Posted on July 24, 2016 by undermounted

so what I thought would be a 1 night meeting, casual, no commitment, no expectations, has resulted in communication and a 2nd meeting, which turned into an actual date. will it turn into anything? who knows. i don’t even care. … Continue reading →

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