Archive | July 2025

Hurt Feelings? Bookish Talk

Jul30

I’m a mood reader. Grade A, 100%. I range from Rom-Com to this book will dehydrate you with the amount of tears you’re going to shed.

There are two books that I started and had to stop reading them. One by Jenn Bullard, and one by Sadie Kincaid. My heart hurt too much to read them at the time.

My mental health matters and so does yours. Even if it means putting down a book only 10% in. Or 85%.

I read a lot of rom-com after putting those down. Happy, bright, no tears for me. I’m not sure why I needed it. I enjoy them, some have even elicited belly laughs.

But I started Dancing almost every “Rom-Com” or “cozy” sorry I started.

I needed my feelings hurt.

That might sound strange to someone who doesn’t read. Or use it this way. But when I need a good cry, and  Jenn made me bawl and I’m pretty sure Sadies’s on the same trajectory…

Sometimes, you need a good cry. But the tears won’t come.

And the right book can help.

Even fiction can help you heal.

Getting the word out

Jul28

Ari Wright’s Once Upon A Pack

Ari Wright is releasing the Audio Book for Once Upon a pack, and it has me wondering: what methods do you find work best for getting the word out on new releases (E-book, print or audio)?

As a baby writer (nothing huge published, mostly short stories and a couple of poems) I will send information to those I think might like the story. I use either email or text as I don’t post on social media.

As a consumer, I have 4 main ways of finding books.

  1. Recommendations. Friends, family or even KU. I actually found Ari Wright through a Based on your other books…. Recommendation. She’s one of my favorite authors and an auto read for me. Goodreads– i use it to log my books but don’t really get recs there.
  2. Newsletter. Author newsletters are awesome. I especially like the ones where they share this it’s of what’s going on with them. Maybe a photo of their work desk, or what they’ve been up to. And of course the new releases! As an author, you have to walk a line with the newsletters. Readers want to know about your upcoming and new releases, but not to be inundated by a sales pitch constantly.
  3. Social Media Ads. For me, mainly TikTok and Instagram as those are the two I scroll most. I will say as a reader I prefer Instagram as the link goes directly to the ebook link. I don’t know what’s going on with people, but the amount of TikTok ads for books that FORGET to give the title and/or  author name is ridiculous. I’m also not going to buy off the Tok shop.
  4. Social Media Groups. I belong to a few groups for readers of an author, but also some for specific types of romance. This is where you cannot only get a rec, but also find out what that book you read three months ago with this particular scene was. Life-saving! Or sanity saving.

So– how do you advertise for your writing? If you’re mostly a reader, how do you find the books you read?

Summer Check In: Fast Five

Jul14

Summer is here and the air is sticky! Life has been lifing. Some great, lots of ok and some terrible. But that’s life, right?

Here’s my Fast Five for July (so far)

  1. Writing has fallen off since about Fathers day. Not even a poem a day. I’ve written two in July. Working on getting back on track.
  2. Still reading! Currently I’m reading book #241 of the year. This doesn’t even include the re-reads I’ve done.
  3. I am still circling writing an Omegaverse romance. Part of the problem is that I’m so uncomfortable with writing traditional sex scenes. Almost all of the ones I’ve started and stopped all happen in the same “world”. The book I’m currently reading? #241 above? It’s in the same subgenre (Reverse Harem Omegaverse) and … It’s rated G. It’s building a relationship. I love it!!! I do think the author needs to promote her books as G/PG rated (a lot of her reviews center around that. But they still read it!)
  4. I love fireworks but not masses of people. I am happy to report that I can watch fireworks from my back porch. If I walk down to the back of my property, I can watch two different shows! One on the left (visible from porch) and one in the right (obscured by tree unless I walk down to the alley).
  5. Got the AC in my car fixed (Thank you T-Bo!!)  and went on a mini adventure with my sister! It was so awesome!  So many more that I want to go on. We went to a city about an hour, hour and a half away and visited 2 bookstores (one was a dud one was AH-MAZZING!) Had a wonderful lunch in a Cafe / bakery and LOTS of sister binding time!

That’s all from me for now. I’ve got 9 minutes left of my dedicated writing time, so I think I’m gonna Ng to go okay in my #fafo world.

What fun or interesting things have you done this summer?