I am in denial. The decade of 20’s is no longer mine. Long gone are the days of my “youth.” Although I am in a new decade, I still feel 23. I still feel young at heart and full of energy. However, my body is struggling to keep up. I won’t mention my varicose veins, slowing metabolism, chipped and cracked teeth and the crows feet that appeared out of nowhere over night. ::: do eye creams really work? ::: I won’t tell ya about the 25 push-ups I can no longer do on my toes.
While all that can be depressing, it doesn’t slow me down. 30 is the new 20, right? I’d much rather be 30 than 29! Think about it: when you are 29, you’re the “old one” in a group of 20-somethings. When you’re 30, you’re rather quite “young” in a group of 30-somethings. That is something to smile about! As long as people keep telling me I look “25,” I’ll keep using that eye cream that is probably no more that some rich hand lotion.
I can’t believe it was 10 years ago that I was in my second year of college and preparing for my mission. What happened since then? What major contributions did I offer society? Did I accomplish the things I hoped to do while in my 20’s? Well, I graduated from college and barely missed my cut off date for getting married. What a close call!
On March 2nd, my twin sister and I turned 30, so on to the birthday biz: Rick does not disappoint. Late Saturday night, he went to the market to pick up some last minute items. Physical exhaustion got the best of me and I climbed into bed. I was awakened when Rick finally climbed into bed. I glanced at the clock on the nightstand only to discover it was 3:32 a.m. Seriously? I was in such a slumber, that I couldn’t process what had kept him up. I dozed back to sleep. I was then awakened at 6:30, by Rick, as he got out of bed. He heads for the kitchen. I’ll let the pictures tell the rest:
He made me breakfast in bed. I love grapefruit and a bowl packed with hot cereal or Cheerios….and daffodils make me smile.
Seriously? This little arrangement of gifts was carefully positioned on our coffee table and smiling right at me as I walked out of the bedroom. He has such a keen sense of detail that never goes unnoticed. I have never known a man to wrap gifts as well as he does!
Rick: “So Babe, what would you like for your birthday dinner?”
Vanessa: “Salmon!”
Rick: “You got it, Toots!”
And this is what he turned out for dinner: Incredible Maple salmon, fresh green beans, wild rice medley and then sliced fresh strawberries, toasted pecans, and crumbled feta on a bed of mixed baby greens and spinach, then drizzled with homemade strawberry vinaigrette.
Dessert was no disappointment either. How he knew that angel food trifle is my favorite is a mystery to me. He made the angel food cake in the early morning and then put together this masterpiece:
Triple berry trifle smothered in a rich pudding sauce and then topped with raspberries, strawberries and blueberries. Then topped with whipped cream. It’s hard to go wrong with white fluff. My mouth waters just looking at this picture!
So what if this picture is in B&W? Maybe I am trying to hide my crows feet!
::: wink wink:::
Rick: Thank you for the parfum, the camera bag, the steam canner, the fresh tulips & daffodils and not to mention the 8 wonderful water goblets for dining!
Mom: I absolutely LOVE the square spring form pan and the waffle cookbook. You sure know how to make me smile!
Dad: Thank you for the Amazon gift card…it’s just that AMAZing!
Matt: Bro, you rock. Thank you for checking out my Amazon wish list and getting those two movies for me:
Mostly Martha and
Babette’s Feast. I have been wanting those for a long time. ::: sigh :::
Grandma Betty: Thank you for your sweet card and money.
Janna and Rich: The navy blue dress is
so perfect! I would have picked it out myself. I just love it!
Heather: Thank you for the great lunch date. You are such a great friend!
Ariane and Justin: Last, but not least, the
Smiths gave me BLOCKUS!!! My new favorite game. It was totally unexpected, but very warmly received. HOLLA!
Cute dress, eh? So Audrey Hepburn!
I had this conversation with Ariane yesterday, at her house:
Vanessa: “So, I think I am going to buy Girls Just Wanna Have Fun with my Amazon gift card.”
Ariane: “Don’t!”
Vanessa: “What? Huh?”
Ariane: “JUST DON’T!”
Vanessa: “Ariane, you didn’t order that movie for me, did you?!?!”
Ariane: “Yeah, gosh, I ordered it like forever ago and it still hasn’t come in the mail yet.”
Vanessa: “RAD!”
That movie is awesome. No, Ariane, YOU ARE AWESOME! There is nothing quite like men fully encapsulated in black spandex “dancing in the street.” Ariane, you know you’re coming over and watching it with me.
Rick, your attention to detail amazes me and you are so thoughtful. I am so impressed by you and the way you’ve been honing your culinary skills. You are turning into quite the chef. Thank you for making my birthday so special. Thank you to everyone else for making my birthday very memorable for me. Good things await me in 2008 and being 30 is one of them!