Posts Tagged ‘reaction

10
Feb
22

The Theory of Music

****

I think I’ve figured out the gender bias of music; at least, songs with lyrics.

Men (and boys) write songs about wants and ambitions, what they are seeking and what they are going to do…and then they get into trouble. Isn’t it always about getting drunk, rich or “laid” with guy music? Is that all there is to a man’s life? Well, unless you are the artsy-fartsy not-so-hunky type who writes about dreams, building homes and/or doing something destructive. But, again, wants and ambitions.

Women (and girls) write songs about what happened to them and how they react…and then they seek out someone to comfort them. There seems to be an ongoing track of misadventures which stirs emotional upheaval from the female voice. I struggle to think of a song in which a woman takes the initiative; even Tay Swift’s Shake It Off–in which she uses the words “I’m going to”–is her reaction to excess grief/stress layered upon her. Katy Perry sings about what happened to her in Vegas, being jilted by Mr. Hot-and-Cold at the altar and how it felt to kiss a girl. When she wants something, she wants it for someone else; she wants YOU to roar.

Simple and accurate. Right?

Boom. Another code of life cracked by Writingbolt. You’re welcome.

01
Oct
21

New Mantra: Open to Anything; Fear Nothing

*****

The other day, I was struck with a thin slice of divine inspiration, the sort of little voice that supplies new outlooks on life in the simplest of words. Some call them mantras.

Here is my latest “mantra.”

“Be open to anything, and you will fear nothing.”

It sounds a bit naïve, a bit foolish. But, it’s also a true test of faith.

The Golden Rule is a similarly difficult task of forcing yourself to treat others as you want to be treated, not simply acting or reacting upon impulse. If someone makes you mad, lashing out at them might feel justified and/or right. [But, the consequences could compound into more than you dare to experience.] But, if you unintentionally–or even intentionally–made someone mad, would you like them to strike you down? Would you be okay with dying for angering someone? If you answer “yes,” then, by all means, swing your fists in anger and let karma sort out the rest.

Getting back to my previous thought…

If you open yourself to any possibility, good or bad, there is nothing to fear, nothing to question, nothing to probe until you’ve uncovered the particle within every particle. Sure; this sounds like death to science and discovery. But, there will still be discovery as you encounter it. It won’t cost you nearly as much to let surprises come to you…versus digging through the unknown to find every hidden gem or trap.

Do we really need another Pandora’s box to open?

YOU be the box that is always open. And, all of your fears will escape, leaving hope; hope of new discovery and the excitement of surprises. [Not the fear of sudden upsets.]

You know how some people get disrespected for being “Debbie Downers,” people who look for things to go wrong and see the negative side of everything. Well, they wouldn’t be that way if they opened themselves to the possibility of anything.

What challenges this faith is often what others impose upon us. Our faith or freedom to believe is endangered by threats of financial cost/risk and laws that don’t agree. Essentially, we let others tell us how to act and think, let others suppress our full potential under a blanket of fear.

Now, I’m not saying we need to rise up and rebel, tear down the White House, blow up the whole Middle East and flail weapons of mass destruction in the air as we shout so loud that the whole world can hear us.

Just…no.

Just…accept what happens and work with/around it.

Instead of squashing the bug that lands on you or your precious possessions, relocate the bug–if it bothers you–and say, “No. You stay over there.”

Defend your boundaries if you must. But, if you are open to anything, that bug can do no harm to you. Even if it could sting or inject you with its venom, unless it is determined to eat you, why would it attack unless provoked (or hungry)?

[Now, in the case of insects like mosquitoes, you use your own judgment to decide a course of action. Either protect yourself from potential harm or take your chances. I am not encouraging anyone to let a mosquito decide if they live or die. Yet, even that small instance, that possibility, might be our fate that we resist by lashing out at the bothersome bug.]

Do you ever notice how even the smallest of irritations can compound (add to) the stress you amass in your body (and mind)? Have you ever noticed how some small incident can spoil your good mood and distract you from what you thought you were doing with your day?

[And, if you are a human who has lost or is losing your hair (or the nice, rich color of your blessed-without-much-loss, thank-you-good-genes hair), do you place full blame on genetics? Or, do you consider the little stresses that amass upon your spirit, whether they are self-inflicted or the violation of others?]

Among all the unhelpful emotions that can flood our systems from the least significant of events, there is fear. And, fear can be disguised as a wide variety of other characters. Fear can appear like rage when we lash out at the “bugs” that disturb us. Fear can appear like despair or sadness when we cannot cope with some “reality” that forces us to alter our course of action. Fear can appear like mindless amusement when we deny the truth of the moment, when someone “nervously laughs” at something another sees as very serious.

That emotional baggage not only ruins our existence but also ruins the lives of those we encounter. How quickly we can dump our feelings on the people around us and turn them away like enslaved (domesticated, boxed, etc.) fish rattled by some idiot’s finger tapping their tank.

But, if we were open to anything, most likely, I imagine, we wouldn’t get so…emotional. And, in turn, we wouldn’t upset others with our emotional responses. [And, no robotic replacement is required to perform this function.]

However, here is the possible flaw in my latest “mantra.”

If everyone lives without fear and goes about living their lives as they think they can without actually influencing or pushing any buttons, we open the doors to some rather chaotic events. And, who is to say who might curb this newfound freedom of thought and take command when others let down their guard?

Again, it’s a test of faith. And, if we all could adhere to it, we wouldn’t worry about what others are doing or saying, even the little bugs that visit our space (like aliens). We wouldn’t be busy trying to seize advantage of others (or their ignorance, their lack of education). We wouldn’t capitalize on others’ weaknesses. We’d simply…experience life as it presents itself to us. We’d potentially, ideally reconnect with nature and find better balance.

Don’t you think?

Think about it. Then, let your thoughts go and just be…there.

[I’m not saying I’m already…there. But, I am always considering the possibility. Sigh. I know.]

08
Jul
20

Color Quirks; Your Brain’s Response to Color

****

I was just having lunch when one of my color quirks stopped me from eating and left me mildly nauseous.

What’s a color quirk? Well, it’s what I am currently calling a physical or emotional response to the sight of a color or color combo. And, I shall further explain with examples.

First of all, we each have a way of associating colors with feelings. And, I will ask you to fill in the blanks of this list:

When I am ___, I think of the color(s) ___ (and ___).

SAD =
HAPPY =
ANGRY =
SCARED =
PASSIONATE =
BRAVE =
SHY =
SILLY =
NAUSEOUS =

[For me, at this moment, it’s a SAD = faded or very dark blue; HAPPY = sunny yellow or a vibrant, rich leafy green; ANGRY = bold red; SCARED = yellow mustard or lime green; PASSIONATE = bright red, red-purple or silky black (has to have a sheen to it); BRAVE = brick red; SHY = cotton-candy pink; SILLY = oddly enough, the same colors I picked for SCARED, I think (not entirely sure at the moment); NAUSEOUS = pea-soup green, moldy yellow, liquid red (not so much red latex but a puddle or splatter of red) and/or a bright “loud” pink in excess, the sort of pink you’d see on the average Barbie doll outfit.]

Now, consider how certain combinations of colors might affect you.

For me, there is one sure-fire way for a date to turn me on, to consume me with sexual interest. She only needs to wear a red top paired with something short and made of blue denim, a denim skirt or shorts. Blue jeans/capri pants may also work. But, a denim skirt or shorts work best. And, why a red top? I don’t exactly know but suspect it has something to do with my astrology.

Just think of what characters you may know who wear that combo. Wonder Woman has a red bodice paired with blue skirt/panties/shorts (whatever the particular version of the character is wearing). One version of the anime character Cutey Honey also wears a red vest/halter top over blue pants (though the more womanly version of the 90s features her wearing blue over red).

[Zealot from Jim Lee’s WildCATS, who is also a favorite character you may notice on my About Me page, wears red (on top and bottom); I think there may be images of her in “civilian attire” wearing a red top with blue jeans.]

[Supergirl wears red and blue in the 90s Cutey Honey fashion, with blue on top, though the red cape is technically over her blue shoulders.]

[The original Ms. Marvel wore a similar combination of red and blue with her bright blonde hair.]

AAAnd, getting back to my unsettling lunch experience, I cannot calmly eat anything red on a bright/glossy white surface. Don’t serve me tomatoes, red peppers, ketchup…not even pink salmon…on a clean, glossy white plate or tray. It makes me highly nauseous!!! It’s like my aversion to blood and gore. My brain automatically sees a crime scene and cannot think about eating. It’s terrifying. And, it just happened, again, to me.
So…

Do YOU have any similar color quirks? What turns you on? What makes you ill? What other reactions do you get from certain color combos? Any “past life” or “deja vu” reactions? Please share them in comment section.

 

[You can find this and similar tidbits about me and my out-of-the-box thoughts in my Looking for Love and Happiness posts; look for the “dating profile” ones.]

29
Oct
15

No Yod Will Ever Bring Me Down

*****

wizardme-wickedspoof-song-darker_ap2015-5J
Yesterday, I got a lil dramatic over a minor detail that sneaked under a fingernail like a splinter. I may have blown the necessary concern for the new/old information to cross my astrology desk. Yet, I feel as if something is coming. And, as much as I’d like to thank people for being part of this life, I am not sure what really matters and what is just…well, like a figment of the imagination or wasted words/energy in the whirlpool that is the end of everything we think we know exists.

So…to rise above all of that, I am going to be a little more dramatic and run with a song that keeps getting stuck in my head thanks to constant commercials for the theater production.

Sing along.

Me: So if you care to find me…LOOOOK to the WESTERN skyyy! No yod that is or ever was is ever going to briiing meee doooooown!!!

You: We hope you’re haaappyyy!
[Translation: We hope you can work out your own problems or get help elsewhere.]

Me: Ah-AH-Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!
[Translation: What?! You’re just going to sit there and watch?! You all suck!]

You: Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!
[Translation: Sorry. Life’s too short to get involved with you.]

And, scene.

@};— @};— @};— @};— @};— @};— @};— @};—

wizardme-wickedspoof-title_ap2015-6J

*****

wizardme-wickedspoof-senseofmestreet-song-darker_ap2015-8J

};— @};— @};— @};— @};— @};— @};— @};—

*****




Unknown's avatar

Archives


Design a site like this with WordPress.com
Get started