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How many of you know someone who is in a difficult marriage? When I say “difficult marriage,” I mean one that seems to be falling apart on all sides except one, physical attraction. This couple can barely tolerate each other. And, one half of the couple, typically the more attractive half, is really annoying to the other.
I’m just curious what kind of pie chart we might draw from this. I’ve seen a few couples who fit this description, and the fact really drives me mad. Marrying someone essentially because they’re very attractive (and apparently naive enough to not be “out of your league”); how does anyone think this is a good idea? Good looks cannot spare you from stomach upsets and tooth-grinding frustration. Good looks might lead to hot sex, but sex wanes with age. And, aging takes its toll on the physique. It’s a foolish investment; a leaky ship. Once that hot sex leads to two kids and a mortgage, you’re in over your head. Abandon ship? Good luck with that.
So, come on; fess up. How many couples do you know who fit this description?