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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/225267-every-man-has-his-secret-sorrows-which-the-world-knows</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:39:42 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/225267-every-man-has-his-secret-sorrows-which-the-world-knows]]>
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	    <![CDATA["Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad." -- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow]]>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:39:56 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Jonathan Safran Foer]]>
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	    <![CDATA["She was a genius of sadness, immersing herself in it, separating its numerous strands, appreciating its subtle nuances. She was a prism through which sadness could be divided into its infinite spectrum." -- Jonathan Safran Foer]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/475219-sorrow-prepares-you-for-joy-it-violently-sweeps-everything-out</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:40:17 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Rumi]]>
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	    <![CDATA["Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yellow leaves from the bough of your heart, so that fresh, green leaves can grow in their place. It pulls up the rotten roots, so that new roots hidden beneath have room to grow. Whatever sorrow shakes from your heart, far better things will take their place." -- Rumi]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/398337-no-truth-can-cure-the-sorrow-we-feel-from-losing</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:40:29 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Haruki Murakami]]>
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	    <![CDATA["No truth can cure the sorrow we feel from losing a loved one. No truth, no sincerity, no strength, no kindness can cure that sorrow. All we can do is see it through to the end and learn something from it, but what we learn will be no help in facing the next sorrow that comes to us without warning." -- Haruki Murakami]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/5775-give-sorrow-words-the-grief-that-does-not-speak-knits</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:41:04 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by William Shakespeare]]>
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	    <![CDATA["Give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak knits up the o-er wrought heart and bids it break." -- William Shakespeare]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/384313-grief-is-a-house-where-the-chairs-have-forgotten-how</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:41:38 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Jandy Nelson]]>
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	    <![CDATA["grief is a house
where the chairs
have forgotten how to hold us
the mirrors how to reflect us
the walls how to contain us

grief is a house that disappears
each time someone knocks at the door
or rings the bell
a house that blows into the air
at the slightest gust
that buries itself deep in the ground
while everyone is sleeping

grief is a house where no one can protect you
where the younger sister
will grow older than the older one
where the doors
no longer let you in
or out" -- Jandy Nelson]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/117723-time-does-not-bring-relief-time-does-not-bring-relief</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:42:04 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Edna St. Vincent Millay]]>
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	    <![CDATA["&lt;b&gt;Time Does Not Bring Relief&lt;/b&gt;

Time does not bring relief; you all have lied   
Who told me time would ease me of my pain!   
I miss him in the weeping of the rain;   
I want him at the shrinking of the tide; 
The old snows melt from every mountain-side,   
And last year’s leaves are smoke in every lane;   
But last year’s bitter loving must remain 
Heaped on my heart, and my old thoughts abide.   
There are a hundred places where I fear   
To go,—so with his memory they brim.   
And entering with relief some quiet place   
Where never fell his foot or shone his face   
I say, “There is no memory of him here!”   
And so stand stricken, so remembering him." -- Edna St. Vincent Millay]]>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:42:31 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Mary Oliver]]>
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	    <![CDATA["The Uses Of Sorrow

(In my sleep I dreamed this poem)

Someone I loved once gave me
a box full of darkness.

It took me years to understand
that this, too, was a gift." -- Mary Oliver]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/794077-the-most-confused-you-will-ever-get-is-when-you</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:43:09 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Shannon L. Alder]]>
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	    <![CDATA["The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie." -- Shannon L. Alder]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/146982-solitude-has-soft-silky-hands-but-with-strong-fingers-it</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:43:37 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Kahlil Gibran]]>
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	    <![CDATA["Solitude has soft, silky hands, but with strong fingers it grasps the heart and makes it ache with sorrow." -- Kahlil Gibran]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/507344-sorry-sorry-means-you-feel-the-pulse-of-other-people-s</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:45:19 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Craig Silvey]]>
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	    <![CDATA["&lt;I&gt;Sorry.&lt;/I&gt;

&lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt; means you feel the pulse of other people's pain as well as your own, and saying it means you take a share of it. And so it binds us together, makes us trodden and sodden as one another. &lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt; is a lot of things. It's a hole refilled. A debt repaid. &lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt; is the wake of misdeed. It's the crippling ripple of consequence. &lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt; is sadness, just as knowing is sadness. &lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt; is sometimes self-pity. But &lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt;, really, is not about you. It's theirs to take or leave.

&lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt; means you leave yourself open, to embrace or to ridicule or to revenge. &lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt; is a question that begs forgiveness, because the metronome of a good heart won't settle until things are set right and true. &lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt; doesn't take things back, but it pushes things forward. It bridges the gap. &lt;I&gt;Sorry&lt;/I&gt; is a sacrament. It's an offering. A gift." -- Craig Silvey]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/46994-sorrow-comes-in-great-waves-but-rolls-over-us-and-though</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:46:03 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Henry James]]>
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	    <![CDATA["Sorrow comes in great waves...but rolls over us, and though it may almost smother us, it leaves us.  And we know that if it is strong, we are stronger, inasmuch as it passes and we remain." -- Henry James]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/11751-the-deeper-that-sorrow-carves-into-your-being-the-more-joy</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:46:16 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Kahlil Gibran]]>
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	    <![CDATA["The deeper that sorrow carves into your being,the more joy you can contain.
Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?
And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives?
When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." -- Kahlil Gibran]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/1016462-what-was-it-like-to-lose-him-asked-sorrow-there</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:47:07 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Lang Leav]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/1016462-what-was-it-like-to-lose-him-asked-sorrow-there]]>
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	    <![CDATA["What was it like to lose him?&quot; Asked Sorrow. 
There was a long pause before I responded:

It was like hearing every goodbye ever said to
me—said all at once." -- Lang Leav]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/182699-the-heart-has-no-tears-to-give---it-drops-only-blood</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:48:13 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Harriet Beecher Stowe]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/182699-the-heart-has-no-tears-to-give---it-drops-only-blood]]>
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	    <![CDATA["...the heart has no tears to give,--it drops only blood, bleeding itself away in silence." -- Harriet Beecher Stowe]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/467008-if-you-know-someone-who-tries-to-drown-their-sorrows</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:48:25 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by H. Jackson Brown Jr.]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/467008-if-you-know-someone-who-tries-to-drown-their-sorrows]]>
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	    <![CDATA["If you know someone who tries to drown their sorrows, you might tell them sorrows know how to swim." -- H. Jackson Brown Jr.]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/176414-because-no-retreat-from-the-world-can-mask-what-is</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:49:24 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Gregory Maguire]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/176414-because-no-retreat-from-the-world-can-mask-what-is]]>
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	    <![CDATA["Because no retreat from the world can mask what is in your face." -- Gregory Maguire]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/245875-a-strange-melancholy-pervades-me-to-which-i-hesitate-to</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:49:59 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Françoise Sagan]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/245875-a-strange-melancholy-pervades-me-to-which-i-hesitate-to]]>
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	    <![CDATA["A Strange melancholy pervades me to which I hesitate to give the grave and beautiful name of sorrow. The idea of sorrow has always appealed to me but now I am almost ashamed of its complete egoism. I have known boredom, regret, and occasionally remorse, but never sorrow. Today it envelops me like a silken web, enervating and soft, and sets me apart from everybody else." -- Françoise Sagan]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/63423-for-with-much-wisdom-comes-much-sorrow-the-more-knowledge</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:50:10 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Anonymous]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/63423-for-with-much-wisdom-comes-much-sorrow-the-more-knowledge]]>
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	    <![CDATA["For with much wisdom comes much sorrow; the more knowledge the more grief." -- Anonymous]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/277701-the-closest-bonds-we-will-ever-know-are-bonds-of</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:50:27 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Cormac McCarthy]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/277701-the-closest-bonds-we-will-ever-know-are-bonds-of]]>
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	    <![CDATA["The closest bonds we will ever know are bonds of grief. The deepest community one of sorrow." -- Cormac McCarthy]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/680057-we-carry-the-dead-with-us-only-until-we-die</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:51:47 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by John Banville]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/680057-we-carry-the-dead-with-us-only-until-we-die]]>
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	    <![CDATA["We carry the dead with us only until we die too, and then it is we who are borne along for a little while, and then our bearers in their turn drop, and so on into the unimaginable generations." -- John Banville]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/8868126-the-saddest-word-in-the-whole-wide-world-is-the</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:52:48 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Nikita Gill]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/8868126-the-saddest-word-in-the-whole-wide-world-is-the]]>
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	    <![CDATA["The saddest word
in the whole wide world
is the word &lt;i&gt;almost&lt;/i&gt;.

He was almost in love.
She was almost good for him.
He almost stopped her.
She almost waited.
He almost lived.
They &lt;i&gt;almost&lt;/i&gt; made it." -- Nikita Gill]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/10933287-you-asked-how-large-my-sorrow-is-and-i-answered</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:52:58 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by R.F. Kuang]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/10933287-you-asked-how-large-my-sorrow-is-and-i-answered]]>
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	    <![CDATA["You asked how large my sorrow is. And I answered, like a river in spring flowing east." -- R.F. Kuang]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/8769993-sorrow-is-food-swallowed-too-quickly-caught-in-the-throat</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:53:02 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Jesmyn Ward]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/8769993-sorrow-is-food-swallowed-too-quickly-caught-in-the-throat]]>
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	    <![CDATA["Sorrow is food swallowed too quickly, caught in the throat, making it nearly impossible to breathe." -- Jesmyn Ward]]>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:54:31 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Vernor Vinge]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/564318-i-never-guessed-i-could-cry-so-hard-my-face]]>
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	    <![CDATA["I never guessed I could cry so hard my face hurt." -- Vernor Vinge]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/679340-and-when-i-lift-my-head-to-scream-out-my</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:55:08 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by N.K. Jemisin]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/679340-and-when-i-lift-my-head-to-scream-out-my]]>
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	    <![CDATA["...and when I lift my head to scream out my fury, a million stars turn black and die. No one can see them, but they are my tears." -- N.K. Jemisin]]>
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		<guid>https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/854250-that-is-fundamentally-the-only-courage-which-is-demanded-of</guid>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:57:17 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Rainer Maria Rilke]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/854250-that-is-fundamentally-the-only-courage-which-is-demanded-of]]>
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	    <![CDATA["That is fundamentally the only courage which is demanded of us: to be brave in the face of the strangest, most singular and most inexplicable things that can befall us" -- Rainer Maria Rilke]]>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:57:30 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Emma Forrest]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/686786-but-i-saw-the-pain-and-sadness-in-everything-and]]>
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	    <![CDATA["But I saw the pain and sadness in everything, and swirled it round my mouth like a fine wine." -- Emma Forrest]]>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 04:58:48 -0800</pubDate>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by C.S. Lewis]]>
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	    <![CDATA[https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/269791-i-thought-i-could-describe-a-state-make-a-map]]>
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	    <![CDATA["I thought I could describe a state; make a map of sorrow. Sorrow, hoever, turns out to be not a state but a process." -- C.S. Lewis]]>
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			<![CDATA[Jocelyn add a quote by Edna St. Vincent Millay]]>
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	    <![CDATA["Searching my heart for its true sorrow,
This is the thing I find to be: 
That I am weary of words and people, 
Sick of the city, wanting the sea" -- Edna St. Vincent Millay]]>
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