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polite

American  
[puh-lahyt] / pəˈlaɪt /

adjective

politer, politest
  1. showing good manners toward others, as in behavior, speech, etc.; courteous; civil.

    a polite reply.

    Synonyms:
    gracious, well-bred
    Antonyms:
    rude
  2. refined or cultured.

    polite society.

    Synonyms:
    cultivated, courtly, poised, polished, urbane
  3. of a refined or elegant kind.

    polite learning.


polite British  
/ pəˈlaɪt /

adjective

  1. showing regard for others, in manners, speech, behaviour, etc; courteous

  2. cultivated or refined

    polite society

  3. elegant or polished

    polite letters

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Synonym Usage

See civil.

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Etymology

Origin of polite

First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English, from Latin polītus, past participle of polīre “to polish”; see polish

Explanation

Polite means showing regards for others in manners, speech, and behavior. Since you are a polite dinner guest, you thank the host for inviting you and, even though you think the chicken is not cooked to perfection, you tell her you are enjoying the meal. The adjective polite comes from the mid-13th century Latin politus, which means "refined" or "elegant." Showing consideration for others, using tact, and observing social norms are the qualities of being polite. The opposite of polite is rude. Because the poet E.E. Cummings thought imagination is most important, he wrote, “Knowledge is a polite word for dead but not buried imagination.”

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Long dismissed as a has-been joke, Pratt correctly judged that Angelenos are angry and don’t want to be polite about it anymore.

From Los Angeles Times • Jun. 3, 2026

But the old script — be polite, get ignored, lose anyway — is no longer defensible.

From Salon • May 30, 2026

But the main witness, the police officer who had initially confronted Gamble, was grim-faced, rigidly polite, and completely serious about his claims.

From Slate • May 4, 2026

Resolving some issues took a lot of polite, and desperate, pleading with a machine.

From The Wall Street Journal • May 3, 2026

Being on my best behavior at all times was just one of the problems with being the commander’s kid, and today of all days I did not want to play the polite and well-behaved daughter.

From "Glitch" by Laura Martin

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